I have been dating this girl and I don't know how to interpret the things she says to me. Of course, I follow the rule "don't pay attention to what she says but to her actions" but I still would like your opinions on this.

She says things like I'm very mysterious and she doesn't know why is even with me, but that stills feels the need to be with me. That sometimes she even hates me, but feels this need to be around me.

The other day she told me that she needed time and I said to her "take the time you need, there is no problem". Two days later she asked me when she could see me, I kept what I said of "next Friday" and on Thursday she sent me a message saying she couldn't resist, shes near my home and wants to come to see me.

She would say things like "normal relationships" are not her thing but them introduce me to all her friends and even her boss as his boyfriend.

Often she would say that her career is the most important thing to her, but she would postpone things on her work, move meetings and even not going to work at all just to see me.

The other day she told me that she wanted to study something that's only taught in another city, that maybe she would need to go on weekends and all that, I said "go for it! Your career is the most important thing and that's good", I even offered to put her in contact with someone to make some extra money so she could afford the travel and all that. A couple of days later she told me that she doesn't feel like it anymore and that is not going for it.

She says this thing of "I don't know why I feel this need to be around you, to put order in your life, and I feel so safe and confident around you". She has always told me that of "I feel safe around you".

She says that she doesn't feel like this is gonna be serious, that she doesn't wants to put a lot of pressure on it, that being independent is her goal, but them would cook for me and come walking from her home just to bring me food or would go from her work to the market just to buy things for me.

I think it was on TRP that I read that of all women want just one thing: to feel safe around a man. That career, studies all that was just bullshit and they want just one thing: the Disney dream. It could be that?