I have everything down pretty well in terms of moving things forward on dates, but my problem is I can't get digits easily. It doesn't matter if its a cold approach or I get introduced by a friend or something.

I can talk for a couple minutes, but I either end up saying something stupid or running into an awkward silence becuase I can't think of a way to carry the conversation forward. I guess I just need a guide of what to say, but Google just gives stupid blue pill stuff like "become her friend first" or "compliment her"