Ok so I’m pretty good at the whole approaching thing, although I usually only do it when I’m at a club. To be honest I don’t like spending too much time on one girl so if I see a girl I like the look of it, I’ll go over and ask for a cigarette and build a little bit of rapport. Body language and maybe a little tease and then straight in for a kiss. As soon as I’ve kissed them I leave. What happens is I end up with their number or snapchat but no idea on how to progress from here? It might come out of a lack of confidence and a scarcity mindset but it’s almost as if I don’t want to come across as annoying or whatever so I don’t message them. I expect girls to pursue me but I know it’s not that easy, at least at the beginning. How do I go about charming them following the first meeting?