Okay so I'm in holiday right now. Been gaming women every night.

Fear of rejection? Gone. Approached at least 30 girls in two nights.

But it's like all the shit I've read here for 2 years has not been internalised.

I stopped giving a fuck about anything and I just act how I feel like.

If I genuinely want to compliment a girl, I just do it. Got no problems with saying "You are cute" while maintaining strong eye contact and smirking.

But I do it out of genuine interest and do not come off as needy.

But yeah while it's not bad, it seems like doing this makes her chase you less, that's why you should probably avoid it if she's not chasing you yet.

But of the many shit I've read the thing I like doing the most is being direct and not hiding my interest. But I'm way too direct and escalate way too fast before any comfort has been created.

Some will say it's great but so far most girls just told me "I'm going back to my friends".

I'm sure I would have managed to get them back if I re-approached them with 0 neediness smiling after like 15 minutes. But sometimes it's hard to find them back especially in overcrowded clubs and bars.

I actually managed once last night. Was talking to this girl and after chatting for a while I ask her number and tell her "Leave me your number" and she seemed unsure so I just told her "I mean it's up to you, don't worry" and walked away.

After 30 mins I saw her with her group of friends and she was waving and smiling to me. I guess that's what holding frame and outcome independence means.

That shows you don't need her and that you are not upset by her reaction to you.

But yeah, it's like everything I've read, is gone. I reached the point where I can't read another post regarding seduction. Feels so redundant after a while.

I just act on instincts. Direct game. Both during the day and during the night.

Point is, while it got me initial good results, after a while I always say something that makes her go away or escalate too fast.

I just hate indirect game. Feels so fake.

In the past I used to act aloof but I realised that aloofness was because of my fear of rejection and I was just staying on the sidelines acting alpha and escalating none.

While it made women attracted to me, I wasn't escalating so yeah nothing used to happen at all.

But now that I don't fear rejection that aloofness is gone.

What advice do you have to give me about all this? Thank you.