Quick bit of background. I discovered TRP about 3 years ago, after my first "relationship" went wrong. I was a virgin at the time, and had only ever kissed my first girlfriend. Since then, I've slept with 15+ girls and had a second, much better relationship (which has also ended). I credit a lot of this success to TRP. I've been more physically active, have a better social life, and don't worry as much about women. I'm by no means an expert but I'm in a far better place than I was 3 years ago.
Now, onto my question. While I have no problems dealing with girls (I'm regularly sleeping with 2 different girls currently, and occasionally other girls if the chance comes up). But, it just seems like more effort than it's worth.
An example: A few days ago, I was walking to the bus stop with one of the girls I'm seeing. I had takeout for me and I was starving, so I wanted to eat it as we walked. So I was unwrapping my food, and asked her to hold the wrapping as I was putting sauce on my food (holding the wrapping while putting sauce on would have been somewhat difficult). In similar situations, my male friends always give me a hand, but she refused. I said "Ok" and dropped the wrapping on the ground and kept walking. She picked it up and carried it with her to the next bin (over a block away), and tossed it out. She then got really upset and said she was going home. I said "Ok" again and walked away. I went out with my friends to the club since I knew they were going that night. The next day, I text her asking what's up. She responds with how she doesn't want to talk, blah blah blah. So I leave her on read and continue with my life.
I'm sure she'll text me in a week or two or whatever.
This sort of shit always happens. A girl will get upset over whatever, I'll not apologize to her and ignore her, eventually she comes back like nothing happened or comes back trying to start a fight. My question is, is there a way to avoid this sort of thing? Are girls able to somehow see I'm not a natural and so shit test me more? Do I act like too much of a dick so girls try to get a rise out of me to see if I actually care? Am I choosing the wrong girls? Something else?
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