Over and over again girls have told me that my arousal for them turns them on like nothing else. This is verified in their wetness, hoarseness of voice, and orgasmic mania when fucking me. She gets off on me being aroused by her ass, her tits, the wetness of her pussy. Feeling so desired, seeing how hard I am, feeling my desire as I fuck her with abandon.

That's all well and good. Like most things women say about what turns them on, you always must implicitly add the foundation of alphaness. "I want someone who can [insert vapid brain-shartings] and a man who treats me like [insert vapid brain shartings]" must be placed upon the bedrock of alphaness. That's what she conjures in her mind when she's talking about her bulletpoint list.

So a mewling beta who slobbers all over her and loads his panties when she touches his cock is not going to create this arousal.

There are some takeaways. When you bang a girl, especially during the early stages of the fucking/relationship, don't be too overeager. Don't breathlessly slobber over her or fawn over her body. Be in control. Dominate her. Speak to her with a voice of calm, dominant control. Crush her essence under the weight of your sexual control and let her surrender everything to you.

Let it be seen that you are both dominant and turned on by her. Most men when aroused by a woman - think of your typical beta who has a crush on a girl - will default to submissive unctuousness around her, and this includes the rare occasion when he makes it to the bedroom with it. This submission, as we all know here, seals their fate.