So I went to a party with some friends, there were 3 girls of interest. None being overly attractive, felt them all out found the one I thought was best to pursue (#1). We make extended eye contact over cards for most of the night, I wink once or twice blah blah, I am making them all laugh being funny, sexual yadayada. #2 makes a very feminist comment, I don't remember what it was but it was manipulative I know that. I call her out on it and her friends jump in and say "don't even try to argue with her on this" I make a few more remarks and end it with a cheers with #2 (last I speak to her). Eventually everyones getting drunk I want to make my move with #1. I use my eyes to signal that she should come meet me on the couch. She shakes her head no and looks a little confused. I get up anyways and head over to the couch, as I walk over I hear number #3 say "why is he being anti-social". I was a little thrown off that I gave that appearance but whatever. 30 seconds later #3 comes and lays on the other side of the couch and tells me to come back over and join. I eventually agree, play cards for about 5 more minutes and then head out for a cigarette. 2 minutes later here comes #1 outside she sits across the porch from me and we start having basic convo. She tells me she just transferred her and has been lonely, she tells me she broke up with her last boyfriend 9 months ago. I tell her I also was a fresh transfer and experienced a recent breakup. (all true). 5 minutes into our talk here comes annoying #3 again she opens the door and says you can't do anything with her and she shuts the door. I looking at #1 and say wow shes drunk but is a funny girl and then I move to the other side of the porch next to her. Conversation resumes she claims she feels a connection between us and then a few minutes later here comes #4 and her boyfriend (#4 is the house owner) they come out side. At this point I am done with all these interruptions and my smoke and go back inside. Everyone is starting to lay down and sober up including #1 who is the one apparently responsible for getting everyone home and is the least sober. We play eye contact again, and eventually I tell my buddy it is time to leave and we depart.
Now this girl was a 5 no doubt nothing special, didn't care if I ever had sex with her only trying to apply the concepts I have read on rp.(though I would banged her brains out if the opportunity led that way that night) I also just broke it off with a girl 12 hours prior so again whatever. I did not want to be seen getting this girls number or even show that I had interest in her because well shes a 5.
I learned my conversational skills need work. I think my body language is good. Maybe I would have been more flirty in our 1v1 convo if she was more attractive.
I learned do not wait around because interruptions will happen, I could have gotten her number almost right away, I could have moved over sooner and when she said she was lonely I could touched her and made deeper connection.
Did I make the right move with the feminist remarks of number 2? Like I said I can't remember exactly how the convo went, but when her friends said to back down I did but I also put in my closing thoughts. (I think #2 was impressed I said something by the way she looked at me after)
Overall I need to be more aggressive. Open for comments.
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