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Yeah cause an anonymous troll like you who’s probably repulsive and fat is calling a world kickboxing champion ‘not an alpha’ ok dude 😅
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 03:45 PM
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The website is awful
/r/askTRP28/01/22 01:47 AM
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Yeah I agree with you. Every girl, regardless of interest, eventually pulls shit like that. It seems to be how they get their kicks. I don’t see how not playing the game is a better option
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:34 AM
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Bro almost every girl I’ve spoke to pulls something like this? I’m meant to just ditch a girl everytime I get tested? Can we get an endorsed contributor up in this h0e to clarify?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:39 AM
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Yes I know
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:27 AM
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What would be an appropriate response?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:13 AM
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Yeah we’ve face timed only once or twice but I get what ur saying.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:08 AM
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I feel mike this 9/10 would just end up with her saying bye and that being the last time you speak. So everytime a girl shit tests me in meant to just say ‘ok bye’? Can somebody else endorse this guys comment?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:08 AM
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Meeting at mine sounds good but suspicious? If I met her out how many drinks is acceptable before moving back to mine?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:00 AM
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Yeah I get that I’m pretty stoic in front of girls but it’s one of those things where I’ll go away and it will play on mind.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:20 PM
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I’m in the uk and the loan isn’t anything like it is in the US
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:19 PM
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Sent a message
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:47 AM
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Sent u a message
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:02 PM
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Sent a link
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:03 PM
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Sent a link
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:43 PM
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Sent a link
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:42 PM
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Sent a link
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:42 PM
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I have and I don’t get many comments. The girls on there get 100’s
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:42 PM
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It might seem a bit cowardly but I just blocked her. I’m not gonna speak to her or see her again, met her off tinder but I’m staying about 5 hours from my actual home rn. Feel quite guilty but women pull this shit all the time
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:49 PM
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Have you ever done this? I feel like sex can be a distraction for me sometimes and take energy away
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:01 AM
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Yeah later today
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:03 AM
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I used to feel like that but it’s not worth it anymore for me
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:03 AM
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Well I’ve just turned 20 and I speak to girls around my age so it could be a generational thing
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:01 PM
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Do you reckon this strategy would work for somebody looking to get into finance? I’m starting an accounting and finance degree this year. Would like to do consulting, auditing or be a chartered accountant.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 02:13 AM
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I think a better approach would be to give her less attention. If you have plans you could say ‘something came up’ or ‘I’ve gotta hit the gym that day’ but the thing is you’ve actually got to be busy
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:08 AM
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You’re totally right here bro. Girls like to see some social proof, as superficial as it seems.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:00 AM
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Yeah bro ‘my mom’ as you Americans would say
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:44 PM
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Yeah I’m gonna bulk in two weeks when the gyms open. Only thing I’ve got at home is 3lb weights which are my mums. I can’t do anything with them because I have to do like 10 sets of 30 and even then it doesn’t work really
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:25 PM
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Feminisation of the west
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:54 PM
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I try to go paleo and only a few processed carbs like rice cakes
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:43 PM
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Well thanks but you’re hardly being inconspicuous about it by commenting that anyway
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:43 PM
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What’s opsec?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:59 PM
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I disagree. I and countless others can testify that after a good streak of retaining, orgasming from masterbation makes you feel like trash. What is healthy about it? Even without the scientific benefits of retaining, what’s healthy about touching yourself whilst watching other men rail a chick? Or even thinking about it. It’s not, it’s weird and saying it’s healthy is cope
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:10 AM
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Yeah it’s like any other extremely stimulating activity in that it exhausts your dopamine receptors, in fact it’s effect is more significant than others. Dopamine is responsible for the regulation of motivation, confidence and assertiveness. Masterbation and porn are not natural and will make you socially anxious.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:54 PM
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Yeah I get that but masterbation and porn releases far more dopamine than any of those things you’ve just mentioned
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:46 PM
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Stop being so defensive it’s weak af
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:52 PM
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There not placebo. It’s about dopamine receptors
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:44 PM
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It’s not superpowers it’s about returning your mind to its natural state, which is far more masculine when you’re not wanking
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:42 PM
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Bro I’m British and Most of Western Europe is more cucked than the US
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:35 PM
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How much are you masterbating? You shouldn’t be, at all
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:06 PM
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I get that sometimes I feel like over do it and it makes me look bad and like I’m angry
/r/askTRP21/03/21 12:08 AM
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Acts like he’s always offended and everything insulting. Tries to get the group to turn on me by using collective terms, it’s very difficult to explain. Basically how liberals argue, always on his high horse
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:45 PM
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How do you provoke with out seeming annoyed yourself? Need to read that one
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:44 PM
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How do I do the first one
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:09 PM
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Yeah from England
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:28 AM
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I don’t know mate. It’s a British company I believe anyway
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:13 PM
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Yeah but it’s sells stuff like kinky lingerie, vibrators ect
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:50 PM
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I’m not mad at her. I told her I don’t want to meet with somebody who meets male friends. Why does a good portion of this subreddit take things to nth degree to try and sound alpha?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:47 PM
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When did I get friend zoned? I’m literally telling her I don’t want to speak anymore because of it
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:46 PM
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Thanks for the advice, definitely notice I’m in a better mood when I’m not scrolling on social media all day. I get that attention is useless but I feel like I have this internal pressure to sort of get out there and be seen.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:37 PM
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I would like to go travelling though. I’m from the Uk so going around Europe at some point maybe next summer would be ideal
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:28 PM
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I’ll be 20 when I start. So that’s 2 gap years.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:27 PM
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If you mean in terms of working out and stuff these positive habits do massively help me. Just feels like my life has been massively unbalanced and I’m doing work but not getting the reward of more attention due to lockdown. It all feels very empty right now
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:35 PM
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Do u not use apps at all then
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:38 PM
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A like basically means Itheyve liked you but you haven’t liked them back. Without tinder gold you can’t see who’s liked you so it could either be somebody you swiped past or they haven’t come up for you yet
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:00 PM
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You seemed to have handled it well. Best to avoid places where there’s going to be trouble. Get big learn to fight
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:27 AM
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I don’t like using the apps but it’s been on and off lockdown in England since March. Very hard to game in this environment, everybody is sketched out and paranoid and the bars/clubs shut at 9pm and it’s tables only.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:45 PM
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Thanks bro has this ever happened to you? Girls are hard work
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:12 PM
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I get what you’re saying totally but what if I wanna fuck as well
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:45 PM
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I just hate the games bro
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:13 PM
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I couldn’t help it she kept bringing it up
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:18 PM
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I just appreciate the advice from red pilled men
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:34 PM
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Yeah part of my plan is to get into a great physical and mental state for college.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:16 PM
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I appreciate the advice. Dating is really tough for me because of my limited resources. I have a few dates organised this week, which is what prompted me to make this post. Should I ghost them or message to cancel?
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:16 PM
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Maybe hit her up in a month
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:11 PM
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No I don’t. Also I don’t plan on having serious relationships until I start and finish uni so I’m not out for a girlfriend. I might do it it’s quite expensive tho so If anything I’m going to hold off
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:11 PM
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None but she invited me and is just keen
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:19 AM
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He also took some straight after me but I took a lot more
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:12 PM
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Yes he was with me all night and I’m pretty sure got me into the ambulance
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:12 PM
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He was the one who called the ambulance and made sure I was able to get help tho.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:11 PM
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Before the date or the night before?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:00 AM
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Thanks I agree
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:57 AM
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Ahahah I do like Manchester. I might be going there for uni
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:20 AM
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I’m from the second city Birmingham. We’ve got a population of a few mil so it’s a big city with nightlife. One of the key things for me is it would have to be a republican state (I don’t want to live in a liberal haven) and decent weather. Something about Florida stands out to be me, I’ve also thought about Texas or somewhere mid west.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:51 AM
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I’m 19 also. I can’t speak for you but I’ve had one relationship and that’s probably my last one for a while. I don’t think it’s worth it, the grass always seems greener on the other side.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:37 AM
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It’s nothing to do with my ability to get women, I’ve got no money
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:24 PM
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Oh no is black person going to beat me up? Sounds reasonable. Also how is this joke racist
/r/askTRP27/06/20 05:27 PM
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It’s sperg to post literally 1 meme
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:03 AM
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I think I’m still lacking in self-esteem. I tend to second guess a lot of what I post online, in fear that it’s not cool enough. Going to keep working on myself.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:33 AM
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Thanks’ very cool
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:16 AM
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Ok
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:01 AM
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But you didn’t though did you
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:00 AM
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Projection
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:12 AM
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That’s the confusing part. If everybody posts a black square should I as well? That doesn’t seem alpha
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:06 AM
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Helpful reply thank you
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:06 AM
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How do I recover from this?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:36 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:34 AM
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Yeah. I found it funny
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:23 AM
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How do I recover from this
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:22 AM
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Because I’m fed up of the same shit. I wanna stand out and be courageous enough to go against the grain.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:07 AM
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I’m 19. I understand your point but what happens in 5 Years when we have to humiliate ourselves to absolve ourselves of white guilt? Will it still be better to keep it to myself then?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:50 AM
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I live in England and most of generation (I was born in 2001) is cucked AF
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:43 AM
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Why can’t I be myself? Since when does an alpha cower away from making jokes about scum bags like George Floyd
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:43 AM
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Update: I said ‘I only add me people I know on IG’, she goes ‘ah well the new , I reply ‘sticky one’ and then she goes ‘ fuck it may as well give my snap’ so I won lol
/r/askTRP16/06/20 08:13 PM
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That would make sense if it were insta she wouldn’t give me because you actually have photos on there
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:44 PM
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That’s not bad. What do you think of ‘you’ll get to know me soon enough anyway’
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:17 PM
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Lockdown
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:16 PM
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Tinder is the only way to talk to new girls rn
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:14 PM
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Sounds a bit sensitive for me
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:12 PM
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Honestly bro your eyes are fine but you look quite tired and unhealthy. Losing some weight will do wonders for your confidence, your face looks better and more masculine. Also stop jacking off
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:03 PM
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If you are somebody who doesn’t give special attention to girls that conveys that you have an abundance of women and you’re a high value person (busy, preoccupied, focused are all traits of a high value person) You have to have some value anyway, she’s not going to chase you purely because you don’t give her that much attention.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:36 AM
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You should have friends yes. Having a social circle will enrich your life. There’s tons of ways to meet people, go introduce yourself whilst clubbing, going out alone will boost your confidence or approach people at the gym.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:33 AM
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I’m from England but god bless the 2A
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:26 PM
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Need to get a good no fap streak going for after lockdown.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:03 AM
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Yeah I just don’t feel like god himself rn so it doesn’t come naturally. I’ve been sat at home, it’s been pretty drab. Not an excuse but definitely notice a difference in how I interact with people compared to when I’m high on life.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:57 AM
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Likely. It’s no big deal either way. I’ve amassed a big pool of girls who I could likely take out after lockdown and it’s actually becoming too big now
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:55 AM
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I’m good at controlling my emotions when I’m actually conversing with girls, I don’t feel the need to message them ever unless I’m taking them out somewhere.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:54 AM
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No but that doesn’t mean I’ve actually shown her more interest
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:53 AM
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Yeah but it’s pretty funny. I prefer that to a girl who is bland and can’t socialise properly. It feels more of a conquest.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:53 AM
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But I will definitely be careful
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:51 AM
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She has shown interest in me tho. More than I’ve shown interest to her. It’s just something about her?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:51 AM
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I haven’t even met her I think I’m just coming from a place of scarcity because I’ve had no in person interactions with girls for a while?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:37 AM
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Insta and tinder are fake forms of validation. You’re not actually able to gauge somebody’s body language. I’ve notice myself became wrapped up in superficial things like how many girls I match with on tinder and not how many likes I get but who likes my picture. If I post a pic and a girl I deem attractive likes it, it gives me a sense of validation but it’s fleeting.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:14 AM
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I think you’ll find that primates tend to masterbate over the alpha fucking another ape lol. Is that healthy?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:06 PM
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Why? Not socialising is just weird. I thought TRP was about being at the top of the social hierarchy
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:02 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:59 PM
1

Exactly. Just have fun OP. Have something to drink
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:39 PM
1

You cure it by becoming high value and having abundance.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:09 PM
6

You only get over approach anxiety by being desensitised to it. Imagine what’s the worse outcome before you talk to a girl you like, come to terms with it and go ahead with it.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:28 PM
1

Who cares. Skincare isn’t a bad thing anyway
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:52 PM
7

‘Aren’t you competitive’
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:11 PM
-2

Maybe not red pill as much but Morrissey talks a lot of sense
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:49 PM
3

Also from Uk. It’s been up and down. I’ve lost a lot of weight during quarantine which was my goal. Try to keep myself occupied with walks. It has been a struggle mentally as I’m a social person.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:20 PM
1

Honestly I’d say lean and weak is better than strong and fat. You look like a different person with sharp facial features.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:19 PM
1

Also OP remember when you put enough energy into your own livelihood, that because your purpose and you become your own point of mental origin. The more you put into yourself, the less you’ll need to validate yourself to others.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:20 AM
1

Do you ever get bad munchies? I’m trying to eat well but the when I’m high I crave junk food and I’ll just go all out with it
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:08 PM
2

Tease them. Make jokes and conversation but it should always be on the subject of the girl or your relation to her. Don’t start confessing your philosophy of life to her because it’s boring. I’ve found I have to dumb myself down when it comes to girl, you wouldn’t have serious conversations with a child would you?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:00 AM
1

Guy Ritchie films are all set in London so most of the characters have cockney accents, peaky blinders is set in Birmingham
/r/askTRP03/05/20 05:48 AM
3

Don’t invest too much because all it will end up doing is making her less attracted to you
/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:07 AM
8

Why you even entertaining that stuff. Stop trying to be her emotional tampon, if a woman doesn’t play ball than they’re gone in my eyes.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:59 AM
1

Love this show, I’m from where it’s set too
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:23 AM
10

Stop wanking
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:34 PM
3

Show us the video
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:16 AM
2

I did it for a bit. Wasn’t keen on the fact that you have to sacrifice social hours like Friday and Saturday nights but if you don’t mind then crack on.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:54 PM
2

Meet people in real life.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:50 PM
1

Lean bulking is just being in a very slight calorific surplus as to build muscle whilst minimising fat gains. If you’re utilising intermittent fasting does that mean you’re trying to lose weight? I tried out the app and done the first workout, was a lot of different variations of push ups but seemed effective enough. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:19 PM
1

Have you been lean bulking whilst doing it? I’ve got a few weeks left of my cut but after that I was going to maintain or go into a very conservative bulk.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:23 PM
1

Which app is this?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:58 PM
2

No Fap isn’t bullshit. Works by increasing your sensitivity to dopamine, makes you more confident and assertive. All the things which testosterone is related to.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:33 PM
1

If you’ve got any better ones feel free to let me know
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:01 PM
1

Most of the time she messages me first. I entertain it to a degree because it’s not like we could meet anyway and won’t be the case for at least 3 weeks.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:02 AM
2

I went with ‘have you got an email, I’ll get back to you on it’
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:58 AM
1

You’re not missing out on much
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:53 AM
3

Hot European counties like Spain and Portugal. Girls there are usually in good shape and are feminine.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:32 PM
1

Yeah got to have a good lifestyle. Masterbation is a big one.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:09 PM
1

I get that but if you’re body thinks it’s starving isn’t your libido dropping just a given? Our body can’t distinguish between being on a diet and an actual famine.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:17 AM
1

Luckily I’m a Brit so I get your reference
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:04 AM
2

I have tried to take in more fats because of this. I think it’s just part and parcel of being in a deficit. It’s shitty
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:05 PM
3

Ok femaledoglover6
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:04 PM
9

Actions not words
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:26 PM
2

Go for it OP but don’t be surprised that your sister didn’t invite her friend round to fuck you..
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:47 AM
1

An overwhelming amount of pop stars and models who are seen as attractive have brown hair. From personal experience girls definitely have more attraction to brown hair. Don’t think eye colours matters too much, more so the shape.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:44 AM
3

You can’t hardly blame her. Imagine if you had a sister and you took a friend round and she tried to smash him, I doubt you’d like that.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:29 PM
1

You can’t control if she’s going to get back with her ex. Don’t even think about it. What I mean is wait till you’re able to take her on a date before you ask her out. You need to internalise outcome independence.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:08 AM
1

I’d probably wait till you’re in a position where you can hit her up. If you want things to move into a sexual frame you need to be more concise, stop texting her back and forth if it’s getting you nowhere. Focus on yourself for now, post some things on your story to pique her interest and when you’re able to escalate ask her out. No ‘I’m really into you’ or anything just straight up ‘let’s hang out’ and set a date and time. Use this quarantine to sort yourself out and get into some good habits.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:32 AM
2

Do you have Instagram? It’s probably the best app you can use to show off your value. Get some amateur photographer to get some pictures and post them. Also, include shit like you hanging out with friends and in different locations. Generally activities which you’d consider to be evident of a high value person. Ask for peoples instagrams when you meet them.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:11 AM
2

Apart from that masterbation increase prolcactin which decreases testosterone
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:30 PM
1

Ahh yes the hallmark of any high testosterone man is wanking off to videos of other men fucking women, how could I forget
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:28 PM
2

this is what rationalising your masterbation habit looks like
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:15 PM
1

You’re not wrong. I think in OPs case where he’s trying to go monk mode, encouraging him to take a drug which significantly inhibits you isn’t the best piece of advice. Many ways to unwind that aren’t going to put you in a state where you’re more likely to be lazy and go off track with your progress.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:16 PM
1

Well it doesn’t work for anybody really does it? I’m not vehemently against weed but it’s a waste of time.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:29 PM
10

Shh he’s dealing toilet paper and hand sanitizer
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:50 AM
5

Why smoke a little weed? I’m cutting rn and on No Fap personally that would make me relapse on both fronts. I’m sure it would case most people to fuck up their diet and jerk off as well, best case scenario you’re zonked out for a few hours.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:49 AM
3

True. What the fuck is an alpha provider
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:46 AM
11

Don’t do it. Never validate
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:22 PM
3

This is incorrect. If the effects of smoking take place which eventually they will then yes they are unattractive. However smoking is probably considered attractive if anything because if a man does something risky or edgy, the woman recognises that in spite of this that person is still alive which equates to good genetics. Same reason women are attracted to fighters because in spite of their dangerous lifestyle, they are still alive and therefore will probably produce healthy offspring. Obvious…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 02:07 AM
1

You’ve got the right idea. Stop masterbating.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:45 AM
3

How is it a don’t shit where you eat? Does his livelihood depend on going to this one gym? Is this girl going to report to the HR of the gym that a man approached her? Stop imposing this rules on people. OP you should absolutely approach this girl if the signs are there.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:18 PM
5

Multitude of things you could do. Are you cutting or bulking? Do you have a structured diet? Could you be more consistent with your macros? Have you incorporated bodyweight movements? Refine your fitness plans.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:16 PM
1

If she’s giving you signals to make her move then I think you should. Why not just ask her out? Why do you stand to lose?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:44 PM
6

In some cases but it’s also social proof. Also, it made her message him so it’s clearly worked
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:38 PM
2

Just realise that if a bitch is going to cheat she’s going to cheat, end of. There’s no point stressing over something that could happen. You know what to do, be a leader, be masculine, don’t let yourself go. That’s all you can do and all you should focus on. Never get into to the business of monitoring what she’s doing. It’s insecure.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:05 PM
5

Do you really need people to tell you to text a girl when she basically gives you her number
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:05 PM
2

What do you do? I was looking for something like a supermarket
/r/askTRP15/03/20 10:32 PM
2

Thanks. I think right now I should probably look for a part time job so I have money coming in and then keep it when I start college in September. Also I have a bit of time to get in great shape for college.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 10:18 PM
1

Thanks for the response. I live in Birmingham and apparent university of Birmingham is a Russel group so after college that could be an option.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 10:12 PM
1

But I’m not in my second year of college. I dropped out when I was 18 during my first year. So I’m already way behind my peers.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 10:09 PM
4

Because your dopamine is responsible for risk taking. If you’re brain isn’t sensitive enough to it you’ll be really inhibited and not willing to assert yourself in any situation. Incessant jerking off leads to a messed up risk/reward system, stop doing it.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 03:44 PM
2

Men could theoretically impregnate many women with no risk whereas women have to actually bare the child and thus are more picky,
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:08 PM
8

This sounds exactly like me before I started getting fit and stopped wanking. Your dopamine receptors are out of whack so your brain is actively trying to stop you from doing things that are risky.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:46 AM
0

Men have higher sex drives due to an increased amount of testosterone . In order for a woman to want to be sexual with you she has to see you as high value, many factors at play.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:48 AM
2

Prisons are full of people that are deemed unfit for society so you’re mixing up correlation with causation. Personally I don’t care about who’s in the gym with me, I’m too focused on what I’m doing.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:46 AM
1

Rule of thumb is that you give her 2/3 of what she gives you. She needs to be chasing you otherwise the excitement dies. Tease her, dread game, let her invest etc. Little sprinkles of validation are fine but don’t do any cringe shit like confessing your love to her and how you won’t live without her. Things that are meaningful work better.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:40 AM
0

I never said that. Being big or being able to fight isn’t guaranteed to prevent you getting stabbed, but it’s better to be big and know how to fight because you might not have a choice but to defend yourself at some point.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:13 AM
0

There’s opportunities for work in every big city not just London. Anyway, the cost of living is so high In London that anybody living in any respectable area at all must be on a lot of money, most of which is spent on their mortgage/rent.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:05 AM
0

You don’t need to be stabbed to know that having pepper spray would be a good deterrent.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:03 AM
1

Have you ever been pepper sprayed? It would probably help.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:47 PM
2

I live in Brum and it isn’t pretty. However, all those places you mentioned are far better than London. Also they’re a host of other advantages, like it not costing £1000 a month to rent a studio flat.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:47 PM
12

What makes me thinks it’s a cesspit? The gangs, acid attacks, rampant knife crime....to name a few things off the top of my head.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:07 PM
0

You can still get pepper spray if you want it..
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:06 PM
1

How old are you? Where do you meet these girls? Try speaking to girls in gyms, library’s, whenever the guck else. You’ll find that some of them aren’t as bothered about going out and partying as others. That’s why vetting is encouraged.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:59 PM
3

This is autistic as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:57 PM
3

It’s honestly all about moderation. If you do it too much you won’t enjoy it. Get an exciting life, do new things and see new places and you won’t feel the need to go out every weekend or some weed every night.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:52 PM
11

London is a fucking cesspit. My best advice would be to move out of there and if you can’t, then begin to plan to. Save up, do whatever it takes.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:50 PM
0

Who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:49 PM
5

Don’t masterbate, end of. You think you’re ever going to have enough motivation to go out and get pussy if you’re wasting away all your seed. Just don’t do it, you’ll fuck up your dopamine receptors and have no drive to do anything.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:49 PM
1

Yeah that’s a complete non argument.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:49 PM
6

The best thing you do is set up dates with other girls. You realise that literally any woman will make you feel a certain way if you spend enough time with them.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:46 PM
11

Cool. Now stick to it.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:42 AM
1

🤣
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:18 PM
16

You’re definitely overthinking this
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:20 AM
3

Take her to a quiet bar, maybe in the day when it’s not as busy then take her home. She’s making it easy for you.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:56 AM
1

Yeah I mean you’re literally one of however many guys giving her attention and feeding her ego. There’s no way to truly establish a sexual dynamic as you do in real life. In my experience, there’s some back and forth but the conversation just gets stale as you’re essentially trying pretend to give a fuck about some random internet girls life in a half hearted attempt at building rapport. I do enjoy getting attention off tinder but in terms of getting plates it seems pretty useless.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:48 PM
2

Bro she thinks your attractive. She’s telling you she has a boyfriend because if something happens she can rationalise it away as your fault. It’s a shit test essentially, ignore and proceed as you would.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:52 PM
2

I think I’m going to hold back actually. You’re right.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 11:15 AM
6

Oh yes, your so masculine people want nothing to do with you and don’t invite you out.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:11 AM
0

That makes literal zero sense. An orbiter is somebody who gives girls unwarranted attention despite the fact the girl clearly isn’t sexually attracted to them. I’m not giving her any special attention and she quite clearly is attracted to me as she’s the one initiating the conversations. What do you suggest? Literally not talking to any girls you haven’t fucked even if they are messaging you? Sounds beyond autistic.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:33 PM
0

I’m not orbiting her in the slightest. She regularly replies to my stories with things like heart eyes emojis.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:20 PM
1

She replied ‘aw just curious honey x’ to the original response
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:01 PM
2

Probably because you didn’t make a move and she got bored.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:25 PM
1

Any particular ones you listen to you could link
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:15 PM
1

I’ve never heard of the sleep hypnosis stuff, just looked them up. Do they actually work?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:12 PM
1

FereallyRed usually spot on with his responses
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:45 AM
1

Ask her out.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:18 AM
0

Nobody is forcing you to masterbate. I’m still struggling to find the question in this post?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:36 AM
5

People actually do let themselves go when they get into relationships and their testosterone drops. Being hornier makes you hungrier. By watching porn your deceiving your brain into thinking your fucking hot girls so you become lazier.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:23 AM
13

This is AskTRP for starters. Not going to read your post but 1000’s of people testify to NoFap and it’s ability to make you more confident, assertive and virile. You can dismiss that but you can’t ignore the implications of fucking up your reward system with constant dopamine.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:33 AM
1

On a cut you’re more disciplined so I think that spills over to No Fap. It’s like if you started eating junk all day you’d probably jerk off more as well.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:56 PM
1

Are you pretty up front in your interactions on text? Like do you make it obvious that you like them?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:11 AM
1

Yeah I suppose. I have to admit I still have some sort of ego defence mechanism when it comes to trying to make stuff happen.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:00 AM
1

I’m 18 so my generation basically relies on social media as a way to asses a persons social proof. I think it helps to be honest.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:57 AM
1

What if I message them a few days or weeks after said encounter?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:31 AM
1

It’s due to them being brief conversations hence why they are forgettable. Also, I don’t kiss close every girl I speak to so they’re not all significant.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:29 AM
1

Do whatever but don’t break frame.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:46 AM
3

And women want to be made to think that it is your fault when sex happens. Being too overt and sexual means she can’t rationalise it away as ‘ it just happened. Best to try and avoid that girl from now on.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:16 PM
7

Thrill is in the chase. Basic red pill.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:02 PM
5

It depends. In my personal experience a fat slob who is strong is still a fat slob. Your face aesthetics can really take a hit if you’re on some massive bulk. Just build a decent foundation of muscle than cut, you don’t have to be shredded as such but stay around 10-12%.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:56 PM
-1

Yeah but you could say the same about someone who can bench twice their body weight but has 20% body fat.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:55 PM
1

The thing is it’s not like body aesthetics I’m too worried about. I’m ok not being shredded for the sake of bulking but the pounds start showing on my face and my SMV really lowers.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:14 AM
1

Imagine hookah
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:37 AM
1

The way he mentions ‘pocketpussy’ as if that’s completely normal gets me 😂
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:21 AM
1

Interesting read. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:44 AM
2

Thanks bro. I appreciate this. For me one of the biggest things to overcome is balancing going to the gym with clubbing. I went out twice this week and it completely ruins my diet for that night and the day after because I’m in bed all day and too sick to be strict. Also actually having the motivation is hard because your diet isn’t on track and so you think what’s the point. I’m going just focus on the gym now for a bit.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:39 AM
1

Yeah I probably am acting like a bitch. Might actually give up partying for a bit as well. I’m caught between two worlds right now and I think I need to focus fully on the gym. Thanks for the reality check.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:55 AM
3

5’10. It’s not fat but any extra weight on me goes to my face.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:25 AM
0

I get that but the contrast between the attention I get when I’m lean and when I’m soft is crazy. It’s very discouraging in that sense because I’m so aware of it.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:19 AM
0

Not a question just would like some insight.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:17 AM
11

Meet her up as ‘friends’ and escalate. Always worth trying.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:16 AM
1

If that’s the case then that’s not too bad. Don’t worry about being perceived as too invested because you have to show some investment, if the girl is absent then you can’t lead the frame. Todd V talks about this. https://youtu.be/86BsveW5ZjU
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:20 PM
1

Way too much investment. You’re going to drive there, spend a fuck ton of money and undoubtedly get no sex. What’s the point? Go after the girls closer to you
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:01 PM
1

Cut it completely. Porn and wanking desensitises you. Might take a while but a lot of people reported that it fires their erectile dysfunction.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:55 PM
1

How often do you masterbate?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 07:32 PM
1

There’s a post on my profile I took today. Maybe you can guess the estimate off that? Cheers
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:54 PM
1

Yeah I just checked I’m close to 168lbs. I think that coupled with the fact that I’m predisposed to put on more body fat on my face when I gain weight slightly skewers my perception. I might bulk up to something like 175 and then cut.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:50 AM
1

Yeah and 90% of us here aren’t male models.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 11:36 PM
1

Thanks man. I’m not overly bothered about strength either, I do think I’m going to cut soon don’t like feeling chubby. Much more confident when I’m lean.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 11:35 PM
1

What strength standards should I aim for before I do a proper cut? In terms of bench, deadlift and squat? Not bothered about being too big
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:08 PM
1

What would say is a good standard of strength I should aim for before doing my first proper cut? As in bench, deadlift, squat numbers? I’m not bothered about being super big, I just want to be well built but with a more of a swimmers build.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:00 PM
4

I’m a horny scumbag
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:13 AM
1

Overanalysing definitely stems from a self-esteem issue. I’m the same age as you and I can relate. I think that part of life is that you simply have to be willing to make mistakes and that’s how you learn. We are both lucky to have red pill knowledge but there’s no point just knowing all this theory and never putting in any real life work. It’s like spending hours each day making gym routines and diet plans then never following through with anything. Lift and be disciplined and everything will f…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:02 AM
6

Ahaha that’s rationalisation at its best. Girl blocks me because I’m too alpha for her, of course 😂
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:58 PM
1

Ok? Are we meant to feel sorry for you?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:57 PM
6

You seem self aware which is good. Don’t bring it up under any circumstance, next time this happens don’t act but their or anything but withdraw your attention a bit. If this becomes a reoccurring thing you’ll have to use dread game.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:44 PM
5

Stop wanking. Very simple advice but it works
/r/askTRP12/02/20 10:38 AM
1

Yeah man being way too forward is beta move, women sense it and are repulsed. One of the main tenants of TRP is outcome independence which means that even though the goal is sex you have to be subtle with it.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:58 AM
1

Don’t ask for kisses
/r/askTRP04/02/20 03:06 PM
1

Thanks. I needed this.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:56 AM
3

Decent profile like others have said the one of you kissing the girl looked looked very beta imo.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:08 AM
1

I live in the UK and the universities are vastly different
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:07 AM
1

Girls are weirdly receptive to try it. I tend to frequent students clubs so everybody is pretty nice to one another and the girls aren’t totally stuck up so maybe that helps.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 12:25 AM
1

Just a tongue in cheek thing bro. You don’t have to be macho in every aspect of life
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:27 PM
1

Semen retention makes you more sensitive to dopamine which means you’ll be more social and motivated. Honestly somebody could do it with no red pill knowledge and still notice a sudden improvement in their game. There’s only so much you can learn by looking at forums all day, you think real life alpha’s spend all day, everyday on their computer revising red pill theory? No. Use it sparingly, once you understand the principles like frame control, abundance mentality etc you’re good to go and just…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:43 AM
1

I usually try to be charming and playful and will extend my arm and do that thing where you twirl them around. Comes across confident and non-creepy. Let them twirl you around too.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:37 PM
2

The important thing to remember here is that somebody can have a purpose, be kind and charming yet also be strong.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 07:39 PM
1

So you’re saying she thinks I’m high value?
/r/askTRP25/01/20 05:59 PM
1

I think you’re right. I’m going to approach it with the mindset of it’s not a big deal. I was actually getting over her before she came up to me.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:45 AM
7

I mean you get fed up of finding yourself legs akimbo, pants down to your ankles with ejaculate up your stomach. It’s pathetic. Being horny and virile is the essence of what makes a man, you really wanna waste that on porn?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:26 AM
6

It works because you starve your body of the equivalent of a cake full of dopamine every time you orgasm to porn. This makes you more sensitive to dopamine and this you enjoy and seek out social interaction more. Science, bitch
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:08 AM
1

I understand that the women have a significant advantage on these apps and a lot of them just feed of the attention. However I do actually talk to women in real life so having tinder as a bonus is not a big deal for me.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:33 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:45 AM
1

Well then you don’t have strong enough will power. I don’t really have any plates right now but I’ll have the odd ONS here and there.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:30 AM
11

Don’t masterbate. The only time I cum nowadays is if a woman does it. Works wonders for your social anxiety.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:27 AM
2

How do you go about setting up dates without making it obvious you want to fuck them? If you’re on tinder setting up dates girls know that you want to fuck
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:45 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:42 PM
1

Women don’t think abstractly. You can’t make a women wet for you online so take tinder with a pinch of salt. If you want to meet women then I suggest you have a social life.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:11 AM
1

That’s hypergamy for you. Only thing you do is make yourself feel proud and the women should be a bonus.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:08 AM
1

I don’t know what my iq is. I’d consider myself pretty academically smart. I probably would of done better if not for mental health related issues. I got grades good enough in secondary school (finishes when you’re 16 in the Uk) to then go to college and then possibly university.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 03:36 AM
1

So do you think I should continue my education or start a job? I’m stuck because part of me wants to jump right into it and do whatever. But if I want a decent career I need options which is what a college/university education gives me.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:39 AM
2

Which trade are you doing? Trades seem to make good money but it depends on which trade you’re doing. Some trades obviously require more education like electricians
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:50 PM
2

Do you enjoy carpentry?
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:49 PM
2

Not my cup of tea thanks for the suggestion though
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:49 PM
1

Try not wanking
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:12 PM
3

Training everyday certainly isn’t effective for strength gains. You can’t put 30 lbs of muscle on a month. The maximum is about 2 providing he has good genetics and the rest would be fat. Solid advice nonetheless.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:54 AM
4

Explain to us how women will be fighting over OP?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:22 AM
1

Yes my dad can grow a beard. Mines coming in too and it’s decent for my age. Probably better off waiting.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:27 PM
1

Just forget about this. Get to the gym.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:56 PM
5

It’s unlikely in my experience. The onus is on you as a man to be proactive. Women are passive.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:49 PM
1

What would you respond to it with? I think she thinks I’m mysterious
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:42 PM
1

Seemed to work , conversation is flowing. She said ‘you seem shady’ and then I said how and she said ‘duno just shady lol 😂’ I was thinking of responding something like ‘that must turn you on’ as a pressure flip. Any good?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 09:00 PM
2

She messaged me first and has been super engaged with the conversation ever since. I did play it off though and said ‘I’m thinking around 6. You ain’t got a bedtime have you?’ Felt like it was a bit of a shit test
/r/askTRP15/01/20 07:11 PM
1

But only start a conversation with a goal in mind, you don’t just chat
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:24 AM
1

Just hit her up with a hey. What you wrote to her just conveys scarcity, like this type of thing doesn’t happen often to you and you’re making a big deal out of it.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:23 AM
1

Weird and overly attached. You messaged a girl you’ve met once before asking if she misses you.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:04 AM
3

‘You got a bedtime’ that’s a good ‘un
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:43 AM
9

All equally important but I’d add some lateral delt work as it gives that rounded shape
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:40 PM
8

Shoulders and upper chest will give them tingles
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:36 PM
1

If you want her as a plate then just do that. LDR’s are pretty stupid anyway if you ask me
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:27 AM
10

What are you doing agreeing to an LDR with a 31 Year Old. She’s approaching the wall and that’s the only reason she’s desperate for your exclusivity. You regain power by not being in an LTR with her obviously
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:06 AM
5

Shit test. I’d say something sarcastic like ‘true, I could be a serial killer’. This is pretty basic stuff covered in the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:23 AM
1

Of course mate, we accept people of all kinds here. Even you.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:19 AM
2

It’s ok to be upset
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:44 AM
2

Appreciate your input ‘PandaLitter’
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:30 AM
1

Just to clarify Amused Mastery is essentially treating them like a child?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:29 AM
2

Cut out masterbation, is all
/r/askTRP31/12/19 01:37 AM
2

Eye contact, good posture. In terms of conversation, always keep it light, women don’t get wet over your intellect, they get wet when you tease them and handle their shit tests.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:02 AM
6

Who cares
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:38 PM
1

She responded with ‘I rate it’
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:27 PM
1

Be careful with this. Don’t want to come across as needy, got to drip feed the feelz
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:16 PM
1

Yeah don’t do a carnivore diet
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:06 PM
1

How long do you spend with these girls? A lot of guys will get a bit of attention of a girl at a club and spend the rest of the night following them around like a lost puppy. Make sure you’re always having your own fun with your friends. Don’t play all your cards at once.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:57 PM
1

Don’t know why you’re getting downvoted. You’re bang on the money.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:31 PM
1

I thought it was a compliment but I could fuck it up by saying something like ‘What? You don’t like it?’ If you get me
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:19 PM
1

That’s the thing, you get in better shape then you get more attention which works in your favour as you have abundance and that comes across to women.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:17 PM
3

Don’t masterbate. I bet if you masterbated before you went to the bar, you’d be introverted as fuck. Give it a week before you went out and you’d be super confident and everything would come naturally to you.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:17 AM
1

I really don’t. Just want to know if this makes sense as a response to a shit test
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:47 AM
-2

I think it’s just conditioning making me feel like I was in the wrong. I caved into multiple of her friends saying how much I’ve hurt her. That’s on me.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:37 AM
14

Because your mum is the only woman in the world that will love you unconditionally
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:07 PM
4

If she doesn’t wanna go on a date with you, she isn’t interested. Next
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:06 PM
0

So don’t mention it at all?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 01:00 AM
1

Well yeah I’ve invested more time into her. The other girl was cute and was really down to fuck so I took the chance. Do you think I should avoid mentioning the situation? I mean she hasn’t exactly earned my commitment and me rationalising my self is only going to have a negative effect
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:57 AM
1

But through a red pill perspective wouldn’t it make her more attracted to me as I can pull other girls? I’m going to leave it for a few days because I need to clear my head before messaging her again
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:24 PM
0

But what do I message her??
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:01 AM
1

Be direct and polarise. If she doesn’t co-operate stop messaging her back
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:46 PM
0

I completely agree. I let this girl occupy my mind way more than I should I have. This whole scenario fucked men up mentally and I went home smoked a ton of weed and masterbated to porn like 3x the day after so now I’m just going to ghost her, if she says anything I’ll just say something came up. Last time I went on a date after wanking it went horribly.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:43 AM
2

Yeah I have that problem. Sometimes I just can’t be arsed with conversation and it makes you come across as border line autistic. It’s your dopamine levels fluctuating. Try No Fap for 3 weeks and you’ll be more endgames in conversation and feel in control
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:56 PM
2

It is when you’re 18
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:50 PM
2

Yeah I know I fucked up on that regard. Honestly though the girl has shown a lot of interest before Friday night so it threw me off a bit that happening. Do you think she’s shit testing me or I’ve done something to make her lost interest? It so how do I regain it?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:06 PM
0

Why should I have to earn her obsession? Also if she doesn’t even message me to confirm whether we are going together then she’s not worth my time
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:04 PM
1

She was basically like reluctant to stay with me and on two occasions she said she had ‘to go find insert friends name here’. She has show strong interest in the past and I’ve been able to isolate her. However, this just seemed disrespectful to me. I want girls to be obsessed with me not fuck me around like that
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:16 PM
1

What’s that
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:14 PM
1

Wouldn’t mentioning this just make me look weak?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:14 PM
1

Needed this.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:10 AM
2

I thought she was really disrespectful. I read about only bothering with girls that are really into you and I feel like I’d expect more respect off somebody who I’m going on a date in a few days with. Not going to whinge about it or act like a pussy, just ghost her. Soft next
/r/askTRP21/12/19 11:19 PM
1

Shall I cancel on her? I’m really not up to doing it and also is a bit of a punishment I relapsed with no fap so feeling pretty shitty and I’ll have no frame
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:33 PM
1

Yes I’ve kissed her and touched her
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:30 PM
7

You DEER’d when she started giving you shit? That’s probably why she lost interested. Took a tiny bit of prodding and your frame had crumbled. Next
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:05 PM
0

Well the solution is to work on himself. What’s your solution? Besides looking for an ‘emotional connection’? If OP wants to be able to keep chicks interested in him the perhaps he needs to invest into himself first
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:47 AM
1

It’s not the fact he took her to a bar it’s the fact that he’s probably boring. That’s my point. Also if you go on a date looking for an ‘emotional connection’ you’ve got it all wrong, that’s the antithesis of a red pill mentality.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:11 AM
3

Well obviously it’s working
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:27 AM
4

This is an awful response. OP doesn’t need to fake her somewhere interesting to get an ‘emotional connection’, his only goal to be should have fun. You’re probably just not as interesting a person as you think OP, thus she didn’t find you attractive
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:25 AM
2

Being confrontational is what women do to other women. If she does something you don’t like you punish her through actions, not words.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:19 AM
1

There’s always one
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:45 PM
4

Like you said to each to his own, NoFap gives me the ability to save my sexual energy and channel it in to other pursuits. If I’m tricking my brain into thinking it’s getting regular sex it’s not going to feel the need to improve.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 03:14 PM
2

I mean do you think it’s natural for you to be tricking your brain into thinking your banging all these hot chicks you see in porn videos? Does the concept of you getting off on seeing another man fuck a girl not alarm you even a little bit? I honestly don’t see how anybody can see porn as natural, it’s anything other than it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 02:56 PM
5

Nope it’s pretty black and white. Porn fucks up your dopamine receptors, it’s like eating junk food everyday x100. Stop trying to rationalise your bad habits.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 02:33 PM
2

What’s the rope analogy?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:11 PM
1

Yeah you can’t fake it. Its not just about having canned responses to shit tests, it’s the tonality of your voice, being congruent, body language etc. I would say that No Fap will help with all those things, as well as getting big or in shape.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:27 PM
6

Yeah don’t say this OP
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:02 AM
5

Don’t say anything to him. I would bet he would send screenshots of it then you’re shown to be mateguarding which reeks of insecurity. It’s your job to keep her invested in you, forget about him.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:36 AM
1

No fap corrects your Brian chemistry which makes your game better. It’s alright saying do this and that but people need manageable steps they can take to improve themselves.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:53 AM
7

Is it as beta as wanking off to another man fucking a hot chick?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:11 AM
2

It’s to do with dopamine more than testosterone
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:08 AM
2

You obviously don’t have much frame if you’re posting this question
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:19 AM
5

So what’s the purpose of this post? Do you just want us to make you feel better?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:34 AM
3

Nah I just notice clear and obvious benefits when I don’t do it. If I feel good by abstaining from masturbation then why not
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:43 AM
7

I feel completely different. I use the energy and motivation no fap gives me and channel it into my daily life. It makes perfect sense as to why it works, the more sensitive you are to dopamine the more motivation you have.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:06 AM
4

It’s all to do with resetting your dopamine system
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:49 AM
5

I know it’s not everybody but I’ve noticed a lot of senior contributors dismiss no fap completely. Honestly wondering if anybody else has had the same experience with it as me.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:57 AM
12

Yeah I don’t really follow the sub. I’m more interested in the concept of not masturbating. When I don’t waste my sexual energy I feel invincible. Ultimately, you can read all the heaps of content on shit tests but if you aren’t truly confident they’re still going to fuck with you.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:56 AM
-3

Spot on!
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:00 AM
6

I’ve never heard of this guy before but enjoyed the video. Definitely going to check him out now.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 04:57 AM
1

It’s not logic though it’s a sarcastic comment I’m 18
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:58 PM
0

For context I’m 18 and she’s 17 so the marriage comment was tongue in cheek
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:05 PM
0

It was TALK AND CHEEK IIm 18 and so is she
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:05 PM
0

How was this a terrible response? It’s tongue in cheek. I’m not being serious so I’m not playing into her frame. ‘Looking for a connection’ could easily be interpreted as serious then you come across as over invested
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:20 PM
1

Nah she’s really interested. If I don’t reply to her wi thy in 10 mins she double texts. Honestly I wouldn’t bother myself but it’s such an easy lay.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:14 PM
1

Be direct. You’re never going to get plates or fuck if you don’t have the balls to pursue these women. It’s easy to get in the mindset of Getting IOI’s and being content with that. Never stop improving but never stop being proactive. If a girl is interested in you then it’s honestly in your hands to fuck up.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:32 AM
1

Experience.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:34 AM
5

Next time you cum it’s going to be inside or all over a girl, make that promise to yourself.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:25 AM
11

Cocaine and hookers obviously
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:59 AM
1

Yes because you’re entering the woman’s frame and that frame is an emotional one. Regardless of the fact you’re trying to be rational you are playing their game.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:59 AM
7

Could be a shit test of sorts. Be direct and state you were thinking of meeting just you two. If she objects then she’s not worth the hassle in my opinion.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:25 AM
3

Just from the way you talk I can tell you’re insecure as fuck. Here’s what you can do tomorrow to build some confidence, bare in mind that you need to be persistent with it. Firstly, hit the gym, focus on adding weight to your compounds with some accessory movements. It’s as simple as that, you don’t need a program. To supplement this, eat in a calorie surplus, you can calculate how much you need to eat online and then use my fitness pal to track. Although I don’t really track my foods I know I’…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:20 AM
3

Agree and Amplify everything. They pick on you because you’re an easy target and you’re reactive. What sort of things do they mock you about and how would you typically respond? Be as honest as possible
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:38 AM
4

Passiveness is a feminine trait. State what days your free then give her an option, ‘I’m free this week Thursday and Friday, let’s grab drinks around 6pm’ with a place obviously. It’s not hard, you just don’t want to do this because you’re not truly confident in your ability to attract girls.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:35 AM
1

Any ideas on a haircut that would suit me? Always thought about switching my hair up but I think it’s my niche
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:07 AM
1

Don’t masterbate
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:16 AM
2

I don’t give her any compliments or attention really. I saw she added me to her private so started a conversation about it, she shit tested me saying ‘ I added because you’re always the first to view my stories’ (I’m not, I barely even check snapchat stories unless they’re close male friends) and I said ‘you got me’ then she replied with a winky face and I decided to ask her out.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:05 AM
1

You keep posting about how alpha black guys are you weirdo ahaha
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:06 AM
3

‘White boy’ 😂😂
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:47 AM
2

There is. Slot of girls in there for validation but don’t be an incel and just play the game
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:37 AM
2

True. I can definitely indulge in too much mental masterbation. Perhaps experience is always the way to go. The trade off is that it leaves you vulnerable to things going wrong but then it’s just another lesson learned.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:47 AM
1

I know this is covered in the sidebar but I wanted peoples opinions on it, life experiences and such. You keep on this fake macho bravado though kid
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:33 AM
66

She wants you to validate her by letting her back into your life. Never go near deadwood.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:22 AM
3

How often do you masterbate? If I go clubbing there’s a night and day difference in my confidence when I’ve drained balls recently or haven’t.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:19 AM
1

I’m from the Uk and hooking up means fucking. To answer his question though I’ve had sex with a girl I don’t particularly find that attractive but I’ve never taken a girl on a date that I don’t find attractive. I think this is even more true for women as they have abundance by default and probably wouldn’t even consider going on a date with you unless you were somewhat attractive to them. The difference though is that men are completely driven by looks whereas women get turned by actions as well…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:15 AM
1

I honestly don’t think that me disagreeing with her was the problem, maybe I just wasn’t as congruent as I could of been and maybe even was a little too forward. Being assertive is one thing but if you’re too keen you lack abundance mentality and I think this can kind of scare girls away.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:13 AM
2

I think you’re right. I know I can attract girls but when I’m not on no fap I lack that edge and stoic mindset that makes a girl actually wanna fuck you. It’s weird that so many people on this sub don’t agree with the premise of No Fap considering how beneficial it is.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:58 AM
1

Can you explain this further?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:37 AM
2

I’ve been big on no fap and then smoked weed which lead to me relapsing with it on the night before the date. Part of me didn’t want to follow through to avoid me fucking up because of it and the other part of me through that although it’s not ideal, that not going to a date because I masterbated would be a loser mentality.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:34 AM
1

Well you clearly didn’t read this post properly because I didn’t claim to have hooked up with her. I can see that I done something wrong, I’m concerned as to what exactly as there was clearly a level of interest for her to have even agreed to go on a date and then kissed me.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:24 AM
2

It was because she said I was quite confident and that she usually goes for a submissive type and I basically said ‘you usually go for pussies then’ also feminism somehow got bought up and I made a comment that most feminists were fat and ugly lol.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:55 PM
0

Get a life
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:02 AM
1

Don’t get it
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:28 AM
7

Yeah just leave it on seen. If she’s interested she will come to you.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:00 AM
1

I did Starting strength for a while and I thought that there wasn’t enough upper back work so yes, I would personally add in some lat pulldowns.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:44 AM
1

In terms of aesthetics you want to emphasise the muscles that make up the V-shape that women find attractive. Back, shoulders and traps really. You’ll hit traps enough with deadlifts, lateral raises are excellent for creating that capped shoulder look and back is pretty self explanatory ; you want rows and some kind of pull down movements like lat pulldowns. Alternatively, you could do pull ups and progressively overload by either adding more reps or more weight.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:35 AM
-1

Thanks for the helpful comment
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:33 AM
7

No it can’t. Simple as, if you regret something you’d of never known what was to come of it. At worse, rejection will teach you a lesson, it will tell you what you could of done differently and you can analyse what went wrong. ‘
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:40 AM
11

Everybody does man, it’s life. I feel like there’s a big learning curve as well depending on how old you are. If you’re young like me then there’s a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:34 AM
-2

No but in my head I feel like if I have 4 weeks abstaining from masterbation I’m a better person, more confident, more outgoing etc. I can say how much is placebo and I know I have OCD tendencies so there’s that but because I’ve been looking forward to going out and I want to feel my best when I do, I’m frustrated that I won’t be on a 5 week streak as I would of been if I stayed on it another week. Im seriously thinking of going monk mode. I’m going through a very transitional stage in my life, …
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:33 AM
-1

Just out of interest do you abstain from masterbation?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:24 AM
-2

I feel like I have to earn the right to go out and drink. I feel like I’ve just fucked that up my losing my streak
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:23 AM
-7

Because I feel like on a streak I’m much better socially at at my potential almost, I feel like if I go out next week I haven’t earned it
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:16 AM
-4

‘I’ve got a boyfriend too’ or ‘Do you want an upgrade’ whilst maintaining strong eye contact, tell her your name and leave.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 10:42 PM
1

Not officially but he’s got more experience and is therefore more competent so assumes a role of authority
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:41 AM
1

Don’t conflate concepts here. Being an asshole doesn’t mean being manipulative or going out of your way to hurt people, that’s beta if anything what it means is that you have self-respect and are assertive. An alpha could be seen as selfish because he does things for himself as opposed to validating others. Here’s an example, if you were in an LTR, having your own life outside of the girl such as the gym, work aspirations, hobbies and friends might make her call you an asshole but this is attrac…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:31 AM
7

‘Eww, flab is gross’ is not holding frame
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:14 PM
11

Not worth losing a friend
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:19 PM
1

Tattoos are obviously subjective, some people like them, some don’t, some tattoos are shit and some aren’t. From a red pill point of view, tattoos indicate low inhibition and higher testosterone as this is highly associated with risk taking so to try and say women would judge men negatively for having a tattoo is incorrect, if anything women find them attractive, sure if you want to be seen as a good candidate as a beta provider, decision making and impulsivity might be important .
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:03 PM
1

How is it illogical?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:10 PM
1

Well yeah, it’s no surprise that most of our innate desires can be traced back to the pursuit of women, that’s biology, the need to reproduce. I wouldn’t exactly see it as a problem, if you’re doing well in all these areas of your life does it matter what the motivation is?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:38 AM
2

Pursue your goals and let the women be the added bonus of that. Women seek out the men with masculine energy who have lives outside of chasing pussy, having a life with the sole intention of chasing girls will make you repulsive to them. Quit masturbation completely and practice semen retention, use that sexual energy to drive yourself in life.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:28 AM
7

I replied ‘you’ll have to find out about me in person’ after that she asked for my number and is now texting me so it seemed to have worked. She has just asked me, however, ‘do you do this with lots of girls’ so whilst you’re here what’s a good response for this?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:11 PM
21

I replied ‘you’ll have to find out about me in person’
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:03 PM
8

Truth is motivation only goes so far, it’s fleeting. Habits are forged out of discipline so set small weekly goals and adhere to them. Life is all about momentum, as you achieve smaller goals you want to take on bigger and bigger challenges.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:37 PM
2

True
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:04 AM
-3

Charming
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:43 AM
3

Impromptu workout
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:17 PM
1

Social media is a great way to market yourself. Make sure you don’t become to addicted to the dopamine hit you get from posting a picture or snap, you’ll probably end up making yourself seem lower value because you’re posting things for the sake of it. Also, if you do have plates on there or potential plates, I find it’s best to avoid watching their snapchat stories in particular.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:43 AM
1

I don’t drive so it would have to be train but it would work easier anyway
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:54 PM
1

Give me an example on what a good response would look like in this situation.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:30 AM
1

Not enough context but you shouldn’t keep asking for sex. Meet her, kino and escalate and then see what happens.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:27 PM
1

You’re so funny
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:59 PM
1

Because most people’s lifestyles don’t allow them to have 5-6 meals a day. Also, if macro requirements are met is eating that clean necessary?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:39 PM
1

Solid eye contact and look her in both eyes then down to her lips, intense as fuck
/r/askTRP27/08/19 05:07 PM
1

I’d say one junk meal a day is excessive try once a weak. The one other thing I’d say is try and be outside as much as you can even if it’s a small walk near where you live.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 04:24 PM
1

Yeah I went on a streak about a month ago and felt great. Recently started masturbating again and I’ve felt a lot less confident.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:19 PM
1

If that’s the case then he can limit masturbation no need to completely disregard the concept of NoFap. NoFap makes you feel fucking invincible. Seriously, OP abstain from masturbating for a month and see how much it improves your frame, confidence and energy.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:14 PM
6

Brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 01:45 PM
1

Well gay men have higher testosterone than gay women hence why they have higher sex drivers
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:45 PM
1

I’m not advocating for OP to become a smoker but having a few smokes whilst pissed isn’t going to do any harm. Don’t take life too seriously, nobody’s getting out of it alive.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:58 PM
2

Try abstaining from masturbation. It seems to help with the abundance mentality that you’re talking about here.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:10 PM
2

Agreed. Just be a man about it and tell people straight up. If you don’t say anything and flake then you portray a certain imagine, I’ve learn that the hard way.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:05 PM
4

Alcohol, also get some cigs. Most clubs have a smoking terrace which is a perfect place to introduce yourself to people.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:55 PM
3

I’ve always felt more confident and energetic during a streak. You’ve got to give it at least 3 weeks though.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:58 AM
9

And this is related to TRP how?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:38 AM
2

Nah sounds like a real girl to me, she’s just not that interested though OP. If I were you I’d ignore the message, shows your higher value in the long runs and shows you’ve got abundance.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:34 AM
1

If you say ‘I’m stopping by’ then she’ll tell you if she will be home or not. It’s not like you just turn up unannounced
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:36 PM
3

Exactly. If you hate someone then that person obviously has some physiological power over you, indifference shows that they mean nothing to you and nothing they say or do can shift you. The idea is to be an oak tree.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:46 PM
10

I feel like an absolute pussy on weed. Tends to make me overthink everything and almost submissive. If I do smoke it, which is rare nowadays, I’ll be on my own.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:17 PM
2

I agree I probably could of imposed myself on the situation a bit better and made myself the centre of attention. However, I was with a group of people I didn’t know at all, she was in her comfort zone and I wasn’t. I weighed it up and bought I’d rather leave than wait around for her like a beta bitch who’s got nothing better to do.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:46 PM
2

I didn’t leave the club. I went and found my friends.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:44 PM
2

Why should you be masturbating? It’s easily accessible dopamine, it will make you lazy.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 12:01 PM
2

Stop masturbating
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:39 AM
2

I’ve messaged a few girls on social media and had some success but don’t call them cute. You shouldn’t be validating women in anyway, this is one of the fundamental aspects of TRP.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:33 AM
8

weird flex but ok
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:35 AM
2

I think you already know the answer to this
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:17 PM
6

Obviously limit drug/alcohol consumption. I wouldn’t say abstain completely from alcohol but definitely limit to it so it doesn’t interfere with nutrition and productively, however, I’d argue it is effective as a social lubricant. Most other, ‘harder’ drugs ought to be avoided. Weed here and there is ok if you want to be creative. I’d recommend making sure you have a set daily routine which you stick religiously to, plan out when you’re going to the gym and when you’re eating.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:05 PM
0

Honestly mate, find a style that you like and stick with it. You can wear anything but if you don’t wear it with confidence it won’t look right. I dress like a skater albeit I’ve never skated. I wear cargo trousers, loose t-shirts and oldskool reeboks. Alternatively, I’ll wear dickies straight leg trousers and some converse. Compared to most people on here my style is probably a little unconventional, I’m sure 99% of this sub would think the fact I have a nose ring makes me a fag but it’s well r…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:02 PM
2

Make sure you aren’t responding straight away and I’d try and reschedule again for next weekend. She’ll know better than to take the piss next time. Remember that Women are basically adult children and you have to treat them as such, reward and punish bad behaviour with actions, not words.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:25 AM
1

How am I her an orbiter? Seen her twice by chance and I kissed her on both occasions
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:18 PM
1

Me personally? Id say something like ‘Yeah, that’s what I go for’
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:12 PM
8

Ignore it man and just smile. The trick with being complimented is to act like it’s no big deal. If you think she’s saying ‘cute’ to try and belittle you in some way just ignore it completely. You can’t have a stock answer for every possible thing a girl might say.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:01 PM
1

Sometimes a lesson is more valuable than profit. Especially when you realise they’ll always be another girl. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:29 PM
1

I know I do. Part of me is holding myself back, it’s like I think I’ve got this far and I don’t wanna fuck it up. I know as a man the onus is on me to do things.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:17 PM
1

How do you charm them?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:57 PM
2

It usually shuts them up so yeah. I suppose anything that doesn’t show weakness is an effective response because you’re holding frame therefore if you let something that’s intended to provoke you brush off you, you’re living in your reality and not there’s.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 05:02 PM
7

You do the right thing by ignoring them. Never worth arguing with a woman.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:49 PM
9

I think sometimes it’s best to simply withdraw attention when people disrespect you. Reply to her texts a bit later, go out with your friends a few nights and do your own thing. She’ll catch on and get the message. Whatever you do, don’t let your emotions get the better of you, if you lose your cool she’ll lose even more respect. I’ve not been in this situation personally as I’m only 18 and haven’t lived with a girl but this is how I’d go about it.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:26 PM
2

What sort of cool shit?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:57 PM
1

What the fuck
/r/askTRP12/07/19 01:21 PM
1

I’d say give her a few weeks, forget about her completely during that time. Use it to work on yourself or date other girls and then if you still wanna hit her up.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 01:19 PM
1

Oh ok
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:10 PM
2

Sweet, got a link? X
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:56 AM
1

You think I should stop clubbing? Not enjoying that much now and it’s costly. I reckon I might be better off seeing girls 1 on 1 and spin plates.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:44 AM
1

I am new here. Learning my trade. Expand on the light switch effect?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:26 AM
5

This. Women use social media as a way to feed their egos. I use it but only really talk to people I know in real life, I.e girls I’ve met in clubs.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:55 PM
2

You should never have said anything until the day of the meet up, at that point you confirm whether she will still be available. You made yourself look like a bitch and by crying because she’s flaked, she’s instantly got all the validation she needs and knows your below her.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:53 PM
1

Alright man that’s a good idea, jotting down everything.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:29 PM
-2

Lift
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:35 PM
4

Not interested in MGTOW
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:23 PM
-3

I get that but she isn’t a club whore. She’s 18 and when I met her at a club it was her first time clubbing. I think she was a virgin as well because she was tight as fuck and got the coil because of me.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:46 PM
1

And you’re so bored you comment on inane shit like this, which is arguably worse because I’m actually looking for advice.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:58 PM
4

Personally I think if you’re too blunt you just sound like you’ve got a chip on your shoulder for whatever reason. It’s about acting indifferent.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:49 PM
2

100% it comes down to frame. You can be attractive sure but if you have a weak frame and lack of abundance, women will sense it. I get plenty of interest and attraction but converting that into quantifiable lays is a different story because I need to work on my frame. Like you, some days I will be super confident and other days I doubt everything about myself and feel the need for validation. I can’t give you the solution as it’s something I need to fix myself but remember that reading red pill …
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:45 PM
-5

Sounds like something a teenager would dream about, not something a respected, socially competent alpha male would do.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:41 PM
1

How is asking for advice on what to do for a career a ‘dummy question’? Stop making assumptions about me, I’d recommend spending that energy working on your grammar.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:58 AM
1

Sales probably boosts your confidence massively as well. Seems like quite a red pill job if there is one
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:34 AM
1

Drugs really aren’t the worst thing in the world if you can control yourself. Anyway, it’s irrelevant to my situation. I’m sure you’ve done many things you’re not proud of, hence why you’re projecting onto me.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:28 AM
1

How many 18 Year Olds do you know starting a gym?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:10 PM
1

Only hobby is lifting, no exaggeration
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:47 PM
1

The fuck?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:19 PM
1

This is a rare case, some women are going to be turned on by shit like this, More than likely she had really low self esteem and doesn’t realise her own SMV. This type of stuff is fantasist and the relationship will turn stale pretty quickly.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:11 PM
1

Ahah how dramatic can you be
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:33 PM
1

Fair enough but how can I create plausible deniability? ‘Let’s play ping pong’ probably isn’t the most realistic thing to say
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:03 PM
1

Withdraw attention and let her initiate. You would of waited 25mins for a girl wouldn’t you? You should expect her to wait for you. She probably is still keen but demonstrate high value and let her arrange another meet up.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:01 PM
3

Always assume attraction until otherwise signified. Give her a text on the day, if she doesn’t bother messaging you back, soft next. Always have abundance mentality, girls dig that shit
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:09 PM
9

That seems like a beta thing to do and is actually a bit creepy. I wouldn’t say this is a shit test she is just calling you out on weird behaviour.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:20 PM
1

I disagree with the selfie bit. I’ve got a minimal amount of muscle but I got really cut and lean and posted a few pics and was getting a decent bit of attention from it. However, I do have quite a good frame (broad shoulders) although that probably comes down to genetics.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:26 AM
1

If you want to seem autistic then yeah say that
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:23 AM
1

Definitely using this
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:56 AM
1

Best thing to do is let her contact you first and posting pictures of you with other people, like another plate, having fun is a good idea. If you do speak to her again don’t even bring it up or act differently. Outcome Independence, always.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:33 AM
1

Absolutely. Since I discovered the red pill I’ve noticed that I get frustrated when I lose frame but the fact I recognise those mistakes is evidence of improvement. You have to remember that progress isn’t linear.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:50 AM
1

I’ll check it out. Thanks for the help.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:47 PM
1

One of the girls from my college is friends with somebody in my politics class. Bare in my, my politics class is literally a left wing echo chamber, every student and even the teacher buy into the typical left wing narrative. Anyway, this girl who I’ve been speaking to on snapchat messaged me bringing up my politics, now I’m assuming her friend (the one in my politics) bought it up or something because I’ve never discussed it directly with her. This girl has popped up to me a quite a few times n…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 02:00 AM
1

Cheers for the help mate. Can I ask you a question about something that happened to me (a shit test) and get your opinion on how I reacted? This is a new account so I don’t have the karma to make a post.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:08 PM
0

Got an example?
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:33 PM
2

Out of interest, if she said this to you in person, would you still simply ignore her or would you pass the shit test in a different way?
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:25 PM
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