The main obstacle I feel that has been impacting my game lately is whenever an AMOG is introduced, whether brought up in a conversation or at a party. I understand the concept of the cock carousel and that it is just "my turn" if she chooses to flirt and be with another guy. I have Danish heritage, early 30s, I believe relatively good-looking, in shape from 15 years of martial arts, and pull some 8s and occasionally 9s, so my confidence isn't hurting. Part of my intimidation is the fact that I feel pressured always to "keep up" with these AMOGs.

This girl I have been seeing recently is pretty into me, but every once in awhile she will make comments about other guys being really hot, or yesterday about this attractive guy from Puerto Rico who was flirting with her (owns some brewery in California) and you could tell that pull on her, saying stuff like "Maybe I'll stay in touch with him if I ever go out to California and need a place to stay." Again, totally her call to do what she wants, but part of me feels like I am not "doing enough" to keep the attention of these women. I have a decent tech job (working on opening my own martial arts school), but feels difficult to compete once these AMOGs show up that are well-off, handsome, and own their own business. I have read on TRP about Frame, but internally it kills me seeing this AMOG come in and pull the attention. Even though girls will tell me how sexy I am, and how much they want to be around, I still feel intimidated by these guys.

My question is if there are things I can do mentally that will allow me to disregard those thoughts and just to focus on my own game and pull. I can feel it's coming from a spot of desperation, since I'm with this girl now who is definitely one of the best looking women I have been with, and feel exhausted thinking how can I get better to keep this girl's attention. Thank you!