"I really don't feel comfortable" - when I asked her out over text

FereallyRed · 2019-08-19T21:27:30+00:00

So you got her number but she denied you over text.

That's a common tactic.

She'll give the number in person just to get away from you, because it's much easier to say "no" over text.

She's not interested. Move on.

collegeboywooooo · 2019-08-19T21:51:15+00:00

i mean move on to more women obv but also go “same i need tempurpedic” or something funny, or “i totally get it im some dude on a train”(ie its a shit test) and it could move forward.

If it does, ask to hang out at something real non-threatening, maybe a party/get-together with friends, or a public setting. And if she does show up make sure you build comfort.

If she is uncomfortable now and still shows up that’s actually a good sign, she sees you sexually.

if it doesnt move forward: girls reject you, it doesn’t necessarily mean you did anything wrong.

Jabbermouth · 2019-08-19T23:02:07+00:00

Brad Pitt Test.

If Brad Pitt asked her out on a date would she have replied "I really dont feel comfortable"? No! She'd be jumping at the opportunity to go on a date with him. Because he's Brad Pitt.

She is just not interested. Move on and increase your SMV. Become Brad Pitt. Or better, find girls that already see you as their Brad Pitt.

L3onard3 · 2019-08-19T21:27:07+00:00

She considers meeting you to be too dangerous at this point. It’s better to be on this side of things then the other. Ask her to meet in public just for coffee or some shit and go from there.

Title	"I really don't feel comfortable" - when I asked her out over text
Author	howdoistopobsessing
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	August 19, 2019 8:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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