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This article is amazing I pray this stays available information.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 05:53 AM
1

Move to the bigger city at 20 you should just try getting out of your comfort zone
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:14 AM
1

Now your red pill journey truly begins
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:06 AM
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How are you ever going to become a real player living with your parents? It’s simply not possible. Steps towards your goals are key, so it’d say an apartment is a good logical step, Good job on saving, keep saving a good % of every paycheck for your first real estate investment, live in it for a year, Move out and rent it out. I would try to use the money to just buy something little like a condo
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:26 PM
2

Went to a club you hate clubbing. Dude go somewhere you’ll meet girls you actually want. Imagine you do meet a bad chick clubbing. She’s still going to be a clubber, something you hate as you stated. Why?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:16 PM
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Most likely will
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:10 PM
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Match her frequency, it’d say look for other girlfriends
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:10 PM
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Just seeming busy makes you more attractive than 90% of the betas they meet that want to drop everything to worship them
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:07 PM
1

Tom toreros first date clock
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:05 PM
1

Honestly- women want in shape and good personality. 6 pack will help turn any woman on the fence but the majority of it is confidence, personality, intrigue and being healthy.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 04:04 AM
0

AWALT and all men have to chance to change and grow out of that and into better greener fields.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 03:52 AM
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Some guys don’t have the same physique and literally can’t gain too much weight or lose weight regardless. Being 6’5” and 170 OP is the definition of”white boy slim”
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 03:43 AM
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Major yeah but
/r/askTRP16/10/19 07:09 AM
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Lots of bullshit advice tonight; here’s you power move. LET HER. Let her hang out with beta orbiters. I mean not too much but she’s literally already friend zoned them and attraction grows when she has a chance to pull away and then she “chooses” to be with you. She will he way more attracted and you’ll actually have a chance holding onto tinderella giraffe “model” lol (not my type)
/r/askTRP16/10/19 05:02 AM
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A woman doesn’t want a mans attitude of “we can have a shitty relationship if you want dirr”. Bro your an idiot, you stated you liked her as a LTR, it’s not a bad thing to enter a relationship at some point. You don’t have to forget all your TRP training, it’ll actually help Keep her attracted. Your best move is telling her your true feelings and let her know on caviat; that you only want to enter in LTR if she’s potentially cool with other women in the future and you’re holding out for women wh…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:54 AM
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Life b4 29-30 is rough, imo
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:49 AM
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Why are you asking the red pill you should be asking the rainbow pill
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:48 AM
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Remind yourself that the sooner you cut him out of your existence the sooner you can progress in your mission. You’ll prob end up chatting years later. Same thing happened with my friends. And when they have sob stories about how they are losers, you’ll be reminded once again why you don’t associate.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:42 AM
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I’m 31 now and honestly a shit ton of ppl my age I grew up with are married. Including some of my exes. I told myself I would prob never get married but guess what, 26 and bam it happened out of left field. Ended up divorced 4 years later.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:44 AM
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Considering your post I would recommend you don’t pursue an MBA and do pursue your dream if entrepreneurship.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:40 AM
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I would NEVER date someone who lived that far 10 miles max
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 07:43 PM
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if you have to get on reddit to ask, you shouldn’t even be looking for a relationship you should be working on yourself. I would def not be taking tinder seriously
/r/askTRP03/10/19 06:07 AM
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Do you dodge all shit tests? Or do you dodge all shit commitment tests? If the former that’s an ok way to pass one but agree and amplify works better. If ur commitment talks are you giving them a sincere talk that you travel a lot and are busy and only date girls that are ok with you see other girls. Sure you’ll lose some but the ones you don’t will be ok with it?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 06:02 AM
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Yeah seen it and it’s a good documentary about men’s rights NOT what I define “the red pill” as at all.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:54 AM
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Learn to love yourself, respect yourself and look out for yourself. You are the only person you need to impress. Strive for real fulfillment not quick schemes and avoid pitfalls by learning from others before.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:49 AM
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Marriage is typically a win/lose deal for men not always
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:58 PM
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Evolutionary psychology...women have a lot more to lose when partaking sex. Evolutionary speaking, (and we haven’t evolved this still applies today, goes through reptilian brain and all) is they could get pregnant and then left by the man (explains last minute resistance). She could get pregnant from a beta male who can’t provide for her family (explains shit testing). She could die during pregnancy (explains reasons they pick his SMV) and a whole lot more. The moral animal is a good book on evo…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:56 PM
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Fucking talk to your bro if it bothers you that much and tell him to not.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:40 PM
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Immediately stop masterbating it’s killing your natural sex drive.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:58 PM
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Do you plan on deleting your IG. Dog I usually don’t get the number until we’re met up. I grab it as I slapped her ass on the way out the door.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:58 PM
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Go missing every once in awhile/ non responsive. If she asks just say you’ve been busy. Don’t always reach out first. Remember you want her to invest in you. Have her come up with dates and give you gifts. Besides b-day, I would avoid all gift giving unless it’s super spontaneous. If she starts to pull away, you pull away too, if she starts talking about guys you start talking about girls. Spend as much time apart as possible. Do things with guy friends.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:56 PM
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Why number close when you have her on IG and could get a date.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:41 PM
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Are you jacking off often?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:39 PM
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She doesn’t “seem” like a slut, chuckles. If only it was that easy to tell
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:37 PM
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How would you know she LTR material without even having her sexually. Man you need to polarize. Make a move, she rejects or accepts and you move on accordingly.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:32 PM
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Everything they do to test could be considered beta bait. How you react to it is what’s important. I would getting touchy with them right away, get demanding, show them who’s in charge and lead them to your bedroom. When I think beta bait I think of a girl posting on IG in a bikini saying something like “I’m thinking about losing 5 lbs what do you think?” Ans then a million guys jumping on it to be like “you’re beautiful”. way to get out of your confort zone. You sound like a fun wing. Where you…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:30 PM
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Got for it but make sure she doesn’t know where you live until you’re 100% positive she’s not a psycho clinger.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:22 PM
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Safe to say she has little interest given her responses...
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:00 PM
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This is a swell intro for a woman who has waning respect for you
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:44 PM
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This
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:43 PM
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“I wish a real man would figure out how to treat a woman” *posts sexy photo. = immediate inbox validation from 100 guys
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:42 PM
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Find abundance by literally forcing yourself to talk to every single girl you can on the way to classes. Etc.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:39 PM
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Andrew Kirby’s youtube channel will change your life. It’s all about productivity and being the best man you can be
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:37 PM
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You’re way too available. If she doesn’t meet with you and instead meets someone else she’ll still be able to meet with you because you displayed so much neediness. When she canceled the first time you should have ghosted her until she reached back out.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:32 PM
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I had this issue with daygame a lot. And I realized the lack on interest afterwards is simply not building enough rapport. Try more insta-dates, also after getting their number chat for awhile longer. Get to know them better on that first interaction and leave her hanging so she wants and desires to hear from you...this isn’t easy and won’t happen near as often as number closing but you’ll have a sticky prospect.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:26 PM
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Lack of self worth.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:13 PM
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Depends hold old you are and if you could easily move out
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:05 PM
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Turns women off if a man is offering his commitment and is too relationship focused and trying to lock her down because it’s feminine. She’ll ask herself exactly what you’re suggesting- this guy thinks I’m the best it’ll ever get and many other reasons
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:10 AM
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How cold people can be men and women. Trp to me is about becoming more immune to outside influence.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:06 AM
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I am legit alpha chad so never have that problem
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:23 PM
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100% agree, plus ladies are like a decade older than in Maturity levels
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:55 PM
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Wildly inaccurate.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:55 PM
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You need to polarize. Make a move and she will either reject or accept it. Move on accordingly
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:26 PM
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Sorta but you missed the second part to that thought- “women cannot really love men .... the way the a man wants to be loved” a beta man, See us guys have a tight bond with our mothers, flesh and blood, and then when we’re young adults getting frisky with females we expect the same unconditional love we received as children. Cold reality - besides family and close friends it doesn’t exist. Sure we can love and be loved but the one you need to learn to love is #1 first, others second.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 05:40 AM
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Dr Paul dobransky discribes it as “you do courage, you get confidence”. If I do three points of courage in return I receive 3 points of confidence” So courage = confidence.
/r/seduction14/09/19 04:52 PM
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Your best move is to go no contact and work on yourself. Note: you are the plate.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:15 AM
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Thank you, wtf. Smh
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:11 PM
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Dog you look the exact same. If there’s anything she won’t like it’s the insecurity
/r/seduction11/09/19 05:31 PM
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Models, alpha attraction, no more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:03 AM
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That means she’s equally as needy as him, she’ll prob wake up one day and realize it
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:01 AM
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I value yoga more than lifting
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:11 AM
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Whoa nobody said anything about gunning anyone down and I would highly advice to not do anything personally damaging but OP sounds young. Sometimes a little fist fight or pushing match to needed if orbiter Is too white knighty.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 01:58 PM
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What country is your origin and where do you live?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 01:04 AM
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Your over analyzing bro, you need to keep a strong, light hearted frame that isn’t phased by women and is happy doing your own thing. Text normal just not too needy, too much texts and isolate. If you like it go for it analyzing individual texts and shit will just drive you nuts. Like in sales no 1 bad move will blow a deal.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:26 AM
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Honestly, if he persists this might be a fighting situation. You might wanna knock his SMV back into his head
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:31 PM
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Why care what they think. Also you want haters it means you’re doing something right. However- I think there’s more to the story though.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:27 PM
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What would a strong confident man with a lot of options do? Get online and ask for advice or enjoy his evening out there doing things without them, it’s her loss.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:24 PM
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Thank you for your insights, this is fascinating.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:09 PM
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Hold my bag for me - “maybe, after you hold my balls for me, maybe” Buy me a coffee - “sure, after you buy me one first ;)” Do you believe in love at first sight - “yeah, I always dreamed of meeting me perfect match, my soul mate, I’ve been looking for her high and low, I sometimes search online for mail order brides.” Said in a sarcastic way
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:20 PM
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If it persists you should set a boundary that you don’t wanna hear that bs. Or, you can immediately mirror it with talking about other women you fuck but usually that add fuel to their fire. I just let her know those are things I prefer not to discuss, if she persists next, It’s annoying
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:13 PM
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Yes, women can be broken as fuck. Islam isn’t a peaceful religion, you would agree? Not that I like any organized religion I just feel Islam is full of extreme narcissism. Being an ex Muslim I would like your take on it?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:27 PM
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Way too risky to game strictly online. I guess the goal of online dating is to get offline ASAP. Your best bet and what I’ve found the best is making time to get out on the streets and day-game, Best.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:25 PM
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Vetting is setting boundaries. I accept this I refuse that...
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:38 PM
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Sounds to me like you’re still really attracted to her/ have a good relationship but have fallen into a rut. I would introduce space, distance names heart grow fonder. Take an out of town trip without her, try to find what you’re seeking...maybe you do want to be single.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:37 PM
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Nothing more than on orbiter who was intrigued as to why you weren’t as thirsty as the rest of them, but once you showed your true colors...10/10 in pictures? Many 10’s are actually 2’s with lots of makeup/filters etc. have you met her IRL?
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:33 PM
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Look in HQ places, museums, theaters, library’s, high end malls.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:29 PM
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Good news, you’re giving off some attractive vibes. Bad news you don’t really know how to close or go for it/ proceed. This will come with time/confidence. She didn’t give you any shit test just a lot of IOI’s and an indication that she wants you to lead. Forget about age, I was living with my 31 y/o gf at 21. Just enjoy her while “it’s your turn”
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:55 PM
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Grow a beard, wear the right colors and looks. Own it
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:48 PM
3

Tiege Hanley
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:47 PM
3

Be confident, have a good time with your boys and make a move.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:45 PM
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Streaks bro shoot for streaks 1 night in the gym vs 1000 night in the gym consecutively.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:50 AM
2

Assume the close. I agree. Check often to see if you've closed already. I believe you should want to ramp her attraction up to the highest degree possible, by spiking, and allowing basic things, anxiety and jealously are such good plot lines and checking often you see when to stop so you don't overdo it
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 04:47 AM
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Putting to a woman “you’re either with me or gone” is one of the most beta mind frames you can come from. Tell her your glad it didn’t work out because you actually realized you never wanted s serous relationship and you prefer being with multiple women, and game her as normal from that frame.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:53 AM
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Wtf not both? If not the Obvious then go for the one you’re most attracted to by engaging both of them.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:48 AM
1

Then you may need to say “I apologize, for doing x.” And then move on like it never happened
/r/askTRP25/08/19 05:00 AM
1

That’s retartded. Women are emotional beings. Ignore her until she gets back to you, you dlv when you apologize and act needy/desperate to make things the way they were. Be cool lay low she comes to you
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:00 PM
1

If you actually like her. You should take what you want and unapologetically
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:35 PM
1

Ignoring a shit test is a way of passing a shit test. You don’t even play that game
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:31 PM
1

“Why aren’t you as beta as all the other orbiters around me?”
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:29 PM
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Tell her that it’s completely fine and that you were considering asking out another girl as well, and maybe you should both see other people. Or If it’s a friend zoned orbiter beta you have zero to worry about and she prob sees him as her girlfriend anyways. This is a shit test
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:28 PM
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Exactomuldo they just wanna be dominated
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:22 PM
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I do save time by working out at home
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:15 PM
3

IOD for IOD. Tell her to shut her fucking mouth or get out and mean it.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:29 AM
1

Yeah just like in sales no one bad move will blow the close
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:30 PM
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No explanation points brah
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:26 PM
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Your best move is to get her number like him and not ask, tell. And then get her on a date
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:25 PM
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Your best move would have been taking the other girl out hopefully your ex see you there together it makes her jealous and then she ends up chasing you
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:21 PM
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Just never bring it up, and if she does tell her both sides are crazy. Talk about them with your guy friends.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 06:27 AM
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What I mean is all the times I had ladies hanging over me and giving me signals to approach and escalate and I failed to take what I wanted, destroying my self esteem. Also fucking up on some major important shit tests was never fun. Getting my idealism crushed by hypergamy is always a gift.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:58 AM
1

Seriously - gentleman, texting is for one fucking thing. LOGISTICS (and slight comfort building if you’re in a LTR). Time and dates: get her out. She’s categorized you as a girlfriend, one who she’s doesn’t like that much
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:13 PM
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Don’t worry about her friends reactions, they won’t sway her decision. Alcohol isn’t an aphrodisiac, you probably were an asshole, fuck her, next. (She’ll come back if you have that attitude)
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:34 PM
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All the missed opportunity, even though I scored a good portion of them I missed a lot of - “I wanna be taken/dominated” cues
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:32 PM
1

Graham Stephens I actually watch his advise occasionally
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:12 AM
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Smiley face emojis are a never in my toolbox. Way better ways to create mystery.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:05 AM
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You need to work on yourself make her miss you and then the next time you shoot make sure to score
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:01 AM
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Yes. But if you missed one shit test you’re bound to miss others. But yes you can come back and you should fight to
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:17 PM
2

If she has a very healthy upbringing from her grandparents it’s possibly she ended up in ok shape. Yeah this shit get passed through genes 🧬 As for your question, a better question is; what has you attracted to girls with daddy issues?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:16 PM
2

Here’s the thing: your dad is a “broken” man. Guys without any red pill access or wherewithal to seek it out through knowledge, higher learning, tribe, with lower social status accept more bullshit and compile years of this you have a broken man. Your dad is probably a good guy who’s made some mistakes, I would try to forgive him and move on with your own life
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:41 PM
1

Get used to opening, learn values like hard work, read/study what interest you, don’t try to grow up too fast.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:00 AM
1

Question the fuck out of the source.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:56 AM
2

Women view smoking as a risk with no reward therefore stupid. I suggest Alan Carr’s “The easyway to quit smoking”
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:58 AM
1

Invest in a REIT or Bridge.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:09 PM
3

What they’re really saying is”I hate you controlling my frame but I really like it”
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:06 PM
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Reverse the roles, you should have given her a little something but then again if your job was more important I fully understand that too. Neither here nor there, if you direct her out again you prob have another shot, if not - you found her on tinder....
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:52 AM
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Shoulder, handshake - hold, turn and pull towards, running for arms rubbing over tattoos, spin/ twirl dance style, walk with arm around waist, squeeze/smack her booty, grab her titties. Usually in that order
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:48 AM
2

Ladies always come back if you DHV
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:37 AM
2

You tell that little hussy that you want her sexually... she's gonna cry “ but I would hate losing you as a friend” and you say take it or leave it. If she doesn't go for it you need to next her and take the other advice of; see other women. if she comes to you meh, don't wait for her. This is why when you first meet girl you should get sexual right away because then you set the frame and if she stays it's on as a male to female relationship and she won't disrespect you by treating you like a fr…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:24 PM
1

lol anything would have been better than insulting her. next time be like "oh your a massuese, my mom warned me about girls in that line of work, she said they'll give you a great massage but you have to watch them, they can get shifty"
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:50 PM
2

Alcohol has never been an aphrodisiac, although in media it is portrayed as one.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:46 PM
1

100
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:45 PM
1

A call? Like video chat? With a girl you don’t know. The circumstances are dodgey as fuck. Sounds like she was just being a hypergous little twat. And she has low self esteem so she took some jabs at your ego like that. Shit test. Was it even logistical possible to fuck her? I mean does she live close to you
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:49 AM
2

Bro you’re gaming Muslims chicks wearing hijabs? Hahah props... How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:44 AM
3

Attraction isn't a choice.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:29 AM
19

Business reasons is the only logical explaination. I used Snapchat to game, I feel it's more of a messaging platform.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:27 AM
1

Haha bravo. I concur.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:24 AM
2

That early in a relationship you want to be mysterious. Non available. Make her know you have options and make her work at locking you down. If a woman doesn’t work to earn your love she won’t be fully satisfied ever.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:45 PM
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This was a wild one to wrap my mind around. Please me = please her. Not what society teaches us from movies.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:44 PM
3

Date idea: take her for a walk, an ice cream cone and walk, a coffee, meet up with her for anything really say you just wanna hang out. And tell her where to meet you and then improvise from there.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:39 AM
1

Tell her no problem, hit her up for one last chance. If she pulls an excuse the second time, no matter what next
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:37 AM
1

The daygame doesn’t work guy who’s never opened a set lol
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:15 AM
1

For he right guy she doesn’t have a boyfriend to the wrong approach she has a boyfriend
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:12 AM
2

I mean if your total package, SMV was very high there wouldn’t be any objections.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:23 AM
1

Honestly if she flakes on first date it’d be cold until she reaches back out to you again
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:41 PM
1

Tom torero is the king of daygame and he too was a total introvert. If you’re in Phoenix Arizona it’d take you daygaming
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:37 PM
2

It wouldn’t matter how old you were if you were alpha in her eyes and she was attracted to you.
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:30 PM
1

Develop attractions information on youtube specifically cover this topic and many more
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:29 PM
1

Just learn how to properly strap up. Hold condom so there’s space for jizz and pull it all the way to the base. Keep an eye out for open sores/ and make sure to flush it
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:27 PM
2

You gotta keep the man to woman frame from the get go. Try being more direct when you first meet ladies
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:54 PM
1

Control the frame. Sexual is physical. So start controlling the frame by doing something ex: grab a piece of ice and put it in your mouth and tell her it’s cold. Come here and pull her to you and put it in her mouth. Even sexy eye contact is a clear indicator. Just try to separate yourself from a friend. You’re better off crashing and burning with her than not trying
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:15 AM
1

Your success isn’t making her “depressed” It’s certainly something else. Maybe the success has changed you or she feels she has way less smv now
/r/askTRP19/07/19 06:23 PM
1

My ex wife took my bengal. And then lost him
/r/askTRP19/07/19 05:18 PM
0

This is true, but I think there’s a time and place to serenade her with words, but most blue pill guys do it right away looking desperate. Plus also not knowing how to pull and be attractive is part of that equation
/r/askTRP19/07/19 07:16 AM
2

Emotional chicks + drinking = bad mix.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 07:13 AM
3

Bro you sound like a boy. You need to embrace your inner desires and become a man who takes what he wants. It sounds to me like you’re trying to be nice and not offend anything. You’re a nice guy and afraid to ruffle the feathers a little bit. In the beginning of interactions with these girls you have to make it very clear this is man/woman time not girlfriend time. which is what you are, you’re their girlfriend.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:49 AM
2

Winey bitxh is my immediate thought. Also men don’t become cat owners.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:44 AM
2

Pick something and become an expert at it. Might as well pick something that interest you. And now grind and work the shit outta it, just b/c you love it doesn’t mean you don’t have to work to create something. Use this mission to attract women and become successful
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:42 AM
-1

D
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:38 AM
18

Tell don’t ask. Meet me at _____ I’m going to _____ meet me there Let’s ____.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 11:50 PM
2

Yeah bro why play the online game when daygame is way more rewarding the girls are hotter, not sluts and way less drama then trying to get after a married woman with children. That sitch sounds like a nightmare.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:59 PM
1

If I like the girl and want to be sexual and see her as a woman of value I want in my life, I will make a point to call out this bad behavior and tell her not to call me dude, and explain I’m not trying to be her friend rather her lover and lovers aren’t called dude. It’s defiantly a way for ladies to start to friend zone you slowly. Unacceptable behavior to me.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:35 PM
2

Alcohol doesn’t solve it dissolves.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:22 PM
7

You can’t actually believe this bs. Basically she saying if you are cool we party together. If you’re a dud I excuse myself to party alone. Pretty simp
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:13 PM
4

If she was hot she would figure out the logistics. Buying pressure is low. It’d soft next her.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:11 PM
1

Learn to love yourself more than anyone else in world.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:01 PM
13

Wooded areas with trees
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:00 PM
1

You’re afraid to mate because of what might happen to your children. That is a cuck frame of mind for sure. Women will never find that ever attractive. They want strong genes who’s children will win. Not this beta too scared to try. For me it financial. Little shits cost money and I’m still developing in career
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:44 AM
5

Prob bait. If you want to drive her crazy tell her how great your doing and how hot your new gf is
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:42 AM
1

I found in my life that people have different levels of cleanliness. If your partner is below your standards. It’s very difficult to be in a relationship with. Not even worth it. I’ll never be with someone as messy as my ex-wife ever again.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:01 PM
1

Male to male connection = cars, sports, girls.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:53 PM
1

1 of 2 things. 1- they respect you and see you as a boss of “x” 2- they are speaking condescendingly towards you. Usually calling someone a boss is a DLV for the person who is saying it.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:13 PM
3

Actually be attractive to women.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:40 AM
6

This is so inaccurate. Cold approach doesn’t give a fuck how “classically handsome” your good looks areZ it matters how confident you are and how you carry yourself. Women can sniff the beta out of you.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:38 AM
1

So unless your fucking the girl. I can’t believe how preoccupied others can get with others.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:30 AM
0

Hot cold man. No matter how mean this sounds it drives women absolutely bonkers for you
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:24 AM
4

Have a genuine attitude of “ok maybe we shouldn’t fuck, but then just escalate as normal at right times” I think she just needs some plausible deny ability. Make it easy for her to lay you
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:22 AM
3

Start talking about the girls you’re fucking. IOD for IOD
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:20 AM
3

This guys comment is really good advice. Keep hitting the gym, meditation,yoga, get out of your mind. Find hobbies you genuinely my enjoy. What I wish someone told me when I was a young man is that it get a fucking hell of a lot better when you get older. Just imagine, she ex is at her sexual prime in her life. This is the best she will be at looks department and emotionally available etc etc. it’s reallg reverses when your 30
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:17 AM
2

My ex wife moved out while I was at work. You go monk mode. Work on yourself. Self love / self care.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:03 AM
6

It’s a man and woman thing. Trama, so yes women do. They like guys also get stronger usually which is why an attractive gal who’s hit the wall few years already 37-45 but still hot can be some of the hardest women to game. They’ve been in the game for some time
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:39 AM
4

Admit that you are and proceed as normal. Or just ignore it. Ignoring is easiest way to pass shit test but not most confident
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:02 AM
1

One reason you don’t want to do said is because it looks stupid socially and people talk. Imagine girls not wanting to be around you because you tell other men their sluts. That’s drama too
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:52 AM
1

Would you have appreciated her previous blue pilled boyfriend telling you she took the cock while while you were hooking up and he just wanted to let you know because he's such a nice blue pilled beta. Brah no stop
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:53 AM
3

can't let outside of you bother you.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:42 AM
7

These are beta soft ball pitches meant for you to bite at, why escalate/ play her validation game on the phone. Text her to bring her little booty over for a nice shakin.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:39 AM
7

This is an obvious shit test, to see how you'll react or more likely to see how her "bf" would. passing shit test = getting laid agree and amplify: grab her, throw her around a little bit and tease her, whisper in her ear, i'll bet you like this attention don't ya little girl. ignore: literally completely ignore her request. she's crying for attention/validation...don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:27 AM
1

Women aren’t attracted to money itself, they’re attracted to men who have the skills and wherewithal to accumulate that money. Having money is an indicator of having high SMV.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:36 PM
1

Lol way to go kid. I would just say start telling instead of asking, also, a fat women who losing her breath isn’t even a 5 sorry...
/r/askTRP03/07/19 01:05 AM
1

Daddy as in her boss. Her guider, her rock. Honestly if you don’t like being called daddy it’s probably b/c you don’t feel like daddy to her (or women in general) I was weirded about being called daddy when I was younger and less mature/masculine. Now I am their fucking daddy and the little girls all know this and just like little girls they want my time and attention and affection. Some girls have daddy issues (and coincidentally man issues). The women you want had 2 loving parents, and daddy w…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:24 AM
6

best advice: become a high quality goal oriented person.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:34 AM
1

Hang out at the college. people will think you're a part of the college. just study at librarys and places like you would be, or just go to the college. im sure you can get into jr college and just study at the university...
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:33 AM
1

sounds like your depressed/ hormornal. like tyronethedriver said go monk, work on yourself. get your mental health in line. start fresh. start feeling good again, healthy food, your labido will come back. knowing your age in post like this would help quite a bit.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:26 AM
1

the hamstering impresses me too kurush559
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 05:21 AM
4

I love your response, this guy was such a beta
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 05:18 AM
-1

This article is utterly useless. At the end of the day it comes down to if someone is alpha or not. A lot of heavy pot smokers and druggies are alpha as fuck and some high-value women love it. Not all but who are you to get on your soap box? Fact: no substance alcohol, pharmaceuticals, marijuana, cough syrup or whatever else people are using to alter their reality are "good" or "bad" they just are. It's your perception of how you see this information, and compute it into your binary brain things…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 05:14 AM
2

This is a bad ass article. I heard about it in NMMNG and had a red pill gf who would do this. Great idea. Any suggested countries for a first time international traveler (outside of Canada and Mexico)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 05:01 AM
1

A same day lay from a dating app, you could focus on this for sure. but like you said, it's mostly fattys and whores. It'd perfer to meet a real lady in the streets anyday (freak in sheets always) plus approaching girls in real life makes them flake on and already dodgy tinder date. I suggest all youngsters to Start day gaming. taper off the online dating apps.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 04:55 AM
1

And a plethora of knowledge on staying motivated and investing in real estate
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 06:25 PM
1

Here's what I got off the top of my head Dr. Paul Dobranski - wtf happened to that guy? His book on Sending and KMWL was amazing, I still use his stuff today to pick up girls and I haven't heard of him in years... Podcast/youtube: Tom Torero for day game Todd V. has some great advice. Books: Atomic Attraction, Psycho cybernetics, Easyway to quit alcohol, (when you can see you're brainwashed in some areas it makes you realize how blue pilled we are) The Rational Male pt 2. GC - the 10X rule, Feel…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 03:41 AM
1

The salesman works with what other create. Can you explain that? At least for me, I create my own leads, therefore, I create the opportunity, I create the desire for the product and I create the customer account. I don’t understand the salesman not creating something.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 09:06 PM
1

This article is as written for you. Bullshit salesman don’t produce anything. They produce opportunities....along with intrigue, they break through obscurity, they close- meaning deliver on something. Make a transaction. Salesman make the world move, make decisions. The only people who would say that is someone who doesn’t know how to sell.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 11:18 PM
2

It's a shit test. This comes down to all frame control, your woman wants to know you're the boss and not phased about texting or anything else. Pick up the phone and speak with her or don't by actually being busy building your empire and let her reinvest in you.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 05:42 AM
2

Why is that because he was jealous?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:46 AM
1

The plain clothes one was hella overweight and look like they never get laid. The one dressed in mall security clothes (wanna be cop) was extremely bulky and looked like a married with kids beta too
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:10 PM
1

Check out No More Mr Nice Guy. Start building your self respect again and cut out fatty like a cancer. see how you feel then soldier!
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 03:51 AM
1

That includes materials? So you make 8-12K for a days worth of work laying tile?
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:58 PM
4

I absolutely love social media game, 95% of dudes think it's a viable strategy, makes it so when I approach them in REAL LIFE I stand out. I'm way different. Also women will leave their Beta orbiters for men who approach b/c honestly approaching is REALLY important IMO
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 04:16 AM
7

Absolutely spot on. I had to do this recently when I got put on the spot. I held the emotion. Explained water under the bridge and made an example of how I could have more professionally handled it and actually, impressed my manager. It was like a huge shit test I passed
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 04:48 AM
2

A lot of feminist, sexy girls turning to girls, can’t talk politics with women, they require a lot of “clown game” I don’t think it’d be too different than any other country though. Good game will always win because not all of them are swimming in the kool aid I’ve heard Russians are really tough to pick up
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 03:26 AM
4

I knew a guy who push pinned his condoms and knocked up his girlfriend. It goes 2 ways but mostly women for men
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 03:22 AM
1

Because she can do whatever the fuck she wants pussy
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:06 AM
1

Tom torero podcast
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:05 AM
2

It’s only awkward if you make it awk. Next time you see her walk up to her and her friends and say let’s fuck
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:03 AM
1

Never try to logically understand women...like rule #2
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:01 AM
1

Your strategy is to pull a Harvey Weinstein,..good luck buddy
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:54 AM
1

Bro it sounds like you’re drolling all over her and tripping over your tongue. Abundance
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:46 AM
1

Ask her “what the fuck she’s really apologizing about,” see if she breakdowns with a story about someone at college
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:43 AM
1

Make a move and if she rejects you then move on
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:31 AM
1

Yeah but this isn’t about controlling women it’s about controlling yourself. To change your perspective, to become that bad boy who you hate
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:28 AM
2

That right there sir is a classic case of approach anxiety and it happens to the best of us. Few pointers, try to employ the 3 second rule. Makes it so you don’t have time to second think it. I like opening direct because it pre-eliminates any potential friend-zoning. First- you have to get their undivided attention. You have to wheel in front and cold stop them. Speak slow so they’re hanging on every word and deliver something simple like “do you know where the meat section is?” (Something situ…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:23 AM
1

Tinder is dodgey at best. I highly suggest you try Day-gaming. It’s 10X funner and when you approach women in a confident manly way they will leave their tinder/online beta boyfriends for a strong confident man who knows how to approach. Tom Torero is kinda the uncle of day-game
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:58 PM
5

You want to go out with a loaded weapon. Women love men who are locked and loaded. Remember that scene in There's Something About Mary, when he convinces him to "choke the chicken" before going out of his date. He was sabotaging him.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:21 AM
3

In my opinion bars and clubs are one of the worst places to meet ladies due to them having their guard up and considering what type of women drink in bars (open/looser) I prefer street hustling and finding younger girls with higher values. Cheers to getting out there
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 02:25 AM
1

The most feminist are also usually the most fat and ugly. Their cries are literally a cry for attention from men. Beautiful feminine women respect real men a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 10:31 PM
0

Bragging will never make you cool - especially about a college degree. Women prefer older men...men being the key word
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:29 PM
-2

Yeah society and feminism and has fooled men into becoming beta cucks. Which 99.99% of men are. I guess real men hold all the power
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:27 PM
6

Women do not have all the power, slap yourself boy!
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:57 PM
2

Classic, I approached directly letting her know what I wanted using body some Language, started kino escalted a little bit, I playfully teased her and make some sexy eye contact, the kind ladies don’t receive ever because nobody approaches. I’ve been with dozens of women and approached several hundred sets. I currently Day game after work for at least 3-5 solid interaction sets 3 times a week. On this particular day I opened 6 sets, for 2 number closers, 1 flake and 1 sexual hug and an ass grab …
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:30 AM
6

I feel incredibly privileged to have been born male. If we can find it, we hold all the power. It took my 30 years to come to this conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:31 PM
2

best advice. ​
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:54 AM
3

I like that attitude bruiser18.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:47 AM
1

hilarious and hella honest bro, thanks!
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:46 AM
1

i'll remember that for next time, thanks man
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:46 AM
1

great advice. thanks man
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:45 AM
0

I'm no angel either tho..
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:51 PM
1

Text her mom or to her? I was planning on keeping girlfriend blocked for the weekend. I'm trying an anchor a negative feeling to her crossing my boundary.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:31 PM
1

Thanks for the response, I agree more abundance. How would you respond to her mom's questions?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:21 PM
1

I liked it unil he started talking way too much about using alcohol to find easy girls, and playing gutter game to the extreme.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:20 AM
3

My boy got one of these calls recently. completely freaked out his girlfriend. i guess it's a recording that was more than likely sent from another dude. You piss anyone off lately?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:55 PM
1

I say start by cutting out the alcohol. Alcohol is a depressant and makes people depressed and lethargic, suicidal and all other bad things. Plus a ton of empty calories. You should start to feel better.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:33 PM
2

I've gone on and off social media my whole life. I always thought it was wrong in the back of my mind. And then Trump starting to come out with fake news, real talk. People are waking up.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:09 AM
9

So basically all 7 things are; have confidence and develop your inner alpha male and become a well rounded individual who knows what they want and how to get it. Duh
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:51 PM
1

Keep the mental frame that you expect her to impress you.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:02 PM
2

This is one of those: you won’t have to worry about if you had your own place. Until then make best of situation.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:07 PM
3

Bro she’s prob commenting on your boys Instagram page b/c she wants to fuck him and make you pissed off/jealous. Are you sure she’s worth your time. Erupting at that shit test was beta af. Apologizing was beta af. Your gonna want to respond by not responding. It’d go no contact personally.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:57 PM
3

The more I see Rollo the more I think he's a really great man, his book Preventative Maintenance literally has changed my life. I used to watch Elliot Hulse way back in the day. Unique combo I would 10/10 go to this event and I don't have any kids.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 01:08 AM
6

She doesn't know anything about SMV or the outside world This of course is all in her DNA, exactly how we possess all the Alpha (even your Beta bro) but haven't quite learned/been challenged throughout life to express it. ​
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 12:59 AM
1

Solid game elliminates the reasons to have text game. Think about it, if you made a solid impression she’s gonna wanna text you. I follow Tom toreros texting advice there’s 10 rules on his website and I just screen shot it to refer back to
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:55 PM
9

"Shall we go to my place?" Instead "Let's go to my place i have to show you xyz, it'll only take a minute"
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 11:48 PM
8

Sounds like you're doing good with her and this is solid game. It's possibly you tried to escalate too quickly. Spend some more time in comfort possibly. How are you asking her to go back to your place? If you're making it sound too needy "lets go back and hang out babe" it's gonna ring her alarm bells. Come up with something smooth, you want to show her your (insert something interesting you would genuinely want to show someone) ​ Also don't ask TELL and you may/ may not have lost some points b…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 10:14 PM
4

This facinates and confuses me but seeing if from an red pill perspective it makes perfect sense. However - I do feel women feel something similar to romance when they have an Alpha male who is hitting both Alpha and Beta notes for her hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 10:05 PM
1

Consider yourself the luckiest man alive! Now you can start focusing on #1 . I was in your same situation in June, I cried everyday after work for like 3 months strait but then I started feeling better, started dating around and now I'm like 10X happier (in less than 1 year). Pop that pill and let it seep in. I highly recommend Rollo Tomassi's - Preventative maintenance book. It's been life changing. Good luck sir.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 10:00 PM
-2

force yourself to talk to every single women you encounter everywhere, get way out of your comfort zone. You're deep in your own comfort zone. Learn some cheesy pick up artist stuff. Work on yourself. Shoot for little wins. It'd say its more like 95% confidence and swag and only 5% looks. Your looks won't hurt but they defiantly won't help either. it's kinda like the icing on the cake but women care way more about confidence and how you handle yourself around other men and at work and stuff.
/r/seduction25/08/17 04:21 PM
1

Realize, your probably depressed man. All humans are special. It'd say tackle the little things first (and get small victories). Doing the ever sizes where you approach women on a daily basis. Using 3 second rule and canned material and just throw yourself out there- talk to all women all the time. Work on your career first and foremost. It will be very attractive if you have a passionate profession and feel good financially and stuff. Every second working on yourself is time spent becoming more…
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:47 AM
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