I dated a girl while i was still home for 4 months, both of us knew it would end when school started so we spent a fucking ton of time together and fucking 12 times a week. It ended 3 weeks ago.

I went home last weekend and we met the night i arrived and spent the whole 3 days glued to each other. On the last day she says we cant do this anymore as it hurts her too much knowing id be smashing other girls and me leaving brought up the same emotions of when i first left.

I agreed to try long distance as long as we saw each other every 2 weeks for 3 days. She will come up once a month (spending ~15% of her income) and i will go down once a month. She admitted she slept with one dude a week after i left and she felt guilty and got all sad even though at that point we were split. I believe it and could see she had been stressing as her face had broken out.

I dont surf but i look like the type, 6'2, and lift at least my body weight (185lb) in bench and squats for reps. Shes objectively a 6 or 7 but my oneitis goggles put her above that. I talk to other girls at the school to keep my options open and try to keep the oneitis in check as i know she could be taking dick right now.

I went on 5 dating app dates the weekend before i saw her and it felt hella shallow plus even if its just gas, every date is money and money is tight right now. Fucking random bitches doesnt do it for me (maybe if this bitch fucks me over that will change though).

I genuinely dont think dudes comparable to me approach her much but im prepared to drop this if i sense some weird shit or if she suddenly cant make it up to visit.

I like this girl and it is convenient time and money wise. She is lay #13 and longest ltr.

Does anyone think this ldr can work? Perhaps only for x amount of time?