Hey guys,

I need a little input from y’all. My LTR and I have been together for over a year. It’s going great, real RP relationship. Submissive women, dominant man. She always had the plan to do a semester abroad, which she postponed to be with me this year but she wants to do it next fall. Now the fun part. I have two options for exactly that half a year, one of them being traveling to a great city in another country to work as an intern, which is great career wise. I don’t want to break up because of travel plans but I won’t do a LDR. My plan as of now is:

  1. Mention she could come with me
  2. Talk about how great the city is
  3. Tell her I think it’s not a good idea that we travel together
  4. Make her jealous through classic dread
  5. If she still in a few weeks doesn’t beg to come with me, talk to her on how it’s the only option of she wants to be with me.

Any thoughts, recommendations, experiences are appreciated. I have this feeling that if I don’t make her work for it and just ask her to come with me, she will resent me and won’t want to, which is retarded since that is practically the best thing she’d ever get, spending half a year with me. I don’t get it why, but it would fall right in line with TRP.