I've come across a somewhat dumb problem. On literal paper, I seem to come across as attractive, well groomed, have my shit together career wise, very interesting high energy hobbies, well travelled, well educated etc. As a result, I have really good success on dating apps.

When I date girls off these apps, I have no problems f closing on the first or second date and spinning them as plates who are head over heels for me. My guess is because these girls already have some context about me which makes plating them easy. This also indicates to me that there isn't a problem with this stage of my game.

I've tried experimenting with day game recently. When approaching girls in person either cold or if I know them mutually, it seems like I have no idea how to maintain their interest in me at first since they know nothing about me, and I also have no idea if they're into me (I either get no IOIs or I'm bad at identifying them). I also can't just autistically start spouting my tinder profile in person.

How do I properly translate my effectiveness from dating apps into marketing myself better to women in real life?