It isn't all about having high SMV.

Some women would dig a low SMV male that got anxiety, depression and is in danger of being killed fx.

Why? Because of her own past. There was this hot girl who approached me, and we got a great relationship out of it. I was skinny as fuck, 0 confidence and insecure as fuck. I dressed horribly, got a beard neck, lonely and barely knew how to talk. As a 22 year old.

Why did she do that? Because she had lost a childhood friend to death before, and other friends to cults. So she probably figured, hey this guy is like all the others I've loved and then lost.

And I personally believe that there's another factor to it. Virtue signaling and more attention from having fx me die. I was quite literally in danger of being killed at that time (ex Muslim).