I read these subs sometimes and whenever a woman posts it reminds me just how important the “listen to what she does, not what she says” paradigm is.

“Jerk” “nice” “kind” “asshole” “cute” “hot”. All these words when a woman uses them are almost arbitrary. It seems like they literally hamster anything to fit their ideals to preserve their own ego or integrity.

Example: “i dont date mean or bad guys, so this guy who is all those things isn’t because one time he was kind to me so he is a good kind man after all”. This preserves her ego or rationalises her decisions without making her look bad.

I can go on... even with examples from outside the community. It just seems like listening to women when they are red pilled is pointless due to this phenomenon that they seem to have.