How do you deal with the kind of women in the NYC subway fight video?

slcjosh · 2014-11-17T21:40:33+00:00

You get off the train and wait for the next one. You're in a no-win situation if a girl's disrespecting you in public. If you hit her, youre gonna be in the hospital and THEN you're going to jail. If you don't - I hate to say this - you're that guy who's so low-value that a girl would diss you on the train.

mordanus · 2014-11-18T01:59:55+00:00

The first thing to remember in this type of situation is to Act and not react. Don't let anyone ever bait you into something like this. That means you have lost control. Throw in some amused mastery and agree and amplify and their taunts become just words. This guy got offended and let these women dictate how this went and it got him hit in the back of the head with a stiletto and arrested for 4 days.

slcjosh · 2014-11-18T02:34:52+00:00

You don't. Never argue with fools. People can't tell who is who. Thank Jay Z for that one.

antariusz · 2014-11-17T23:09:40+00:00

http://youtu.be/ED7_y4jETo0?t=1m24s

When a woman is disrespecting you. That is all you can do. Hold frame. Make them believe that if they continue engaging you, you might potentially kill them, that you might be psychopathic enough to do it and not feel guilty about it.

thinktankman · 2014-11-17T23:19:40+00:00

He did everything right by not entertaining her and choosing to walk away. The video also shows her being hyper agrressive and that she was obviously looking for trouble. People sided with him for two reasons 1 she assaulted him as he walked away and 2 because she is black and ghetto. A foreigner slapping a blond would not have gone well

R4F1 · 2014-11-17T22:00:56+00:00

I've been in that situation, its a numbers game. When they're by themselves, I haven't hesitated to get a into a shouting match if they push it that far. I just remember to not swear and not be racist, usually they're the ones who ended up using those low tactics against me. But if its a group of women, then the best option is to ignore and walk away. At the end of the day, you want them to seem crazy and not you. So never escalate before they escalate. Source: New Yorker.

yummyluckycharms · 2014-11-18T09:55:04+00:00

People are forgetting that the only reason the cops relented and let this guy go was thanks to video evidence - otherwise he would've rotted in jail for more than 4 days.

Secondly, amused mastery would've been ineffective because she was railing on the guy for a looong time. So long, that it actually made things worse as she became more violent.

The best thing you could do is get out of there. If you stay, some beta white knight chump is going to get knocked out, questions will be asked, and now you would have 2 people against you.

2014-11-18T17:39:43+00:00

You dont. You swallow your pride and walk away. There is just too much to lose.

2014-11-18T14:56:57+00:00

As a Black man that lives in a large city, I have extensive experience dealing with women like this. I've dated women like this (black, white, and latina,) and I've learned that unfortunately the only way to deal with their aggression is to reciprocate even stronger. It is almost like a game where you cannot show weakness. This is also, believe it or not, how these types flirt. They expect a "strong" man to curse them out, and put them in their place so they can feel submissive. It can be annoying and exhausting, but you if you play the "game" correctly it can be rewarding, haha. As far as the violence goes, you still should never hit them, and you don't need too. An occasional restraint though..

Seuguh · 2014-11-18T19:53:11+00:00

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2014-11-17T22:59:58+00:00

Amused Mastery. They'll all be screaming and you just say "right, I have no idea what you're saying, one at a time if you know how" then just tease/neg the shit out of each one. Then leave. Or move to the other end of the car. When they follow you, just say "Oh look, I have an entourage!" and keep moving cars.

Stupid bitches gonna be stupid. If it gets necessary, drop a cunt-bomb and leave immediately. "Where'd you learn to be such a cunt love?" then get off. Some white knight will probably chase after you, just ignore him or beat his ass.

2014-11-17T21:38:32+00:00

It's not impossible, but proper frame reduces the chances that this happens to you.

2014-11-19T09:23:25+00:00

Race has to be factored into this, and that is a separate topic.

thinktankman · 2014-11-17T22:01:37+00:00

The problem with the guy was that he wasn't quick witted enuf to keep up with the girl. He could have clowned her on a million things. The best he could come up with was "stupid bitch"

Title	How do you deal with the kind of women in the NYC subway fight video?
Author	Artemisnotfowl
Upvotes	16
Comments	30
Date	November 17, 2014 9:27 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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