I'm talking about this type of stuff:

Me: hi, this minor thing happened in my life today

Her: what? how do you feel about it? tell me everything

Me: nono it's no big deal, just something really small and unimportant, thought id share

Her: no its not. are you hiding something? why aren't you more open towards me? i want to help you, but i cant if you always hide everything

And from there it turns into a huge pointless fight. The "minor thing" can be something like "i met an old friend" or "i forgot to do something" or just some funny story.

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Another example:

Her: what do you think about xyz?

Me: I think this about xyz

Her: why? how could you think that? whats wrong with you?

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How do you deal with this constant need of creating drama out of nowhere?

Is it some kind of shit test? Is it just their hormones? Or the way they communicate? This has happened with each single LTR/plate so far. It's like they find a way to create drama no matter what you say.

Just dumping them isn't an option, since the same thing will likely happen with the next girl. Having a mature discussion seems impossible most of the times.

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I thought about just stopping any form of communication for an hour or a day to prevent this whole drama bullshit from unfolding, but is that really the only way to deal with it?