Scenario I have with this one girl: Had class together for a bit, she gives me clear IOI's, I got her number to "keep in touch," but I researched her social media and she has a boyfriend.

What's the best way to approach these scenarios without either:

(a) being too indirect ("Let's grab coffee together") and falling into the friend zone as she sees the dynamic as friend-to-friend.

(b) being too direct with man-to-woman intentions and triggering her ASD--"I have a boyfriend."