I have been talking to this 18 years old girl in college (she's a 7 at best) 3 months ago on a daily basis and we're not even dating.

I have oneitis for this girl and I told her that I loved her last month, she said that it was too soon and 2 months were not enough for her (she isn't seeing anyone else and she rarely talks with other guys). I believe she's the type that doesn't trust men easily so I kept hanging out with her but I made my intent clear and started to touch her body (waist, shoulder and hands, kissing her cheek or forehead) from times to times and it looked natural for her she didn't mind.

Now 1 month later I want to get to the next level I think I won't get over here unless we have sex. Thing is my situation is different than most people in this subreddit.

So where I live the abundance mentality doesn't really apply that much. People can't have sex before they are married of course this rule isn't respected by everyone some people (let's say 30% of the population) aren't that religious and lead a "western world lifestyle" and are casually having sex, this girl isn't religious and her family isn't strict on this kind of subject but it's very unlikely that she had any sexual experience before, so I'm pretty positive that if I can get her to trust me we will have sex and I will finally find this relationship gainful, meanwhile I'm doing my best to improve myself I usually start thinking about her and miss her when I'm not doing shit.