Should I confront or just next?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-05-13T07:33:50+00:00

No. 100% NOT. NEVER argue with a woman. NEVER 'blow up' on a woman. You are cool, calm and collected and getting on with your life. If she's been an idiot for some reason and wants to come make amends later, ok, but until then she's dead to you.

FereallyRed · 2019-05-13T08:54:56+00:00

You don't let her into your head like that.

Live your own life.

CharlesChadworth · 2019-05-13T06:22:15+00:00

Now why the absolute fuck would you go over to hers to go off at her? You will look back at this and cringe, I know I'm cringing just reading this.

You are now broken up, it doesnt fucking matter why, you just are. The relationship (if there even was any) is now over. You are more invested in this than her.

You now move the fuck on, find another girl that will appreciate you and not make a fool of yourself by going over to hers and sounding like a completely psycho person.

Want to vent, vent in a diary, very close friends etc. Not to your ex. Never show weakness.

It's hard, yea we all know that on this forum. However you want to look back at this and think you walked away the better person and with dignity.

uptimex · 2019-05-13T06:27:00+00:00

Always "spin plates" in these cases. When you meet difficulty with a girl, go with next, untill you understand why these difficulties appear.

vodkalimesoda1 · 2019-05-13T11:31:25+00:00

Absolutely not. Ghost. Ghost. Ghost.

notdoreen · 2019-05-13T11:45:34+00:00

If you know she's over you why lower yourself by attempting further communication? You can't talked her into wanting you. That's not how attraction works. Also, this wouldn't be a problem if you had other women in your life. Think about that.

LAdude71 · 2019-05-13T22:14:48+00:00

NEVER NEVER let a woman see that you're butthurt about something she did or did not do. It lowers you in her eyes.

Best_coder_NA · 2019-05-13T06:16:28+00:00

Next her. She might be back. She might not. You should be trying to talk to other girls right now so that you're okay with with either outcome

Title	Should I confront or just next?
Author	osrsreddituser123
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	May 13, 2019 5:50 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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