I know about the keep it to logistics thing. We did text a lot during the first two months. Lately though it's died down significantly. We don't text much anymore though, usually just "on my way", "here" etc.

I don't think she's a big texter but I'm always wondering if I should do more or less. Some days we won't even contact each other at all and this kind of weirds me out. Like should I be asking about her day and shit?

I'm thinking about texting her now but I honestly don't have anything to say, so I would kind of be forcing it I guess. She does most of the initiating these days.

I've read on here that you gotta be beta sometimes to keep the ltr around and shit because if you don't give them attention they'll get it from someone else etc.

She has brought this up twice, not really upset about it or anything. She even kind of said "I like it when you don't talk". Another time I told her to text me when she got home and she says "why, you won't text me back"

I'm just kind of wondering where the balance is here.

The last text was 24 hours ago. We've been together 5 months.