When to write off a serial flake as a liability rather than a possible extra lay in the MerryGoRound? And also how best to punish the serial flake woman? (Admittedly she was coming to My apartment BOTH times she flaked...and it is more than an hour by train to here...still though!!!)

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-08-01T14:37:22+00:00

she shouldnt have the chance to become a serial flake. dont punish her, find a girl thats actually interested in you

IceBear---69 · 2019-08-01T14:38:27+00:00

I don't tolerate flakes & neither should you. Are you that desperate to get laid that you'll let someone disrespect you & your time?

daymi · 2019-08-01T19:14:58+00:00

It depends on your time in life.

Since I found my mission, I have no time to waste. I still meet women of course, but two flakes and I'm done (and she better tell me before, otherwise it counts double). It's not even personal - I can't afford a flake.

I don't even have to tell them, it just shows in my mannerism. If they are even a little late they call me and apologize - they know it's inappropriate.

If you have enough time then maybe it's different. But you not respecting your time is unattractive to her.

That said, there are women who are late for everything and think that you should accomodate them (personal experience - do not recommend). But that's different from flaking. Do you include being late?

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