I'll keep it short. I've gotten the lousy end of the stick in terms of body development. I'm smaller and weaker than your average dude. I lift 4x and have been for 4 ish years.

I'm fine when it comes to pushing myself but when it comes to competing with other dudes in sports or anything, I kinda freeze up because I think I'm gonna fail/lose anyway due to countless experiences from the past.

How do I get out of this mentality? Have you dealt with this before? How'd you deal with it and just tried your best even though the odds were stacked against you?