Found Valtrex tablet under couch after fun night with ltr...how to proceed?

LunarTears0 · 2019-07-07T21:14:28+00:00

Can you imagine the women reeing if some dude did this to her? You people are fucking psychos. "Its just a little, harmless, STD, it's not that big of a deal if I spread it around real quiet like".

Find out if she has it, then find out if YOU have it. Then call a lawyer and take this chick to court if she passed it to you. These psychos need to be locked up, and you deserve compensation. Think a lot of women are going to be super chill with sleeping with you when you let them know you have it? Don't cou t on it bud.

Get tested ASAP, and call a lawyer if positive.

ugluk1 · 2019-07-07T20:45:08+00:00

Herpes is one of many stds that can bypass a condom. Stop having fun with her and get tested. As for ltr, she put you in danger. Avoid, unless you want to walk around full of sores.

notreallybeingme · 2019-07-07T20:31:48+00:00

You need to bring it up, herpies is for life

OrdinaryShoulder · 2019-07-07T20:53:57+00:00

She most likely has herpes and decided not to tell you. You take that medication to stop you from having outbreaks. Before you talk to her about it, go online and read up on the HSV virus. You will find that it really isn't dangerous at all, and it's more like a skin infection. I think the statistics are that like 80% of all people will eventually get herpes before they reach 50 or something, and most people have no idea that they have it, because a lot of people get no symptoms at all. There are two types, HSV-1 and HSV-2. HSV-1 is usually oral but can also be genital. HSV-2 is only genital i think. It could be she only has it orally for example, which is basically just cold sores.

I understand that you might feel like she broke your trust, you need to decide what to do, but seriously; read about HSV and you'll realise it's not that big of a deal. Try to put yourself in that situation where you have herpes. If you told everyone, how many people do you think would have sex with you? She probably didn't tell you because she was afraid you would ditch her as soon as she said it.

bowhunter857 · 2019-07-07T21:13:12+00:00

What strength is it? It can be used sometimes as prophylaxis to prevent cold sores. If that’s the case it’s really not a big deal.

AboveAll2017 · 2019-07-07T22:57:56+00:00

If I was in this situation I wouldn’t bring it up directly because it’s breaching her trust. Instead I would ask her something like “we have been in a relationship for a while, let’s both get tested for STD’s” and if she asks why say “so we can have have unprotected sex without the worries of STDs” (assuming she’s on the pill). If she rejects it, which she might, then just say “that’s okay, I’m due for a screening regardless though, I’ll keep you updated.” This is where she should open up a bit. If she’s silent and doesn’t bring up the medication then it might be time to just end the relationship.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2019-07-08T02:45:56+00:00

You just became a member of an exclusive group of gentlemen.

red_philosopher · 2019-07-08T05:08:10+00:00

Damn that's rough

Title	Found Valtrex tablet under couch after fun night with ltr...how to proceed?
Author	milkywaymaster226
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	July 7, 2019 8:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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