We have all heard the phrase: "Your life is what you make out of it".

Your life is what you focus on and what you invest your time and resources on. That's your choice but you have to be careful when choosing.

I see guys all around me that focus on their looks and social life and better themselves so that they can get girls. That's their short-term goal.

I also see guys that focus on developing their skills in order to make it later in life and create a good living standard. That's their long-term goal.

For me both are important but focusing on only one can be detrimental for the other.

You don't want to be the highschool/college guy that fucked a lot of girls and became a slum later in life, wondering what to do and always talking about how good those college years were.

You probably also don't want to be the guy that didn't develop his social skills and circle enough and didn't marry the girl he initially wanted to.

You have to have focus in your life but don't focus on girls or studying only.

Don't forget that there's more to life than one thing.

In short, it's about finding balance in what you do.

Find balance and keep going.