Feeling demotivated after getting rejected too much

TommyFury_Hater · 2019-07-12T16:10:11+00:00

5'8

East Asian

20% bf

wants to pull 7s and above

The_Zero_Betas_Plan · 2019-07-13T01:11:49+00:00

Maximize the "bad boy" vibe by getting a bunch of tattoos

Super beta. Girls will see right through it (Unless is medieval weaponry or meaningless jingoism, in which case, you're definitely alpha).

celincelin · 2019-07-13T07:23:34+00:00

I'm in decent shape

~20% body fat

Come on, Asians should be good at math.

SirKolbath · 2019-07-12T16:24:05+00:00

You are correct to want to focus on improving yourself first; get yourself to under 15% body fat. You are also attaching too much weight to the outcome of an approach. I believe what you need to do is run a search in this subreddit for the phrase “rejection inoculation.” I have described it too many times to want to do it again, but I believe you need to be rejected 200 times or more. You will then no longer attach any importance or meaning to a rejection.

AloofusMaximus · 2019-07-12T17:50:36+00:00

You shouldn't be gaming women you don't think are cute. 4s and 5s aren't teaching you to be good with attractive women. They're teaching you it's acceptable to fuck fatties.

As an Asian dude you're probably going to have to work harder than most (if you're in the west). 20% is still pretty high, try getting to under 15.

Keep at it, and don't waste your precious daygame time on whales.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-07-12T19:26:56+00:00

The more attractive you are the easier it gets but GAME is what matters most. What emotions and tingles do you give girls when you approach them?

Take a pause on the shotgun approaching and read a book or two to try and study up on game. Try "The Game" or "Models".

CasualtyOfHedonism · 2019-07-13T03:24:08+00:00

Pics

BBRpill · 2019-07-12T17:27:24+00:00

Use those 4s and 5s for training. And spend the most of your time improving yourself and your body. Imo you're too focused on women and what they think about you/your looks - stop that asap.

And fuck this plastic surgery thoughts...

Title	Feeling demotivated after getting rejected too much
Author	Valachio
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	July 12, 2019 4:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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