Sup yall, hope your weekends going well.

So I've got this problem. I get hit on ALL the damn time, every day, everywhere I go. These chicks are HOT and they are practically throwing themselves at me.

But here's the paradox: It seems like as soon as I reciprocate sexual interest, they seem to either become less interested or go completely cold.

UPDATE: Elaborating on the signals I've been getting.

  • Excessive compliments and/or questions.
  • Hugging my arm.
  • Talking more than I do.
  • Telling me their boyfriend is in jail/outta town/recently broken up, etc.
  • Giggling at damn near everything I say. For example, "Well, no point in stressing about it".
    Context: casual conversation, both of us waiting in line @ WalMart's Deli. Not a date, never met prior. Response was to her moaning about the line taking too long, thought I'd help both of us pass the time with some convo.
  • Seemingly happier to talk to me than anyone else.

Pretty much everything but waving a picket sign with "fuck me, you dense fuck" written on it.

What the hell, man?