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| 8 | [45-F] tattoed and one thousand party nights warrior female is looking for his Viking warrior to build their own Valhalla if you don't have a conversation swipe leftThe problem with your strategy is that one guy doesn't become a jacked millionaire in 2 days. It takes time. I replied to another dude on this thread saying that unless you are some celebrity, any kind of social media/dating app is a waste of time and energy. That's because of, again, economics. Women only want the top % of the men. We can hate all we want, that's the Briffault Law and hypergamy in practice. Unless you are a celebrity, or own a business & have money, or are exceptional in your f… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 6 | [45-F] tattoed and one thousand party nights warrior female is looking for his Viking warrior to build their own Valhalla if you don't have a conversation swipe leftThat is the first instinct, sure, but as time goes on it encourages men to just drop out of the game altogether. That's me, indeed. I lift and am working on my life 24/7 and I removed Instagram and every social media 2 years ago. I just decided it was not worth it. I could showcase my physique, but the truth is, even at that point a physique is pretty much nothing in today's age. Open Instagram and you get your feed spammed with guys on steroids and guys with more followers than you. I decided I… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 7 | [45-F] tattoed and one thousand party nights warrior female is looking for his Viking warrior to build their own Valhalla if you don't have a conversation swipe leftCan someone tell me what's the % on Tinder of such "women"? I don't use it so I don't know. I'm also from EU and wonder if it's any different LOL | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | A rewarding fortune cookieAh, yeah, the dating app's policy is another problem. That's why I don't use them. They give you the illusion of power, of control. None of that shit is true if you are a man. That only works for women. In regards to betas, while they are more in volume, they are way weaker than alphas (or whatever you wanna call them, fighters, people who do shit with their life, people with character, right-wing etc.). The reason is that most betas millennials live in a fake reality (videogames, porn, and so o… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | A rewarding fortune cookieIt's not that boys are being raised with a certain mentality, it's that boys/men had to fight and conquer thousands of years ago. Now, today's boys act like fucking girls, fishing for attention like a Barbie girl. In my opinion, the real boys in today's society are those who lift, fight and start businesses. If a man doesn't fall in one of these three, he's not a man in my vocabulary. A boy who consumes Netflix 4 hours a day is not a boy, he is a complete loser. Men are supposed to build and thr… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 5 | A rewarding fortune cookieSociety is fucked, there's no doubt. It's sad to accept it as a fact, but until we move in masse and start a revolution, things won't change. The whole pay for nudes thing is mainly fueled by businesses trying to exploit this social structure and by taking advantage of the epidemic. That's a smart move if you ask me, but it certainly makes me resentful. I don't know how some people here still believe in marriage or about making children. I'm in my 20s and I don't know what's the average age on h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 02:11 PM |
| 13 | A rewarding fortune cookieThe point is, if we see the situation as it is, it's quite clear that if women are acting like this, it is because a certain % of men are tolerating this behavior and are complying with it. I always try to imagine who are the retards who would pay for nudes every month, like what the fuck bro? Is this the point we reached in society? It's fucking lame. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | 2 kids, no job, wants to see the worldA fleshlight gives you no headache. I'd rather go on a dry streak than bang these ugly self-entitled girls anyways. I don't use Tinder but seems like this kind of girls are popping out every 2 seconds and it's funny how they all have that "ME" attitude as if they have accomplished something extraordinary in their life (99% of them didn't). I think more men should have bios that say "If you are self-entitled and have no objective accomplishments, GTFO." as the first line. It should do the trick. … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Virtue Signaling Single Mother ScourgeThe truth is these websites are created by "red pilled" men, surely not by brainwashed betas. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Virtue Signaling Single Mother ScourgeJeez, I can't believe such businesses still exist. Do they really make profits? There are thousands of them what the heck. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/21 10:34 AM |
| 9 | The last coke in the dessertTranslation: she's not looking for an alpha because she's been pump and dumbed who knows how many times. She's looking for a beta buck to support her for the rest of her life. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | "WHERES MY HUSBAND?"Yeah, I understand it's just plain psychology. Since she has no inherent value, all she can do is use some psych techniques to boost her apparent value. I wonder who are the retards who fall for that. That could work on a man because dominance and irrational (or rational) self-confidence are attractive qualities, but in a woman, they destroy her femininity and submissiveness, and when coupled with 25% body fat and nothing to back that up with, it makes her ridiculous. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | "WHERES MY HUSBAND?""Don't waste my time". Whenever I read that line by any hoe I don't know whether to laugh or get angry. As if her time was any valuable LMFAO. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/21 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Here’s my tits. Who’s gonna subsidize my terrible life choices?Lol. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/21 07:44 AM |
| 23 | This will me more common in futureNever forget women are inherently stupid. They are children in every sense. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Do Yourself a Favor in 2021Great post. We should always strive to improve every area of our life without sacrificing any. That's not easy, but if was easy everyone would be high value, which is not the case of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why You're Only Making the Matter WorseVery well said. These are the replies I want to see. People here can't even make an argument like yours and attack the poster when they don't know what to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Why You're Only Making the Matter WorseEventually, new businesses will enter the market and oversaturate the sector. That's for sure. Honestly, that industry is already quite saturated. But I believe the value of that one website is on the "brand"/name (if we want to call it a brand). Their website is fairly simple and every third world developer could somewhat replicate it. It's the name that made it popular. I can't open a single social media page without seeing that fuckin name, jesus. The only way for it to end is when those hoes… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Bitches everywhere is not an excuse to be a bitchI agree. This sub is becoming the new black pill. What a pity. I have to resort to the old posts to refresh my mind cause most posts here are from guys in the anger phase who instead of changing what they can change they prefer giving free advertising to these porn websites. They'd be better off buying a marketing book and realize that talking about that stuff only serves to promote those websites. But they won't do that cause they are deep into the anger phase and only care about being loved by… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 0 | How do you even watch movies without feeling like shit?Nah it's okay. You can watch Rapunzel all day bro, no hassle. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you even watch movies without feeling like shit?Perhaps it's because I'm in a difficult life situation and watching movies won't help me achieve my goals, nor will it open my mind and help me figure out a solution to my problems. Because the solution is INSIDE me, not outside and I realized this recently. If your life is okay and you are okay with it, you obviously won't agree with my point of view. I think this post only works for people whose life sucks and they are aware of it. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | How do you even watch movies without feeling like shit?Don't visit this shitty subreddit (I recommend not visiting Reddit at all due to all the shitty triggers they add daily). This sub has become cancer and I say it honestly. I knew it already since the main sub got quarantined but I didn't know it got this worse. I don't watch movies, don't fap, don't watch porn and it's abstaining from these things that helps me get in touch with my inner self. Everything else is a form of escapism and some people here won't agree with that, but who gives a shit.… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | How do you even watch movies without feeling like shit?Indeed, I read a lot. I don't watch movies at all but had the urge last night but then I remembered that watching a movie is a form of escapism despite it being a short period of time. Yes, I don't like to watch movies that are not "red pill". If you don't like the term, I don't like to watch movies that have nothing to do with how the world really is. Jesus, where's the problem? I'm insecure? For trying to make a discussion on the value of movies? I used to make posts like this 2 years ago and … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 07:44 AM |
| -4 | How do you even watch movies without feeling like shit?Well, you surely know how to invest your time. By browsing on Incel subreddits lmao. Gosh, I thought this sub was still sane but I think it has become fucked up completely. Ever heard that everything you read or watch isn't completely internalized by your brain the first time you watch it? Thus, watching movies over and over can give you different insights. Now, what do you have to say besides some childish insult? I think I'm in fact wasting my time trying to add value to this now gone communit… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 09:47 PM |
| -4 | How do you even watch movies without feeling like shit?Thanks for adding value mate | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 2 | What, some of you clowns are actually MAD about OnlyFans?The truth is, the more you talk about "OnlyFans", the more the voice spreads, the more women will realize they can make money off it. This is a simple feedback loop. The reason OnlyFans keeps spreading is because of retards who make posts on Reddit about it. Reddit has millions of users. It's free advertising for these companies. For each post on Reddit saying "how bad onlyfans is", there's a certain percentage of users who will see that post and will start simping. You are basically feeding the… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Moving to the USA and getting student-debt?I did some research and jesus, the amount of universities in the US is astounding. I'm gonna have a hard time deciding where to go. Do you have any advice in that regard? Should I look at university rankings? Also, does the high acceptance rate necessarily implies low university quality? Thanks in advance. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Moving to the USA and getting student-debt?I agree with everything you said. The media really does a bad job in regards to America. Since I was born I was told "the Americans are mad", "the Americans have mental problems", "Americans inventors are stupid". And yet, 99% of the people who say this bullshit use products and services invented by guess whom? Americans. Again, my country is 70-80th in the index of economic freedom not just because. I got brainwashed since I was born. People here are lazy, blame entrepreneurs for their problems… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.I live in a shitty country in Europe and unfortunately we don't have the whole campuses thing in uni. I'm considering moving abroad (still in EU) in some country where I can start a new life. It's really depressing here. I'd move to the USA but college is a financial suicide there and I can't afford that lol My game is definitely rusty. I haven't approached any girl in the past year. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.Good question. I think I need to end my dry spell first. But paradoxically if I had my own place and I was far away from my parents that would be way easier to get laid. I'd feel more free to do whatever the fuck I want. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.Elaborate more? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.I see your point. My point is that I'm going mad mentally. I'm not even joking. I feel like shit and I'm experiencing a loss of identity because I realized my parents have been making decisions for me since I was born and now I have no clue who the fuck I am and what I want to do. I feel like I'm making women my priority again and that's because I've been in monk mode for too long and now I'm paying for it. I know it's smarter to stay in university and get that piece of paper. I know. But again,… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.I don't study CS because of women. I study it so I can start my own business one day. Having money does not equal being a beta bux. There are plenty of rich alphas out there. Money is personal freedom, not only a means to attract women. You can attract women with your money, and then give them nothing but your dick. If they want to leave, it's their choice. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.I programmed at 10 but then started learning other skills. I made money through these other skills. I got back programming a year ago, so clearly I'm not an expert programmer. When you people talk about college like that I always feel like you're referring to YOUR American Colleges (or campuses). Here in my country there's no such thing as "the college experience" and all that fun stuff where you have clubs or shit like that. Here you go to university to study, not to have fun and climb the ladd… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.Just fuck an escort and go back to the grind That's why I need a job. I don't have any source of income at the moment. I have little savings and the options are to either "waste" a good 50% of them in an escort or save them so I can move out with a decent amount of money. But I know I need to look for solutions, so that's what I'll do now. Your parents are paying for your education and you’re bitching about it. Do you understand how ungrateful that sounds? Just bc you read a few clickbait arti… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Neglected sex for too long, going mad.Definitely the former. The thing that's making the whole decision-making process harder is the sunk cost of being in university. It's a huge trade-off...become independent but have a "harder" life, or keeping to be a controlless puppet with some mental disorder but have a degree to show in 3 years. I once read "health is your number one priority" and I start thinking I need to sacrifice other aspects of my life for my mental health. It sucks but in life there are always trade-offs. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upThat wasn't my point. Get money from them by all means, just don't cry about it either way. Or is listening to your mother berate you a condition of receiving your money? I'm just tired of being dependent on my parents. I feel like a 5 years old kid. I feel like the Pavlovian dog when I'm given money. They know that I grew up dependent on them. That's a job for psychologists, not books. Don't you have like free healthcare and shit? Honestly...you know what. I always neglected the value of psyc… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upTruly appreciated. Thanks, I'll check them out. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upI mean, you could always turn down their help and not have to deal with them. We know you won't because free money is pretty nice, but you could. That's what I'm doing. I stopped asking them anything. Even though I'm running out of money but yeah. Why the hell are you asking for book suggestions when your stated goal is to find a job? Sounds like you're just procrastinating. I believe I'm looking to fix my mindset. I have some crippling negativity in me and many people made me realize that I mak… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upJust watched a few videos by Jordan Peterson. Thanks for recommending him. I always thought he promoted some overrated content but I actually find his advice useful. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upI got into monk mode because I set some big goals for myself. I wanted to learn as much as I could about entrepreneurship so I tried all different things which gave me lots of experience and I've learned from many mistakes I've done (one of which was quitting too soon before I saw results). I didn't even care about women at that point, honestly. I've learned about copywriting, marketing, funnels, sales, and all different stuff. But, that came at the cost of not socializing and living like a monk… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upThis makes more sense now. I agree, now that I'm aware of my situation, only I can change it. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Prolonged monk-mode & narcissistic parents have fucked me upWhile I agree it's my responsability to change my life now, I think it's pure bullshit about believing it was my fault I was treated like shit. Abuse is abuse. And I'm not trying to be a victim, cause that's just a fact. Now I'm trying to do all I can to change my situation, but that doesn't mean my parents weren't abusive. You are saying it was my fault I trusted my parents and that I got told I was worthless and got constantly verbally and emotional abused since I was a kid? Honestly dude, tha… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.It's clear you don't understand. And it's understandable, you can't understand that by reading a post. You need to experience it. Don't assume things. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.Thanks a lot for bringing perspective. I agree. I need to wake up and stop blaming others and never give up on my life and goals. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.Thanks for the recommendation. I'll check that out! I think it's just the fact that I'm feeling overwhelmed by the whole situation and I hope it will pass with time. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.The machiavellian path sounds interesting. I'll definitely try that, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.Thanks, this helped. I agree...once you are aware of all the mind fuckery, it's "easier". Even though I still feel like I'm in jail and dependent on them. I'll also try the "extreme ownership" path even though it's not easy in these situations, especially because you can't own the fact you've been abused. It wasn't under your control. But I'll still make sure to own my life from now on, even because I don't think there's any other way. It's a sort of lonely path. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.I live in Europe and we don't have the whole dorm thing. Hence, I will still live with my parents or be forced to move into an apartment. But knowing how it went a year ago, not much will change. I will be stalked and my parents will force their decisions on me. I hope you understand I held frame for years now. It's not something you can do for ever, especially with mentally ill people. But I agree with the fact that a degree will help me. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Found out both of my parents are narcissists. I feel trapped.I spent the last 4 days researching everything about narcissists and I looked back in life and in 95% of the cases they resembled narcissistic behavior. It's not a wonder I ended up being a narcissist myself taking selfies and walking around the streets without a t-shirt on because I was in need of female validation during my trp awakening (I don't do that anymore). My dad financing my university doesn't mean anything imho. It's a covert form of manipulation and he keeps trying to control me by … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 6 | What I Learnt From Staying Away From Reddit (and TRP) For 1 YearI should have mentioned that. However, I had little time and the post would have become too long. It's clear that you should aim at wealth from a producer mindset and not consumer one. You won't get rich by consuming and spending more than you earn, that's basic sense. Also, I see what you mean. Happiness is mostly intrinsic, however, if you had enough money to line up 30 bitches wouldn't you be "more happy" than if you couldn't? Money is power, nobody can deny this. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 03:38 PM |
| 7 | What I Learnt From Staying Away From Reddit (and TRP) For 1 Year10x rule is mostly for your mindset. Dot Com Secrets is really marketing focused (sales funnels). I recommend studying The Millionaire Fastlane for good. Read it not once but at least 3-4 times. It's just like the Red Pill, you must internalize its concepts. After that, take action. Any action. Fail fast, fail often. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 06:42 AM |
| 28 | What I Learnt From Staying Away From Reddit (and TRP) For 1 YearI went from chasing women, to chasing money and ultimately to chasing value. Money is simple value-exchange. If you want to make money, start creating value. If you chase money, you'll look for shortcuts. That's why many people try dropshipping and BS like that. Create value, create something that people actually need and desire, and you'll get paid for it. This is easier said than done, but this is the most important thing I've learned about money in the last year. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What The Red Pill Can Teach Us About CoronavirusFinally a post on a serious topic. This sub became seddit 2 in the last year. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 16 | How To Be AggressiveTo be assertive you must first have the aggressivity inside yourself. Assertiveness seems simple but it requires balls. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 7 | How To Be AggressiveGo your own way and say fuck you (metaphorically) to everyone who tries to stop you. Nobody gives a shit about you. You are the only one who (should) truly give a shit about your life. Don't let anyone tell you what you should think. What you should do. Be commanded by your reason and not by the external forces that hit this world. And trust me, you are going to fight a lot before realizing most people don't want to see you succeed. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Here's Why Many PUA's End Up MiserableLol. I was in a PUA forum in my country a few years ago and was in a group of 10+ experienced pick-up-artists. I met them IRL a few times. After some time I realized 99% of these men had nothing going on in their lives. Most of them had shitty jobs and were spending every night goind out approaching girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 16 | Here's Why Many PUA's End Up MiserableOf course. But do you look at the top or at the bottom? That's the real question. The RP man is one who has developed abundance in all the facets of his life, not only with women. I'm not sure the RSD guys are living better than Dan Bilzerian. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Get off tinder. masculineroute.com/why-tinder-sucks/ | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have notes of roosh's book game?That's the human brain. We like what's easy. Hate what's hard. Reading is action faking. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone here have notes of roosh's book game?Then take a step further and go out applying what you just read. Only the 1% does this, though. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Girl I just started talking To Snapchats me a pic with another dude. I’ve gone ghost, what should I do?I don't know. Maybe be a man and have some other shit to do in your life? Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Do girls care if you do roids? Or they just care about the end result?You guys overthinking this shit all with the end goal to get laid. This is pathetic. Do whatever the fuck you want and just hold frame. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?Brad Pitt in Fight Club has DYEL status with clothes on...let's be real. Looks more like a fighter than a bodybuilder. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Monk ModeI'm a strong believer of strengthen your frame first, and only then think about women. Yes, approaching is part of the frame-strengthening process, BUT. It's only one small piece of the puzzle. Women want the final piece, not the WIP. I haven't been browsing TRP for a while, but from what I remember reading in the past years, the most memorable quote is "Men are made, women are born". What does it mean? It means you must become somebody, before thinking about attracting women. Gaming women as a … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Monk ModeIf the goal here is getting better, going after women WILL jeopardize his overall success. Believe it or not. It all depends on what OP's success metrics are. If his goals say he must get $5MM before a certain age (say before 30), he's gotta grind hard for that. I don't want to sound like a social retard, but this is what it is. 99% of the billionaires out there became billionaires because they were grinding every single second. They surely were not out here asking "Why did htis girl flaked?". T… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Ever post photos with your best plates on social media?Nope, because I don't have social media. And life is 100x better, trust me. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Good careers without a degreeIn this world you can only make money by providing value. It's up to you on which value to provide. And no, you don't need university to provide it. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 17 | 18 y/o virginIf you are a virgin, get a hooker. You will not regret it. I'd rather lose my virginity through a hot hooker than a girl who is a 3/10. And that's what I did. If you fuck low SMV women, you'll feel beneath hot women. Your subconscious is clever than your conscious mind. Fuck anyone who says "The first time should be done with a girl you love". That's another blue-pill fantasy. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 05:33 PM |
| 20 | 18 y/o virginGoing out 4-7 nights a week? How is he supposed to focus on the other facets of his life? It'll fuck up his sleep for sure. At least, it does for me. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 05:32 PM |
| 7 | Day 8665, still haven't cold approached a single girl.Very well said. Being able to correctly set our expectations and goals is 99% of the game. It's like the guy who enters the gym and expects to deadlift 300lbs the first day. This is not how it works. Small, apparently irrelevant steps are necessary to get to the big goal. I really liked your example about going to the bar and just sit there, and still congratulate yourself for going, instead of telling yourself how retarded you are for not having approached anybody (this is me recently). This ac… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Day 8665, still haven't cold approached a single girl.Here's a comment I saved a year ago from asktrp. I don't remember whose comment this is, if you know, let me know and I'll give credits: Whenever I'm stuck on an approach I always ask myself these three questions that I remember seeing on TED. What if I succeed? What are all of the possibilities that could happen between you and this girl? This is what gets you motivated to approach. What if I fail? Think realistically on this one. What's the worst possible thing that this girl would do to you i… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Can't attract girls my ageIncrease your SMV to the highest level possible and enjoy the benefits later in life. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Day 8665, still haven't cold approached a single girl.You recommend a lot indirect approaches. What about direct ones? "Hey, what's your name?" "You look interesting?". | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Keeping girls without staying "on" all the timeFrame, my man, frame. How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?I said at least 2 years, indeed. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:59 PM |
| 7 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?It depends on his height. I can't tell how tall he is. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 09:36 AM |
| 3 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?Guess I'm late, but as chaseball said, it feels unique. When you are buff, you know it. You see it from people's reactions to you. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 08:45 AM |
| 4 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?Wrong mindset. You never think in terms of "how long", because lifting should be as normal as pissing in the morning. Anyways, I'd say he's been lifting for at least 2 years. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 08:43 AM |
| 2 | How many TRP veterans who still hesitate sometimes when approaching?I agree with you. But if our mindset is wrong, we just won't act. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How many TRP veterans who still hesitate sometimes when approaching?Thank you very much. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How many TRP veterans who still hesitate sometimes when approaching?Interesting link. Do you have any related book/post to suggest that elaborates deeper this theory? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How many TRP veterans who still hesitate sometimes when approaching?I guess this is it, really. Does meditation help in this regard in your opinion? My mind is flooded right now. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | "Good girls" who claim to be in love with a beta maleIt's submissiveness 101. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 08:43 PM |
| 3 | What causes women to submit?I don't know how you got a +1 in this sub, did they give it to you out of pity? Anyways, you should know that intimidation is not about height but frame. I know guys who are 5'7 and can intimidate you. Why? Because they train MMA. And I also know (LOTS of) guys probably as tall as 6'5 who are complete betas with no balls. Also, buff short guy > tall toothpick Muscle > height Go out in the real world and maybe you'll open your eyes. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 06:51 PM |
| 5 | What causes women to submit?Lol. The sad cunts are the ones who lift with the only goal of attracting women. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Club and a trip to the hood [Field Report]Yeah I didn't say he doesn't look good lol just noted what I noticed. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:14 AM |
| 11 | What causes women to submit?I'm nowhere a strongman powerlifter but I got that look of buff with some body fat. Like I'm 180lbs at 5'9 right now and I've got broad shoulders in terms of bones. I may not be aesthetic but I intimidate most women. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:11 AM |
| 10 | What causes women to submit?Don't forget shrugs and neck curls. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:09 AM |
| 36 | How do I develop a tough personality?Go in search for the pain. Toughness is earned, not faked. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Club and a trip to the hood [Field Report]Yeah no way he is 8%. He also looks like he has an anterior pelvic tilt from the pic. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone reached a point in terms of muscle mass where gay men stare at you?Looks like you've got some experience. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Questions about high school girls with high n-counts and being oblivious to themMy bad. I'm not native English and I haven't read the entire post neither. I simply assumed he was in HS considering the question. Either way, what I meant for caring is going through the process of realising how women truly are. You can't skip these steps. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have tips for cutting?Cut when you have actual muscle to show. This is my only tip for you. Too many kids who cut and reach 140lbs just for the sake of having abs. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 10:21 PM |
| 13 | Questions about high school girls with high n-counts and being oblivious to themTelling a high school kid not to care about this stuff is unreal. He's got to care in the begining before truly start not to care. The Red Pill awakening takes time. To rewire your subconscious takes also effort. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 10:19 PM |
| 21 | How many here put money before women?I don't know why but I've been browsing trp for like 2 years and money have always been under the radar. Yes, people here mention the importance of money, but they do not focus on them. They don't know the power money gives you. They say "yes money matter" without deeply understanding how real that is. They keep focusing on just one thing: women. (Again, I was like that too. You can realize that by reading my old posts. But I guess something changed in my mind?) They believe that money make you … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | You think your average college girl/hot young girl with no direction would take money for sex?I'm sure OP wants to do this. If he's thinking about it, he wants to do it. Just common ego denial. I don't see nothing wrong from his question (He's just afraid of accepting he would do that). That's actually an interesting one I've never seen here in years. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | You think your average college girl/hot young girl with no direction would take money for sex?Can you please elaborate on your last paragraph? That's quite interesting. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a video posted on here a few months ago about an example of real "alpha male"famous Burt Reynolds interview Fuck YES! Thanks a lot. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are women attracted to men's nipples?Yeah but it's weird evolutionary speaking. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What to respond when the girl asks if you want her just for sex?I don't know about the downvotes. Probably some kids who just got here. I basically copied and pasted that comment from an old post and it was from an endorsed guy. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are european girls more feminine than American girls?There are no feminine or masculine girls. There are girls who adapt to the SMV of the man they are talking to. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 01:00 PM |
| -2 | What to respond when the girl asks if you want her just for sex?Be afraid when I will not even want you for sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How to Climb the Ladder in an European University?Yeah even though status is basically everything to get laid in university. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 01:03 PM |
| 0 | How to game 35 year old when I’m 19Stop with this bullshit. I know a friend who's poor and yet fucked a married woman. It's all about frame. Keep your limiting shit for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How to game 35 year old when I’m 19Lol limiting beliefs won't get you anywhere, that's for sure. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 05:33 PM |
| 16 | How to game 35 year old when I’m 19Face and frame > height | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 03:57 PM |
| 3 | I have found abundance but now I have no motivation to get girls.Yeah OP is claiming to have experienced abundance just because he has seen (not fucked) lots of women. Sounds like a nice rationalization. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Texting women in early interactions. Yes or no?Fair enough. Thank you very much. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 02:36 PM |
| -1 | Texting women in early interactions. Yes or no?Thanks for your contribute. At least you could add some value by elaborating on where my mindset is wrong. But no, you preferred wasting your time with a pathetic and unoriginal comment to get some internet points. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 01:28 PM |
| -4 | Texting women in early interactions. Yes or no?To be honest, her bf looks like a complete beta. I'm twice his weight and I'm sure he would get scared and just let things happen. She's the usual "nice/shy" looking girl who has a low-value boyfriend, just because she never fucked an alpha guy yet. It's up to me on making her cheat, clearly. Would you go with plausible deniability "let's study together" or proposing a date straight ahead? Also, what about texting? I feel like texting screams beta, even though I already approached her IRL. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 11:50 AM |
| -2 | Texting women in early interactions. Yes or no?This is the kind of advice I'd read on the relationship advice subreddit. The usual politically correct advice with 0 value in it. Wait until you catch one-itis for a girl and some other guy snatches her up behind your back. Yeah, it happened in the past. And so what? As I said, it's called reality. Go approach single girls I don't approach girls who are single. I approach girls I like. Fuck that mentality. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 10:33 AM |
| -7 | Texting women in early interactions. Yes or no?It's not drama. It's called reality. It's going to happen, whether she'll cheat with me or with another guy. It's not yours, it's just your turn. I don't care about her bf. If he's high value and gives her tingles, she will not cheat on him and she'll reject me. No big deal. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 09:57 AM |
| 2 | I'm lostBruh you should be confident as fuck considering your physique. Own it. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to be a top 20%-5% man with low income?There are plenty of poor criminals fucking women. No, you don't need money to fuck women. You need a rock-solid frame and a dangerous attitude. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | What are the best RP resources on money and career?That dude has correct teachings even though I hate his "guru-ish" attitude. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | What are the best RP resources on money and career?You are not going to get rich by simply investing in the stock market unless you have a high cashflow already. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Why girls flakes so much nowadays ?"If every man on earth stopped using IG" Okay, that's true. How likely is it to happen, though? Here's the problem. You guys try to change what you can't change. I was like that too, contemplating why women were like that, why women did that, and all that shit. Stop trying to focus on the problems. Focus on the solution. What's the solution? I thought about burning all the Facebook/Instagram servers several times. But is that a possibility? Unless more than 50% of the population wants to do the … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 07:35 PM |
| 40 | Why girls flakes so much nowadays ?99% of your problems with women stem from your weak Frame and lack of personal purpose. Why do you care so much about girls being flakey? Are they the focus of your life? Don't you have anything else to think about? Look, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but you must understand it is what it is. Wondering why women are flakey will not make them less flakey. The only practical advice I can give you is, be so high SMV that no woman can ever flake on you. How to be a high SMV male? First off,… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Jacked natural guys, how often do you lift?I do HIIT once a week but that doesn't matter. The high training volume is what makes me burn calories. I stay like 2 hours in the gym each one of the 4 days. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | This past using Tinder I’ve gotten lots of numbers and planned lots of dates, but I’ve gotten the variations of “I’d like to get to know you better before we go out”. How to handle this suit test?On Tinder there's very little you can do when they play such games. They are just looking for validation, like most women that use that app. In real life at least you know if she's truly interested or not. Behind a screen you can't read her body language. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 06:59 PM |
| 8 | This past using Tinder I’ve gotten lots of numbers and planned lots of dates, but I’ve gotten the variations of “I’d like to get to know you better before we go out”. How to handle this suit test?Anyone who uses Tinder and spends time on it is just entering women's frame. Of course, if your SMV is so high that you spend no more than 5 minutes a day on it and still get a good ROI, that's a different story. I'm just saying that (most) guys are falling into a big trap. Just the fact that OP comes here asking questions about why girls play games with him, it means his frame is weak. A guy with a strong frame wouldn't give a fuck. A guy with a strong frame knows bitches who say that BS are ju… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 11 | This past using Tinder I’ve gotten lots of numbers and planned lots of dates, but I’ve gotten the variations of “I’d like to get to know you better before we go out”. How to handle this suit test?Guys still don't get that using Tinder means entering any girl's frame from the very beginning. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Jacked natural guys, how often do you lift?nSuns 4 days a week. 174lbs at 5'9". 3500 calories a day to gain 0.5lbs a week. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 03:18 PM |
| 7 | What's TRP's idea of "jacked"Dom Mazzetti was a great philosopher. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 11 | SMV is highest it’s ever been yet still struggling to pull girls that I want to pull?You have the same problem I had, and sometimes, still do have. I was lifting, getting compliments and shit, but I wasn't getting laid. Why? Because I had a weak frame. I was subconsciously doing all that self improvement to get laid, and women could sense my neediness, even if subtle. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | anyone here a player and is rich financially?You frame your life. Everything is relative, nothing is absolute. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 05:07 PM |
| 3 | anyone here a player and is rich financially?And it's funny how this kind of man you can only find in movies. Just think how rare it is to be both rich, jacked and good with women. The man who manages to master all 3 the facets is the one with the highest SMV. I guess that's the man most of us are striving to be here. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Never DEER, indeed. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Jocks aside that sounds a real possibility in the long run lmao | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Rejected from Uni: Parents affecting my choicesKeep approaching though, that experience will serve u will when u go somewhere else. Thanks for reminding me. Even though women are the last thing on my mind right now, this is a solid point. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Rejected from Uni: Parents affecting my choicesThanks for the advice. Take a gap year and just work, save money. Do you mean to work in my current city? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?It's a matter of inner strength. Those people chose their destiny. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 07:00 AM |
| 26 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Where to start? Follow these steps and just do it. Install K9 Web Protection on your PC Grey scale on mobile phone to begin with Go to NoFap subreddit What do you want more? To be able to fuck real women or to become a zombie (and, no, this is not in the metaphoric sense) like 95% of the people? I hope it's the former. Understand who you want to be in 10 years man. Society is really becoming a herd of zombies. This is no fucking joke. With each day that passes I want to leave my house less and l… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?What do you think will happen in 10-20 years? How are the people who are aware of the Red Pill going to benefit from it? Will we be the only ones to fuck women? And with an increase in porn watching from men, does this mean only a small percentage of men will be physically able to fuck women? (considering their fucked up brain). Plus that, how is porn affecting women's brains in your opinion? Will extreme sex be more and more common in a few years? These are the real questions, in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:59 PM |
| 21 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Download all the RP shit until you can. Who knows what might happen. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Enjoy the decline. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys do in your free time ?I sold my gaming laptop and my consoles I don't think there's a real return on that. My Xbox 360 produced in 2008 is now worth 10$ on eBay. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Monk Mode: While they stay stagnant, you are overtaking themYeah of course, my post was more a sort of motivation for guys here than anything. It's true that it's not as easy as it seems. Personally, I've seen women and people giving me much more attention after these 3 months of summer. I've been lifting like mad and here are the results. Of course attention doesn't mean much. But it's still something. People give attention to what's valuable. If they are wasting their time and attention on you, you are doing something right. People don't stare at you j… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I know when to switch jobs?What you like is soon going to be what you hate...as soon as you start using that as your income-source. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:23 PM |
| 12 | Monk Mode: While they stay stagnant, you are overtaking themI usually don't waste time explaining myself, but let me tell you. I improved my social skills during high school. In the morning, at school, I was pushing my social fears. I destroyed my social anxiety in school, by talking to more people between classes and playing frame-battle with my teachers (yeah a risky move but it never brought me problems, only benefits, and a further understanding of how easy it is to hold frame even with people much older than you). In the afternoon and evening, that'… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do I miss the times when I was extremely depressed?Yeah, I know. Sexual emotions, in particular. But now, how do I get those strong emotions back? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 07:56 PM |
| 11 | MGTOW is the worst sub on redditYeah...real MGTOW's are not wasting time arguing about this shit. They understand women's nature and just keep going on their way. The people on that sub are simply still in the Anger Phase. They haven't internalized the RP yet. Wasting time posting memes shows how much they...care. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | I’m awkward at saying goodbye to people.. I know it sound a bit stupid but it’s just a little niche I want to improve at. I feel awkward exiting conversation sometimes I don’t know the proper way or I feel some sort of resistance?? Not sure where that comes fromThat's because you fear walking away first, I guess. You have to say goodbye and leave completely. Do not expect the other person to even reply to you before turning your back. Abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 02:05 PM |
| -1 | Can someone have a look at my Tinder profile and share a few critiques and pointers?I still don't get why so many guys even try using tinder (edit: actually, I get it: scarcity mindset and a desire for easiness). That shit is just pro-feminism, thus, anti RP. Why would you even waste your time trying to gain something from that shit? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 5 | The hardest shit test of all time"persuade me", "tell me why I should (blah)", or "give me a reason to do that". Do you know what this implies? It means entering her frame. Fuck that. Never play her games. You make the fucking rules. If you comply with her shit-test, you just entered her reality. And she will never be able to be attracted to you after that. In that case, next. Instead of engaging her, simply ignore what she says. Do not try to reply with a funny line or shit like that. Ignoring and acting like you are walking a… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 01:52 PM |
| 4 | My mom acting slutty outside. AWALT is RealI experienced the same reaction when I insult my mom for whatever reason (when she keeps talking shit, for example). She acts upset for the first few minutes and after that she's all happy. Yeah that's the Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 07:37 AM |
| 60 | My mom acting slutty outside. AWALT is RealAbsolutely. Seeing them just as strangers is one of the best advice. All of a sudden, their opinion matters much less. All of a sudden, I give less fucks about their life. It's their life. They live theirs, I live mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/19 06:37 PM |
| 153 | My mom acting slutty outside. AWALT is RealYeah, I said fuckable. Not model like. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | My mother looks like a slut/AWALTThanks man | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | My mother looks like a slut/AWALTYou're right. Will do. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | My family is the first one to hinder my self-improvementYeah that's what I was thinking. If I manage to self improve under stress, imagine how would it be without constant shit testing from other people. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 07:39 AM |
| 5 | My family is the first one to hinder my self-improvementI do need that, absolutely. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 06:09 PM |
| 7 | My family is the first one to hinder my self-improvementI think she's just being insecure. Like any other woman. She tells me I eat too much (clean) food while she eats sweets every fucking day. Pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 10:01 AM |
| 3 | How to last longer & stay hard in bed?Absolutely. That's what I'm saying. I had the same experience. When I was just one month away from porn, I could stay hard, but without feeling anything. My penis was desensitized as fuck. I could thrust for a long time but not really enjoying it. Thought I was gifted, but then found out I had Delayed Ejaculation lol At least I did not have problems in terms of erection. But again, while I was 1 month away from porn, I've been fighting against it for 1 year so I was half-healed already. Now I … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women subconsciously desire men with antisocial traits? (Psychopathy)Yes. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 07:58 AM |
| 4 | How to last longer & stay hard in bed?That's bullshit advice. No offense. This is bro science. Porn actually makes it HARDER to cum because you set your arousal standards much higher with porn, thus, when you will be fucking a real girl, the arousal level will be much lower. Cumming fast has to do with just two things: over-excitement/anxiety and penis's excessive sensitivity. Death grip and extreme porn will make you unable to cum during real sex. But that also means you won't experience real sexual satisfaction. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Went out with my female co-worker and 5 of her female friends... EYE OPENING.Everytime you get surprised by women's sluttiness, open "My Secret Garden" and give it a read. I'm surprised they did not start a lesbian orgy right in front of you. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?Really great points man. It's very true that once you know yourself, know what you do, and why you do it, you stop being arrogant and faking all this shit. It becomes natural. No longer forced. It took me a while to realize women aren't shit. There's much more out there that can make you feel fulfilled. I finally found something that brings me that fulfillment. Also, failure does not exist. I see people on here still fearing failure. Not only with women, but in general. You need to detach yourse… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?Absolutely. It's like entering a new mode. You go from aimless to driven. And women fade out in the background. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?Everyone started somewhere. With your mentality of course you won't go further than 2 weeks. It's really funny how this sub started as a self improvement subreddit and now it's filled with cynical haters still in the anger phase. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:38 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?I appreciate your comment but yeah even here on a self improvement subreddit people try to bring you down. That's just funny | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?I realized loneliness can be cured by going outside and simply socializing with people. Not only women but people in general. Those feelings you have are completely normal. Loneliness is part of human's existence. We are all lonely one way or another. The only person who will always be by your side is you. People/women come and go. You are forever. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:40 PM |
| -6 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?You know, not everyone who does blogging does affiliate marketing, but that's okay. Yeah I definitely called myself an entrepreneur somewhere in the post. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Can any serious gym bros here help me with my cut diet?Yeah OP you're overthinking it so much. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?Yep, this is also an interesting way of structuring your life mission. But I would put women as the last goal. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:05 PM |
| -6 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?I started a business (blogging). All the stuff that you have to learn to make it succeed is just so fucking much. And I say it under a positive light. Studying copywriting, marketing and SEO makes it a mission. The idea to start from scratch, and to rank on Google makes it sound like it's "impossible", and that's why I consider it a real mission. It's different from a 9-5 because you actually have an ideal goal in mind to reach. 9-5 is just repeating the same shit every single day. 9-5 is a miss… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | I’ve reached my breaking point and now I’m truly committed to getting over anxiety. Open to suggestionsYeah you look great. How did you get those traps though | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I’ve reached my breaking point and now I’m truly committed to getting over anxiety. Open to suggestionsSo the picture you posted in the post was just...a good picture. Lightning really does wonder. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Why is it so fucking hard to find a girl that has actual hobbies? They all have the same interests: eating, drinking, shopping, and gossipingThey don't have hobbies...because women don't need hobbies. They are stupid, emotional and have no purpose in life besides that of finding a sexual partner with an high smv and make him commit. That's female nature. Read the Sexual Utopia and The Manipulated Man. Sidebar material. Once I truly understood their place in society, I stopped giving a fuck really. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | At what point are you considered a "buff" dude?Yeah OP has a lot of fat lol When I've read 176lbs I was about to say "You almost reached your genetic potential", but if he tried to cut and reach actual 10% bf he would weigh like 160-165lbs maximum. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | People say to follow your passion and do what you love. But what if what you love doing is having sex with women?Yeah seems exactly the mindset of a guy who has scarcity mindset. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 09:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm starting college in September, how can I maximise my success?Yeah guess I'm missing out by not living in America | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting college in September, how can I maximise my success?sign up to some society's Can you elaborate on this, please? Never heard of that stuff in my country. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting college in September, how can I maximise my success?I'm going to UNI too on September. What I'm doing right now is lifting like mad. PPL 6 days a week. Eating on a small surplus. I've recently been on a trip and made sure I faced all my fears related to women. Fear of approaching etc. I suggest you to do the same. Plan a day and go to a big foreign city in your country and aim to get rejected at least 30 times that day. You will need this so when you start UNI you have enough experience and approaching a chick will not give you an heart attack. I… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Reward or Punish Plate?Yeah like that's blatant disrespect and a man of value wouldn't even wait more than 5 mins. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:44 PM |
| 5 | "I have a boyfriend."This is overused. At least in my country, literally it's the only line guys know. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How did you discover trp?PUA forum. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Good hobbies to get involved inI'm 2 years older than you. Who do you want to be in 10 years? Spend all your time on finding the answer. That's the most important question you could ask yourself. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Good hobbies to get involved inIn my opinion, he should worry about cigars not before having sorted out his finances. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | 6 months of lifting no progress reallyFirst off. Coaches are shit most of the times. Look for AthleanX on YT and you are good to go. You can find anything there and it's not broscience bullshit. Second. Eat. And eat. You seriously need to eat more considering your height. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Are you truly the average of your closest friends?It's not only your friends. It's the people you are surrounded with. That can be work colleagues, family, etc. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 18 | I have a profound fear of intimacy with girlsHookers. After 4-5 encounters you won't have this problem anymore. Guaranteed. Also, yeah, fucking lift and check your testosterone. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 01:51 PM |
| 21 | How to learn from every approach?Hard question. I got back from a 12 days trip recently and done at least 80 approaches during day and night. Sometimes the mistakes you make are clear, others are not. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you. So do not obsess over it if you can't find the answer. You are the prize, you don't give a fuck if you get rejected 10, 100, 1000 times. Edit: Plus, if you are solo travelling, definitely go to Bar Crawls. During the "Drink all you can" Hour make sure you chat with all the guys there. Als… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Girls have no hobbies at all?Yeah it's even funny to call these activities "hobbies". Some people really call Netflix an hobby. Pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Found out my (potential) boyfriend is TRPYou don't want to know what all this is about. Trust me. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Being way too direct?Yeah possible too. How though? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Being way too direct?Thanks man this helps. Gonna re read this comment over and over. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Being way too direct?Yeah well if you tell them you want to have sex with them while they are not aroused, you are communicating to her conscious mind. So ASD and bitch shield comes up and of course she'll run away. Telling her she's cute and you want to meet her seems better to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 08:38 AM |
| 8 | 5 approaches last saturdayThen, what solution would you suggest to OP? Cold approaching is surely better than texting girls behind a fucking screen. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | What are the professions with the sluttiest women?Might be. But they are looking for someone with a stronger frame than them, or forget it. Or they might enjoy dominating someone weaker (look at femdom), which I find extremely pathetic. Everytime I see those BDSM "Mistresses" I just can't stop laughing. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Any recent movies/series with great and kinda not stupidly degenerated male lead?They scripted it like that to make it more politically correct and acceptable in today's society. If they didn't, you would hear feminazis screaming how mysoginist he is. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 08:58 AM |
| 7 | What are the professions with the sluttiest women?Basically any job where women submit and serve other people. That's submissive behaviour 101. In fact, you don't see MBA graduates chicks who are feminine. Because that's a masculine field where beating competition and having grit is a prerequisite to succeed. And again, that's testosterone driven behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 08:55 AM |
| 3 | What are the professions with the sluttiest women?That's because nurses (most of them) are feminine. They do that profession because they have the ingrained desire to help and serve people. They are in fact submissive. And that's a feminine behavioural characteristic. Submission and sluttiness go hand in hand. That's just my opinion. Edit: and yeah, I still have to meet a nurse that's masculine. I've never seen one so far. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?You just sound insecure as fuck man. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 08:44 AM |
| 2 | What is your personal opinion on eye contact?Of course, if you are a fatass with low smv, you'll be labeled as creep. If you lift and are good looking, none of that will happen. I promise you. Thought this was obvious. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What is your personal opinion on eye contact?I say that it's the most important variable in attraction. If you can look her directly in the eyes with no fear and, actually, showing that "I'm going to fuck you very hard" look, she will have no chance but to believe you are alpha. Primal attraction. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How do i decide on mission?If you are still playing videogames, stop. They are just hijacking your reward system and that might be a reason of why you don't enjoy shit besides that. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 04:20 PM |
| -1 | No sex after the third date???It's your responsibility to escalate. You don't talk, you do. Put her hand on your dick and tell her you would love to see her sucking it. If she refuses, start masturbating in front of her and tell her "You are making me so hard and excited". This will arouse her. I had a date exactly like yours and it ended with me getting back home frustrated. That wasn't because she wasn't attracted to me. That was due to my lack of understanding of female's sexuality. I was making out with her, but I wasn't… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | On Boat PartiesYeah guess dancing increases your chances in clubs. I just don't like dancing, that's why I prefer chill venues where you can chat. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | On Boat PartiesWhat's your game like, though? I usually go direct with "Hey, I want to meet you." Or "Hey, what's your name" and polarize from there. But never really worked on clubs. Sometimes it did, though. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | On Boat PartiesYou are right about me being negative on the outcome already. I should fix that mindset absolutely. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else desires to fuck Low SMV guys' hot girlfriends?Because I show neediness. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Trying to break up with girlfriend, insucure and oneitis.Yeah guys are too delusional nowadays. Plus, if she wants a virgin it means he still believes in the fairy tale. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with 'I'm fine', 'Its nothing' and 'okay'?When in doubt, ignore. Ignoring never hurts. Can only do good. Test it yourself. And as other have mentioned, your only concern should be fucking her good, that's it. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What if she has a boyfriend?Seems more like you are scared to talk in person. I never understood how some guys still enjoy texting to women. I find it both silly and a time waster. Just remember, 95% of the guys who text her are her orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 02:07 PM |
| 2 | How does RP apply to women outside of the western world?Yep. TRP is simply an average of theories that work in the world. Some may work in your country, others may not. No theory is absolute. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 07:57 AM |
| 63 | Who created our red pill?I believe SoSuave was one of the first forums. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else desires to fuck Low SMV guys' hot girlfriends?I believe my desire stems from my childhood. I've been rejected for so long in the beginning of this journey that I just would love to finally see I made it. I know it's amoral to cuck someone, but it will happen one day (of course only if the guy is low value), whether it will be me, or another guy, it will happen. And I know woman actually want this. They want to enter a higher value man's world. A world he built himself. "It's not yours, is just your turn" is one of the most famous rp quotes,… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:50 PM |
| 2 | LonelyWhy do such people have value to you? It all depends on what you value. I only go out to improve my game, because that's what I value the most. I don't really care about making friends in all honesty. Probably because I live in a city where you can hardly find a guy who lifts or has his shit together. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | LonelyInteresting comment. I'm the opposite of you regarding gaming. When I'm with someone/a wing I feel like my frame weakens. When I'm alone, I game women with the true IDGAF attitude. It's like I'm free to do whatever I want. I'm alone, with myself. And I am the best friend of myself. Nobody knows me better than me. The struggle is in leaving home. But once I'm outside, on the streets, It comes naturally to me to approach women. That's what people refer to for frame. Frame is when you know who the … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What's a good student job to get rid of social anxiety?Where do you live? Never heard of uni's gym. Guess I am in the wrong part of the world lol | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | LonelyWell. If the guys would be successful and not complete losers, yeah, why not. Otherwise yeah I don't mind going alone. I do everything alone nowadays. I believe you should reach that level of independence. Being completely ok with yourself and enjoying your time alone. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | LonelyYeah gonna be honest. If for friends you mean people with whom you share interests and go out regularly, then no. I currently have no friends with whom I go out. But that was my choice. I ditched most of them because they kept me back. Better to fly solo than to be restrained. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Body Fat Percentage Check+15% for sure. It sucks though cause you look quite lean on the rest of the body. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 3 | LonelyYou simply have a weak frame and don't know yourself enough. If you did, you would be your best friend and would not need anybody else in your life. You get used to it. It's normal in the beginning. When I became redpill aware and started ditching all my old friends I remained completely alone. Was hard in the beginning but I kept going and now I feel perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What if a girl you just approached sees you approaching another girl after a few seconds?But what if I'm trying to get over my fear of rejection? Should I just give up the thought of closing and just focus on getting rejected? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Getting rid of cuckold fetish and being more dominant in generalYou have been extremely conditioned by porn. While it's not a completely porn induced fetish, porn contributed on making it more relevant. STOP having those thoughts. STOP porn. START meditating. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Getting rid of cuckold fetish and being more dominant in generalI don't think it really has to do with T levels but rather with mental conditioning. That's what porn does to you. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | What if a girl you just approached sees you approaching another girl after a few seconds?That's exactly what I thought | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 07:02 AM |
| 2 | What if a girl you just approached sees you approaching another girl after a few seconds?Could you explain why? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | What if a girl you just approached sees you approaching another girl after a few seconds?Seems legit. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?than you think. That's the mistake I've been doing for long. Thinking the the competition is huge, and that there are plenty of alphas out there. Which is just not true. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:59 PM |
| 34 | Yourself or Pussy? More pussy won’t make you happier, so how do you make the most of your (precious) time?“Directly after copulation, the devil’s laughter is heard.” – Arthur Schopenhauer | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:27 PM |
| 6 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?It’d be funny if he was a 9/10 with a good career and good morals but he was just beta as shit That's possible. I don't know any alpha who has dinner dates with her "girlfriend" who gets fucked 5 times every day by random guys. I doubt he is poor. She must benefit from the relationship in one way or another (Briffault's Law). If she's hot she instinctively knows she can leverage her looks to get a beta buck (cuck) to settle down easily. The only way the boyfriend is an alpha is, he is either a p… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:11 PM |
| 12 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?Natural selection is fucked up to the extremes. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:01 PM |
| 12 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?I don't know what's worse. I prefer not to think about it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 05:48 PM |
| 18 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?Player? I say beta cuck level 9000. He would be a player if he simply kept her as a plate, not as an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 12 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?This just makes me think even further of how fucked up the system is. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Cheat daysI usually find I don't need them. I always have my end goal in mind, which is a top 1% physique, and resisting the temptations is "fun" and easily trains your most important muscle: discipline. But if you find you want to eat some sweet food, do it. Just remember what you value most, short term gratification or long term gratification. I am not saying having a cheat day will ruin your gains. Of course not. But personally I feel guilty when I eat garbage. If you feel the need to have a cheat day,… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Girls who smokesIndifferent. You should have other important shit in your head. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Girls who smokesProbably has to do with "breaking rules". Plus lack of education from parents. Smoking used to be generally seen as "trasgressive", so you get the point. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Girls who smokesYou are in her frame already. Beware. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Girls who smokesYour frame is so weak if you are going to smoke because of women. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Skinny boy in need of workout adviceYou are 6' and not lifting? If I was as tall as you I would give up any shitty excuse and lift literally 24/7. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 03:33 PM |
| 8 | The most important thing in todays world: focus - but how to improve it?This is actually the best advice. Tell yourself, "I'm going to sit and read X number of pages. Until then, NOTHING can distract me or take my eyes off the book". And whenever you feel like external stimuli is impacting your focus, become aware of it, and get back reading. It's a sort of meditation I would say. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are summer bulking?I am going to reach 10% then will bulk up again. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?But wouldn't this imply bulking and cutting every month or so? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?Yeah I am aware of my lifts being weak. I've been doing calisthenics for the first 2 years and only started heavy compound movements on September 2018. I wouldn't say 1RM's really matter in terms of how big you are though. High volume is the main factor for hypertrophy and muscle building. Strength is another deal. How many days a week were you training? I'm doing ppl 6 days a week and I guess it's jeopardising my strength gains. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?you can often find a gym and get a day pass Yeah that's definitely an option. But at that point, I can only do maintenance. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?I will bulk on winter, too. Just wanted to take advantage of the free time I've got now on summer as I'm a student. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?Calories around 3200. Macros don't know exactly but carbs and protein are the main ones. S: 110kg B: 75kg D: 110kg OHP: 60kg | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?I'm doing PPL 6 days a week with like 30 working sets each day. That's why the 3200 calories. I should probably reduce the overall volume. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are summer bulking?Yeah. I am clean bulking and I find it hard as fuck to get 3200 calories of only clean food. I eat around 120g of protein. As it's only a small surplus, I'm noticing no strength gains so I find it not rewarding at all. Ideally, one should be at a 500 caloric surplus to notice strength gains. I'm around 200. I'm obsessioned with fat gain and that's probably what's keeping me from achieving my goals. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 10:43 AM |
| 6 | for those who have; how did you go from Beta to AlphaStop thinking nofap increases testosterone that much. If it did, people wouldn't inject it. They would simply abstain from masturbation. Also the voice thing is bullshit. Your voice is mostly genetics. If you want testosterone, lift and eat clean. And sleep. That's how much you can increase it. Everything else is bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 06:48 PM |
| 15 | Any short guys want to share their red pill success stories?Just lol at calling yourself short if you are >=5'10 | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do when you aren't working out, and getting laid?Doesn't studying multiple languages at a time slows down progress? I find it hard for the brain to memorize more (new) languages at a time. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Any ideas on how to make money and get girls at the same time?I agree on this. Women will find out in seconds if you do what you do "just to get laid" or because you are genuinely appassionated into it. Entering women's frame like that makes you miserable. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 09:09 AM |
| 8 | What are the best things to do that will improve your smv?OP will need to read at least 10 posts that explain what frame is, with real life examples, to truly understand it. This shit can't be explained in a few words, really. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Should Hookers be avoided?Yeah absolutely. I'm sure it's my frame. Frame is seriously the most important thing. If you stop believing you are the shit for just one second, your neediness will repel women. Good looks only open the door. Game gets you through it. That's been said a lot on here and that's the truest thing I've ever read. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Should Hookers be avoided?In terms of looks I'm above average. Guys and women tell me that. But in terms of game, I'm not approaching women at all lately. So yeah, I guess that's my problem. Plus, I'm quite sure my frame is still weak. Got no idea on how to strengthen it. Some days I'm super confident, others I'm not. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 08:31 AM |
| 26 | "You can lose a lot of money chasing women. But you won’t lose a lot of women chasing money"Money only increases your SMV if you are attractive already. That means, you are jacked, socially savy (alpha), and rich. See 50 Shades of Grey. Otherwise you are just attracting women through beta mating strategies, and you will get fucked. See Jeff Bezos. If you have money and are not redpilled about female nature, good luck. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Just call them out on it. Ask if they've tried some hobby to keep their hands busy. Yeah definitely an opportunity to neg them hard and kill their ego. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 05:36 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?You know, I was thinking about it. Most men. You are right. But what most men are? They are betas. Betas and women have lots of behavioral characteristics in common. So nothing surprising. Most alphas wouldn't give a single shit about getting recognized on social media or similar bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Very great read. Saved it. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Yeah so you need an Iphone 12th generation to survive right? You completely catched the point. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 02:17 PM |
| 20 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Damn that video is truly redpill. I always feel like I hate those people who invented social media and destroyed (and keep destroying) society, only to gain more wealth. We are all slaves to the system. We are being cucked by Zuckerberg and his friends. 1984 for fucking real. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?He’s right. Women are the most emotional ones. Who buys products? People who are emotional. That’s why marketing is all about persuading people into buying, via emotions. Women are easier to persuade, because they are emotional. So it’s easier for companies to make money using women as targets. You look quite butthurt judging from the tone of your comments. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Dystopian Society. We are very close to that. We are currently in the exact phase of transition from the normal world to the fucked up one. I'm quite sure it will get much worse with AI. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Yeah stoicism teaches us to just accept it. But the fact that the world we live in is just garbage still remains. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Hostels or Private Rooms to get laid while travelling?Yeah I get you. Renting an apartment is the best bet I noticed. You also have your own kitchen. I lift and eating garbage for 3+ days kills me mentally, and physically. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Hostels or Private Rooms to get laid while travelling?I know it's beta. It's not the sole purpose, to be honest. But I definitely aim to maximize my experience while travelling as I'm still 20 and first time solo travelling, so getting laid wouldn't hurt, you know. For the $$$ part, I've been saving money for years. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Hostels or Private Rooms to get laid while travelling?Yeah it seems like the only way. Otherwise, do you think getting private rooms AT hostels is worth it? As I said, I feel like it'd prevent me from easily connecting with people in the same hostel. I don't know, I could be wrong, but cold approaching groups of people has (almost) never brought me positive results. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Guy who is constantly trying to AMOG me at work is taking it too farthen it's your frame. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for Escorts / brothels in EuropeVery good point. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Guy who is constantly trying to AMOG me at work is taking it too farDyel? No offence. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 10:59 PM |
| 6 | Any recommendations for Escorts / brothels in EuropeI’m always surprised by how so many escorts in brothels are not even that good looking. I’ve seen so many uglies (like imagine a woman genetically predisposed to be ugly, who tries to be hot and act like a model) in Prague’s brothels that it was both funny and sad. Made me question why I was in a brothel in the first place, when I could bang this women’s quality just by going out and getting rejected 3-5 times. Anyways, I guess I went to the wrong brothel. I’m sure there are many escorts online … | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Any recommendations for Escorts / brothels in EuropeWhat do you mean with they put out? They put out if your SMV is high, just like in any other place of the world. In Europe we believe the opposite. There’s a saying that American girls are easier. So I don’t really know where that stems from, but I’m sure American women are really easier than girls in some European countries. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 10:47 PM |
| 3 | What do you do after banging a girl?Repeat ad infinitum | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 01:16 PM |
| 3 | “The Startling Rise of Choking During Sex”Yeah same. It reminds me to release my sexual side to the limits. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/19 08:13 AM |
| 16 | “The Startling Rise of Choking During Sex”This is one of the harshest Black Pills out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/19 08:30 PM |
| 14 | How to do a successful monk mode?Pussy will not really come when you end monk mode. Pussy will come when you start approaching regularly. You can lift and shit, but if your social skills are low, you ain’t getting laid. The only thing that might come are IOI’s. But don’t expect women to approach you in hordes unless your monk mode consisted into you becoming a celebrity. That’s from my experience, at least. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 03:14 PM |
| 12 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?That book will make you a social robot. You don’t want that. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Travel destination for summer with the goal of improving my game?This is awesome. Thank you very much. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Travel destination for summer with the goal of improving my game?I seem to understand your comment, and I find it eye opening. Could you elaborate on it, though? just put down all the filters you might use to distance yourself from actual reality I actually remember when I once traveled in a city without my mobile phone and yeah, that was fun. I was forced to socialize with people and live fully in the present. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Travel destination for summer with the goal of improving my game?Yeah women are everywhere, that's true. But the density varies from place to place. Am I wrong for thinking that Thailand is only great for hookers but not for gaming women? That's what I heard. Of course I'm also going to enjoy the place, but as I'm alone I'd avoid places where there's no much life. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Travel destination for summer with the goal of improving my game?I'm travelling solo. Do you think it's a good place overall? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Why TRP peeps dont believe in semen retention from nofap?NoFap is also about staying away from thinking about women all the time. But only the first 1-2 weeks. After that, your libido will be so high you can't think of anything else. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Why TRP peeps dont believe in semen retention from nofap?Yeah if you lift almost every day and eat quality food (and fats) you will obsess over women in 3 days. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else noticed this?Yeah that's why you must always have multiple options. The man who has options is the man who doesn't give a fuck about these childish games. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 02:33 PM |
| 3 | How to show value on social mediaIt doesn t make you this mysterious badass(more like weird and autistic if you re in your early twenties ) Lol making social media dictate what your frame is. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:41 PM |
| 7 | How to show value on social mediaTo be high enough value on Instagram it would mean to be a fucking celebrity. Are you a celebrity? No? Then you are not high value. Or do you have big social circles? Okay maybe then you are high value in that context, only. I deleted all social media and one thing I noticed is that I became much more mysterious and people actually respect me even more. Nobody has balls to delete themselves from social media in today’s age. Everyone fears being ostracised. Fuck that. One’s social skills are test… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Which are some good hobbies where you can aim for measurable goals?In my country it’s illegal to even hold a gun. Wish it wasn’t like that though. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Which are some good hobbies where you can aim for measurable goals?That sounds fun, absolutely. Definitely gonna try it in the near future. How expensive is it? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 08:39 AM |
| 6 | I don't think I have any close friends. What should I do?Yep. People think SMV only matters for women. Nope, it also matters to gain male friends. Most guys want to be friends with High SMV guys, so they can extract value from them (whether it is learning game, acquiring status and so on). If you have none of these, you’ll find yourself alone pretty much. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | TattoosI’m not against them. I actually considered getting them in the past but realised “I wasn’t ready”. I couldn’t afford them yet, 2. I wasn’t sure what to tattoo, 3. My main motivation was, yes, women. For the third point I realised I had other shit to focus on first, such as mindset and frame. I’m not saying they don’t make you look alpha. I’m sure they do and there is scientific evidence on that. Makes you more attractive for short term relationships (so yeah, “alpha”). Point is, if you are gett… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 08:09 PM |
| 22 | TattoosGetting tattoos just for the sake of attracting women sounds bluepill as fuck to me. Really reminds me of the kids in blackpill forums who are obsessed with looks and study each body part and discuss on what's alpha and what's not. "Maybe my maxilla isn't forward enough?", "Maybe I don't have slayer eyes and that's why I'm not getting laid" and some hilarious shit like that I remember reading when I accidentally browsed those forums. Tattoos won't make you less insecure or strengthen your frame,… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 07:26 PM |
| 20 | Shit test “are we going out as friends?”This is golden. Easily frames you as the sexual guy. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 10:50 AM |
| 94 | A summary of the most attractive traits in a man?"Get ripped or die mirin" | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:19 PM |
| 27 | Girls love to be choked during sex..?If you don't understand why they love it, it means you are still blinded due to social conditionment. Whenever I do not fap for 10 days or more, I start imagining how hard I'd fuck women. And choking is just a small part. You need to get in touch with your animal side. Until then, you will never be free. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 10:33 AM |
| 12 | Girls love to be choked during sex..?Mate you should probably read the sidebar cause you make me think you are entirely bluepilled. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 10:31 AM |
| 3 | What to talk about while on a date?Just saying. There's the silent beta guy (unconfident and shy) and the strong silent one (confident and aloof) and of course "being silent" is a really vague advice. I see it just as a part of the puzzle. The mindset that comes in my mind is "I'm here with you, but you have to prove yourself to me. If you say something I find annoying or boring, I won't hesitate to let it show through my body language (never explicitly say anything) that I'm getting bored by you. My time is valuable and I've got… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 06:28 PM |
| 7 | What to talk about while on a date?Let her talk, you listen. "So, tell me about you". The one who talks, is the one who is qualifying to the other. It's easier than society makes you believe. You could make her more attracted by staying silent the whole time (and making her hamster spin) instead of talking about yourself the whole time and killing the mystery. Your goal isn't to talk but to escalate. Just my opinion. EBook Review: 60 Years Of Challenge | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | TRP view on InstagramAbsolutely. Build it, and they will come. It's like wanting people to stare at you when you haven't even lifted for a year. First you have to actually work hard to earn shit, then you display the achievements. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | TRP view on InstagramIn your case, what do you display? Just curious | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 12:16 PM |
| 3 | “Do you like me or do you just want me for sex?” Shit testI’ve read this somewhere on here a long time ago. Great one. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | TRP view on InstagramYeah deleting instagram makes me feel like an eunuch to be honest. Isolated from the world. Which is good on one side, but not much on the other. I decided to stay away from it until I achieved worthy shit in my life. First being money. In 2 years I will have to say “Okay, now I’m successful enough to benefit from it”. From there, I’ll start posting photos of me travelling. Of me doing interesting activities. Very sparingly though. Limiting it to 1 hour a week. <10 mins a day, that means. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 08:57 PM |
| 10 | TRP view on InstagramFrom my experience, most guys wouldn't even ask for her number. They would start with "Hey" and keep orbiting her and waiting weeks to ask her out. Or they would fill her profile with likes on 10 photos and then send "Hey" with some stupid emoticons. To be honest, I've got no time to do that shit. The ROI is just so small, in my opinion. Throught text you can't read her body language, you don't know if she's writing to keep you as an orbiter, or because she's legitimately interested. It'd be coo… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 03:10 PM |
| 5 | TRP view on InstagramYeah good points. Apparently there are many contrasting ideas on here, though. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 03:00 PM |
| 9 | TRP view on InstagramI've been reading TRP for like 2 years and the idea I got out of texting is that you should only text for logistics, indeed. Not some iron rule, but it is definitely advised more often than not. Could you elaborate on how you would act, exactly? Do you simply act like you would in person? What I don't get is, how long do you have to wait to establish a date? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 02:52 PM |
| 10 | TRP view on InstagramAttraction through text? There are so many contrasting ideas here on TRP. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 02:44 PM |
| 8 | TRP view on InstagramPoint is, I don't really know how to use it without appearing a beta wanting to orbit her. I tried following girls, and lots of them follow back, and when they do I simply text them "I'm curious to meet you. What's your number" but most of them won't give it. Anything they say that is not their number, I reply with "No problems", and unfollow/next them without second thought. I really don't know if I'm backing off way too soon. I just don't like texting at all. Most guys (my age) I know get to k… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 12:16 PM |
| 28 | TRP view on InstagramThe only thing I’ve got is a good looking face and physique. Am I travelling? No. Am I rich? No. Do I have pics with bitches? No. Am I popular? No. Maybe I could still get some women just by having good looks, but again, feels like it’s not enough. So yeah guess I’ve got to focus on more important shit for now. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 11:38 AM |
| 14 | TRP view on InstagramYeah that's what I was wondering about. I'm not butthurt at all. I'm not even ugly. I've been lifting for years and that's a great asset to display in pics. But I feel like it's a waste of time and energy. Using instagram to get laid means losing frame since the beginning. One thing is using it to build your career's profile (and having the side benefit of attracting women), but just posting pics to get women seems just silly and beta as fuck to me. I don't know. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 11:19 AM |
| 10 | TRP view on InstagramAnd how do you do it? Just curious. Always felt like texting on instagram equals entering women’s frame from the beginning. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 10:21 AM |
| 27 | TRP view on InstagramI’m above average in both face and physique. Guess I just need to post more (quality) photos to really see if it’s worth it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Would you fuck a 4?This is mind blowing. I can't tell how many opportunities I missed on girls I would have fucked but hamstered my way into "Nah not hot enough" as an excuse not to approach her. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Questions about improving myself physicallyAny weight you can lift for 8-12 reps with perfect form. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you ever fucked your oneitis?I usually wonder how guys manage to fuck their one itis. It just doesn't make sense. If it's a oneitis, your behavior towards her will repel her. So guys either fake their alphaness and aloofness and manage to fuck her, or there's an huge disparity between the SMV of the guy and the SMV of the girl (with the guy's one being higher) Either way, as soon as she founds out you have oneitis for her she'll run away from you. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:38 AM |
| 42 | STOP TRYING SO HARD, EMOTIONAL UNINVESTMENT, AND SHE’S JUST A KID DUDE.I truly appreciated the mention man. At least I know what I have to work on. It really is true how many of us are emotionally invested in women and in women's frame despite all the trp readings. In fact, reading trp daily is just another form of emotional investment and equals into entering women's frame from the very beginning (at least it is for me). It's okay to read once in a while to maintain the right mindset, but if you are spending most of your days reading there's something wrong. Your … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but still getting rejectedThis makes sense . I also remember reading somewhere that women have to work to join the alpha’s tribe (your tribe). They must deserve that. If you show her you want her in your tribe without even knowing who the fuck she is and what a danger she could be for your survival, you signal low status and you probably are not the leader of the tribe but a follower. Evolutionary psychology really makes you connect the dots. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | STOP LIVING IN, OR TRYING TO WORK OUT WOMEN'S FRAMES. They don't exist.Great post. Was waiting for it for a long time. Keep writing man, I really like your mindset and way of thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/19 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Will there ever be an updated version of TRP handbook?I like the idea. Anyways, the principles are always the same just said slightly differently. It’s easy to end up reading as a form of dopamine seeking. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but still getting rejectedYeah indeed. Whenever I tried indirect openers perhaps I’ve always acted too needy and “energetic”. But whenever I acted like an unemotional rock (no smiling, low pitched tone of voice, looking at her like she’s fucking ugly etc.) I could see positive reactions. So yeah it all comes down to your behavior really. What you say doesn’t really matter. What matters is how you say it. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but still getting rejectedIndirect openers never really worked for me. Because girls could see my real intentions (wanting to meet them). Being direct in my opinion displays better the "take it or leave it" attitude. I guess all this varies though. There's no real answer to what works best. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:14 PM |
| 5 | itiswr1tten Answers All Your Questions Today!Do you think younger guys (in their early 20's) with little sexual experience should focus on getting an abundance of women first, and then focus on more important shit? Or the opposite? | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:47 PM |
| 2 | High SMV but still getting rejectedYeah man. Your comment is spot on. I went to that party mainly to game chicks. That was my only thought. Approach chicks. I just don't like dancing in general, and neither do I like the music they put in most of the clubs. I guess I should try day gaming, something I always wanted to try but never ever done. Anyways, it was an High School party. I'm a senior in HS and graduating in the next weeks. I didn't pass 1 year of hs a few years ago, that's why I'm older than most guys there. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but still getting rejectedDefinitely gonna try that, thank you. Also, I realised only now that I should have befriended younger kids as lots of them were in groups of girls. I feel extreme regret for not having done that to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | High SMV but still getting rejectedThat's true. There's definitely some part of me which has done all that to receive attention. But to be honest, I've done that mainly to face my fear of social pressure, which is luckily becoming less and less. Also, yeah, I haven't been getting positive results with women for a while, so it's harder to hold frame and feel abundance mentality. Btw, I wasn't running around the party approaching chicks. I was making it really subtle that people around me couldn't understand whether I knew the girl… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but still getting rejectedThe befriending part is interesting and something I should have done. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | High SMV but still getting rejectedBut yeah while I didn’t get positive results with women, I socialised with many guys (this is something I didn’t mention in the post but I probably should) and some people seriously seemed to want to be my friend (and yeah I mentioned that some strangers gave me an handshake). So the social proof part wasn’t even that bad, at the end. I really can’t tell why, though. But I swear I’ve never seen so many guys wanting to talk to me. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:13 AM |
| 2 | High SMV but still getting rejectedYou are right. I would define myself a douchebag from third person. I somewhat began to believe that is attractive if you ask me (actually Heartiste talks about it). Actually, I just wanted to get used to the social pressure and that seemed to be a great way. It was a pool party and some people later during the night got into the pool so I really wasn’t the only one without a tshirt. I felt like the pool thing was a good reason to take my shirt off without coming off too much as a douchebag. But… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Lone Wolf lifestyleYeah man the point is that I struggle with finding people who are truly successfull at my age. I should probably start a martial art. I've read you can make good friends there. I had some social circles before trp but they were full of betas who were keeping me down. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Lone Wolf lifestyleCan you elaborate on this? Cause honestly that's where TRP has led me to. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Am I bullshitting myself? How do I stop?Yeah you know what's funny. It's the fact that most guys (me included) overthinking approaching, without ever thinking about the fact that nobody will remember that scene, and that in the long term, that approach only made you get closer to your goals (becoming good in game). My mind is set all wrong, I can realise now. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Am I bullshitting myself? How do I stop?Fair enough. I like the mindset of "I'm just learning" instead of putting all the pressure on the outcome. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Am I bullshitting myself? How do I stop?Damn, so obvious, yet I never meditated about it deeply. Ego + reputation. And yet reputation is fucking useless. So is ego. Got any advice to switch this mindset? All I know is that I’m focusing on the possible bad (get rejected) instead of the possible good (get her number, date, fuck her, and I could list hundreds more benefits). | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a limit of assholhery with hot women?Yeah. Heartiste talks a lot about dark triad game. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Is there even a limit of assholhery with hot women?The theory that resembles all this is evolutionary attraction. Our ancestors not only used to punch women in the face but they were much more cruel than that. And the men who did that were the ones who passed away their genes. The world is fucked up. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a limit of assholhery with hot women?Yet assholes get women and the gentle beta boys masturbate. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 05:03 PM |
| 17 | Is there even a limit of assholhery with hot women?Yeah, well, I guess it all comes down to outcome independence. Unconcern for her reactions. And being an asshole is generally a way to describe that. There is of course the outcome independent asshole (who's the attractive one) and the outcome dependent one (needy). Being The Right Kind Of Asshole . I guess this post describes it better. But of course it also comes down to hypergamy. Everything should revolve around you being higher value than her. And that higher value can be displayed through … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 04:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys close from clubs?Just like others have mentioned in similar questions posted on here, clubs are generally a bad choice if the goal is getting laid. Women go there for validation. Just last night I went to a club and I was one of the biggest guys there (there were like 70-100 people). Lots of women were staring at me. Funny thing is, there was this girl who was staring at me and she was increasing the proximity between her and I. So I approach her. Apparently, “What’s your name” was enough to make her feel valida… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Wanting women not out of genuine interest but to prove something to myselfI quit porn a few months ago and it definitely helped. I lack the sexual experience you are talking about, though. And also multiple hobbies where I can invest my emotions and thoughts. I only fucked 2 hookers as I'm 20 and don't even have a job. I'm still in school (graduating next month) That's another reason of why I'm focusing on the wrong shit. I know I should focus on my future, yet this women obsession is controlling me. I swear this shit is so hard to explain. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Question regarding Plausible DeniabilityYeah I'll try and be happy regardless of the outcome. Rejection is better than regret. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Question regarding Plausible DeniabilityForget hinting anything sexual, you can get down to that when she’s at yours. This is what I was looking for, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Got called a psycho last nightUsually those guys who hate me are average guys. So people with whom I share nothing. The environment I'm talking you about is High School. It's not that I'm arrogant with them. I really do nothing to them. I stay on my own most of the time and do my own shit. I don't really care about being arrogant with guys, it serves no purpose in my opinion. But them seeing me being arrogant with women, makes them hate me indirectly. I guess their name is white-knights? When I was beta, I felt hatred toward… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 11 | Got called a psycho last nightFuck yes. When I started applying TRP I really started becoming anti-social, I'd say. The masses see it as something negative. I see it as a source of power. People will talk about you, often in a negative light, but to me "what gets noticed, is valuable". If people have time to spend talking about you, then you are doing something right. And women love anti-social men, psychopath, criminals. It was hard to accept for me in the beginning, but when I started employing the same behavioral characte… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:57 PM |
| 6 | NoFap and TRPTo me at day 17-18 I start becoming way too horny and can’t focus on more important shit. It’s personal, though. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:44 AM |
| 52 | NoFap and TRPYour last phrase is 99% of nofap’s purpose (in regards to trp). I somewhere remember reading (Maybe from “Horny” by OmLala) this phrase: “You masturbate when you lost hope in getting women”. Basically, every time you fap and have no sexual options, you are increasing beta behavior and a negative feedback loop. If you are a virgin or have generally no options at all, the best thing you can do is stay away from masturbation altogether for at least 20 days, then repeat. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?I like the idea of destroying the muscle. But I ended up overtraining with that mentality. I've been doing PPL 6 days a week for 2 months and reached a point where I had harsh insomnia and loss of strength. I had to take 2 deload weeks to feel relieved. But yeah, I guess I missed the sleep and nutrition part that could make the recovery possible. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?So in a few words: establish myself as the Alpha Fucks guy and hold frame when rejected? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?In my country Universities are not like American Colleges with dorms and stuff. I wish it was like that. We just have universities and students live scattered in the whole city. That's what despairs me. My country sucks in general and I plan on moving after the first 3 years of studies and complete the 2 remaining in another country. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?Interesting. I haven't browsed the main sub for months since when it got quarantined. Always felt like it lost its value. But that post is quite valuable. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?What about the probability concept? In a bigger city you are exposed to many more opportunities. You can fuck up many times and still have lots of many other opportunities. In a small city I feel like I’m deprived of this. I feel like you can’t really approach tons of women with that “shotgun logic” (call it abundance mentality). I feel like inhibition takes place. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?So is my mindset wrong? I don't know where it stems from to be honest. But to me, bigger the city, the better the sex life. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Yeah honestly my only current goal for summer is aesthetics and get an high SMV to attract chicks. ABS and jawline is my concern, too. I’ll bulk up on September for sure. I plan on reaching 175-180lbs lean before next year June 2020. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 07:08 AM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Not an excuse, more like a limiting belief, I'd say. But yeah I'm aiming for that. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?That's cool. I tried IF a few years ago but just for 1-2 days. I usually eat like 400 grams of pasta every day and those are like 2000kcal's alone. Do you eat the 250g buckwheat all at once? I mean it would take me like an hour to eat them all. What helped me gaining weight in the past were protein shakes with lots of stuff inside. Anyways, I'll try IF again. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Yeah for pussy a physique isn’t a must. Even though women salivate over the beach body. I’ve seen that happen many times. Intermittent fasting on a bulk? Is it a great idea? I am already struggling with getting 3200 calories in a day. I don’t know how I could eat that much in just 8 hours. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Yeah I definitely am aware of the fact that I could get much bigger. I’m 19 right now. I will definitely bulk up like mad on September. I am just deciding whether I should bulk now in summer or enjoy my above average physique. Are you natural? I can’t even imagine reaching even 185lbs lean as a natty to be honest. Plus, how many days a week do you train? Do you think 6 days a week is the best frequency for gains? Or is it too much? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 04:09 PM |
| 3 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?For deload, do you mean taking a week off from the gym, or simply lowering the volume? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?What was your starting weight? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:57 PM |
| 4 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Really great comment. Frame is 95% of the game, indeed. The IDGAF attitude is so important. I guess having abs is just a “bonus”. The mistake is making your frame dependant on your physical appearance. That’s what I’m doing, to be honest. I burnt out in the last weeks and had to stop for a while. It’s funny how my frame got weaker because in my head I was thinking “damn I haven’t been lifting for 3 days. I’m probably looking skinny as fuck” Sounds ridiculous, but I’m being serious. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Yeah I tried a clean bulk and gaining 0.5lbs a week while lifting 6 days a week but my strength did not go up. Actually, I “overreached” (or maybe even overtrained) and burnt out. Recomposition is good for aesthetics but not for strength gain purposes. (Probably because I wasn’t sleeping enough tho) | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:50 PM |
| 3 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?Yeah I wouldn’t say I’m small. Maybe not huge but definitely not small. People notice I lift with clothes on, even more when I have no tshirt on. I also have broad shoulders due to years of swimming so I guess that makes me look even bigger than a guy with my same weight with normal shoulder-width. That’s why I wanted to enjoy summer and look cut but also start gaining some strength back and bulk up. It’s an hard choice to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I have high self-esteem and love myself for who I am?My self esteem comes from the inside I'm not against that. Actually, if you told me how to get that inner unconditioned self-esteem, just because you are you, I would be glad. But it's not that easy. Otherwise everyone would be confident. Everyone would wear shitty clothes. Everyone wouldn't care what others think. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 01:47 PM |
| 7 | How wise is it to bulk up in the middle of may?To be honest, quite low. Right now, S: 240lbs, D: 265lbs, B: 165lbs, OHP: 132lbs. I've had troubles with adding strength in the last few months. Can't tell why. I'm eating on a surplus and gaining weight. Lack of sleep is probably my problem. I sleep around 5-6 hours a night max. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I have high self-esteem and love myself for who I am?You are right. Linking your self esteem to lifting is stupid. Lifting is only one small piece of the puzzle. I never said that lifting will fix all of your problems. Lifting is simply something you do in your life, but which is only a small piece of the whole. Self-esteem should be linked to your objective value. On how you spend your time. On what you do on a daily basis. Or do you have any solution apart from whining and living in negativity and despair? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I have high self-esteem and love myself for who I am?Comparing lifting to buying cars/watches tells me you don't know shit about TRP. And it also tells me you are probably a fat or skinny "incel" who has never lifted a weight in his entire life. Lifting won't fix your deep rooted issues, but saying "lifting is for the insecure" is the most retarded thing ever. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 01:11 PM |
| 3 | How do I have high self-esteem and love myself for who I am?This is not the black pill/incel subreddit. If you’ve got no valuable shit to say, then stay silent. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Girl Has Agreed To “Hang Out” At My Apartment In a One-On-One Setting. Tips Please?Yeah lmao the bitch is sending OP thousand IOI's and he does not even realise it. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 05:31 PM |
| 56 | Why do women lie about not liking a fit man?"I don't think I'm hot enough to manipulate him" Fuck. This is spot on. I always thought it in terms of "I'm not hot enough for him", but the simple word "manipulate" actually adds much more meaning to the phrase. When I started lifting I had some fatties in my class chasing me. One day, we were outside in a park, and there was a 30lbs of muscle heavier guy than me and what I heard from those fatty girls was "That's too much" with a facial expression of hopelessness. I now understand clearly wha… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 05:05 PM |
| 40 | Why do women lie about not liking a fit man?Men's Physique are aesthetic as fuck. A bodybuilder like Jeff Seid will get 100% attention from women (even though he's roided as shit). That's not "too much muscle". Too much muscle is Rich Piana, even tho he would still get tons of pussy mirin. Women are just intimidated by 250lbs bodybuilders, but that doesn't mean they are not attracted. Actually, intimidation is primitive attraction. In a few words, there's really nothing as "too much muscle". And if you are natty you won't even get to that… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Using a journal as a means of self therapyYeah exactly. What is interesting is getting back to your old journals (6-12 months old) and notice how your thought patterns changed in the meanwhile. That's when you see you have improved. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Using a journal as a means of self therapyIt's definitely something you should be doing. I've been doing it for the past 2 years and I don't get how most people never write down anything. I write down my thoughts, how I feel, why I feel like that. That gives you control over your life. A similar state of mindfulness. If you readed my journals they seem like books of monologues. It's like a daily dialogue with my inner self. It will not fix all of your problems, but it will make you aware of them in the first place. You then will have to… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | I burnt outYeah PHUL is great overall. (*edit: I misread and read PHUL. Never tried PHAT) How many sets do you do for each muscle group though? PPL 6 Days a week is awesome if you are on a relevant caloric surplus (At least 200-300 in my opinion) + 9+ hours of sleep. Unfortunately I started that routine when I was cutting (really bad move) and that basically was the beginning of my burnout. 1-2 hours in the gym 6 days a week and eating on a caloric deficit. Since then my sleep got worse and worse. But yeah… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I burnt outI'm following a PPL routine with 531 progression on the main lifts. I usually end up staying in the gym for 60-90 mins every session. How would you implement a PPL routine in 5 days a week? Would it be PPLRRPPL? Never ever done 2 consecutive days of rest, though. I usually workout each muscle group twice a week and really do not know how to get a lifting routine where there is both recovery and a good workout frequency. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I burnt outYeah the only thing stopping me is perfectionism I guess. I literally got obsessed with my physique to the point of mental madness. I’m trying to get to summer in perfect conditions, and I’m not even a competitive bodybuilder. Let’s say I just lift for my SMV, if you will. And you are right. In one week I would not lose any gains, theoretically. I guess it’s more a mental struggle than anything. I already tried deloading in the past but I guess it wasn’t real deloading as I was still stressing m… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 30 | Self improvement is masturbation. What to make out of it?I will probably get downvoted for this but. Your title is spot on. Lots of guys, me included, make the mistake of improving themselves upon unachievable standards. Thinking "I can't approach women until I'm 8% bf" or stuff like that is just fear of failure. Believing that you must be in the 0.01% to get laid is foolish, and stupid. By doing this, we are bullshitting ourselves into inaction. Into escaping from our fears. Escaping from the fear of rejection. What to make out of it? That's simple. … | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Havent been laid in more than a yearYou are basically in a scarcity mindset. It's hard to get sex when you have none. I feel you, actually. I'm like you right now. Got no options, to be honest. When you have no options, you end up feeling like you have something to lose by approaching women. But in reality, it's all gain. Or am I wrong? What do you have to lose when you have no women? The hardest part is the beginning. Scarcity mindset is awful. So is the belief that you can't do nothing about it. You actually can do something abo… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Nothing beats personality?Yeah generally speaking you should be wanting money for your overall freedom, not to get women. Women are a side-effect of having lots of money. If you have money, you can travel everywhere you want, meet people and get to know celebrities, expand your social circles and so on. And that's probably only the 1% of all the things you can do if you had $$$. Those open so many doors. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 07:13 PM |
| 15 | Condom slipped off during sex with a hooker, I'm paranoid.Also never spend anything less than £400 on a hooker Not everyone here is Dan Bilzerian mate. But yeah, never stop grinding. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 03:16 PM |
| 78 | Is this what frame is?You shouldn’t even care if she insulted your mom. Stoicisim 101. Nothing can upset you. You just demote the bitch and next her. Just my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Whats your gym fuel?That's the most beta thing you can do, though. Comparing yourself to others. Most of the guys with impressive physiques are on roids. How the fuck do you even think about comparing yourself to them? Just look at 95% of the fitness influencers. They are all on roids. That's why I deleted instagram and every social media. That's the road to body dysmorphia. If you do not accept that out there there's always someone bigger, more good looking than you, than you will never be ready to actually go out… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Hard time deciding what to do with my futureYeah I actually realise that once I’ve felt what having an abundance of women is like, I will feel empty again. But at least I won’t have regrets for not having followed my inner self and desires. I know that our brain needs to pursue goals to feel good. That’s why once the goal is accomplished we feel like “Wow, is this all? Where do I go from here?”. The pleasure actually comes from chasing something we don’t have right now. I will also follow your advice on focusing on building my life first.… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Share your skin care routine and products.The only skin care routine you need is no sugar/low carbs, low saturated fats and lots of vitamins a (+ betacarotene) + c | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Does nofap really work ?It's been 3 months since when I last watched a porn movie or even pics. Never felt better. It's not a 2 day process, but you really start changing inwardly once you give up that shit. I usually prefer not fapping at all, cause when I fap I got used to feeling like shit afterwards and start feeling my self-esteem going down. Why? Actually, it's really easy to understand. If you fap, your subconscious will realise your only way of having a sexual release is by yourself. So you realise consciously … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Probably found my main issue with womenit’s going to be this much work Self-defeatist attitude. It's not much work. You are just focusing on the possible bad instead of the possible good. I lift 6 days a week and if I think about it in a rational manner, talking to a chick should be laughable. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:12 PM |
| 20 | Probably found my main issue with womenFuck. I have the same identical problem. After studying myself for a while I realised it has to do with the ego, yeah. tying up your self esteem on women’s reactions outcome dependence (pretty much the same thing as the aforementioned point) scarcity mindset lack of positive momentum (this is key here. Once you start approaching 1, then 2, then 3 girls a day you will solve 99.9% of your problems regarding to approaching). I remember times when I approached 28 girls in a single day. And now I can… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Follow your mission or follow your inner desires?don't be a sour grapes mcfaggot wannabe virginTOW That made me laugh. You are right, I'm going to follow your advice. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Follow your mission or follow your inner desires?Yeah I've been rejected a lot of times in the past and actually rejection is much better than regret. That's very true. The pain of rejection is so small compared to the pain of regret. You're scared about the opinions of people you'll not even care about in 2 months from now, cause you will be gone from there. That's another great point. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Follow your mission or follow your inner desires?After having been in monk mode for a fucking long time, I agree with your statement. Monk mode is often a synonym of “comfort zone” (at least it was in my case). I‘ve been trying to become perfect, jacked like a model, studying books on game and a shitload of theory, while never really going out and selling myself in the sexual marketplace. I have surely become higher in terms of SMV, and I still have a lot to improve (especially in the financial field), but if I went out and approached 5chicks/… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Follow your mission or follow your inner desires?Dude how can you be in high school at 20 yoa? Didn't pass 1 school year so I had to repeat it. See how these two work together - you want the girls for your self image so your afraid of not getting them which means you self reject to protect your self image. I'm quite sure this is the key here. Indeed, I don't approach them (even if they send IOI's) because of my ego. The way around this is total self acceptance, self love, (sidebar “you don’t matter”) and outcome independence. If you can walk u… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Follow your mission or follow your inner desires?You are fucking right. I’m the most jacked in my school (I don’t like to brag, just being serious) and I could literally fuck most of the girls if I tried. I only have 1 more month remaining till I graduate. I have just 1 month to approach and fucking do it. If I don’t do it I will have regrets for the rest of my life. Just because I feared......what did I even feared? It’s all in my head. I still care what others think of me on some little degree. I care what would happen if a girl rejected me … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Follow your mission or follow your inner desires?Not a virgin but definitely only had a few experiences (Sexually speaking. Funnily enough I've got some experience regarding all the prior stages to sex (game), thus, passing shit-tests, escalation etc.). I'm still 20 so I guess I got time to recover from that. As I said I had many girls coming to me and shit but I was too beta to escalate and take my dick out of the pants. Sounds like you're a virgin trying mgtow. Yeah, kind of. MGTOW not really, but I told myself I would start gaming chicks as… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 08:37 AM |
| 18 | Kissing GuideThe guide is in your reptilian brain. It's all subconscious. When you are there you don't even think about it and you might even be wondering how you actually are able to kiss, without never having done that before. Being too conscious about it can only make the situation worse. It's like trying to consciously control how to walk, or how to breath. It goes against nature. You must let your brain do it for you. Edit: Plus, if you want to know these things, chances are you have a shit load of stuf… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Being the "20 percent"High smv needs to approach anyways. The only difference is in the ioi’s he receives. Stop with the bullshit. Only low smv women approach men. I’ve never seen an hot woman approach a guy. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Being the "20 percent"A guy with an average SMV who approaches regularly is going to get laid more than a guy with an high SMV who approaches once a month. Don't expect to lift and have 10's approach you. You still have to have balls to approach them. Wish I knew this when I started. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: it's just your turnSo I guess the answer is: the bigger the city, the better the sex life, right? Yeah it should be quite obvious, actually. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Reminder: it's just your turnSounds like a stupid question, but Do you think college and europe's universities are the same thing in terms of sex life? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 07:53 AM |
| 2 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?Visualization. Visualize yourself speaking how you desire to speak. All this in your mind. Read Psychocybernetics. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Why on earth are girls more attracted to me after I started smoking cigarettes?Firstly, why the fuck do you even smoke? To attract chicks? That’s the most BP thing people do. I went from smoking to attract chicks (I used to enter their frame) to not smoking and qualifying them for smoking (they enter my frame). “I don’t really like girls who smoke”. This should be your mentality, Not “Hey look me I’m smoking give me your pussy now!!” for fuck’s sake. I legitimately lose interest now when I see a girl smoking. That’s when you stop putting pussy on the pedestal and start see… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it true my mindset “is going to change when I hit 30”? I wanna bang hoes for life I never want to settleHonestly, I haven't even watched that channel. All I know is that there are only a few legit self-help channels on youtube, and just like trp, they are just tools. If you want to change your mindset, only bring positive thoughts in your mind. If you've been on TRP for 5 years, you should know all these things already. Probably what you are missing is action and achievements. What's your mission? Do you have one? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Is it true my mindset “is going to change when I hit 30”? I wanna bang hoes for life I never want to settleI laugh at these gurus who become rich by selling dreams. No wonder how they do it. You are their easy target and they know how to make you trust them. Have you read the sidebar yet? You need some RP lens my man. 30 is just a number. Nothing will change unless YOU will change it. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:02 PM |
| 10 | Girls with porn addicitionYeah I wonder how OP is even managing to fuck women with this attitude. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 05:13 PM |
| 6 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?It does not make sense even more when you've been lifting for years and you actually intimidate women. Yet in your head you fear them. That's even more brutal. If there's one thing you must remember it is : Women's bitchiness is just a facade. Women's frame is naturally weak. It crumbles sooner or later. They fake it. Imagine a girl wanting to fight you. You lift twice or thrice her weight in the gym, just imagine how much physical damage you could to her if you wanted to. Be rational, guys. Wha… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How to forgive myself and move on?I have to sort of disagree here. From a TRP perspective, life is a marathon. Comparing yourself to the mediocre men of your age is not the solution. It might help when you feel unhappiness, But if you actually want to become high value, in the top 1-5%, you have to start “comparing” yourself to the people in that percentage. Comparing is probably the wrong term. What I mean is, look at the top of the mountain, not at the bottom. That’s where you should be heading. On one hand, you’ll feel like s… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How to forgive myself and move on?Hey man. Same is happening with me even though I’m even younger than you. I’m 19. I know someone will want to punch me in the face after reading this. Understand that regret is a strong emotion. It can be both a pro or a con. Depending on how you leverage it. If you use it as an energy to do something NOW, it’ll make you powerful. Otherwise, it’ll make you dwell on the past. But you can’t change the past. You can only change the future. Luckily, I never ever wasted my time in the last years. But… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | What's your mission? And how did you find it?True that. Action is everything. You know what, I'm going to re-read that book. From what I remember it explained the right mindset to have which is "take quick decisions and act" + "make mistakes asap". That's what I need to do. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:06 AM |
| 3 | What's the psychology of a woman feeling shy/embarrassed/ashamed when she's talking to a guy she likes?She perceives you as the alpha male instantly. She’s put you in the alpha category. Everyone fears the alpha. That’s why being jacked and having a powerful behaviour (whether charismatic or strong silent) is advised here. Remember a time when you were acting autistically in front of a guy higher in status than you? Or a girl? Yeah that’s the same principle. Remember that in today’s age you can establish everyone’s value on your choice. And that’s when YOU become the alpha male. It’s all in your … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What's your mission? And how did you find it?I've "studied" how to sell. Also read Influence by Cialdini. But I've never ever sold anything. Honestly my problem is that I do not know where to take action. Instead of focusing on one thing and trying it until I succeed at it, I switch between learning skills and find myself with little knowledge on many topics (which is useless) instead of lots of knowledge on one single topic. I'm overwhelmed by the many options out there. That's one huge problem I'm trying to fix. Probably all my thoughts … | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What's your mission? And how did you find it?I know WSP already. Read Efficiency last year. Tbh never managed to apply what they advised. Did you learn affiliate marketing on their website? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Exactly. She rejects you before you can reject her. I so many times got depressed after getting rejected by 5's because I wasn't realising I actually was higher value and I wrongly took it personally every single time and thought "So I'm ugly?" "So I'm low smv?". My frame was weak as hell. Don't do that shit. You are the prize. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:51 PM |
| 31 | Is it better to game 5's than none?I feel this. Ugly/Average girls will shit test you like mad and they will act like they are the shit. Maybe you’ll get better at gaming 5’s but when you’ll meet 10’s the principle of contrast will play against you. I feel like shit when I game 5’s out of scarcity. Better to approach 10’s and get rejected. At least you stop being fazed by their “beauty” (most of the times it’s the makeup tricking your brain) sooner or later. My personal opinion. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:49 AM |
| 2 | What's your mission? And how did you find it?Indeed. So “Pick one random field and spend 50 hours learning it, without second thought.” could be the only current goal I should be preoccupied of, right? I feel like this is the right mentality. Just to get me started. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 04:10 PM |
| 3 | What's your mission? And how did you find it?What did you make last year? Here's a GOAL... I will make 50% more than I did last year and stick 15% of that into a mutual fund. This is awesome. What about finding a path that I might like? Do you have any suggestion? I seriously do not know what to focus on. The best thing I've ever heard is that any path is good as long as there is enough positive feedback loop to keep "motivation" going. Also, do you think I should ditch completely the "get rich" mindset and just start trying random shit wi… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 03:07 PM |
| 5 | How to improve body further?So are you doing it for money? If so it’s comprehensible. But for women you are more than enough trust me. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:35 PM |
| 10 | How to improve body further?Perfectionism? Man if you are not confident at that level I don’t know what the fuck is your problem. Fix your inner game. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Bad results from only “texting for logistics”What this guy said. OP probably does not even know what SMV means. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Bad results from only “texting for logistics”What’s efficient is to delete instagram, lift and going out cold approaching. If you want bullshit “text game” advice head over the pua marketing world. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 03:27 PM |
| 6 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testWhenever you are in doubt, just ignore like she does not exist. Or look her straight in the eye for 3 seconds, and then ignore and go back into your world. She's just testing your frame. You do not have to reply to maintain your frame. Ignoring the attacker is the best way to do it. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Do women in schools use you for status?You are to them a reflection of their value. They want a status symbol. If an high value male wants her, she feels validated. That's her life purpose, after all (That's also why having one-itis is a feminine trait. Men should never get validation from women. They get it from their mission). If a low value male wants her, she feels repulsion. Again, you are to her a reflection of her value. And yeah, she can use you to gain further social status with the subconscious goal of finding an even highe… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on NoFap?I completely agree with what this guy said. Jerking off is signalling your subconscious that you can’t get laid, thus making you feel inferior and sexually frustrated (Of course this only happens when you truly don’t have sexual options/scarcity mindset). Plus add porn to that, and you have this negative spiral multiplied for 100. If I’m not getting laid I prefer having a dry streak of at least 15-20 days instead of jerking off just to feel like complete shit afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 03:36 PM |
| 11 | Opinions on NoFap?Yeah this is true. I was a porn addict and it took me 1 year to completely give up porn. I’m free now. I remember when I was feeling like “I’ll regret this” when I was about to delete all my porn collection. And no, I don’t fucking regret it now at all. I’m glad I removed that shit out of my PC, and life. Porn kills your masculinity and steals your energy. Plus to that, something most people don’t know (especially those over the Nofap subreddit), is that porn makes you put women on the pedestal … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 3 | What're the attributes of a top 10% man?Lol you made me remember my nerdy past trickshotting on Call of Duty and spending 8 hours a day on it. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?They are different exercises. Bridges is an isometric one. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Really depends on the stance you are taking. A really wide stance should isolate your glutes pretty much. Plus to that, are you squeezing your glutes when coming up? Slow and controlled reps should make your butt burn like nothing else. Perhaps you put on too much weight and your quads become dominant in the exercise. If you have APT, you might use your lower back more than your glutes and that might also be a reason. Lower the weight and try to make a muscle mind connection first. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Stop obsessing over this rep thing. A guy who lifts consistently is going to see results whether he lifts for 10 reps or for 3 reps. The only indicator of growth is progressive overload. Are you putting on more plates on the barbell? Yes? Then you are growing (As long as you are getting in enough calories). No? Then you aren’t growing. That’s easy as that. There’s some truth in the hypertrophy thing being correlated to muscle fullness and aesthetics, but stop obsessing over it. Do both strength … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Hip Thrusts are a better variant. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:05 PM |
| 16 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Squats only work your butt if you go low parallel. Personally, they are overrated as a butt builder exercise. Hip thrusts are they way to go if you want to isolate them. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Realised that I was enough already, but here's what happenedInteresting. Never heard of that psychological condition. So what should I do in your opinion? Apart from going out and fucking 10 girls. How do I fix my mindset? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Realised that I was enough already, but here's what happened You reach that goal. Done. Yeah, you got it entirely. That's my problem. Improving with women as the end-goal. But not gonna lie, that desire was so fucking strong that made me pursue any possible goal. What's your driving force? What drives you to improve yourself? "Lifting for yourself" and "improving for yourself" seem really vague advice to me and I hear them really often. I believe there must be strong "why's" behind any goal to feel motivated towards pursuing that goal. 90% of the guys l… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | I need help with regards to cold approachYeah I didn't say your line isn't great. It is. Being honest is key here. That line is perfect but must be brought up with no neediness. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | I need help with regards to cold approachDon't mention her looks or give her any compliments on her looks after "I saw you and thought you were cute." Looks like a compliment to me. You can say that but you must be careful to the non verbal communication you are displaying. I'd say a better line is "You look interesting. What's your name" | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeI'm in recovery Stay strong man! Being open to failure, realising you don't die when things go a little off plan, letting go of control and getting that trust in yourself. I just recently realised this. There's no failure, just learning experiences. You don't fail, you simply find a way that does not work. Keep failing until you find a way that works. There must be a switch in the success/failure mindset. There's really no success without failure. Failure is part of the process. Failure must not… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeDefinitely. Reading some books is essential to rewire your brain into the right beliefs. Reading rational male is an example. But after that you have to go back to the basics, again, just like you said. But I know that there are guys who don't even know what TRP is and are getting laid more than most guys here. The reason is because they go out, try, fail and retry. Anyone who browses this subreddit will end up overthinking sooner or later. That's why I'm really careful right now and avoid readi… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeYeah true! Frame is everything. Actually frame is the foundation of any game related technique. If frame is weak you can't come off as the prize, neither can you be outcome independent. Women will simply see throught it. And yeah I believe part of all those books is our natural desire to reach perfection and find all the answers to what happens outside in the real world, and prevent rejection as much as possible. But personally the more I used to read the less I was acting. I'd say people should… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeIt's a process. Enjoy the process and become aware of your hesitation and inaction. That's step number one: acknowledging your weakness. After that, focus on fixing that weakness. Go out and get shot down. Get in love with that feeling of rejection. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeThat's just perfect. Why reading 20 books when you just need to know 1. action 2. non neediness 3. I am the prize 4. Qualify her 5. Escalate and close. I guess I can delete reddit for a while and stop reading game books entirely. They just make me overthinking everything literally. The best approaches I've made were the ones done when I wasn't reading shit and just going out and acting. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeMore like when you get out of monk mode man. Focus on building yourself in monk mode, not on studying game. Only read game when you are actually going out regularly applying what you read, otherwise you are just filling your head with ton of info which your brain can't internalize. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeSpot on. Acting aloof unti she shows compliance and reciprocates interest seems the perfect strategy. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeThank you. Aloofness projects non neediness I guess that's why being aloof is so attractive, indeed. So action + non-neediness should do the trick. And yeah re-reading the fundamentals of game is essential. So much stuff on here that It's easy ending up overthinking, thus hesitating and not acting. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest and intention vs Aloof disinterested attitudeYeah right. I guess I should have added some teasing to that conversation to make her understand I’m the prize. So basically, aloof means that if you approach her and she says no, you just walk away, am I right? I always thought that aloof meant being distant and indifferent. But as I said that made me stay in the sidelines everytime. Perhaps the key here is finding balance between the aloof and action guy. “I want you and I’m giving you a chance. If you reject me you have lost and I’m walking a… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Anyone seen this - 27% of men 30 yrs or under have never had sexAnd don’t be autistic. If you are jacked and have no balls to approach nothing will change. Personal experience. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Dog just died. How to hold frameThat's what most women would do. Hypergamy is ruled by signs of strength, not morality. She might show affection to you and help you relief you, but her hypergamic nature is telling her you are losing points. Plus to that, she could very be acting that scene. Remember women are machiavellian as fuck. I've seen that happen to a relative of mine. His dad died and her girlfriend seemed to care and relief him (reading body language is one of the most powerful skills), but I was seeing some cruelty i… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Dog just died. How to hold frameHe can be emotional, but only by himself. He can also do that in front of women, but it won't serve him good. Women are hardwired to lose attraction for a man who shows any kind of weakness. She doesn't care if OP's dog has died or even if it was one of his parents. Women don't give a fuck about ethics and morality. Understand that. If I were OP, I would do like FereallyRed said and just disappear for a while. Without explaining anything, really. This only if OP wants his LTR to see him as the d… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I have this mental block about chatting up women in front of people I know.... how do I get over this?If you talk to your friends about what you're gonna do like right before you do it that might make it easier No, it won't be easier. While it may seem like a "consistency" psychological effect, it puts even more pressure on you. OP is slowed down by social pressure, so that would make it even harder than if he didn't say anything and just did it. OP just needs to let go external validation and do whatever the fuck he wants in life. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Saw a bro in the streets approaching girls today, feeling like shitInb4 how many bodybuilders here who can’t even approach? I’m one of them. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The more I fail, the more I become cautious, the less I actGood points. My body language is on point. All I miss is frame when approaching. I fear failure on the approaching part but for the rest my frame is strong. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The more I fail, the more I become cautious, the less I actI should print this quote on my arm | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:22 AM |
| 1 | The more I fail, the more I become cautious, the less I actYeah frame is the foundation to everything. But how do you strengthen your frame? I’ve been improving myself for 3-4 years yet my frame isn’t THAT strong. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | The more I fail, the more I become cautious, the less I actJust don’t let your mistakes prevent you from trying again. That's my problem. Although I realize most of the painful events I faced are what actually made me improve, those negative experiences somehow made me more cautious. I guess the solution is to frame "failure" as something that does not exist and is all in my mind. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The more I fail, the more I become cautious, the less I actThank you. I guess the solution is then changing how I see failure? Cause if we think about it, failure is just how we label an event. Indeed, failure is just a label that brings negativity with it. I should train my mind to think in terms of the possible positive outcomes and not the negatives. My idea is to get my brain to frame failure not as a negative event, but as part of the process, something inevitable, like you said. The problem is that I don't know how to ingrain this deep into my sub… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Monk mode: fear of missing outYeah right now my SMV is pretty high (in my age bracket) due to looks + 4 yrs of lifting but I'm aware that in a few years the sexual market value will be established mainly by financial status. That's why I'm trying to figure out how to retire at 30-40. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Monk mode: fear of missing outat least focusing on them in a vacuum That's interesting. I'm not going to lie by saying that what drives my self-improvement is the thought that one day I will be swimming in pussy. And not from a blue-pill prospective, but more like a desire for power and to be chased. Knowing that my SMV will be high + the more stuff I'll achieve in life, the more I will internalize the prize mentality and a strong frame of reality. That's one strong motivator though and I'm quite sure sexual energy is the st… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Monk mode: fear of missing outYeah, point is I still have a shitload stuff to do and to improve on (And I guess I will always think like this, as there's no limit to self-improvement). I got obsessed with it, but it's clearly ruining me on some level. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 08:46 PM |
| 3 | what's so wrong with wanting to live a simple life?There's nothing wrong about that. Usually most of us aspire to a rich lifestyle because it's the most fulfilling thing ever. When you'll be close to dead and you can see all the empire you've built and say "Fuck yeah. I couldn't have lived better.". Saying you don't want to be rich is more like saying "It's too hard to get rich, so I'll be okay with living a cheap life", believe it or not. Just one of the many rationalizations we all make daily. It's not wrong nor a bad choice. There are no good… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 07:30 PM |
| 12 | Do you treat 10's the same way you treat 6-7's?Every single day, multiple times a day, do this exercise: Compare what you bring to the table, versus what she brings. Be realistic. You'll realize she has nothing but her looks, and her pussy. She was born with that. Personally, I've been struggling for these last years and improved myself a fucking lot. And it took me lots of struggles and I faced failure and depression multiple times. I thought about giving up so many times, but I always pushed further. I went from the ugliest guy in the room… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Anyone bought Andrew Tate fitness program?Everything else is marketing*. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 10:30 AM |
| 9 | Going solo doesnt feel right...how to fix itI feel you. You need to learn to like being alone. It's a skill just like any other. The more you go out alone, the more you get used to it, and it feels less and less awkward. I'm in the same path as yours right now. Got no friends to go out with. I don't know your age, neither what your life is like, but personally, I'm in monk mode right now and realised I got a lot to improve before going out alone and gaming chicks. That means, focusing on my mission. Having a clear vision of who I want to … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 03:13 PM |
| 46 | Why do women think they can get whatever they want with their vagina?Why? Because 90% of men (betas) agree on its "high" value. "Damn man look at how hot she is!", giving endless validation to women. It's the market that determines the value of something. It's the perceived value that matters, not the actual value. That's also what PUA's do. They use game techniques to increase their perceived value, even though they might be completely unsuccessful in life. Plus add a gyno-centric society, feminism, social media and the principle of social proof. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the biggest time & money wasting mistakes based on your experience?Exactly what I thought. I’m facing the same problem. I told myself I would approach a number of girls last year and never ever did that. I guess we should start small. In my case I should focus more on going out alone. If I go out, that’s progress for me. Same for you though, go out to the grocery store, for example. I made the mistake of aiming for unrealistic goals. I can’t expect to approach women when I still didn’t get used to going out alone in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 09:06 AM |
| 9 | Trying to build out my wardrobe, where do you shop?Yeah people think you need to wear Gucci to look good. Lol fuck that. Lift and you can wear a 5$ tshirt and look better than a fat guy with a Balenciaga one. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the biggest time & money wasting mistakes based on your experience?I've read many of the recommended books in the manosphere already, just want to indulge a little more in the deeper stuff to better form my opinions and reflect. I know what you mean. Read stuff from IllimitableMen and RationalMale. But again, be careful. The rabbit hole never ends. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How long should the monk mode be?Upvote this 1000 times. Women are the biggest distraction ever. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 03:10 PM |
| 5 | What are some of the biggest time & money wasting mistakes based on your experience?Reading books should be easy. Books are overrated here. Once you’ve read 2-5 books on self help you should be okay. Reading more won’t bring you any closer to your goals. Only pure action can do that. That’s an harsh truth. I spent one year reading trp and pua books yet approached maximum 10 chicks. Be really careful about that. It’s a vicious cycle which can waste years of your life, making you believe you are actually improving, while in reality you haven’t done much. The problem op is talking… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Unexperienced in sexYour story reminds mine lol. I was the guy everyone thought was fucking a different girl every week, while in reality I was a virgin. I had some game, but I was feared of closing so I never really got laid. I was good at creating attraction, but not at closing the deal. Unfortunately, that's what really matters. Escalating with no fears is the most important thing. If you can afford it, call an hooker. I lost my virginity to a pro and don't regret it. You can also lose it to that girl, but be ca… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 4 | How to learn Frame?This. Having a strong frame means knowing what your reality is. Your reality is your mission, your goals and your beliefs. Your reality is how you see yourself in 2-5-10 years. When you have that, you don't need anybody else in your life. Your frame is your best and real friend. When you have that, you are not drafting aimlessly through life anymore. You now know which path to follow. That's an incredible feeling which is hard to explain. But I know it's the cure to one-itis, loneliness and 99% … | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | TRP really matches with my mom's behaviorI’d say more like “next” and fly solo. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | TRP really matches with my mom's behaviorI feel exactly like you do. My parents are affecting my freedom. Freedom of doing what I truly want in my life. Moving in a few months in fact. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 07:00 PM |
| 8 | TRP really matches with my mom's behaviorExactly. Parents who give opinions on money are an example. “Money are bad” while they work 9-5 on a shitty job. Yeah you surely wouldn’t like to have so much money so you can retire and enjoy life. Ah. Then they say “the rich are lucky and bad people”. Any excuse is right for their unsuccessful life. Ego protection 101. Or “treat women with respect”, to find out your dad has probably been with 3 women in his entire life. I take financial advice from the rich and “seduction” advice from those wh… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding burnout?I don’t think Justin Bieber is depressed for that reason. He’s depressed because he is bluepilled and has wrong expectations about women. In fact, if you look at Dan Bilzerian quite the opposite is true. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding burnout?You only gold digger if you have no game. You can still fuck them and leave. Money just increases your opportunities to meet women, nothing else. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding burnout?If you get rich, don’t worry, they WILL follow. Not a matter of if, but when. The problem is how to get rich. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 11:20 AM |
| 6 | Why do women love being objectified?All true. Women love guys that beat them more actually. When I was bluepilled I sort of hated those guys who "beated" their girls, yet I now understand those girls were probably pleasing them in bed more than they would please a gentle beta. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Ways to improve text game?Ways to improve "text game"? Text with no emotions. No laughs, no emoticons, no exclamation/question marks and you are ahead of 99% of the guys. And stop with this text game bullshit, there's no game in texting. Only logistics. I wonder how rich is the guy who has spread this pua bs. You create attraction in real life, not behind a screen through some PUA canned phrases lmao. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 06:50 PM |
| 5 | I've maxed out my looks, I work out regularly, I'm well read and knowledgeable and I'm confidently pursuing my mission in life, yet women still aren't attracted to me. What gives?I know what you mean OP. You lift, are on your mission, have an overall high SMV, yet you can't get laid. Just one question, how many chicks did you approach this week? I ask myself this question from time to time to realise I'm not approaching them at all, and then wonder why I'm not getting laid. If you don't know how to sell yourself to the market, no matter how valuable you are, you still won't get sales. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Shit test- “you must say/do that to all girls”“You could be right” or Start counting with your fingers while saying “1..2..3..Yeah, actually, you are the 137th one I said that to!” Tone of voice is extremely important. Spike her competition anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Addicted to prostitutes. Help please.I feel both you and OP. I lost my virginity to an hooker even though people tell me I’m good looking and jacked almost everyday. Why? Probably because I’m still shamed of my sexuality and fear failure/rejection. 60 years of challenge talks explains that in “you should escalate from horniness, not from affection”. Hookers cannot reject your 100€. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | What's the RP view on sluts?That would just be me being desperate and that's not cool. Indeed, I currently find myself with no options that's why I thought about fucking a slut who'd be dtf. If I had options I would never fuck a slut tho. I really don't care about how people view my decision, more like how I will view myself after that. My "desire" to fuck sluts is just because I feel like they are easier and let's say they are a shortcut, just like escorts. But yeah I feel there's something wrong about all this. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What's the RP view on sluts?That's my concern. Fucking a slut would lower my SMV if people would come to know. I shouldn't really care though. The real problem is that I feel like I deserve better than that and I would lose some self-respect. I guess part of that is due to the bluepill lies though. If men's "mission" is to reproduce with as many women as possible than my statement just makes no sense. No wonder most alphas I see fuck sluts too. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | What's the RP view on sluts?You are right, sounds legit. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | What's the RP view on sluts?I'm just wondering if my view on the subject is cause of my social conditioning or else. I actually remember reading that the higher the n-count the lower her value. That's where plate game comes into play, I guess. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Best tips for going out solo at 22I don’t know about snapchat as in my country nobody really uses it. Do you find it increases your chances of meeting women? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Best tips for going out solo at 22I know what you mean, but no, you don't need them to get laid. Women use social media to get validation, and 99% of the guys who fuck them are not the ones who text them on instagram. If you have <500 followers that shit is useless and only harms your perceived SMV. If you have a top tier physique, go on, try it, but still, you don't need social media as much as you believe. Not having them makes you mysterious as fuck, as long as you have an high SMV. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 05:28 PM |
| 30 | Anybody find conversation or listening to women annoying?Women are for fucking. Men are for talking. I remember reading this quote on TRP so yeah, pretty much sums it up. Civilization makes us talk to women like if we were talking to men, while in reality you need to be sexual as fuck, as women are sexual creatures and only respond to sexuality. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Best tips for going out solo at 22All I can tell you is this. Nobody really gives a fuck about you. Social pressure is probably what’s stopping you. Do something that makes you face that. Whenever in doubt, just do it. I’m 19 and facing your same problems during this period. What I am doing is to 1. Do shit that makes me love myself (accomplish goals), 2. Ditching anyone who keeps me back and dependant to him, and stopping me from achieving my goals. When you become a lone wolf you can’t believe how much freedom you actually hav… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | What book would you recommend to get a 15 year old?There actually are 15 year old kids on this sub. I'm 19 and I already consider myself lucky for finding TRP at this age. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | masturbating to own porn?OP this is the answer! | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on MGTOW?There should be a distinction between what is being MGTOW and what is being an incel. Becoming MGTOW because you can't get pussy is no different than being an incel. If you lift and have an high SMV, only then you can "go MGTOW". Otherwise those are just excuses of why you can't get laid. I currently found myself following the MGTOW path as I realised women's real value (which is close to null) and can't get bothered and get distracted from my mission right now. So many self-entitled bitches. If… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle Monk Mode?There’s a difference between being silent and confident and being silent and awkward. You can be attractive even if you do not socialise. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:10 AM |
| 7 | How do you guys handle Monk Mode?Okay I guess I can help. Been in monk mode for 4-5 months now. For monk mode I refer to: dropped my old beta friends, stopped going out on saturday drinking like I used to, stopped wasting time on cheap dopamine habits. Once you get to this point, you’ll find yourself with lot of free time, and the desire to get laid could become overwhelming at some point. If you have a mission (if you don’t know if you have it, you probably don’t have it) you naturally ease into monk mode. If monk mode is hard… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet milfs bros ?If you don’t know how to approach milfs, your primarily goal should be learning how to approach anyone pretty much. The foundation is always the same, and those are called social skills and low inhibitions. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | I have a great physique, now what?Thank you very much. because you want to be remembered This is really true. One of my biggest desires is indeed to impact millions and change the world. Nothing is impossible. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | I have a great physique, now what?Both amazing paths. Becoming an entrepreneur is my widest vision. I also would love to take the military path, even though I'm still trying to decide whether I should go to Uni first. I'm still in high school. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | I have a great physique, now what?This is a great reply. In fact, I found myself doing almost nothing apart from lifting. How much money did you make? This is what I'm currently focusing on. I've been studying finance and the basics of entrepreneurship, but yeah, I still didn't act much. I need to act more. How many girls have you approached this week? fucked? I've had 2 depressing years (I got out from it recently, actually) due to this. I was obsessing over women and lacking a mission in my life. I decided to stop even thinkin… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I’ll never have sexI resonate with everything you wrote. I've been obsessed like you so I clearly understand what you mean. I was wondering how all those guys could fuck so easily, while I couldn't. Well. I was overthinking everything. I realised I wasn't acting enough and if I did, I could be getting laid in matters of days, by trying and failing. That's the hardest phase of TRP in my opinion. The answer to my problem was focusing on my life and finding an higher mission. Women are the emptiest fullfilment ever. … | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Being the loud person that everyone knows in the building or being the quiet chilled laid back guy?The latter, definitely. Especially if you lift and are on your mission + have interests in different fields. Everyone will want to be your friend and you will be mysterious to women. Loud person works but I would define it “needy alpha”. Silent alpha > needy alpha. Plus, by being loud people will avoid you because you’ll come of as arrogant. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 08:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you meet women if you don't like clubbing?True. I had many opportunities in front of me but I was too beta to escalate. Being good looking only makes it easy for you to get low smv women. High smv women aim for confidence foremost | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 08:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you meet women if you don't like clubbing?it's normal to have sex on your mind constantly at your age Normal, yeah, but it does not serve me anything to be honest. I use that energy to pursue my mission, at most. It took me 2 years to stop obsessing over women and start doing more important shit. These past years I was depressed because I wasn't getting laid. Hormones? Yeah, probably, but also a negative mindset and beliefs in my opinion. I came to the conclusion that the guys who are ruled by their mind (and not by their dick) are the … | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet women if you don't like clubbing?Daygame is ultimately one of the best ways to meet new women outside your social circle. Thanks for the clarification. I indeed was wondering how all those people in TRP could have like 5 plates while I can't even find one girl. I realized the reason is that I've been used to meet women via social circles in the past and before TRP the idea of approaching a stranger was completely outside of my reasoning. But actually, being able to cold approach is perhaps the most powerful skill one could have… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you meet women if you don't like clubbing?I didn't say there are not women around to be approached. Perhaps the title is easily misunderstanding. My problem is that whenever I go out I feel like my mission-mode is off and my mind is wandering and totally invested in the outcome...it's like if approaching women was the only purpose to go out for me. I got no shit to do outside here in my city. As I said, I pursue my mission at home as I have all I need and I'm 100% focused, and I lift at home too. I also dumped all my old "friends" as th… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Is "SMV is everything" belief exxagerated?This is extremely true and resonates with what I’ve seen in the real world. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Is "SMV is everything" belief exxagerated?Yeah I made the mistake of accepting TRP theories as 100% unique truths but reality is there are way too many factors to consider. I realised they they explain reality as closely as possible, but still not perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Is "SMV is everything" belief exxagerated?it only unlocks the door to women This is a really great analogy to explain all this. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is "SMV is everything" belief exxagerated?That's interesting. I too have seen many skinny guys getting laid much more easily than me even though I'm good looking and jacked. That shit got me mad. I had extreme cases of cognitive dissonance as a consequence. I recently discovered I still lack the right mindset that makes me approach ad infinitum and give no fucks of the outcome. But what I realised most importantly, is that women don't have standards as high as TRP makes you believe regarding looks. I've seen ugly guys getting with women… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?Indeed, what's safe has a small ROI. The greater the risk, the greater the return. This rule applies to everything. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?I completely agree with that. But still, it's not saving that makes you rich. Assets make you rich. Do you think Bill Gates gives a fuck about spending 5 bucks on a coffee? I don't think so. Build assets first, then worry about saving and investing. Anyone telling you you can become a billionaire by investing in the stock market is that same guy who becomes rich by selling a book on "how to make money". | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 06:12 PM |
| -2 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?This advice is so useless. You won't get rich by controlling spending. Dude is asking how to become a millionaire not how to live a frugal life and retire at 70. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?Build a business is key. Investing in stocks/bonds/index funds is like going to the Casino if you don't have assets to sustain that investment. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?Index funds are bullshit if you don't have a good income from a business. You won't get rich by putting 1k a month on a 5% interest fund. Just lol if you believe at that shit. Neither will you get rich by saving every penny unless you actually have assets that bring you cash (and it needs to be lot of cash). | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Not accustomed to people staring at meActually I'm not shy at all, I just really didn't get used to having people stare at me yet I guess. Nice vid. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Should you even care about women when you haven't fixed yourself yet?if you text them too much Not that! Actually, I'm really aloof with women and paradoxically I give them barely any attention. In the beginning, it was a faked act, I was faking aloofness and indifference, but after a while it became part of me. Perhaps working on myself and consciously internalizing my achievements contributed to that + realising how women's real value is low in reality. The point is, I'm giving them still way too much importance. For that, I mean I spend too much time and emoti… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Should you even care about women when you haven't fixed yourself yet?Here's the problem. Whenever I try to get women I cannot but focus on them. I don't even know how to fix this. Been reading TRP for 1-2 years now and I definitely improved myself but still have not found the answer to this. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Should you even care about women when you haven't fixed yourself yet?EDIT: I mean think about the 1700's and such -- do you think that men's main mission were to focus on women? Or was it to survive? I don't even know the answer to that. Good point. We have the internet and feminism today. Both "increase" (in our minds) pussy's value. That's the answer in my opinion. Men were the natural leaders before civilization. Women were naturally submissive. Now society is just fucked up and can only get worse. Women feel entitled to everything and get plenty of validation… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 08:16 PM |
| 13 | Should you even care about women when you haven't fixed yourself yet?I lift 6 days a week and been doing that for 4 years. That doesn't fix the problem. Endorphins are still temporary. I find it a good way to cope with negative emotions, but the deep rooted issue must be fixed anyways in one way or another. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | TRP made me a Lone WolfYep I realised this too. Despite my great physique I never really got many girls in my school attracted to me. As you said, they go for the popular ones. That shit sucks to be honest, but I don’t really care as I’m going to uni next year and I hope shit will change. And you are right again, many trp theories I’ve never seen them applied to high school environment. For example the cock carousel is one of these. Most girls will only let you fuck them if you are willing to commit first. There are e… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Social medias and SMVI definitely noticed improvements on that side, you are right. Indeed I had really hard times with body dysmorphia when I used to browse instagram daily. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | How effective is ignoring shit tests?Indeed. Silence is much more powerful than agreeing and amplifying every fucking time. That bullshit is like rewarding for bad behavior with some funny line, so the girl gets used to shit test you when she wants to have a laugh. You are not her personal clown. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:03 PM |
| 9 | Not sure what’s wrong with my dick.Porn. Death grip masturbation. Anxiety (Read Sex God method). Testosterone. It’s one of these. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:01 PM |
| 24 | I fuck a girl, now what?That’s why I decided to lose my virginity to an hooker. One of the best decisions I ever took. It let me understand how overrated the hype was. Society and porn exaggerate sex’s value so fucking much. And who benefits from this? Clearly women and whoever produces porn. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I fuck a girl, now what?Wish I could upvote this more than once. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Hesitation when approachingVery great points, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Hesitation when approachingThis is the answer I needed. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Hesitation when approachingI don’t think it has to do with approach anxiety. I beat my anxiety a long time ago. It’s more about fear of failure. For instance, if a girl approached me, I would be relaxed as fuck. And yeah, we pursue women but our intrinsic value is much higher than theirs (if you lift, take care of yourself etc.) To me a woman’s looks shouldn’t define her value. I mean it does (evolutionary speaking), but what has she done to earn that? Nothing. They do nothing all day but browsing instagram, and that’s ri… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Question regarding hookersWell man compared to most guys my age I would say a lot. I had a job as graphic designer at 13 as a freelancer. I know 3 languages and I've been lifting for 4 years and dieting with barely any cheat meal. I wasn't comparing myself to the guys in their 30's cause it's fucking obvious they could have achieved more during that time. When everyone does nothing but eating crap, playing videogames, watching porn and tv, yep, I would say I achieved some great stuff. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Question regarding hookersThen what would be the solution of my problem? I tried everything to be honest. I live in a small city and Tinder didn't work for me in the past. I don't know how dating apps could benefit me here. The only matches I could get were some fatties who as I said would not even be fun to fuck. I know most guys are virgins at this age, but I also know younger guys who are not. I know that comparing myself to others is bad, but that's not the point. The point is that this virginity thing is still fucki… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 6 | NoFap and TRPYo chill. NoFap is 99% about abstaining from porn. There's enough science on the internet that claims how dangerous porn is for your mind. You can't tell me porn is harmless, cause it's clearly not. What is harmless is normal masturbation, in my opinion. I don't understand guys who want to reach 90 days neither. I tried 30 days and decided to end it here cause I was not seeing much benefits, but at least I gave up porn. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 08:20 PM |
| 5 | NoFap and TRPGreat points. I'm not scared of women, but of failure/rejection, as you mentioned. Or maybe I'm scared of how others view me when I approach and get rejected. Or both. I know it stems from a wrong frame of mind. Still trying to internalise that I'm the prize to be won and that my value is higher (it actually is higher as I've been lifting for years and I do shit that average guys don't do) than most women and guys out there. Even tried self-hypnosis but I guess it takes time to change one's mind… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Best books on kino escalation?60 years of challenge. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I distinguish between hobbies and my mission?Mission is basically your end goal in life divided into smaller goals. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Battling addiction..what worked for you?It took me 1 exact year to quit porn. It was the hardest habit to get rid of for me. How I did it? Failure after failure. Relapsed many times in 1 year but every time I learned from mistakes, and here I am. K9 Web Protection and a fucking lot of discipline (I actually many times removed that same program I installed to quit porn lol just imagine how addicted I was to that shit). I was tired of fapping to some other guy fucking women, I mean, do you know how beta that is?!! Fuck that shit man. Wh… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 09:11 AM |
| 5 | What were your biggest mistakes in seduction/game that you have fixed and how did you fix them?Yeah replying to her bullshit with sarcasm is basically rewarding bad behavior, and she gets used to doing that later on. Silence is much more powerful. It lets the hamster spin. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | “You look like someone that would steal my virginity” response?Lol such obvious IOI. Response? Go fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 08:08 AM |
| 18 | How do you guys cope with being horny all the time but having no women in your life currently?Use that energy to get money so you can afford hookers. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I get girls out of my head?He can focus on his things but repressing one’s desire is a short term solution. On the long term it only creates further frustration. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?86kg at 5’7? I don’t think you are lean at all unless you juice. Perhaps you underestimated your bodyfat. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 08:36 AM |
| 6 | Losing virginity to legal prostitute/escort? Just a few questions.This is the worst advice I've read here in a while. Are you from the relationship subreddit? Cause I wouldn't be surprised. You can't tell a virgin "it's not a big deal", cause sex matters a fucking lot when you have none. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Should an advanced age virgin admit the fact to a girl he’s trying to fuck?This. Guys think that building rapport and telling them you are a virgin will benefit you. 1. You are stating that other women DON’T find you desiderable, thus her pussy will dry out in a few seconds. 2. There’s a difference between RAPPORT and ATTRACTION and they are not connected each other at all. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 10:03 AM |
| 1 | At what age does the average man's libido go down noticeably and dick no longer work in full power?Strength workout, eat healthy, don’t drink, don’t smoke. Basic trp advice. If you are healthy Testosterone shouldn’t drop significantly. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 10:00 AM |
| 2 | How did you stop wanking and quit pornThis is true. I’m on day 26 and feel worse than before. I’m needy and beta as fuck around women right now. Point is, as a porn addict I can’t avoid NoFap. Also, masturbation actually kept me from pursuing real girls so I guess NoFap is legit if you do not have plates and recur to porn as a form of escapism. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | How to get back with a girl that saw your beta ways and put her into your frameI see one-itis going on. add her back and hit her up Just make sure you don't come off as "hey you see how I improved myself?" in a sort of validation seeking. She will understand you are just trying to impress her. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to eye contact and approach women?Been a long time since I haven't read some PUA lines, but these ones are awesome. It's useful to have some practical advice for outer game as TRP is pretty much just theory and psychology, while this is something like a mix of both. The advice you give on asktrp is really great, you should consider writing a post on the main subreddit. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 06:09 PM |
| 10 | Best books on manipulating people?Machiavelli | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How could I become College President?Most of it is about knowing how to influence people. If you are a naturally introvert this shit is not for you. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | I want to bulk and train strongman again, but I can't snap out of the mindset of "abs=girls". I know this is gay as fuck. But can I have advice pls.Lower your carbs. If you were eating 300g of carbs on a bulk, eat 150-200 while cutting. Just remember to slowly ease into it. Do not decrease your calories too quick. Increase protein and fat intake. This is perhaps the most important thing to maintain muscle mass and hormonal balance in a caloric deficit + strength workouts. You can also try eating at maintenance on workout days and on a slight deficit on rest days. Keep it simple. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:58 PM |
| 6 | How long would it take to build a decent physique (something that would make you look better than like 60-70 percent of guys out there)You focus on the Z when instead you should be focusing on the A-Y. Focus on the whole journey, not the result. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:43 PM |
| 5 | How long would it take to build a decent physique (something that would make you look better than like 60-70 percent of guys out there)Came here to post this. OP is looking for excuses not to lift and staying in his comfort zone. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:41 PM |
| 28 | I want to bulk and train strongman again, but I can't snap out of the mindset of "abs=girls". I know this is gay as fuck. But can I have advice pls.Bulk until you hate how you look like. Cut until you hate how you feel like. Those are the only two things you should consider. Women love muscles in general, stop obsessing about whether they like the aesthetic beach guy or the buff dude more, cause you will never get a precise answer to that. For example, I've been bulking for 4-5 months and was literally exhausted of eating 3000 calories/day and seeing my muscle definition go away day by day. I was not counting calories, so I might have somet… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?What's your weight/height right now at 9% bf? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?I actually saw some tests that asked women about men's physique but won't find it now. Why are you believing what women say they like? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?If you care about aesthetics, then go for hypertrophy and low body fat. If you care about social dominance, then go for the stocky kind of build. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?6 Cute and bangable, but not attractive enough to introduce to friends or take to public places like my BJJ gym or work place I rejected so many girls of this kind who were clearly DTF but I was too busy acting alpha and always felt like I deserved more. I regret that to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?Your points are right. But remember that lot of rich entrepreneurs today were in poor families when they were kids. You can’t get 200lbs at 5% naturally, you are right. Whoever has those stats is in the 0.1% not 1%. Line up 100 random men and trust me you’ll realise how only 1-4 of them lift (naturally). | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 08:54 AM |
| 14 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?Anything is possible if you are willing to work and struggle for it. This <1% do not have superpowers, they are just like any other human being. The differences are in their mindsets. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?Don't you think that having sex with an hooker the first time impacts your subconscious into believing that hookers are your only way of getting laid? Nevertheless, the benefits should outweigh the cons no doubt. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Don't do this when talking to women (and how to fix it)Or "Always say less than necessary" | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/19 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I learn "adulting" as a 25M that has never been taught important life skills/lessonsThen have some discipline and study that shit. The internet is full of information, all you lack is discipline. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Is there a difference between holding frame and being stoic?Holding frame simply means being unreactive when other realities clash with yours. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How To Get 1% Better Every Time You Approach WomenExtreme social circle game and money are the only way you get such rates with these types of women This is what I was thinking as well. Whoever thinks otherwise is probably some PUA selling his shit. Neglecting status and money as mediums that get you laid is quite BluePill. Social circles are hard to make but it is the easiest way to get women in my experience. Even more if you are the amog in those social groups. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | When you start aiming for perfectionand remember all the shit you've accomplished I guess this is the key to everything. I should remember myself that every second of my life until it becomes something deep wired into the subconscious. Listening to positive affirmations should also do the trick as you said | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | When you start aiming for perfectionThank you very much | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | When you start aiming for perfectionI saw your comment this morning, and I have to say it’s great advice. One thing though, how do you actually start feeling emotionally that you are the prize? Because I’m experiencing what you are talking about aka I know TRP’s theories but my subconscious has not internalised its principles. How do you internalise them deep in your mind? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 12 | What are your TRP goals for 2019?Everyone has been guilty about it in the past. So did I. Since then, I realised that not telling shit about my goals and plans would benefit me in two ways: I look mysterious in the eyes of other people ("Why wouldn't he talk about his future goals?") and women in particular. You, and only you know what you want and will try your best to achieve those goals and let the results speak for themselves. There's no real point in telling people your goals. They don't give a single fuck, even if they ac… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 05:28 PM |
| 115 | What are your TRP goals for 2019?Be careful of telling your goals to other people. Dopamine gets involved and you’ll feel like you accomplished them when you talk about them, thus you won’t feel motivation to actually pursue them. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Situation with my parentsLooks like my story. I'm 18 too. My parents have been controlling since when I was a kid. My dad was following me everywhere I went. I didn't ever have a real conversation with him and I doubt I will ever have. He's extremely beta/bluepilled. My mother is the dominant one and he keeps being submissive and never demands respect. Interestingly enough, I see TRP theories applied to both my parents. My mom acts like a whore outside. The reason is easy, my dad does not satisfy her at all. Usual beta … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachThis kind of posts are the most useful ones in my opinion. Giving practical advice and examples to explain how irrational the fear of approaching is. I believe approach anxiety stems from inferiority complex. If you knew deep inside that your value is higher, you would not be scared of rejection, because you are the real prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 04:40 PM |
| 31 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachI had a girl I approached who flat out rejected me, 6 months later, same girl, approached and fucked her later that night. This. Women act based on their emotions in the present moment. One day she might hate you, another day she might want to fuck you. There's no logic in their behavior. Most guys think that if they get rejected once, that means they got blacklisted by that girl. In reality, that same girl can become attracted to you if you hold frame and act like her reaction cannot cause you … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.This kid here is from seddit. I wonder why he came here spreading his pua bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Building an aesthetic bodyYou can get to top 5% physically easily with calisthenics. It just takes longer. I’ve been doing it the first 1-2 years then entered a gym. It’s great to gain some strength into bodyweight exercises so you learn having mind-muscle connection (which does not happen when you enter the gym for the first time without having done any resistance workout in your life). Perhaps the main problem about calisthenics is its lack of leg training possibilities. Your upper body will inevitably grow much more t… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.Stop with the numbers. This is not seddit. Lift, improve yourself and they will come. If out of 200 approaches you didn’t get one single date you are either not lifting or you are autistic. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Social Media are useless?I’m 19 and I know very well how everyone uses it. What I was wondering is if using it is necessary for the RedPill lifestyle. As I mentioned in the post, since when I deleted I felt more freedom of doing whatever the fuck I want. You are talking a lot about the money/business aspect of it, which I never said was useless. That’s definitely a great way to make money as there’s an huge market behind Instagram. What I hate about Social Medias is that it makes people socially retarded and guys can’t … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Social Media are useless?Man probably the 1% of the users there use it for money. And that would make sense. If you have a business that's one possible way to monetize it and get more cashflow. But if you are young, (<20-25 years old) I don't see how you can benefit from it. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:40 PM |
| 14 | Social Media are useless?Many girls in this new generation of women will want to check your Instagram page to asses your social status This way of thinking just makes them the prize while we are the chasers. That's not the right way in my opinion. I know that Briffault's Law states that it's the female who chooses, but having social media just for the sake of getting laid is pathetic in my honest opinion. As I said, unless you are already rich or popular (and travel a lot), what's the point of it? What do you have to sh… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:35 PM |
| 29 | What are your essential smartphone apps?Evernote Edit: And btw, a real journal is better than all the apps mixed together. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:40 PM |
| 2 | how to have more women in my lifeI doubt tinder will work for him unless he’s 6’5 with a pretty boy face. If you are not genetically lucky tinder is a waste of time and just makes you give women free validation. Plus, if he doesn’t live in a big city, again, he should avoid it completely and focus that time on his shit or approaching women irl. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 12:56 PM |
| 4 | 15 Year Old, I want to learn how to be a man from a young age, Where do I start?Do the opposite of what your teachers, your parents (if you are here it means your dad is either absent or a beta figure. In doubt, do the opposite of what your mom tells you to do), your friends, and society tell you to do. Congratulations, you are now considered masculine. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 08:57 PM |
| 19 | How do alpha males flirt vs how beta males flirt ?Redpill guy: "Do I like her? Has she got anything special apart from the looks she was born with? I start showing interest when she qualifies to me and makes me know she is worth my time. She plays it (too) hard? "Have a good day.". I assume she wants my cock from the beginning. I know escalation is a step I can't skip. I escalate until I receive a serious "no" (never really happened. You'll receive token resistence which is just a shit-test to see how you react to her stopping you). Be attracti… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:06 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill has made me mad for successThe desire to be successful is a primitive/instinctive one. It's not an illusion. People are just used to mask that off by indulging in cheap-dopamine activities which satisfy this desire. See videogames, or porn. We as men have to reproduce and survive. Both require the climb to the social hierarchy, and so, success. Try to stay away for 2 weeks from: porn, tv, music, videogames, garbage food and see how you feel. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 09:19 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill has made me mad for successThe one thing that I missed out on was having awesome friends. After everything else that's what I realized I missed out on. I understand what you are saying. When I was a kid I was a complete nerd with no friends. At age 14 I dropped an hobby I loved (which I was monetizing) just because I had found some friends to go out with. Fun fact, these "friends" made me start smoking, drinking and brought me in the unsuccessful path. Luckily, I stopped smoking and all the bad habits I learned by going o… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 09:10 PM |
| 12 | Red Pill has made me mad for successI found TRP exactly 1 year ago and I believe I got throught the Anger Phase already. Or sort of. I had a long hard time accepting hypergamy and "look at what they do, not what they say". This clearly shifted the perspective. I internalised the AWALT idea and the fact that my mom is as hypergamous as any other woman out there was hard to accept. Beware, I'm still 18. My dad is extremely beta (and so was I) so finding TRP was even more astoundishing. But I knew there was something wrong/fake in th… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 08:52 PM |
| 13 | Red Pill has made me mad for successI was in your shoes and it's a hard lonely life. It took a while for me to realize that the dream I had about being the rich playboy was an illusion created from reading too much red pill. Sure they are out there but there aren't that many. Yeah the desire to become a playboy is definitely feeded by the the RP. But thinking that "only a few make it" is already the worst mindset possible in my opinion. "Everyone can make it, as long as effort is exerted. That with discipline."** is the realist mi… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 08:31 PM |
| 28 | Red Pill has made me mad for successThese are good points. Perhaps I took the Red Pill theories to the extreme. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Never experienced the eyeball fucking thingIt's funny how your comment got downvoted, while it's on point with TRP's ideas. The real sub is dead and even asktrp is slowly dying. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Mewing adviceGo back to lookism and keep that shit there. Seems like the real RP is dead since it got flooded with autistic kids from black pill forums lmao | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Never experienced the eyeball fucking thingI was hoping people of the blackpill forums not to come here on trp. I guess the day has come. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Does fapping work for or against you?I could see fapping working for you by providing you that release and can train your brain that you're not at the mercy of the ladies to get that satisfaction Actually, you are putting them in the pedestal subconsciously this way. When you fap you get bombarded with dopamine and in the long run you can get easily addicted to that, especially if you use porn. That means that the more you fap, the more women will be in your head. Your dominating thoughts become the obsession of your life. While ma… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Is TRP main sub ever going to come back?Since when it got quarantined I can’t find a decent post in there in all honesty. Main sub is half dead. I miss the days before the quarantine. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 07:24 PM |
| 5 | What should I be doing at high-school?I'm one year older than you. Ask yourself what you truly want. Just don't make the same mistake I've been making (and still am really often) of not knowing what to do with my life. Set goals, and be accountable to yourself. I often set goals, and 2 days later I get back on my old habits. You need to truly know what you want, otherwise you'll never be persistent in your goals. Call it motivation, if you will. But motivation is fleeting. Often what you really need is discipline. I would tell you t… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 08:49 PM |
| 11 | How to use money to improve SMV or get more girls?told me they hate short guys Lol you listen at what they say. Wait until they find a short guy who 1. lifts 2. does mma 3. does not give them attention and lowers their self-esteem (he can also be charming. Anyone has his kind of approach) I see many tall men have no results with women. How do you explain that? They are fucking beta. Easy. You have two choices, 1. keep listening to what women say and be their beta orbiter, or 2. wake the fuck up and go out and see what women really do. You'll no… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 09:21 PM |
| 12 | How to use money to improve SMV or get more girls?This. Guys who obsess over their height don’t understand that confidence is 90% of the game. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Lifting: personal trainersNot what I was asking. I was referring to the average personal trainer. I'm taking up a course to become one but the stuff they are teaching me seems like broscience mixed with marketing strategies lol | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Trp changed my lifeMay I ask you what's your current SMV? Do you lift? Do you have a sense of style? What's your body language and attitude like? Also, were you attracted to that girl? Or did you choose a random low smv girl to lose your v-card, despite not being truly attracted to her? (fuckable or non fuckable) Asking all this out of curiosity. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I work out on my butt?Machines won’t grow your legs much man. Compound movements > isolation movements Unless you are seriously injured, you should put some sets in your routine at least. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Should I work out on my butt?Squats, deadlifts AND (weighted) hip thrusts. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Lifting hasn't made me more confidentEnded up to this comment just now. This is golden, for real. I'm experiencing the so-called Imposter Syndrome and just like op, I'm not confident even though I achieved a shit ton of things in life. You made me realise how hard is that and how confident I should be, considering that 95% of the people prefer taking the easy path. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | why do i quit thinking about women every time i bust a nut?Everytime you masturbate the desire for women becomes stronger each time. You become addicted to dopamine and serotonine. Happened to me as well. Try to NoFap for 15+ days | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 09:39 AM |
| 8 | Wtf happens to people after high school that makes them get their shit togetherSame thing here. They are bluepilled pretty much. They get dopamine from porn, netflix, watching sports and any other consuming activity. Must read: https://www.trp.red/p/omlala/70 Ironically, these "hobbies" take your energy. Try to binge watch a TV series. You'll feel like you want to go to bed after that. And there's no way you will want to go to the gym. I've been a nerd for most of my teens. I was fapping 3 times a day, playing CS GO and eating shit. When I watched porn, I used to tell me "… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:11 PM |
| 4 | I keep switching things up and changing everything needlessly(Careers, diet, etc.). How do I develop staying power? What the hell do I do?Discipline. Pick something and stay on that path. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I use Instagram?High School senior here. Don’t. Unless you are popular/rich/a model. Like everyone else said Instagram only benefits women. That’s their favorite drug: validation generator. I never follow back women, neither like their photos. Let betas do that. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:16 AM |
| 7 | Not kissing a woman on the first date?One thing is not kissing because “Man I’m scared, she’ll reject me”, and another thing is not doing it because “Man I don’t think I like her yet. She’s gotta earn my dick”. If you are the first one, she’ll lose interest. Second one, hamster spins and she’ll text you to meet up again. Remember that game is 80% about non verbal communication. Let her talk, act like you don’t like her (yet), let her qualify to you. You don’t have to talk to make her attracted. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:12 AM |
| 16 | Lost All Friends to TRPTotally normal. You’ll realise this is a positive thing rather than negative. You are now are free. You are unchained. You can do whatever the fuck you want. I remember when I abandoned by old Beta friends. Felt weird in the beginning, but after a few months I realised how good I felt. I started feeling independent, I started realising I am the only person who really matters (to me), and most importantly, I started asking myself questions such as “Who do I want to become in life?”. This did not … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 09:19 PM |
| 4 | How are you guys having this much success with women? it looks like just having muscle mass equals unlimited pussy.All he’s saying is that you still need decent social skills to get laid. You can even be a fitness model but if you can’t have a conversation with a girl muscle won’t do much. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Does posting "pre-selection" photos on social media get plates/prospective plates jealous?Just make sure you look like “Alpha Tell” and not Beta Tell” in photos. Look for Rollo’s article. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else feeling burnt out?You are right, even though it’s easier said than done. The desire for women is hardwired into the subconscious of many guys who were nerds in the past and never received sexual validation from females. Reading stuff or “consciously” deciding not to make women their mission, is not going to help. It may help for a few minutes, hours, days? No longer than that. It’s like filling a bucket with a hole. I guess a different approach is needed, which I’m honestly unaware of. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:06 PM |
| 112 | Anyone else feeling burnt out?That’s the trap most guys finish into. Me included. That’s the monk mode trap. You are self-improving and (possibly) experiencing body dysmorphia and always feel like you are not enough. Chances are you are not even TRYING to approach women, and so wrongly assume that you are not enough. You are probably expecting women to approach you, and when they don’t, you keep assuming your SMV is not high enough. This is what I’ve been experiencing since when I went monk mode. Constant self-improvement wi… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 08:42 AM |
| 1 | AudiobooksHow can you lift and listen to an audiobook? That’s not going to work. To lift correctly you need mind/muscle connection, and to listen and understand you need to focus on listening. You can’t do both. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Does Gaming at your Gym count as shitting where you're eating?And if op gets rejected and holds frame (starts ignoring her like nothing happened) she could even get attracted from that. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if you’re pushing too much?I flirt with this one girl by taking her class notebook and going through it because she doesn’t like people going through her stuff. That's okay, but don't over do it. That just becomes silly. Pushing means "showing disinterest", nothing else. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 05:49 PM |
| 5 | How to tell if you’re pushing too much?As far as I’m concerned, it’s better to over push rather than over pull. Pushing too much is still considered alpha behavior. The girl will feel rejected but deep inside she will still be attracted. Pulling too much is beta behavior. It’s just repulsive. You won’t be able to recover from that. I’m looking forward to other people’s responses, cause that’s something I’d like to know as well. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Aloof vs aggressive gameDefinitely. For aloof I was referring to someone who’s mindset is “prove me you’re worth my time, otherwise I might walk away/ignore you”. This is extremely powerful I realised. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 08:02 PM |
| 12 | Why do some people NOT work out?They get dopamine from bad sources so they don’t feel the need to do productive shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 09:39 AM |
| 8 | NoFap: feeling no desire for womenI already lift 6 times a week. Heavy compound movements. Test is probably high, but what I lack is dopamine I guess. When you jerk off 3 times a day to porn for years your dopamine receptors get fucked up, and now that I stopped, my brain can’t seem to get dopamine anymore | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 02:25 PM |
| 3 | NoFap: feeling no desire for womenWell, have you ever been a porn addict? If not, I wouldn't say that abstaining from masturbation for a limited period of time is bullshit. Even if their sub is full of betas, the idea behind NoFap is legit. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | NoFap: feeling no desire for women Fuck me only 14 days and already whining. Honestly, I was just wondering if it's normal, because even by lifting 6 days a week and eating healthy I feel like my sex drive dropped entirely. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Women can touch muscular men but men can’t touch womenSome of course are fake. But others look quite real. I don't watch them as a form of entertainment, but rather to confirm to myself TRP's theories. I've also seen that happen in real life. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Women can touch muscular men but men can’t touch womenIf an (attractive) girl touches me, I take that as a clear indicator of interest. That’s why in that case I would not hesitate to touch her back. I would be 100% confident in touching her, because I know she’s attracted to me. But if it was a girl who’s not touching me or showing IOI’s, I would feel like hesitating. In a few words, I’m waiting for IOI’s to escalate which is obviously the wrong way to do it. I guess it has to do with fear of failure | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Women can touch muscular men but men can’t touch womenI agree with you. Actually it’s full of videos on youtube of bodybuilders who walk around the street with no clothes. You can see women’s reactions which are positive. I guess everything has to do with your SMV, really. If you are jacked in the 1% of the population (you should be juicing at this point though) you can walk in just underwear around the city and still get more results than an average guy who approaches in a common way. This pill is hard to digest. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Women can touch muscular men but men can’t touch womenThis is not what I was trying to say. I can clearly tell a girl “Don’t touch me”. What I was referring to, is the difference between the male’s developed hesitation towards escalation and the women’s “courage” to touch a man who’s high SMV. It’s like if they believe they are entitled to touch a muscular men, but if an average guy touches them they act repulsively. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Is Instagram a waste of time?Everything depends on your SMV. If you have high social status and great physique it’s only a plus. Otherwise avoid using it. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with decrease in facial attractiveness during a bulk?Good points. I noticed milk could be the main cause for pimples indeed. But it’s a great source for calories too. So I guess I have to choose between facial attractiveness and strength/swoleness | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Are women JEALOUS of high SMV men that they missed their chance with?This. Women can distract you entirely from your mission. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 07:42 PM |
| 8 | Lifting hasn't made me more confidentHave a mission. I can’t stress this enough. I’m 18 and still trying to figure out what my mission could be. You need to be emotionally invested in your goals, not on women. My problem (and of many other people) is that they make women their mission. I’ve been doing it since when I started lifting and I lived desperately these last years. I was in an entire scarcity mindset and looked like a little bitch, even if I was lifting and being in the 20% in term of looks (physique being 5%). If you are … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 05:20 PM |
| 14 | Lifting hasn't made me more confidentIt won’t work for OP. I’m having his same problem and been lifting for 4 years and probably in the 5%. The problem is not his physique. The problem is lifting and self improving for external validation (women) instead of doing it because you want it for yourself. It’s a trap. You will only be confident when you understand your real value and decide not to let it be established by women, but by your achievements. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Show a slutty girl true acceptance, and she'll be slutty for you, tooI think everyone should read 60 years of challenge. That's the best book I've ever read that lets you understand how women love a man who's sexual. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to be confident even if I achieved many things in life?Thanks a lot for the detailed answer, I really appreciate that. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 08:34 PM |
| 7 | What lifting program is best for aesthetics in your opinion?I'd say hypertrophy. Compound movements + accessory work. Aesthetics are a result of good proportions (genetics play an huge role) and low body fat. Focus on your lats and delts. Without those muscles well developed you won't look aesthetic. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to be confident even if I achieved many things in life?Damn, that's incredible. This is usually the result of one or both parental figure(s) who vacillated between being emotionally indifferent or preoccupied, and being neurotically controlling in what you did. When you were doing something right, they didn't usually care. When you did badly, instead of allowing you the opportunity to fail, they did the whole "helicopter" thing, became overinvolved and basically took over control of the task. (This is usually due to the parent's own fears of inadequ… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to be confident even if I achieved many things in life?Thank you very much. I often don't understand if my desire for women is sexual or validational, but if I have to be honest, it seems like the latter is more plausible. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Can't seem to be confident even if I achieved many things in life?I understand what you're saying. But the subconscious is hard to rewire. I noticed that sometimes I feel like I'm the prize, but it's more a sort of faked behavior which doesn't last long. Probably the answer lies in simple scarcity mindset. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Question on the Mystery MethodBecause it makes you a social robot. TRP focuses on making you become an attractive person (increasing your real SMV). PUA is about faking your SMV, which works but your real SMV will always be the same in reality. Personally there are a few good books about game. Mystery method is great but way too complex and unnatural. Look for “60 years of challenge” and “The book of Pook”. These two focus on making you realise that embracing sexuality is the key to game. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Having above average SMV but not actingTbh not always true. It’s true that a 25 y/o’s smv is higher, but it doesn’t mean that 18 year old have none. If it was true, all 18 year old guys would be virgins, don’t you think? Yet I see some guys of my age fuck lot of women. Confidence trumps everything else. That’s what I lack. And btw, people told me I look much older (thanks to lifting probably). Everytime I get to know someone everyone thinks I’m 3/4 years older than I really am. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Being Aloof vs showing interestIn the initial stage you need to show interest, but with outcome independence. That means that if she says "no" or shit like that, you remove your attention and never chase her again (also known as soft next). There are also people who consider that "no" as a shit-test, who fucking knows. Honestly if a girl plays it too hard I just next her, her loss. You can try being persistent but it's easy falling into "chasing mode", which is extremely unattractive and you make her the prize in this way. … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting hit by a girl with her boyfriend 2 metres awayYeah you are right. I'm not native english | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Getting hit by a girl with her boyfriend 2 metres awayI see what you are saying. Wouldn't an anger response from the boyfriend be a needy move? Like I knew that real alphas simply withdraw attention as a form of punishment. edit: and that mateguarding is actually beta behavior (as it subcommunicates scarcity) You could blast her a dm. Tell her you want to finish that conversation, and completely ignore any reference to her bf. Don't bring him up, don't acknowledge if she does. Great idea, thank you very much. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Getting hit by a girl with her boyfriend 2 metres awayI doubt she was trying to make the bf jealous as his SMV shouldn't be really high and he's clearly in her frame. The girl is much more attractive than the boyfriend. I feel like she's tired of beta dick and wants a guy who's more exciting. That's really common actually. I didn't manage to get her number due to her boyfriend mate-guarding. I could text her on Instagram but honestly I'm not a fan of text-game (especially on social networks). Do you reckon it would still work? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 12:36 PM |
| 16 | What are women attracted to Evolutionarily?Visible veins are a sign of low body fat, thus healthy genes. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else actually been really good looking their entire life but fucked up opportunities constantly due to mental issues and blue pill conditioning?People tell me I’m good looking every week. I’ve been lifting for 4 years and girls look at me really often. Yet I’m not getting laid. Why? Because I don’t take action. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 09:11 AM |
| 9 | Erectile dysfunctionAlways aim to stop it entirely. It's going to be hard, and you will relapse for sure a few times, but it's part of the process. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 08:25 AM |
| 11 | Erectile dysfunctionStop porn completely is a better advice. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Experiencing the side-effects of reading too much without enough application in real lifeSpot on. Monk mode is for guys who’ve been fucking women regularly. I’m not the case unfortunately so I should avoid going monk mode for real. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 07:50 AM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?It's easy to fall into that trap. Many guys are trapped in, they just don't realise it. It's just another form of comfort zone. I've been in that phase for months, without even being aware of it. You just have to realise that reading won't get you laid, even if you study every single book of the pua world. Taking action is what will get you laid. This is the harsh truth. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?It's easy to fall into that trap. Many guys are trapped in, they just don't realise it. It's just another form of comfort zone. I've been in that phase for months, without even being aware of it. You just have to realise that reading won't get you laid, even if you study every single book of the pua world. Taking action is what will get you laid. This is the harsh truth. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?It's extremely easy to fall into it. Just be aware of it and realise that reading 100 books won't actually get you laid. Taking action and active approaching will get you laid. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?It's extremely easy to fall into it. Just be aware of it and realise that reading 100 books won't actually get you laid. Taking action and active approaching will get you laid. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 7 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?Yep. What I meant is that people believe that reading this stuff can only cause you good, while in reality you can easily worsen your game and general life because your brain can't internalise everything you read, and gets flooded after a while | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Cure for premature ejaculationOP hasn’t read the sidebar for sure. If he did he would not be scared about his sexuality anymore | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:17 PM |
| 130 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?Ironically, reading too much self-help stuff (such as TRP) without applying it. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Scared to cold approach but not to escalateThat sounds good man! SMV increases as you age so yeah your SMV is quite high right now while mine is almost null. The best thing to do is to do as you said. Practice game, lift and have a mission. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Scared to cold approach but not to escalateIt's not really anxiety. I don't experience anxiety pretty much anymore (Been doing lot of stuff that used to frighten me in the past, such as escalating hard, being bold and so on. That helped me removing my anxiety when talking to women), it's more like a mental obstacle that keeps me from approaching. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Scared to cold approach but not to escalateyou have a lot of time I used to think like that, but honestly "having lot of time" is a bad mindset and often leads to procrastination. edit: And yeah generally speaking I'm young, but the sooner you make mistakes, the better. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Scared to cold approach but not to escalateThat's an interesting post. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Scared to cold approach but not to escalateYeah well I'm 18 and always been a nerd until I started going out at the age of 15. Got much better with women, but still struggle with this basic thing which is cold approach. I should probably just approach more, that's it. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Scared to cold approach but not to escalateI like the idea of considering it a minigame, just like other minigames in life where you may be good in one, but bad in another. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Taking action instead of reading endlessly self-help stuff. I still have trouble with this to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Lifting adviceYou always need to sacrifice something. If you want to add muscle mass, you need to accept the fact that you are going to gain some fat. I don’t get why guys do even care about being low bf when they have no muscle to show. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that you will die and probably not be rememberedThis is not nihilism, as long as you take action and take that advice in mind. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Need some guidance, think I finally hit rock bottom.I'm 18 too so maybe I can give you some insights. Like Vandaalen said, focus on what you can change. I suggest you to read books about stoicism. Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, Seneca. One great book is The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday. It will definitely help you. Regarding Porn, I understand your issue. I used to be fapping 3-4 times every day without even realising its negative effects. Stop it. It's not going to be easy, it wasn't for me, and it wasn't for anyone else (especially if you don't hav… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Cheat Meals: You Probably Don't Need ThemGreat point. Thanks for making me notice that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Cheat Meals: You Probably Don't Need ThemExactly. The process is the same of a drug addiction. Dopamine is involved and it is what makes us addicted to the substance. When you stop getting dopamine from that source, you start getting desensitised from it and the addiction eventually fades away. What makes it hard is: it takes time. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | A Man and his Mission - The Heroic Ideal of Friedrich NietzscheOne of the best posts I've read here in a year. Seriously, good job man. This is the kind of posts I would like to see more. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Women who hate on you for no reasonYou answered your own question. You said you are good looking. You probably give off the vibe of “you girls can’t have me” and they get mad because of that. This is usually the reason. Your SMV is higher than theirs and they know it. Many low smv girls started hating me because I was involuntarily sending mixed signals (push and pull). They won’t hate you for no reason. They will hate you when they understand they are not attractive to you. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Just got a girls number and she texts thisHypergamy man, hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 12:29 PM |
| 3 | How to cure Procrastination?Yep. Welcome to modern society. Ironically everything on a screen gives you dopamine. Just keep that in mind and try to be selective with what you do on your phone or pc. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 3 | How to cure Procrastination?Cut porn, social media, tv and any other cheap dopamine source. Your brain needs dopamine, so it will force you to do shit. Take advantage of that and do productive hobbies such as lifting, reading and so on. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 07:19 PM |
| 15 | Just got a girls number and she texts thisBasic shit test. They are covered on the sidebar, just like everything else really. “Ok” and soft next. If she’s attracted to you she’ll text you back. There’s no need to even waste time thinking what to text her. If she does not text you back you probably didn’t make a good impression when you approached her irl. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the psychological explanation behind mental masturbation?I did not. I guess the mods did hide it | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 04:40 AM |
| 3 | What is the psychological explanation behind mental masturbation?I agree with you. Monk mode is great if your value is clearly too low to even being noticed by women, but one day you will be enough and the only thing you will have to do is leaving your room and approach women in real life. I'm following the mindset that I want to become rich and in the 1% physically, and then I will swim in pussy. This statement is both correct and incorrect. Improving myself to that point will clearly increase my chances of attracting women (opening the door), but game is wh… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 05:13 PM |
| 6 | What is the psychological explanation behind mental masturbation?This is why people say that focusing on yourself is the most important thing. It really is. No matter how much approach, if your value is not high enough (you look like a creep from Auschwitz for example), it simply won’t attract women. The problem is when you start obsessing over being that Chad stereotype that some dumb guy made “popular” in this community. Comparing yourself to others is a thing you shouldn’t do. Compare yourself to your old self, always. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:49 PM |
| 4 | What is the psychological explanation behind mental masturbation?Title? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:04 PM |
| 8 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?Social media is used 1. by betas, 2. by guys who use it for their business or have an high status. If your status is low, there's no point in having social media, they can only worsen your smv. Women are not fucking the guys who are texting them on social media. Women are fucking men who approach them in real life and have no time to put unnecessary likes on their photos, thus giving free validation. You increase your chances of fucking her just by not giving her the validation she receives dail… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Lifting: strength or hypertrophy first?At your weights adding 5lb to your squat and deadlift every workout should be as easy as breathing (If it’s not then you might have diet/sleep issues, or other such problems). I guess that's my problem. I struggle with adding weight and it doesn't seem as easy as you are saying it should be. I sleep 6-7 hours in average. I don't track calories but I always eat till I feel like throwing up. I'm probably around 2500 calories every day. I workout 5 days a week so I don't know if it could be the pro… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Lifting: strength or hypertrophy first?Yeah I’ve been in a steady caloric intake for too long (maintenance). I had to stop doing the OHP due to my anterior delts being way too developed compared to the rear ones (I used to be doing more push movements than pull ones), causing me rolled shoulders. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 01:54 PM |
| 18 | What are the main mistakes to avoid to not be beta?^ This is literally everything you need to know to game women. Keeping it simple is the best thing. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Letting women misbehaveShe’s talking with other men. Possibly having sex with other men. She talks about other men around him. She’s glued to her phone instead of giving all of her attention to him. I think that men here tell "Next" not because of these reasons but because the girl is 1. Not showing enough interest, 2. Exaggerating her value and acting like she's a little princess (and so you might end up investing too much considering her REAL value), 3. Her wanting you to be her beta orbiter. Ultimately, she’s just … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 06:22 PM |
| 48 | The allegory of the Scorpion and the frog.Great post. “Man is disturbed not by things, but by the views he takes of them.”. - Epictetus | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 08:20 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with having small hands?you freaking uneducated retard You might want to read this https://archive.is/POA9M | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 02:21 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with having small hands?Any genetic disadvantage you can't fix. Height, small hands, small dick, whatever it is. Stop wasting time thinking bout it and focus on what you can change: get money and increase your status. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 02:09 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with having small hands?Like people deal with their short height or any other physical disability: do not waste time thinking about stuff you can't change. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 12:26 PM |
| 243 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeBetas (90% of the population) don’t want you to be successful. Remember that | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 14 | Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?TRP is like having a masculine father who gives you life advice every day. Basically our father is now dead. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 06:42 AM |
| 6 | Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?http://archive.puerarchy.com/ this will always be online. If anyone has archive.org's top posts please share. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Did you struggle getting laid when you were 18?That’s a good point. Being fun is part of knowing “game” in my opinion. “Cocky and Funny” serves to that. Knowing how to reply to shit test is what makes you a fun person. Agree and amplify and people will start laughing (in a positive way). I’m not saying I’m going to talk about the stock market or the endocrine system to a girl, I’m just saying that knowing these things builds your identity and is itself attractive. How many fit guys you know who also use their brain and know other topics abou… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Did you struggle getting laid when you were 18?Can you explain further what you mean for “boring” ? I know many topics about life. Economics, Finance, Informatics, Biology, Psychology, Sociology, Music, Fitness and what else. The basics of most of them and that’s still above 90% of the guys out there who only know about TV series and Soccer, don’t you think? You are not boring to women when you know lot of stuff and you clearly don’t put women as your life priority. You are mysterious. Boring is when you are shy, only play videogames and jer… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Did you struggle getting laid when you were 18?I actually have confidence and people who know me respect me. That happens naturally when you have a great body and have goals in life. What I'm struggling with is building more social circles. I dropped my group of "friends" a few months ago because all they were doing was smoking weed and drinking, and while my value was increasing, theirs was decreasing. The logic answer to this would be "build new friends then". Yep, sounds like a great idea. But as I said I'm in a city where everyone knows … | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Approaching: The Value of the Subtle SmirkDo more posts like this Vasiliy It's useful to re-read those techniques even if they are basic. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Roommates are total betas. What do?Not the best advice in my opinion. You are the average of the 5 people you communicate with the most. Betas will gradually shift your mindset into negative and won’t help you in the long run. It’s better to live alone at this point. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:47 AM |
| 37 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?If you follow society's advice you won't go far in the sexual marketplace. That's what 90% of the people do. Watch the TV, eat garbage, smoke, drink and so on. All this is considered normal in today's world. If you try to escape the rules, by working out or eating right you can already start hearing people shaming you, while in reality you are increasing your value. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 04:08 PM |
| 62 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?It's easy. Smoking, drinking, processed food, drugs, lack of exercise, lack of skincare and any other unhealthy habit. Everything of this leads to low testosterone, thus less masculine (and healthy) appearance. Ironically, do the opposite of what society promotes and you'll get a really high SMV. You can worsen the side-effects if you start smoking/drinking/taking drugs from a really young age when your body is still developing itself. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic and still give girls stimulating conversations and feels?Ultimately having dark triad traits is the best thing in my opinion. That's pure ZFG attitude about anything, similar to being stoic. Girls are not engaged by the dude telling cheesy jokes. They are sexually repulsed by him, you just can't see that. Girls are sexually attracted by the stoic unemotional guy who wants nothing from anybody (that means he gives barely any attention to women because he has more important shit to think about) If you want to become stoic, put yourself into stressful si… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Have girls ever approached you? How does that usually go for you?How did they approach you exactly? Directly or indirectly? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic and still give girls stimulating conversations and feels?Goofy guy is laughing like a clown while the stoic unemotional guy is fucking her. I’ve seen that happen so many times. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to start seeing results in the SMP?That’s interesting. I’m actually experiencing the same thing. I’ve been (and still am) a sort of perfectionist and my subconscious thinks I must be perfect in order to get laid. On one hand it helps because it motivates you on improving yourself. I’ve been lifting since when I was 13 non-stop (I’m now 18). I also take care of my body/skin and style like if my life depended on it. On the other hand negative emotions arise really fucking often. I feel depressed and frustrated every week. Why? Beca… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Confused with this. Shit test? Wanna learn from this.It’s all about your SMV. All you need to do is her WANTING to give you her number. That means she should be attracted to you in the first place when you are talking to her in real life for the first time. Attraction can’t be created by text, that’s some pua commercial bullshit they tell you so you buy their “text game books”. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Confused with this. Shit test? Wanna learn from this.That’s because OP acts like an orbiter. And that’s exactly how orbiters are getting treated. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 02:26 PM |
| 15 | Confused with this. Shit test? Wanna learn from this.I still don’t get why guys want to overcomplicate shit. If TRP says “text for logistics only” why do you keep being her beta orbiter? As another guy said, avoid these “hey”, “how are you”. Establish a date, she says “I’m busy” or any other bullshit? Next her and don’t give a single fuck. You don’t need to entertain her and all this bullshit. “If she’s interested, she won’t make it hard for you”. Text game is pua (beta) game. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 02:22 PM |
| 25 | How long does it take to transform your body from average to a point you start to turn heads ?Not to discourage you, but don't expect to look like those fitness models you see on the internet (unless you hop on juice). Lift for health benefits and to look good, but be careful not to fall into the perfectionist's mindset. I've been lifting for 4 years but I'm nowhere close to those fitness models. That's another pill you need to swallow. You can still look better than 90% of the guys out there, no doubt. But turning heads often implies two things: 1. you have extremely great genetics and … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 07:38 PM |
| 5 | TRP is the male hamster?It’s not TRP that states that. It’s human biology. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 06:01 PM |
| 52 | College girls on campus as older studentLie about your age? Yes if you were 15. In your late 30's? Absolutely not. The game is always the same, just show amused mastery. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Advice to improve my phone gamePhone game? Is that a technique to get friendzoned asap? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your best ways to make women invest emotionally?You are right. But there are techniques which increase her investment even more. High SMV is just the first step into making her invested. That’s why these techniques will only work if she’s already attracted to you in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | What are your best ways to make women invest emotionally?Yep that’s one good factor too. Actually, having an high smv is a pre-requisite in order to make her talk about herself, give you stuff or follow your orders. If an unattractive guy would ask an attractive girl “tell me more about yourself” she will most likely laugh and go away. She doesn’t need to qualify to a low SMV guy. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 02:44 PM |
| 10 | Rejection is better than RegretIt's always the right moment to approach. There are no bad moments, it's your subconscious tricking you actually. Yes, if a relative of yours died that day, okay that's understandable, approaching women would most likely be the last thought in your mind. What is bad is thinking the moment isn't right because "she's looking at her phone", "she's with her girl friends", "she's eating" whatever the fuck she is doing that your subconscious reads as "wrong moment". It's like saying "nah I'm not lifti… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenNo, and I never will. You can still look better than 99% of the guys out there by staying natural and lifting for 3 years | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenI’m upvoting all your comments here because I agree with what you are saying, even though as long as people here are improving themselves and raising their SMV I don’t see what’s wrong. It’s something they will have to do now or later in life if they want to be successful (and I believe anyone who is decently RedPilled must have ambitions in life). Yes, they will have to learn game if they want women. That’s obvious. But as I said previously there’s no point in going out approaching women when y… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 10:33 AM |
| 4 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenI made some mistakes and I accept that. Last time I saw Maslow’s pyramid of needs I remember seeing food>sex but I might be wrong. I clearly understand what you are saying. I’ve done this post for the average guy who knows female nature (and has experienced in first person) ENOUGH not to be scared to approach anymore. I honestly should have pointed out that in the post. This might seem a rationalisation made to remain in the comfort zone; absolutely not what I meant to say with this post, but ap… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 01:00 PM |
| 0 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenWhat I didn’t say in the post, is that once your life in on point you should start gaming women, but with a RedPill mindset. That means: 1. Not putting them on pedestal, 2. Do not spend a single penny on them, 3. Try and fail. Otherwise you are just going to play beta bucks game, and I do not encourage it at all | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 09:01 AM |
| 8 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenI completely agree with your points. The main topic about my post is trying to live a period without women. I’m not saying to go full MGTOW until you die, that’s obviously pure bullshit. I see what you are trying to say: yes, game matters a lot. And you’ll learn game only by going out and practicing. But what’s really important to a man is to be financially independent and healthy in the first place. Do you think the homeless people down the road give a fuck about getting laid? Sexual desire is … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 08:29 AM |
| 5 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenYou are right. There’s a really fine line between being an Incel and actually being a MGTOW. Incel is involuntary celibacy, what it means is that your overall value is too low to pass your genes to next generations. This could be caused by weak social skills, bad genetics, low status and financial unsuccess. Correct. Abundance is when you are willing to walk away from a girl. I did that even when that girl was my only option. I guess it is a proof that you don’t necessarily need to have 10 plate… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 07:25 PM |
| 3 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenLifting is advised here for several reasons: health, self confidence, increased physical attractiveness and as a side-effect you will attract women. Lift for 5 years as a natural. For lift I mean: progressive weight overload, correct diet (caloric surplus if you are looking for gains or deficit if you want to lose fat), use proper technique. After these 5 years, you have probably reached your genetic potential. You can now decide if you really want to jump on steroids. My honest advice is, don’t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 44 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenI’m glad you appreciated it! Find your mission man, I know it’s easier said than done. Do like you said, try and fail. Remember that you start liking hobbies only when you start succeeding in them, when you start seeing results. Before that, you need to develop discipline in order not to give up. The average guy: goes to the gym for 1 month and sees no result. He decides to quit. Successful guy: goes to the gym for 1 month and sees no result. He understands the process is long and accepts tempor… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 06:05 PM |
| 22 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenYour points are correct. Even though I believe a young man can choose one of two paths. The first is: focus on himself (monk mode) until he reaches a great amount of success in his life. I mostly refer to financial independence and physical health. Thus he spends most of his time studying, lifting and improving himself, while actually temporary deleting women from his life (Sounds like MGTOW, if I have to be honest). The second is: have fun and going out almost every night approaching women. Thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 46 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenYes! It’s like this: set goals -> reach goals -> success (wether money/status/physical appearance) -> women. It’s really the only way, you cannot fake the process. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 04:13 PM |
| 17 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenExactly. Until you aren’t happy by staying with yourself and only yourself, you can’t be happy with women. As I said, try new things out. Find a hobby, this is repeated a lot here on TRP but only a few take the advice. There should be something you have always wanted to do. You can’t believe how many things there are in the world to get educated about. Just remember not to be defeated by temporary failure. Failure is part of the process, in any field of life. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 04:10 PM |
| 4 | "I don't want to lead you on... I'm not looking for a relationship or anything right now."Read the Book of Pook, “Womanese”. She’s not interested, next. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Is Entrepreneurship the only real way to become wealthy?Yeah exactly. That's the same thing with those "you are getting too big! stop lifting or you'll look ugly" comments people make. People don't want you to become alpha | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Is Entrepreneurship the only real way to become wealthy?Wasn't expecting to make such a discussed topic in here, thanks for everyone's input | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Is Entrepreneurship the only real way to become wealthy?That's an interesting story! thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:43 PM |
| 3 | WTF? Is up with women nowadays?“You have a boyfriend? AHAHAHHAHA” Laugh at her face fuckin hard | /r/MGTOW | 03/09/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What are some good movies which show RP masculinity?Scarface | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a red pill for women (sexual strategy)I know that ugly women can sometimes increase their chances of getting laid (by a really small percentage of course) by acting more feminine and submissive. Good looking women don’t need TRP, it’s all in their brain due to environmental and external phenomenons (They get ton of attention, beta orbiters and so on) That’s it. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | A girl just told me she got rejected“I got rejected” “Oh well, I can understand why” with amused body language. She’ll ask “why??”, don’t reply, make her go mad. Make her hamster fucking run. Instead of being her emotional tampon, create even stronger emotions and you might even get out of the friendzone. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 03:13 PM |
| 28 | Accepting TRP Will Make You Unhappy: Your Choice if That's Permanent"You don't control the situation, but you control what you think about it". RedPill: having right and aligned judgements about women. BluePill: having extremely false expectations/judgements about women, thus creating cognitive dissonance and making arise negative emotions such as depression and frustration. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/18 11:58 AM |
| 23 | I've watched too much tranny porn and now I don't get turned on by real girls anymore. [not a troll post]You have fucked up your dopamine receptors. Something similar happened to me. It's really hard to rewire tho. You would need to start fapping (aka receiving pleasure) while fantasizing about women so your receptors rewire themselves. It's a really slow process tho. If you really get no pleasure by fapping while fantasizing about women (it could be really possible after years of fapping to porn's extreme categories) start by fapping to porn with women and from there make sure you scale down categ… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Shit test trivialIf I got her to do what I wanted She will do what you want only if she knows your value is higher; If she does things for you there’s a really high chance she would like to be your girlfriend too. The point is I don’t think that this shit test implies what I just said but rather the opposite. The girl is trying to disqualify you as a sexual partner and it would be good to reply with a sort of pressure flip thus changing who’s the prize of the interaction. If it was like you said, it would not be… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | If this isn’t the peak of thirst I don’t know what is. Fuck tinder.And I was wondering why I wasn’t getting matches with decent girls on Tinder. | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/18 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Shit test trivialI would have fixed the 7th. You just gave her validation by you wanting her to be your girlfriend. Be the prize. “You are cute, but you could never be my girlfriend, you are just not my kind of girl.” | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | One Skill That Will Drastically Improve Your LifeDiscipline is simply about delaying gratification and doing something that will bring it in the long term, rather than in the short term. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Are shit-tests basically indicators of interest? And why do they make me lose interest?What I meant was them shit testing in a disrespectful manner. I don’t think that could be considered banter, but I get what you mean and your points are right. Withdrawing attention without showing negative emotions isn’t bad, is it? Like keep having fun without her, or go talk to another girl. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Are shit-tests basically indicators of interest? And why do they make me lose interest?Just the fact you are giving advice to the relationships subreddit makes me think how little self-aware you are about reality. Avoid commenting here if you are new to trp and if you don't believe in its theories, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 10:38 AM |
| 7 | How to keep girls & social success off my brain despite being a virgin?Yeah true. Also imagine if you have been improving yourself for the last years and still can’t get laid, for some reason. Your looks are above average, everything is above average yet you still can’t get laid. At this point going to a hooker might satisfy you sexually but not emotionally, because you realise she has fucked you not because you have been improving yourself (and have maxed your looks, game and overall lifestyle) but because of your money. Like I feel this is another way of giving u… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do I keep hearing that "too much muscle" is bad?Women love veins and being able to see the muscle I've noticed that too. How much body fat do you reckon one should have to be at the peak of attractiveness? Like I'm currently bulking and I'm around 15%bf and muscle definition is fading pretty much. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 6 | For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds.Why is that? What you are saying is that you would prefer a less attractive girl for an LTR. Do you prefer having a girlfriend who has sucked a hundred cocks before? That’s just hilarious | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Why do I keep hearing that "too much muscle" is bad?Well I've been lifting for 4 years so I wouldn't say I look like dyel. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Conflicted : to continue lifting or partying?When you stop lifting your body becomes weak and so your mind. The two are extremely connected to each other. Your Testosterone will drop and you’ll become a soyboy with no balls. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Conflicted : to continue lifting or partying?Because in 5 years you’ll look at yourself and say “Why do I look like shit?” | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How to not make chicks nervous?Anxiety equals to attraction. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 4 | How would you answer the shit test When was the last time you had sex?It’s not really about the shit test. It’s about maintaning your “mysteriousness”. If you tease her her hamster spins and her vagina gets wet. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:53 AM |
| 4 | Should I change my name?You as a man have the capability to create new realities and change ideologies. It’s called holding frame. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | What can a 19 going on 20 virgin do that will get him out of his failure loop?The mindset you should have is not “I need to get her number” but rather “I need to establish a date with her as soon as possible” if it’s day game. If it’s night game then don’t even think about the number. Escalate physically as much as possible. I used to be the guy who thinks about getting phone numbers instead of escalating that same night. Don’t be like me. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How to be more of a badass/bad boy?Get one itis for like 5-6 times (it’s part of the process, you can’t skip this), you’ll eventually get into the anger phase. Use that energy to stop putting pussy on pedestal. You’ll start hearing “you’re such an asshole” from women. That’s a good sign. From there start calibrating your behavior, do not be the bad asshole (bully) but the good asshole. Oh, and lift, it will increase your test which is 100% needed for you to act like a man (“badboy”). Hard times create strong men, leave your comfo… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:56 PM |
| 8 | A little light humor, women have a shelf life.It’s a joke dude. And actually they really become like that at a certain age. Russian women hit the wall much harder than average ones, even tho they are hotter during their teens. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/18 12:27 AM |
| 4 | How to stop desiring women?It’s about having false judgements about women. When you understand they have very little to offer and that they need you more than you need them, you’ll start seeing them as a source of little to no value. Happened to me and I have 0 plates. Totally lonely right now yet I can live happily without them. Edit: I’m also on nofap and my urges are extreme, yet I try to stay focused. Do shit, improve yourself every single day. There’s no limit to self improvement | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:10 AM |
| 12 | My 16 year old sister is dressing very revealing. How do I handle it?You handle it but not giving a fuck. It’s her life and she has her sexual strategies. That’s hypergamy’s work in progress. I’m 18 and I’ve seen 12 year old girls dressing like that and posting photos on Instagram. That’s so fuckin sad, but you can’t do nothing about it. They are trying to get attention and increase their SMV, like we men do by lifting. I don’t think there’s any correlation but when we men start improving ourselves and increasing our value it seems like our relatives (mothers for… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Girl I have been on 2 dates, but won't let me bangYou could have replied something to make her hamster spin, or just ignore her. Imo “I’m not looking for a new friend. I’m not a cuck” is good but not the best answer. Girls would sense a negative emotion from you in that reply (like if you were upset) and it’s not good. A guy with abundance would had just ignored her and soft nexted. Or “Look, you’re cute but not the kind of girl I’m looking for” and soft next (basic push and pull. You should avoid the “you are cute” if she is hot cause this jus… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 11:53 AM |
| 6 | An Italian fucktoyAt least you could experience the bitchiness of Italian women. They are like that because most of italian men are pussies | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 11:44 AM |
| 2 | How to improve skin and appearance?Is it you Tom Cruise? | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How to improve skin and appearance?Honestly, for a guy like me who is bulking this diet couldn’t even make me reach 2000kcal’s. I guess bulking and skin care don’t go together. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I help raise my brother to be an alpha?Could you explain this better please? I’m 18 and I’ve discovered TRP 7-8 months ago | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | She wants to feel small”Are you taller than her?” This question is a little stupid. Height is not something we can’t change. I’m 5’9 and there are people even shorter than that. I don’t see how we short-average people could benefit from this post, apart from the “lift” part which is legit enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 09:27 AM |
| 1 | I look too much like a naive nice guy...What to do?One girl told me I look like a ' teddy bear ' which basically means her V is dry when she looks at me. I would suggest you to stop posting here and start reading the sidebar. Also look for inner game articles. Fix that first. They act affectionate to me but in a non-sexual way. In the past I thought too that "alphaness" is all about the height, physique and jawline. Yet I was wrong. It's a state of mind, a behavior. If they treat you like a beta it's because you let them, not because of your loo… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 12:35 PM |
| 3 | You sound boring - Speak with emotion and confidenceYou can find it for free. Just google. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 12:11 PM |
| 11 | You sound boring - Speak with emotion and confidenceGreat post, but just one question. This goes a little against the concept of being "mysterious" which is really spread here, shouldn't the girl talk 70% more than you? “I’m really into art actually. I don’t always understand what I’m looking at, but I don’t care. Have you heard of the Barnes Museum in Philly? It's really interesting. This doctor, who retired pretty early because of a patent he came up with, started collecting art by sending his assistant over to Europe to buy what was popular at… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Girl approached me but I fucked upThat’s why you should stop following those dumb blackpill forums. Just the fact you know terms such as “aspie, gymcel, looksmaxing, nt” makes me believe you are an user of those forums. I know them too because I am a former follower of them. I gladly stopped browsing them in time before I could commit suicide. They are toxic, trust me. If you are good looking (in terms of genetics) then they won’t affect you much, but they still have that mindset of “looks are everything” which won’t get you far… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | About Active Disinterest and Investment"Ohh I dont have to show interest, this will attract her to me by not doing anything and being disinterested" Not really. I was asking because in these last months I've tried being more open (sociable) and direct and never seemed to work due to probable over-investment | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | psychology of insultYou could easily make eye contact with the guy for some seconds and smile and just go away. Read about stoicism and you’ll understand there’s no point on even reacting to an insult. If you really want to respond, I would say “So, tell me, why are you insulting me? What’s the point?”. (With confident body language) Tried once and the guy turned into a submissive kid who didn’t know what to say next. Seems like you’re not lifting tho, so focus on that first and everything else will come by itself,… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 11:47 PM |
| 3 | psychology of insultI agree with this. Once you start getting bigger nobody will have the balls to insult you, but only if your body language is on point. You can be buff and everything but if your body language is shit it will make no difference. This means moving slowly, with controlled movements + apathy (show less emotions. The less emotions you show the more unpredictable you are, which itself scares people). If someone insults you don’t react with anger (aka aggressive), be assertive. They are just shit testi… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 10:15 AM |
| 2 | club gameCan confirm the calibration part. The PUA world teaches you to be as alpha as possible. I blew up so many opportunities just cause I lacked calibration and been too “alpha”, looking like a real jerk. Jerk in the negative meaning, aka incapable of connecting to a woman’s emotions and so switching off the attraction. I was pushing when the girl was giving signs of attraction, that’s not how it should work. | /r/becomeaman | 25/07/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Study: dominant men don't smile a lotIt’s ok to smile. Just don’t look like a clown. A smirk is even better. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Can't understand what's my probleminstead, setup the date if you can right away... date, venue, time for that night or the next day This sounds like an amazing idea, I never thought about it. Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Can't understand what's my problemI actually got some numbers (like 10, because I only asked 10 girls, the ones who seemed more receptive) but never really went far from there. Yeah I know some energetic/positive guys who get laid so I really do not know what’s the matter. It’s probably my SMV level which is not high enough | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't understand what's my problemI like this phrase | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Can't understand what's my problemYou won’t believe me but I take cold showers every day. I don’t think my problem is all about discipline. I’ve been lifting for 4 years and even in the days I felt like total shit. Never ever skipped a workout because I felt tired or shit like that. edit: the problem is that I do all this with the end goal of getting laid, which is not how it should be. So my primary motivator is the desire of getting laid | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Can't understand what's my problemYeah good points man. I heard that some women feel insecure if you have a 1% physique so yeah that might be true. I think it was mentioned in the post “HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD” too. Women will act bitchy etc because they feel insecure. That seem possible, but honestly I feel like it’s a rare thing. You must be a 10/10 to make a woman feel uncomfortable (with solely your looks) in my opinion | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Can't understand what's my problemI read lot of theory and the sidebar too. My problem is applying the theory in real life, it's like I'm reading pointlessly. I don't consider myself "super" attractive, maybe a 6.5/10 at max. I have decent genetics except my height which is something I can't change. It's people who tell me I'm good looking but I have some cognitive dissonance going on. If I'm good looking why do I get rejected so much? I know guys who have almost no game and get laid cause of their looks (and status). I turn wom… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Can't understand what's my problemThis is what I would like to do. I would like to have no thoughts about women, but right now testosterone is controlling me and it's like getting laid is the only thing I desire | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | What is the right way to withdraw attention?Usually you punish by withdrawing attention with the hope the girl understands she did something wrong. Command respect with actions, not words. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Quick shit test reply?“Yeah and they all loved it” | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Theory in Progress: Making a woman actually addicted to you.It's the same concept as push-pull. Just in a bigger sense. In my opinion we human beings need more and more information to best understand a concept. The push pull dynamic is correct, but hard to actually understand. It's not just about pushing and pulling. You need to know when to push and when to pull. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you gain status in a practical way?This is not really what I was looking for | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with constant rejection?Alright thank you, will do that absolutely. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 04:57 PM |
| 3 | The effects of "good genes" on womenRP is still a little bluepill in the field of the male looks/quality genes stuff because it's not something you can't really change indeed. The point is that the blackpill sometimes seems "more true" than the redpill and this makes me think how trp in general is just a way to cope to these harsh truth with positive mindsets etc. For example, if you are short and ugly lifting won't give you shit. If trp is about seeing the truth, then this is it. I'm sure natural selection is one of those harsh t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Gaming older womenThanks man | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Gaming older womenNice, and how old are you? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Gaming older womenSounds fair. I should just give up then right? That would have been interesting though. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:05 AM |
| 5 | How can I let go and start living?You are lucky to have redpilled/alpha friends. Why don’t you just do what they do? Stop overthinking. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 02:00 PM |
| 16 | My experiment running "asshole game"Confident girls love asshole game. This is why it works on HB9-HB10. They are used to have so many orbiters and betas who treat them nice that they would pay for an asshole. The less attractive the girl, and less confident, the more gentle you need to be. This is why calibrating our behavior is the most important tool for getting women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 11:11 AM |
| 23 | My experiment running "asshole game"I can agree with this. Happened to me more than once. I've been the bad asshole for a while, and this attracted many girls. Although at a certain point women will want you to be "nicer" to them. If you don't, they close emotionally and goodbye. You have lost them. I kept being the bad asshole when they clearly wanted me to open a little more and be more gentle with them, I didn't do that cause I was thinking "I need to hold frame" and some other bullshit which I really misinterpretated here on t… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | My experiment running "asshole game"I really don't get it. I've been doing the bad asshole game for almost a year and got no pussy. I just got them to emotionally close to me. There's a difference between the bad asshole and good asshole. The bad asshole only manages to fuck girls with low self-esteem. Good asshole is the cocky and funny guy. Which is funny (funny not in the sense of clown funny, but you know what I mean) and attractive. Bad asshole is the bully who 99% pushes and 1% pulls. At this point you end up being hated by … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 10:46 AM |
| 7 | I didn't even know I had an Adonis Belt until she said "That is OBSCENE"It’s obvious of why they react that way. Asian girls probably only meet an alpha guy once in their lifetime and that’s the reason they get so excited when they see one. European and American women might still get attracted but not to this point. Why? Because in Europe and America there are much more alpha males (say 10% of the population) and so they are used to them. This is just my opinion of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I am addicted to cuddling!Increase your testosterone. You have too much oxytocin in your body. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?Studying economics by yourself? What is the point of doing that? That holds literally zero value. Zero value? You know how few people know about personal finance? Then tell me what increases value at this age. Watching some tv series like 99% of the people? I'm stuyding it as a hobby. I'm still in high school and got another year before uni (if I ever decide to go there). | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?Thank you. You are probably right. I'll try and see where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?I got it. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?If you monk mode hard for a few years and get a great physique and money, you will eventually get women. You can use money to build status. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?I probably didn't explain myself correctly in the post. It's hard to define one's behavior in...300 words? I've been lifting 4-5 times a week for 3 years. I read books (non-fictional, philosophy and psychology) 1-2 hours every day. I have a to-do-list every single day. I've had a job as graphic designer at 13 year old, I'm now 18 and currently studying economy on my own. I don't really think the problem here is self-confidence man. I believe introversion is a real personality trait. I have no pr… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?Honestly I don't have problems talking with people, I just don't want to. It's quite different. I don't think being introverted means being socially retarded, the two are totally different. Introversion is a personality trait while being socially retarded is involuntary. I just like to understand clearly why certain things happen and the reasons behind them. I probably didn't explain myself correctly, but I wouldn't really define my behavior "passive"; Again, I don't think a guy who likes to be … | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Improve your faceexercising jaw muscles will cause TMD I agree. I have been exercising my jaw muscles and after a few months I started having some serious pain when yawning. I still do. Be careful. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Improve your faceWhile the theory is right, I feel like this kind of post is most likely black pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if someone started insulting you in front of everyone?Just remember to react assertively and not aggressively. Be stoic. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Any one else realizing women are not as important as they pretend to be?Attention is women’s drug | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I was a big time Beta. Just got out from a 3.5 year old relationship. I have taken the red pill. Need to get my shit sorted. Help me, TRP!9-10 are unachievable unless you have good genetics. You can be a 8 if you lift (3+ years) and take care of your overall body (skincare etc.). I don’t know about your financial situation but at your age you should be drowning in money if you spent your 20’s on yourself. Never fucking marry a woman, what’s the point? There are 99% liabilities if you get married. You shouldn’t even think about marrying a woman unless you are the best guy out there in terms of genes and financially talking. Why? Be… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she loves you?Then it doesn’t mean anything dude. Watch their actions, not words. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl says she loves you?It means that she wants you to get emotionally invested by saying such things or acting sexually available. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Non-Neediness booksYou don't fix your neediness by reading, but by doing stuff which increase your confidence. Confidence is earned through discipline. Start lifting, finding new hobbies, earn money. Take cold showers every day. Have a daily to-do-list where every daily goal has to be somehow connected to your long term goal. The only thing you need to read is the sidebar, really. Avoid reading too much stuff because you'll eventually get trapped into the "reading phase" and when you will have to apply all that sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 03:39 PM |
| 88 | Make her day.Attractive = good looking guy with a great physique, skincare and style. Girls react positively as they are attracting a guy above average. Neutral = average skinny guy. Neutral reaction. She will respond to your questions most likely in a aloof way like you barely exist. Creepy = Nerd guy whose SMV is that low that girls react negatively due to their self-image ("Is this the quality of guys I really attract?"). At this point you are invisible. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:23 PM |
| 53 | Make her day.Exactly. I doubt a nerd bald 5'4 guy would receive the same reactions even by acting the same exact way OP acted. SMV is everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How TRP Applies to The Fairy Tale of High SchoolI asked a question on askTRP subreddit a few days ago regarding women jumping on the cock carousel only once in college. Why? because I'm still in HS and I've seen really few women jump on it. Every guy has an LTR (ha!) with some woman who will leave him as soon as the popular guy gives her some attention. But I've rarely seen a girl having more plates (of course slutty girls do, but most of the women are still conditioned not to act this way) Nevertheless I noticed many TRP principles aren't ap… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Is there something as "too much muscle" ?The thing is, I feel like I need to improve myself to a certain level first, which is actually impossible to reach. This is called perfectionism for a reason. You can’t be perfect and nobody is perfect. But in my mind I want to be perfect. My goal is getting women but my mind is somehow convinced that I can’t get women until I look like a men’s physique and until I’m a millionaire. While in reality approaching them is all I need to do. That’s the problem, my mind is tricked. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Is there something as "too much muscle" ?Your point is valid, not gonna lie. Are you actually putting yourself out there, or are you just passive? I want to be honest, I still have struggles with approaching women in my city for some stupid reasons. So yes, let's say I'm passive. I got a perfectionist mind and I feel like I'm never enough. This mindset has pros and cons. Pros: I'm motivated as fuck towards my goals, I can reach almost anything I desire. I have discipline and determination Cons: you are never satisfied. You believe you … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there something as "too much muscle" ?Yep I agree. I see girls swoon over skinny guys with abs and I'm like "mh okay". In my opinion those girls' value goes down incredibly from my perspective. I feel like they should pay to get my attention, as they are giving it to some 40kg estrogenous guys. I'm 18 and I see most of the girls attracted to those skinny guys. It's sad. I don't know if it's like that for girls a few years older, but honestly I hope so. There's really no need to get big for women, usually a 9% bf body with a decent a… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there something as "too much muscle" ?Yeah man I know I'm not "built" yet at 71kg, but as I said I have really broad shoulders (also due to 11 years of swimming) and it makes me look bigger than I really am. And If I had to reach 80kg with my bone structure I would look so freakin large and would probably fuck up aesthetics. Imo height plays an huge role on how much muscle mass you can pack on without looking bad | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.I agree with you. Even if this is not Lookism, I feel the need to say that to be a 9/10 a strong jaw and chin is a must. Also it’s impossible to go from 3/10 to a 9/10. If you are a 3/10 it means you’re not genetically gifted, therefore you can reach a maximum of about 6/10 if you looksmax completely | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.Btw, if you looked like Justin Bieber you were not a 3. Justin Bieber is a pretty boy and pretty boys are attractive to women | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 12:44 PM |
| -5 | Do girls start hopping on the cock carousel once in college?Yeah I imagine. It sucks knowing I’m not the guy who fucks these girls. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:46 PM |
| -1 | Do girls start hopping on the cock carousel once in college?Girls hide their sexuality. Yes I'm totally aware of that. And I'm aware that they won't show sexuality if you don't show them you are the "alpha male" first. Nevertheless even by me being sexual, c&f and everything I noticed that younger girls are harder to game for some reason. Or maybe I just have to make more experience. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:06 PM |
| -8 | Do girls start hopping on the cock carousel once in college?Yeah that kinda resonates with what I’ve seen. Girls are slut with popular guys only tho. Is your social status high? Cause here where I live status seems to be everything. Looks don’t even matter if you are not known | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Do girls start hopping on the cock carousel once in college?And so are your plates? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Do girls start hopping on the cock carousel once in college?I’ve seen some of your posts in the past. How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 11:14 AM |
| 1 | When a Girl Gets on Her Phone, What Do You Do?Happened to me once. I told her “switch off your mobile”, she didn’t take it seriously so I faked walking away. It worked, but remember that girls that misbehave tend to re-do the same bad behaviors again. Punish with actions not words (that means walk away/withdraw attention) | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Like eye contact, what are some other straight forward methods of building tension?It's reality. Looks like you are still into the bluepill world. I've always touched women without asking and always got positive reactions. It's "creepy" only if you are unattractive. You can't just touch people as you want even if you got a high smv and shit You need to build some rapport with the girl before touching her, it's obvious. But after that you can touch her naturally without asking. Asking is beta as fuck, seriously. Boldness is what attracts women. And if they act bitchy when you t… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Like eye contact, what are some other straight forward methods of building tension?Teasing, Triangular Gaze, Kino (incidental) and if you have enough balls lift her. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Like eye contact, what are some other straight forward methods of building tension?dude you probably have to read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 11:54 AM |
| 18 | Like eye contact, what are some other straight forward methods of building tension?"Your hair is amazing , can I touch it?" this sounds so autistic. don't ask a shit, just do it. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Travelling solo at 18Actually when I traveled in foreign places in the past I've never really had any problem connecting with people and approaching women. I can tell I've approached like 40 girls in the past when I travelled with the old friends I mentioned in the post. The problem is that those friends kept me back everytime. That's why I stopped going out with them. The reason of because I'm still a virgin is particularly uncommon: that's due to my low social status and small social circles here where I live. I h… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Travelling solo at 18Your point is really valid. I know 3 languages quite well so I think they are enough for being able to connect with people. The only problem I'm encountering of travelling solo is indeed the one you mentioned about me being still a kid. Not that I'm scared, but anything could happen. Although I think that It's part of leaving the comfort zone and taking risk | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 01:33 PM |
| 3 | You Never Stop CompetingYou wanna know what guys get laid the most? The guys who get rejected the most, because they're the guys who approach the most I will print this quote and put it on the wall of my room. This is the best phrase i've ever read about dealing with approach anxiety. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Lessons learned after 90 day ban from TRPHonestly, I'm in a similar situation of yours. Been lurking on trp for some months and read a shit ton of stuff. The problem? I barely applied all that stuff and as a result my brain hasn't internalised anything. I just wasted time. I would like to get banned on purpose just to fucking start acting. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 03:20 PM |
| -1 | A question regarding Game/PUA for RedPillersThat's not really the answer to my question though. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls in my study group are ignoring me. What should I do?Read title and here's my reply: you shouldn't even care if they ignore you. You have better shit to think about, don't you? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics when bulkinglet's be serious, everyone starts lifting to look good in the eyes of others (in the eyes of women especially). I've been lifting for 3 years and I can say I still lift with the main goal to get noticed by women. Nevertheless lifting is a must for me also for the mental and overall physical fitness. I can't stay 1 week with physical inactivity or I feel like shit. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Aesthetics when bulkingDon't do cardio if you are skinny, cause you'll have to eat even more than you eat now to gain muscle | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | I have no friends. Its getting lonley and depressing. What can I do?You must feel good when you are alone otherwise your happiness in dependent on other people. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 06:46 AM |
| 7 | Train Your WomanWhy do I still see people commenting "it's sexist" on trp? gtfo if you don't accept its philosophy | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with perfectionism and avoid self-destructionThanks a lot, really great advice man | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:21 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with perfectionism and avoid self-destructionThis is the perfect response I needed. You are right, lifting is actually the only real thing I'm doing in my life right now. The problem is, how do I accept my physical shape even if I'm better than most people, and start focusing on other hobbies and things that could help me reaching success in life? I think that's a real mental issue | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 01:54 PM |
| 2 | I went too far with jokes and shot myself in the foot through texting, what to reply to fix it?“Always say less than necessary” | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Have no muscle but I started lifting. When can I tell when I'll be able to physically lift a girl?Bulking helps. The more muscle mass you have (and even some fat) ,the more overall strength you will have | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | How come natural/instinctual behavior is considered rude and immoral?That's exactly what I've been doing for the last months. I completely misunderstood the concept of being alpha and of being "an asshole" and I've become a rude selfish person; which is still alpha behavior, but most likely needy alpha and in the long term it only makes people hate you like you said too. In the push pull scale this would mean pushing 90% and pulling 10%. I never got laid with this method nor got friends. It's time to change. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpVery inspiring and interesting story man. I'm glad you've found that high value guy who helped you climb to the top of the social hierarchy. Once you find positive social circles everything in your life starts becoming positive and helps you climbing the maslow's pyramid too. I hope I will find someone with whom I have similar interests and ambitions in my near future. I'm still 18 and people say I'm young but time passes fast and my philosophy is "the sooner the better". That's why I hate peopl… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Opinion on Steroids?If you haven't lifted for 5 years as a natural first and reached your maximum genetic potential, I would say you are just going to play with fire if you take steroids. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Get fucking CUTI'm 18 and it's easier gaining mass than 30 year old guys of course. But trust me it still takes discipline and a good overall diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trplol for high smv I meant succesfull guys who have ambitions in life. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Get fucking CUTI would say cut only if you got a good amount of muscle, otherwise you'll look like shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpYeah man my old friends too were the usual weed smokers. Every single time I used to hang out with them, while they were rolling joints, I was realising I was with some losers with no ambition in life. I’m glad you have found new friends you share interests with. Hope I will find them too soon | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 05:59 AM |
| 3 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpThank you, I will absolutely keep that in mind | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpReward those who are valuable to you. the post “How To Hold Frame.” Yeah I read that post and it's quite interesting. "Alphas do something for betas if, and only if, they helped the alpha defeating his challenges first" This is what I'm trying to do. I ignore people who do not bring value to me. My problem is that even if there is a guy with higher value (who is basically more alpha than me) something inside me wants me to challenge him and be better than him. I would never think to become frien… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:16 PM |
| 5 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpyou just don't like hanging around slugs that's probably the exact reason. I should make friends who are high smv | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpHumans have emotions, unless you’re a sociopath. I honestly feel empty, probably due to the long lasting depression I had in my childhood as I never had many friends and barely went out. A few years ago I started going out and making friends. Having friends was my only desire, but now I feel like I don't need anyone anymore. I don't really know what's my problem. Maybe I'm a sociopath for real. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Lifting advice for a short/average guy?dude trust me I'm not skinny at all. Genetics play a huge role on making you look more muscular even if you do not weight 100kg. It's not all about weight. Also I'm 18 so I'm still developing my body. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Any good pick-up books out there that a guy should read before hitting the bars?Swinggcat’s RWS is my favorite. It easily gets you in the “I am the prize” mentality. Don’t go for pua books which make you a social robot (e.g mystery method) cause you will eventually regret it (i’ve been there). Before reading any pua book I suggest you to read trp’s posts and theories first. Pua books are useless if you don’t understand why certain techniques work. Also remember that you can say any line, but if your smv is low no pua technique will work. 80% of the game is about increasing … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Lost fat didnt gain muscleI agree with this. You can lift even 5 times a week but if you don’t eat enough you won’t build muscle anyways. A caloric surplus is a must for gainz | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Sources to learn entrepreneurship and business?I’m not really sure about it | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | "My wife's boyfriend bought me a present"Is it normal I cringe by reading this shit? I can’t believe there are people like that out there | /r/MGTOW | 29/05/18 08:26 AM |
| 2 | How diffrent is trp for 15-17 year olds?Be aware your mentality is still blue pill. Read the sidebar and Rational Male. Never get into an LTR until your 30’s. Focus on yourself and on fucking random girls first. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Lying to Women, is it Okay?“it’s not lying, it’s flirting” From the pua Style | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl told me I have sweet facial features...Then just ignore her. What has she done to deserve your attention? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Describe stoicism?Is there something under your control? No? then don't worry because you can't do anything about it. There's no point in being depressed about something you cannot change. Average people consider stoic people "heartless". It's not being heartless, it's understanding that crying will not bring you anywhere. E.g if a relative of yours dies, you should feel emotionally strong and understand that it happened and you can't really do anything to bring him back in life. Once you internalise stoicism, yo… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me I have sweet facial features...Congrats, you've been put in beta orbiter zone. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Best way to get over a oneitis?If you are young, go monk mode, absolutely. The sooner you increase your smv the better. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Can both parties in a relationship have oneitis ? Is that possible ?Yep it happened to me once. I had oneitis for a girl but never showed it to her (aka never showed beta tendencies/tried to be too alpha) and for this reason she was extremely attracted to me. By me pushing too much I made her feel rejected and so I fucked everything up. She lost attraction. Usually only one part has one-itis, but if you act differently than how you feel like (for example if you act aloof when you would act like a beta/romantic) both of you might be attracted to each other. The p… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 08:52 AM |
| 1 | If a woman is ok with physical closeness in public but won’t let you “isolate” her, what’s the freaking deal?Most of the concepts of trp come to one thing: abundance. Abundance is what gets you laid. It means you are the prize and your primary goal is to get what you want. Think of how brad pitt would act in that situation. He would just leave. Leaving is the most attractive thing: you win, she lose. If you subcommunicate you don’t have options she will hardly be attracted to you. She will try to use you as a validation tool and trick you into thinking she’s attracted. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 08:30 AM |
| 4 | I've been an active user of braincels and mgtow for half a year and I want to get out of thisBlackpill may lead to suicide. I've been browsing black pill forums for a month and was constantly looking for my facial imperfections (things you can't change and therefore shouldn't give a fuck about) and everywhere I went I noticed guys taller and more attractive than me and I thought "that guy is lucky, he should be fucking chicks every day" which led to crippling depression. I still see the world that way. I always see how girls orbit around attractive and popular guys and inside I want to … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you stop masturbating without no sex?I'm in your same situation. Use the sexual energy to focus on your goals and lifting. Also if you really want to masturbate, use imagination only. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Feeling incredibly motivated but lost?Thing is right now I feel like I don’t wanna help nobody. “You can’t help others until you helped yourself”, I feel like I need to fix my life first | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:27 AM |
| 9 | Downvoted into oblivion...LOL FUCK’EMWhy do you even waste time trying to unplug people? | /r/MGTOW | 23/05/18 08:36 AM |
| 14 | More TRP observations/lessons from my best friends sister.ask that dude who bangs lots of women Natural alphas fuck but not consciously understand how. So even them might give you shit advice (personal experience). Just watch them play and analyse by yourself what they are doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Do liking/following other girls count as dread?Just the fact you are trying to make her jealous means you have one-itis and spend time thinking about her. You are already emotional investing too much, be careful cause that's a sign of one-itis. Focus on your fucking self, do you really have time to like photos of some bitches who are looking for attention on instagram? Pareto principle applies here too: 80% of the men who are liking and following girls on social media are the beta orbiters. The other 20% are most likely the guys who fuck the… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | is lifting worth if you are 5'7-5'8?I'm 5'9 and sometimes I feel like you. Just try to be rational and think: which version of yourself would be better? the ripped version or skinny version? Exactly, the ripped version. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Is it even possible to become 'alpha' if you have a small body frame?A friend of mine is 5'7" and does mma. Of course he does not look like a 250lb guy but he's surely more intimidating than all the tall betas out there. Alpha is more about the personality I guess. What you are talking about is the halo effect and being perceived as a beta from your physical appearance. Focus on what you can change to become more masculine i.e lifting, tattoos (don't get them because it's alpha, get them only if you really want them) and for last your behavior which is probably t… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Should I have sex or no?I used to think like you once. I lost so many opportunities cause I was finding in girls any small imperfection. And? I'm still a virgin. I could have lost my v-card a long time ago but was probably too scared and my ego didn't want me to leave my comfort zone and was scared to try new experiences. Also porn does this effect to your brain making your standards ridicolously high. My advice is, stop fapping (I know you are fapping, otherwise you would have fucked that girl without even thinking if… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I have sex or no?You can't expect to fuck an hb10 the first time, even because it's detrimental and you will probably come in 10 seconds. I'm a virgin too and I aim to fuck a hb5 asap just to practice and understand female body. So my advice is, go fuck that girl. And btw the "first time is for the special one" bullshit is part of the social conditioning. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?The theory behind that is that a jacked guy like arnold is fucking rare (probably 0.5%), that's why women tell "it's too big", because they will never have the chance to bang him even if they were a 10/10. A guy like arnold would easily kill a guy like brad pitt. And evolutionarily speaking this should mean that a guy like arnold is more dominant/superior aka more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 7 | What was the reason for your mind shift from beta to alpha and discovering TRPHaving been rejected for like 50 times in the past. Always wanted to understand why and I first found out the pua community and only then TRP. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Pool party k-close field reportKclose only? why didn't you escalate further and isolated her? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Society doesn't tell males to lift.There’s a difference between overt comments and covert ones. Women never really make overt comments like “damn I want to fuck you” unless you are a famous ripped singer or pornstar. Women show interest indirectly, so even if you don’t receive compliments for them they still think you are hot, deep inside. | /r/MGTOW | 17/05/18 12:18 PM |
| 3 | LooksmaxingStop browsing black pill forums | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:15 PM |
| 5 | I'm 5'11. Yet I feel insecure when I see guys or gals taller than me.Lol then what should people below 5’9 say. I’m 5’9 and I wish I was a few inches taller | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Being too much of an asshole, pushing too muchI am already lifting and have great overall looks. That's why me being an asshole is totally unnecessary to attract girls as I could probably fuck them just by being normal and nice. But in the past I was like 4/10 in term of looks and I had to push a lot to get girls to notice me. That's something my brain hasn't forgotten yet. I'll try to just act normal and nice now | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with Porn "Addiction", help needed getting rid of it.I can go no fap, and I have for 10 weeks before, but when I do my bed-skill lowers. This is something I can understand. The penis is much more sensitive after a long period of abstinence. That's why I'm somewhat anxious of when I'll lose my virginity cause I'll probably come after 5 minutes. I will probably fap again in a few weeks but without porn. There's a huge difference in masturbation with and without porn. There's a shitload of content on the internet about the negative effects of porn on… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with Porn "Addiction", help needed getting rid of it.Listen: i'm 18 so I have incredibly high testosterone and sexual urges every fucking second; I'm a virgin so you can imagine my desire to fuck a girl or even jack off and nevertheless, I haven't been fapping for 20 days, and I have no girls I can fuck. It's all about mental strength. Yours are just excuses dude. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | You're in High School and you just found TRP - a guideAs a 18 year old guy still in high school, I would add: focus on yourself. Don't text women like 99% of the guys do. It's a waste of time, it will get you nowhere unless you are already handsome and have high social status. Focus on getting good grades and don't give a fuck about women cause they will be attracted to you as soon as you start focusing on yourself, and only yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with Porn "Addiction", help needed getting rid of it.lol and you have time to masturbate? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with Porn "Addiction", help needed getting rid of it.I don't know why the fuck you masturbate when you can fuck girls, honestly. I'm a virgin and if I were you I would accept to get shot in the head if I watched porn when I could just call a girl and fuck her | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | What can you do besides lifting to increase your looks?I somewhat agree with you. Peacocking is great if done with 100% confidence and idgaf attitude. Is there any particular accessory you would advice? I've got two rings currently but nothing really special. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you read RP books more than once?When I read a book I always take notes or put a dot near the important phrases. Once I finish a chapter I rewrite all the phrases on my journal and try to connect them to real life experiences I had in the past to create pathways in the brain and internalise the concept better. Never ever read without taking notes and without applying those to real life. Knowledge without application is fake knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 11:49 AM |
| 3 | What can you do besides lifting to increase your looks?I agree with you actually. I’ve got a lucid skin just by adding vitamin C and A (betacarotene) in my diet. Broccoli, Carrots and oranges seem the best for getting a quality skin. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | What can you do besides lifting to increase your looks?My face is probably a 7. I’ve got a big jaw and high cheekbones and I think that’s a rare and masculine thing. I consider myself a 6.5 cause of my height. I could be a 7.5/10 if I was 6 feet or over. My rating only considers the body/facial aesthetics and it doesn’t include style. I’m already doing all the 4 points you mentioned, I think there isn’t anything else I can do | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Response to this Shit Test?Just ignore, it's so easy. Act like she never said anything | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Better way to ask for numbers?What has often worked for me is taking my mobile phone in front of the girl and after two seconds asking “What’s your number” (be careful that it shouldn’t seem like a question but rather an order) like it’s no a big deal. Your body language should show that you are sure she will give it to you and that if she doesn’t it’s her loss. If you ask it with a shit beta body language it won’t work. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is asking a girl whether she has a bf ok?It really depends on who her boyfriend is. Only needy alphas react with fights when they find out her gf cheated on them. Real alphas will just dump her and find another girl without showing any negative emotion. And for last, betas won't have balls to fight you. They will only if you weigh 40kg and have no muscles. I've seen so many hot girls with betas that it is so funny when they show signs of attraction towards alphas. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I make a harem as a high school student?I’m in high school too and I regret not fucking 5’s when I could. Fun fact i’m still a virgin. Just remember that women would rather SHARE an alpha male (guy who fucks many women aka preselection) than settle for a beta. (I think this quote comes from Rollo’s book if I remember good). So fuck any woman as voices will spread over and over and you’ll get preselection fucking easily. I was fapping every day that’s why I refused to fuck 5’s. Now I’m in nofap and everything feels different. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 04:05 PM |
| 15 | Is asking a girl whether she has a bf ok?An alpha male doesn’t even care if she has a boyfriend or not. He fucks her anyways like if she was single | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What you do when you feel down?Thanks a lot dude | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | What you do when you feel down?Honestly? I don't have a clear image of what that would be, but I have a huge desire to be that guy who fucks many women, and he does it easily. The guy every woman desire. The guy who is a real scarcity in the SMP. This desire derives from the past social problems I used to have (I've been a nerd for 14 years and for 14 years I never talked to a girl and I was almost autistic. Everyone used to make jokes about me and I never got respected by anyone). I know chasing women is not what trp preache… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What you do when you feel down?And of that 90%, see are already snagging. Don't view yourself as better than everyone else when you're not. Thing is, I'm a perfectionist, and when someone is better than me I feel like I need to reach and surpass his value to feel good. I'm quite sure it's a mental issue and this has some advantages but also side-effects. For example I feel motivated every single day and if deep inside I want something, I will do anything to get it. The side effect is that when you can't reach a goal you feel … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What you do when you feel down?Well I’m still young (18) and I feel like monk mode (or at least a severe self improvement) is necessary at this age as 90% of the people don’t even know what self improvement is and how much they could raise their value if they only tried to improve. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | If a girl you're not involved with is actively trying to make you jealous using your friends, how should you respond?Just don’t give a fuck. She’s trying to dhv | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | TRP in decline?TRP is most likely evolutionary psychology. It will never change | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 11:37 AM |
| 5 | How would you fuck your plates sister? Would you?I saved this comment | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Do women get oneitis?I don't know but girls seem to get infatuated too when I ignore them. if your smv is high girls will have a crush on you if you push-pull which is basically one-itis for men. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | What you do when you feel down?Yeah I’m 18 | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What you do when you feel down?My status is low indeed. I have few friends also due to me having been in monk mode for a long time. That’s probably my problem, I need to meet more people. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | What you do when you feel down?Yeah lifting works for me as well , I would lift 24/7 if I wouldn't risk overtraining. I currently lift 4 times a week and these are the days of the week I feel better. If I lift more than that, I feel extremely tired and my strenght diminishes. It's better to be a perfectionist than someone who does not care about self improvement. That's what I always think too. I see 90% of the people enjoying life sitting on the couch or playing videogames. I can't do that. I prefer suicide to that. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | What you do when you feel down?Actually my parents never helped me reaching goals, neither at school nor anywhere. As I said I've always been a nerd and since a young age I strived for perfection is anything I liked. First it was in videogames. Then I started graphic design casually at 13 in a gaming community and started designing for eSport teams and even earning a good amount of money considering my age. There were periods where I had to work really hard and make some incredible designs to get noticed from people and getti… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 3 | What you do when you feel down?Damn dude that's probably the answer to all my problems. Never thought something like that existed but It relates to me perfectly. You might still be a virgin because you feel like you need to be perfect to get pussy I've always been a total nerd until I decided to change my life at the age of 14. Since then I started improving myself and I subconsciously strived for perfection. Now I've got a 5% physique and reading TRP and Psychology also made me clever and more self-aware about reality. But I… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Recipes a man should know how to cook?I never tried to grill. I will definitely try that soon. I've gotten some good compliments and I've gotten some people who go up to me and put their food back on the grill lol Keep doing that dude, no matter if not everybody likes your food. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Recipes a man should know how to cook?Nah man not trying to impress a girl. Trying to impress myself and the people in general, seriously. Of course it will also impact women's attraction but I don't totally aim at that. I just want to be considered a "real man" to impress myself and getting some good dopamine to keep motivated myself with anything I do. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Was this post removed from TRP main sub?it's weird how the best posts here get always deleted | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls have one night stands? Why won't they fuck you again after the first time? Girls never want to keep in touch after we fuck and I'm starting to think I'm a fucking weirdo.Neediness management is the first thing you should understand and do. Neediness translates into beta behaviour aka unattractive trait | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Game women in front of their beta boyfriendslol ever heard "it's not yours. It's just your turn" ? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Game women in front of their beta boyfriendsYeah I actually exaggerated the whole thing. Thanks for making me aware of that and yeah taking action is probably the only thing I should have done. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Holding Frame = TinglesDread is done non-verbally. If you verbalize it’s like ASKING to respect you. (Beta move) You punish her by removing attentions and making her hamster spin | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | 17 and my life has taken a turn for the worstIf I were you I would be so fucking angry right now. I would find them back and kill them all all if it wasn't for the shit legal system we have today. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Is That Your Belief?"Nah, too hard, not enough genetics, negative canthal tilt..." This is what happens when you browse black pill forums. I've been there and it puts some shit mindsets in your head which are hard to remove. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Roosh V is Turning MgtowYeah redpill seems just the exact road which then leads to mgtow. I’m 18 and the more I understand about women the more I feel like they are totally useless in a man’s life...apart from fucking. | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The little confidence i had is now FUCKEDYou gain confidence by practicing any activity and mastering it. Are you lifting? It doesn’t seem so. Lifting is a must for gaining self confidence. Once you start getting bigger you’ll notice a spark in confidence. Also do what 90% of men are not doing and you will be automatically proud of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it “beta” to get sexual over text (nudes and stuff)?I’m 18 and a girl won’t send you sexual pics unless you are the most popular guy in high school. I also gave up chat game as It’s bullshit. No matter what you write, your SMV is everything. If you are good looking and popular you can act like a fucking beta and still get laid. If you are low smv no matter how alpha your texts are, you will have like 5% of chance. Personal experience. Use text for logistic only. Game women in real life | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Understanding What It Means To Be Alpha, or: How to Embrace Your Birthright: MasculinityI don’t know but the message I got from your post is “go start fights with other men”. That’s more a behaviour of a NEEDY alpha, not a real alpha | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Looks: being perceived as a beta provider instead of an alpha guyThank you. I understand that I sound like a whiny bitch, I’m just trying to sort things out. I have some decent game and it seemed to actually help as I said in the post. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 04:26 PM |
| 8 | How life changed after growing muscles and getting bigger. A lesson for everyone swallowing the pillThis is what I'm doing too. Got no time to chase girls. Got no time to go out and build social circles. I'm so focused on finishing high school and lifting/looksmaxing and improving myself. I was a total nerd at 14 (i'm now 18), probably a 3.5/10 in term of looks. I'm now a 6-6.5/10. I had like 3-4 friends and never talked to a girl. Now, even if I'm still a virgin, I can tell I improved so fucking much. I've approached like 50 girls and every time learnt something new about game. You won't succ… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Lack of dopamine leads to depression and insecuritiesThe “how to hold frame” recent post of woujo had some similar concepts. Everyone wants to be the archetypal alpha, the perfect alpha (the “chad”). It’s actually a bad mindset to have cause you’ll never be satisfied even if you are making improvements. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Caught strong one-itis for my first ever girlfriend(who dumped me)She’s not special. There are plenty of women out there. Work on yourself and be a man who has shit to do instead of wasting time thinking about that one girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Caught strong one-itis for my first ever girlfriend(who dumped me)General advice is not “go fuck 10 other women”. General advice is read the sidebar and related oneitis posts. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 09:18 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill vs. the Black Pille.g lookism and those forums full of retards | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 05:26 PM |
| 3 | fap or no fap?Nofap is hard to do if you don’t have any girl you can fuck. I’m a virgin and no fap isn’t really helping me doing anything. It just frees your mind from porn but you will eventually relapse for sure after days/weeks. The only thing you can do to feel better and increase testosterone is lifting. You should do nofap if you are autistic and if you never talked to a girl. Masturbating without porn is legit. Masturbating with porn might give you troubles in the long run (to your brain) | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | I keep seeing on TRP "you're the prize" but what does it actually mean?“I am the prize” is most likely a mindset which goes along abundance mentality. It means that the girl has to do shit for you if she wants attention. She is disrespectful? You next her, because you are the prize and she has lost the only chance you gave her. It’s hard to have this mindset unless you have been fucking many girls in the past and have current plates. But keep lifting and working on yourself and you’ll achieve abundance even as a virgin. (Like me) | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 10:15 AM |
| 39 | How every girl around me isWe need a testosterone nuke | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How to hold frame (my complete guide)That’s why people here say “always assume attraction” | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/18 09:43 PM |
| 3 | How to show attraction in a red pill wayI knew that you never have to verbalize it (e.g “I like you”, don’t do that shit. You can tell that only if your body language is not that of a needy guy). Kino and physical escalation is probably the only way to show desire without seeming a beta. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 09:35 PM |
| 37 | Some people say approach , approach and approach , while others say quit chasing pussy and it’ll come to you. Which is it?You have two choices. One is chasing pussy and using your time doing that. You will get pussy, but your value as a person will not increase. (e.g pick up artists) Second choice is working on yourself, increasing your value. The side effect is that women will then chase you. (e.g playboys) Your choice. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Traveling solo - where to go?Dal punto di vista turistico e culturale è chiaro. Chi visita l’Italia da turista difficilmente vede gli aspetti negativi che essa ha (e ce ne sono parecchi). Viverci è un altro conto, soprattutto in questo preciso istante | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Traveling solo - where to go?E quando te ne sei andato? 30 anni fa? quando la situazione politica e economica era ancora qualcosa di sostenibile. E quando il 95% della popolazione era Italiana e non extracomunitaria | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 06:34 PM |
| 3 | How to stop overanalysingIt's not simple to do but when you reach that state of "not giving a fuck" you'll feel free as fuck. I got there after months of pointless lurking on trp and seduction forums. After some time you will understand you are just trapping yourself and you will get nothing out of reading this stuff endlessly without going out and applying. I stopped reading trp stuff that has to do with women and just focusing on myself and self-actualizing. You will stop overanalysing when you have more important stu… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Traveling solo - where to go?I live in Italy, why do you recommend it? many people say it's amazing but trust me I would love to escape from here | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Women don't help people below themWomen are shallow and egoistical. Nothing new. | /r/MGTOW | 25/04/18 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Studies about male attractiveness and alpha fucks/beta bucksNo I’m not ugly at all. I’m just that kind of guy who likes to know how everything works. Of course this isn’t some useful stuff to know, it just leads to overthinking but yeah, just curiosity to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Big thighs unaesthetic?Do you have any picture you can show me of a 5’9 Aesthetic guy with weight? I really don’t know any famous athlete. There’s Mark Wahlberg who is 5’8” and when he was young had a great physique in my opinion. I can’t tell how much he weighed though | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Big thighs unaesthetic?“Small” is relative. For the first 1-2 years I’ve been doing calisthenics only. I’m an ectomorph and when I started I was 15 and like 58kg. Also as I said I aim for aesthetics so if I was like 80kg I would look too stocky considering my height. In fact when I bulked up I reached 73kg and looked like a rugby player with like 16% bodyfat | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Big thighs unaesthetic?Yeah my calves are thin. So what should I do? Is there really a way to build them without roids? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | High school senior here and I wanted to know if this is weirdI’m 18 and still in HS and my advice is do not focus on women. Are you lifting? That’s a starting point. Work on yourself first. You can’t think about women if you haven’t made yourself first. I’ve been studying seduction and wasting my time for like 1-2 years and then realised how useless it is to study something to get laid. Don’t be like me | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 05:01 AM |
| 54 | Went clubbing for the first timeDo you have control over something? If not then don’t worry about it. Stoicism is part of trp principles. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the movie "The 40 Year Old Virgin?"There are few movies where you can see trp principles applied. “Toy boy” seemed to reflect most of them: high smv, abundance mentality, preselection, he’s the prize to be won. Thing is without the looks of the actor most of that can’t be applied in real life. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 12:04 PM |
| 13 | How to handle the shittest "you cum too fast"Keep frame and act like you fucked her good even if you didn’t. If you show that she’s right then you enter her reality (i.e you can’t fuck her good) | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 11:19 AM |
| 8 | A Call to Wake and Take ActionOP you could at least give credits to the writer of the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Workout question?He's 5'9. The shorter you are, the less the calories you need to eat. Or am I wrong? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Reward myselfThen do something you always wanted to do but never had the chance to do so | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 11 | Reward myselfHonestly I never rewarded myself even if I was improving myself. Sounds like a cheap dopamine seek excuse. In my opinion you are already rewarding yourself by losing weight ergo getting more attractive. Same thing counts for your lungs. You stopped smoking so you are getting “healthier” (than before) | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 03:16 PM |
| 3 | What will happen if I continue training and increasing weight but not increasing food/calories?You will most likely build strength | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Girl tells me about a bunch of "really hot" guys she met.She is just demonstrating higher value. Act like you don’t give a fuck | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Basic responses to Birthday Messages Advice“Thanks” ? I see some overthinking right there | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 10:09 PM |
| 4 | How can a 21 YO male succeed with women in this generation when everything is basically ran by social media?Yeah it’s more than just “lift”. It’s a long process. You need to learn game and have a decent status to get laid. It’s true that socials are fundamental, unfortunately. We can’t do anything else apart from adapting ourselves to certain situations. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:08 AM |
| 3 | I'm dating this girl, but she is not a virgin. I amEdit: She know's I'm a virgin. She said it will be a "great experience'' for me. I feel like she's gonna make you wait and make you enter her frame now that she knows you are a virgin and that she's probably your only option. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I am 16, should I try girls at 17?You can even game 20 year old girls as soon as you look high status and do not tell your real age. I.e: lift to look older and learn game/amused mastery | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt too redpilled and prone to overly-analysis?Yeah man I’m exactly the same. On field reports I write literally everything and if you think about it you don’t need to write all that stuff. Think less, do more. Follow the gut | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 08:05 PM |
| 2 | If you could come back to when you were 18, what would you do different?This is helpful, thank you | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to ask outYou don’t ASK. You OFFER an opportunity to her. The basics. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 08:50 PM |
| 5 | You can't sidebar and monk mode your way to success - eventually you have to step out into the real world. And the real world is not as easy as it seems. A guide on how to make the transition.When women threw shit-tests you should usually act like she never said anything. The best thing that could happen is her changing her mind quick and excuse herself for whatever she said. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How does one not get angry/depressed/frustrated seeing hot girls and just having no idea how to talk to them?Depression and frustration is part of the process. Get used to it. One day that depression and frustration will transform into an energy you will have to use for approaching and leaving your comfort zone. Just approach, seriously. Do not give a fuck about the outcome. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 11:19 AM |
| 23 | The ultimate, low effort guide to fucking girls off online dating appslol dude is 6'3"" and says "nothing too exceptional". For people below 5'10 like me there's like a 0.0001% of online dating success unless you have a pretty boy face. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Is this how soft next works?Looks like more Dread Game to me | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 11:48 AM |
| 11 | What’s the perfect approach for a girl in my school?Here where I live (Italy) cold approach at school (high school) is not really a good thing to do. You should aim to increase your status and getting to know people. Make male friends first and then start befriending their girl-friends. This is what I’m trying to do (I’m still in hs) and it’s the only thing you can do to be honest. Cold approach won’t lead nowhere. I tried once and the girl went away laughing and she told her girl-friends lmao. After I monk moded my SMV increased and now the same… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 07:39 PM |
| 16 | Asked a girl out twice for brunch and she flakedNext, easy | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you agree that the DiCarlo escalation is way too detailed?I used to read too much stuff. The result was overthinking. You don’t need a book to understand how to escalate lol Nofap is enough for me to make me able to follow my sexual instincts | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | 1 month and 1 week.How old are you? Wish I had the success you are having | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?I wasn’t supposed to make it look like i’m sad bout it. I’m sorry for your family | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 07:17 AM |
| 0 | Am I doing it right?If my father wasn't a beta, I wouldn't be here asking advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Am I doing it right?Sinceramente la trp è stata come trovare un tesoro per strada. Dalla trp ho scoperto la mgtow e la mia vita da subconscia è passata a conscia e sto cercando di disegnare la mia vita e fare ciò che occorre per raggiungere un certo obiettivo. Hai presente la mastermind? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Qui come ho detto nel post purtroppo è valida la regola del 20/80. Il 20% degli uomini si scopa l'80% delle donne. E io purtroppo non faccio ancora parte di quel 20%. Scopa solo chi è popolare purtroppo. La pre-selection sembra l'unica forma di attrazione esistente | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Qua da noi tinder viene ridicolizzato, sarà soprattutto perchè non vivo in una città molto grande. Se vivessi a Milano sarebbe molto più easy. Tu in che zona abiti? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Am I doing it right?Fuck a few older sluts to get your dick wet. Late 20s girls that are about to hit the wall. Sounds fine, but where do I find them is the question. Italian girls are always attracted by foreigners guys. I actually think in every state girls are attracted by foreigners as there is that kind of mystery and it's a way for them to leave from the daily monotony they are living and have some fun. It's like if I had to go in Russia or wherever else. Girls will probably be more receptive towards me as th… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing it right?I’m sure i’ll be drowning in pussy in a few years, that’s what keeps me motivated | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Abito in umbria | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing it right?Honestly sounds like a great idea I never thought about | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 01:41 PM |
| -1 | Women don't like it when men "talk to their chest" but they did it to me at the beach?Muscles are almost useless if you are shorter than 5’9 (i’m 5’9 and I’m pretty built, however you start looking stocky if you get too big and trust me it’s not that attractive) | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | New to TRP but Trying to ExperimentThink less, do more. Follow the gut | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Women don't like it when men "talk to their chest" but they did it to me at the beach?Well you can't provide motivation for short guys. Just the opposite. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 05:06 PM |
| 12 | What exactly is the "Brad Pitt rule" and what exactly is the POINT of it?It means that women act different roles depending on your value. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some masculine jobs?I feel like i’m obliged to do things that will make me earn money. I know it’s a bad mindset but yeah | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Ignoring to Gauge InterestActive disinterest works. You subcommunicate that your value is higher (even if it might not) | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to truly internalize RP without having been in a relationship?Main things you can understand right now are shit-tests and frame control. Just approach random girls, you don't need to be in a relationship to encounter those. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed to having sex with a girl?^ this. I've done the same mistake, and I'm 18. Girls won't fuck you if your are not trustworthy and if they believe you'll dump them after you smash them. They need a warranty. So never verbalize things such as "I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now" before you even fuck her, that's what ruined everything with a girl I was dating. Be covert. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | When there is a hiccup in your RP journeyWe need more of these straight and concised posts. It's full of posts which seems poems and I can never remind anything from reading them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | As soon as I have no distractions I begin to feel lonely again.I'm 18 and I feel exactly like you. I've been trying to get laid for 4 years now and I've always got rejected. First years I used to get rejected cause I was too beta. And now I'm getting rejected because I'm too much of an asshole and I push 80% (in the push/pull scale). I kinda gave up chasing girls even if my testosterone wants to. I started focusing on myself: been lifting for 4 years and I'm trying to achieve the most possible aesthetic physique as I have to somehow compensate for my averag… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 07:51 PM |
| 3 | I can’t find enough material for my age (16)I'm 18 and at this age the only thing that matters is status. If you know guys, you'll know girls. I'm in the same situation as yours. What I'm trying to do right now is to "get known" and expand my social circles even though you will automatically neglect other important stuff such as lifting, studying and improving yourself. (of course you can do all of these if you know how to manage time) | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 08:36 PM |
| 16 | Reading TRP is itself a dopamine hit?It seems like some people have made internalising TRP their mission Unfortunately I'm one of these persons. That's why I realized I'm going nowhere with all this stuff. I've just realized I've been browsing the main sub and I've read like 60 posts in 2 months with little to no practice. How much have I internalised from reading all those 60 posts? almost nothing to be honest. It's a shit load of information which your brain can't internalize without practice. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Should I keep losing my virginity to a hooker a secret?I would keep the reply vague and mysterious. Never say “yes” or “no”. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Prude girlfriend of 3 months (17 yrs old)Lol I’m 18 and I was dating a girl who was making me wait for sex. She wanted a relationship before sex (she’s 17 too). You should try to escalate as far as possible, keep doing that until she slaps you in the face. If she does, then fucking dump her please | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 07:47 AM |
| -1 | I ghosted her and she wrote me back mad at me after 3 daysI guess you are right. I’ve been too aloof with her and she’s probably fearing of losing me | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | I ghosted her and she wrote me back mad at me after 3 daysshe told me something like this (i'm translating to english) her: "you are not normal really" me: "it's you who got mad because I haven't texted you in 3 days" her: "of course, It's normal" (she is saying me it's normal that she is mad lol) me: "we are not a couple, and will never be if you keep getting mad for this bullshit" her: "what..it's not bullshit" me: "calm down name" her: "No, thanks" me: "How you prefer" her: "Ok" After that I freezed her out again. I think she's really into me but I … | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | I ghosted her and she wrote me back mad at me after 3 daysme: Disappeared? I thought we've seen each other just 3 days ago her: Yes, disappeared..two normal persons don't only talk when they see each other once in a while all this by text. I used text with her just for logistics basically. She basically wants me to talk with her via text but I already told her I don't like chatting and that she can only know me in real life. I dated her twice so far, one date every week. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I ghosted her and she wrote me back mad at me after 3 daysYeah I misunderstood the concept of "ghosting". It was more like a soft next/freeze indeed. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 03:47 PM |
| 3 | I ghosted her and she wrote me back mad at me after 3 daysSounds fair. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 11:00 AM |
| 2 | How much sex is too much sex?Wish I had your problem. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Depression and obsessioned by getting laidThanks for the advice dude. testosterone just fucking raging from your balls This is exactly what makes me frustrated. I have an incredible sex drive/libido due to high test and not using it for fucking chicks is like keeping a Lamborghini in your garage | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Depression and obsessioned by getting laidSome great links, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Should I trust this "good girl" ?So you are telling me you kiss your girl-friends? Lol | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Should I trust this "good girl" ?Thing is she's 17 and I'm 18. I somewhere read that girls start fucking alphas left and right during 18-25 age. Before that I guess they are "being careful" not to fuck guys who do not commit a minimum. I honestly think it's possible that she has never met a guy like me who expects sex before the relationship. (Or I am just naive) | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Why does LMR happen?I read Rollo’s thread about LMR. I’ll look for more, thank you | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 10:21 AM |
| 1 | When do women un-invest? And how to make them invest again?Thanks for the advice. So basically the key is always keep being the prize and make her chase you. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Chick who gets really offended when I do slight negs...It shows you have no other options and want her back (my opinion) | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Chick who gets really offended when I do slight negs...Do not apologize, just next. If you apologize you show you care about her | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 09:12 AM |
| 6 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameThis reminds me of the times I was browsing on lookism and sluthate “if you have no maxilla and strong jaw your life is done” fuck that shit | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 09:03 AM |
| 3 | What does 16 months of redpill look like for a college student?Was it text game only or have you ever seen her in real life before texting? (Did she emotionally invest a little?) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | She gets “offended” because I escalated too quickneedy alpha Honestly you got it right. Let's say I'm "faking till I make it" and I have some beta and some alpha traits. (beta= no abundance mentality, so I'm "performing" abundance), (alpha=assertiveness, being direct and no fear of doing things that are supposed to be immoral). What should I do in your opinion? the best thing that comes in my mind is to ghost her (yesterday I pulled a lot, so I think I should push now) | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 12:33 PM |
| 2 | She gets “offended” because I escalated too quickThank you, I accept criticism. Anyways, should I push and act like I lost interest in her? I told her we would have seen today but I start feeling like it’s better if I show that i’m not available right now. Yep I can tell I also have a sort of one-itis, I do not have plates so abundance is hard to have for me | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Girl trying to betafy meGreat advice. Thanks a lot | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 08:14 PM |
| -1 | Girl trying to betafy meYeah I feel like losing frame when I become nice to her, that's probably her goal. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Is too much mystery a thing?"The Prince would reveal things about himself only as a reward. The woman loves the mystery in this and sees knowing the Prince as peeling layers of an onion, knowing him GRADUALLY. " by Pook | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Frame for Dummies. What it is and ways to build (and keep) it.Best post on keeping frame i’ve ever read. Great job | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Whats a good place to start for someone new to TRPRead Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi to get unplugged first | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson's Models vs TRP IdealsThese said it’s the best book for self-improvement...so it should be more about inner game but the advice this book gives is really basic (for example “don’t be needy”, I think this is something everyone knows already). I just started the book so I can’t really review it yet, but I think it has been written mainly for the newbies who never talked to a girl in their life. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson's Models vs TRP IdealsYeah well I’ve seen many threads on TheRedPill subreddit where this book was advised a lot. But so far i’ve only seen a lot of bluepill concepts in it. I don’t get why it is was advised on TRP, it’s kinda the opposite of Rollo’s thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How to start getting an abundance mentality in high school?It would have been a better advice if you told him "find a hobby, a passion" instead of "smoke weed". | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Attraction, Anxiety, Arousal, AgitationAnd when women manipulate men for their needs, isn't that cruel? kill the fucking beta | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 12:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]That’s because your sexual market value is at its peak during your 30’s. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Can women be addicted to a a man despite what he provides or even have oneitis like men do ?One-itis for women = alpha-widow | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to use TRP to grow “rich”?I found school to be complete bullshit and time wasting. I could teach myself anything in school in 1/10th of the time it took for class. School isn't for learning. It is designed to make you an obedient worker. TRP is seeing everything fro what it truly is. School is bullshit and is not designed to make you successful. Yea exactly what I was thinking. School is like a factory of slaves/clones in my opinion | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 03:12 PM |
| 2 | How to use TRP to grow “rich”?Perfect response, thank you | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How to use TRP to grow “rich”?"Education, advice and self help is only tools. The rest is up to you." Exactly what I was trying to understand | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 02:11 PM |
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