I am trying to develop my personality, because I think that is my biggest lacking feature in myself.

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I have experienced many situations where I notice girls staring and smiling at me (like too much too frequently to be a coincidental stare), I get a lot of female attention etc. I have been called "hot" many times by girls etc, but it feels like as soon as I open my mouth, it feels like I turn women off. I am basically living with other students at uni and we have a big social circle so we have piss ups and go out every weekend etc. When I joined this group, I got a lot of female attention and I could tell they found me attractive, but then I they lose a lot of interest. This is not specific to this group, this happens with all groups I become apart of.

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THE CRUX seems that it's a social circle game issue, like my social status is very low in groups. Because when I can have one on one's with women, I can work my charm and I'm pretty successful at gaining female attraction. Although, in groups it seems like the way I interact with people, it hinders my social status and I am lower in the hierarchy which garners less interest.

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Or it's entirely possible that I autism out when I'm interacting with more than 1 person.

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Any ideas TRP?