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Wife had affair with coworker; seeking advice from other betrayed spouses. : relationship_advice

Nutz76
June 6, 2013
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Title Wife had affair with coworker; seeking advice from other betrayed spouses. : relationship_advice
Author

Nutz76
Upvotes 16
Comments 30
Date June 6, 2013 4:26 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1fsreu/wife_had_affair_with_coworker_seeking_advice_from/
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[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 32 points33 points34 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I gave her an ultimatum similar to that: No seeing him, no texting, no facebook, no email, no contact at all, whatsoever.

yeah and just take her word for it, she's trustworthy, never lied to you...

Jesus Christ

[–]snake- 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

your sarcasm has been duly noted and I enjoyed it very much

[–]pirateundies 23 points24 points25 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Meanwhile, J's wife is posting the same question and redditors call for his head on a pike.

[–]Nutz76[S] 24 points25 points26 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Seriously? His wife cheated, what is there to ask about? You dump her and never look back. To quote Tom Leykis, "Dump. That. Bitch."

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, no kids? Bye.

Although I approve of the recommendation to bang the other dude's wife.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are still financial considerations. She may still get cash and prizes for her behavior if they divorce.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How does alimony work in this case? She doesn't have a job anymore, so you'd be on the hook for supporting her right?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How people even consider this debatable is beyond me. Trust is broken, you have nowhere to go from there. Why reward her behaviour with "understanding" aka rolling over and taking it. GTFO immediately.

[–]t21spectre 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By "understanding" she will lose all respect for you and probably do it again

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

We keep hearing about these "emotional" affairs. Apparently fucking another guys brains out is emotional.

When will men learn that if a woman's attention towards you drops off a cliff, someone else is getting it. Something about energy doesn't die, it transforms, etc.

[–]djonmaya 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

energy doesnt die, it transforms

This sounds interesting, are there any articles about this or how did you come to that conclusion? Totally serious

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've heard it a hundred different times, not sure the source. Mostly in physics when talking about what happens at death. Seems like common sense to me though; applicable to many events in nature.

[–]djonmaya 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh im aware of how it relates to physics, i was just wondering if theres some kind of sociological meaning i could take into account

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not that I know of, but I DO know women, and have found it to be true that they are always feeling and hoping for at least ONE man in their life. If you aren't that person, someone else is. They are never just sitting back not pining for anyone, no matter how unrealistic their pedestal man is.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

We keep hearing about these "emotional" affairs. Apparently fucking another guys brains out is emotional.

nah man, just try to picture this ;)

passionate love making, emotional connection... in the car, after a hike...

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

In all seriousness though, an emotional affair (where she doesn't fuck the guy) is still grounds to DumpThatBitch IMO.

Women's affairs start at the attraction phase. I know whether or not I can fuck a woman a long time before I actually do. I can see it written on their face. Her man, whoever he is, doesn't realize he lost in that moment, and even if I decide never to touch her, he already lost her.

If another man can have your woman whenever he wants, she ain't YOUR WOMAN. If you ever get the feeling that she is not feeling you 100% or feeling another guy, that's your cue to dump her, because it's already over. Find someone who thinks YOU are the prize or prepare to get cheated on and fucked over.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. I am in a situation with 2 girls who have boyfriends who are more loyal to me than they are their boyfriends. I know they are my women even if I'm not fucking them.

They'll try to get in contact with me, send me stuff. Anything for some attention from a man who isn't a bitch. I don't do jack shit for them. But when they talk to me, my thoughts permeate their brain. Their boyfriends become insecure because their girl's are talking about what I think.

In all honesty, they should drop their girls, but they're not going to. But I'm glad for that. It gives me a place to stay when I travel, and some extra cash/gifts. It's like I'm some sort of pimp but not; all I dole out is a sliver of my attention and my unusually attractive manner of intelligence.

[–]snake- 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

HIS CAR. OF ALL MOTHER FUCKING PLACES. what a filthy whore.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Any time a woman has an affair, you next her. You drop her instantly. It means she reassessed you to lower value. SHE'S ONLY GOING TO TRY TO USE YOU FOR AS LONG AS SHE CAN FOOL YOU.

Women are not like men. Men can fuck around and still love a woman. A woman who fucks around gave into hypergamy - the most powerful move you can make at that point that will deliver the message of your value is that you have no use for her. See other women.

If she's in despair after that and comes crawling back then you make the relationship on your terms; and if it were me, the terms would be she's not the only woman I'm going to be seeing.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Protip: if she's working hard to keep a "friendship" she's already getting fucked.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd sell the car, too. No way I'd drive it after some other dude banged my wife in it. Oh, and burn the bed in addition. If she said they only kissed, they fucked, too, which she later admitted. And if she says they only fucked once, they probably did it several other times in their marital beds.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

once a cheater always a cheater

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The answer is obvious, fuck J's wife and send dem pics.

[–]vvisionthing 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I still love my wife, but feel betrayed" Leave her or be cuckold. He seems to consider it.

[–]Ragnar09 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He should fuck his wife.

[–]Invincibull3 points 13 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm surprised by the amount of good advice in that thread. I've seen similar posts earlier and the replies used to be "it's your fault she cheated." Is the red pill beginning to permeate the reddit hivemind?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I doubt it. Once in a while their hivemind is right, but something I've noticed is that their advice to absolutely everything is break up. Not just cheating, but minor personality differences and shit too.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I would give him the same advice that i would give to anyone (man or woman):

Either accept it or move on. Those are you only choices.

[–]nerdyfitnessguy 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Either way, finding some outside tail should be priority #1.

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