so me and this girl have been meeting up like 2 or 3 times a week and the sex has been really amazing honestly and i'm wondering if i should send this text.. i want to ask her if there's anything sexually she wants to do/say and i'm basically trying to fish for any kinks she might have. i already spank her and sometimes choke her a bit and she responds quite well to that. I also think it would be a good opportunity to let her know my kinks and what gets me off. Anyways i'm pondering sending a text to initiate this conversation and was wondering what you guys had to say about it? Any advice?