Do you guys think it's sensible to set expectations on how you see a well working relationship from the beginning? By that I mean you talk about what you see as a healthy amount of sex, time hanging out. Not spoken in hard terms since obviously things change by the week and fluidity is part of a relationship too.

I would guess most guys would immediately say no, trying to use logic doesn't work and one should make them want it (em otionally).

On non-TRP guides though I've read one of the most powerful moves you can do is to set expectations in advance so its clear when your boundaries are being crossed or your needs are not being fulfilled. Open, direct communication etc

Curious if this line of thought makes sense or is totally worthless.