Found out TRP almost 2 years ago. Monk moded till burnout.

Been lifting for 4 years. 165lbs low bf at 5’9 broad shoulders due to years of swimming, which make my delts insertion look like a cannonball without roids.

I have a great face (square jaw and high cheekbones).

People tell me I’m good looking and jacked almost every day and girls stare at me often.

Some think I’m gay, and others think I’m intimidating.

And no, I’m not here to brag. In fact, quite the opposite. I’m just sharing with you info on how I look like, to give you enough info to understand the problem I’m having, and WHY I’m having.

I’m the good looking loser many of you probably know. Chad looks but still does not get results, somehow.

I started out with extreme fear of failure and now find myself much more free to social pressure and outcome independent.

Getting rejected 70+ times definitely made me stronger. I now barely feel anything when rejected.

Then, what’s the problem?

Well, I’ve been trying to understand forever why I’m not getting results with women.

I’ve been in a pool party a few days ago. I’m 20 and most guys there were between 13-18.

I entered the party with no shirt and I swear everyone was staring at me. I was displaying confident body language and keeping my back straight.

I was feeling like a celebrity. I was the only one with no shirt, but also one of the few with a great physique.

Generally people stare at me, but this time, I was feeling like an HB9 who gets attentions like fucking mad. The phrase “if you want to see how it’s like being an hb9, get large and you’ll see” is so fucking true”.

Some guys gave me an handshake and I didn’t even know them.

Some said I look ridiculous but I took it as a simple shit test and ignored them completely.

I heard some girls say “Is he gay” (someone should explain me what this means) referred to me.

Anyways, I handled the social pressure (around 900 people in there) and started approaching.

First chick, I touch her on the elbow and before I open my mouth she turns away with a disgusted face. That’s interesting. First she stares at me, then once I approach her, she acts like “What the fuck do you want?”.

Is it a shit-test? Who knows. This shit happened to me so many times and I still haven’t figured out whether it’s a shit test or else.

Second chick, “What’s your name”. I made sure my body language and voice tonality was in check and not displaying neediness. “Aloof attitude”, if you will.

She tells me her name, I give her an handshake and say “I’m lifeisweirdasfuck”.

She is about to turn away, too. I didn’t drop her hand, yet. I take it close to me (not forcing her) to “stop” her, and say “Look, I just want to talk to you for one minute”.

Again, I made sure I didn’t display needy body language.

She drops the IHABF line and says her bf is the one 2 metres away. I don’t look at the guy she was indicating and tell her “Who said I want to be your boyfriend? I’m just here talking to you”.

She: “then what do you want?” Matter of fact, she kept mentioning the boyfriend.

Don’t know whether it was true or not. So I turned my body away from her and told her “Your choice” without showing bitterness or such (Outcome independence).

I then approached other 2 chicks. It ended like the first one. They show interest, I approach her, and she acts bitchy and disinterested.

I remember hearing from someone here that clubs are pointless for gaming women. They go there for validation. But hey, I still saw guys there making out with girls, so this just does not make any sense to me.

Indeed, I (almost) always got rejected in clubs. Never really tried daygaming, but I should probably give it a try before saying I can’t get laid and give up like a chump.

You might think the problem is my frame. Maybe it is. The only thing I know is that I strengthened it a fucking lot in the last months.

But I’m still getting rejected a ton despite all the ioi’s I’m getting.

This just does not make any sense to me.

I’m feeling fucking mad. If women send me so many ioi’s and I’m good looking, why the fuck am I not getting positive results?

What makes me mad is not that I’m getting rejected, but that I’m getting rejected WHILE being high smv (for my age).

What the fuck is going on? Should I just keep approaching and follow the numbers game mentality?