(She 26, I'm 31) Met this plate a month back or so. Hooked up after a fun night of drinks. Talk briefly then radio silence for a couple weeks where she snaps me out of nowhere asking how I'm doing. Say fine, been busy but she still owes me another drink. She says "haha I got you and a tongue face". Hits me up again Wednesday another pic of her in the car saying it's 99 and shes sweating bullets. I reply back with I'm about to shower, shes like I'd do anything for a shower, then I said join me with a pic of the top half of me half in the shower. She mentions something about have I been working out. I said, something like that and then she doesn't reply.

Hits me again today on snap with her about to each lunch. I opened but didn't respond.

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Yes, I get she has other dudes likely but I have made a few advances trying to turn the conversation sexual and she ignores it for the most part and doesn't send me anything sexy but this stupid ass random photos from time to time.

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How many times do you escalate before you became an orbiter. I don't check her stories but she rarely posts any and doesn't have an Instagram. She is not a normal attention validation whore. I also never send her shit first. I'd like to keep hooking up but don't want to end up in the friend zone. Soft next?

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She lives an hour and twenty away so meeting requires logistics.