Hear me out, I've been following this sub for a long time, a full 1yr plus. Too much reading done, not much action to be honest. Today I took my grandpa to an appointment to his female doc. She looks good, generally speaking. My grandpa has an hearing impairment, so I was there to make sure his best interest was the top priority. The appointment revolved around designing a hearing aid to him. A subject far from sexy, but the doc kept touching my arms and smiling at me. After a while I realized I had some opening to approach her. I thanked for her top notch service (for real, she was very helpful and sympathetic) and invited her for drinks. She once again touched me and we exchanged some words. I left her clinic with her personal number.

My beard wasn't trimmed, my haircut was messy, and I hadn't brush my teeth beforehand. I wasn't in my best shape during the approach, yet I did just fine. Apparently "showing up" is enough most of the time. Being a man, being upfront and not caring about the outcomes outweighs other factors it seems.

Just wanted to share this! Also, I don't lift regularly, I'm 1.70m tall and my facial structure isn't that good (got a pair of glowing green eyes though).

Peace folks