Been in a relationship few months, and I’m just quietly scrolling RedPill since few weeks

He has very high n-count, is very close with his family (including women - very strong bonds with girls in family similar to his age). Always had a lot of attention from girls, always slept with any girl he wanted, always had some girls around trying to be friends (when he didn’t want to sleep with them). Basically, he knows how to handle girls.

He has solid group of guy friends, so it’s not like he’s only surrounded by girls. But at the new places (new job) he only talks about girls he met - one he ignores because she’s trying to flirt with him and one that he likes and talks a lot to. He said that she’s crazy but in a fun way and that she helps him a lot. I didn’t reply much to that particular thing because there were other things.

This is only one example because I’m seeking for more general advice, not that personal.

I wanted to ask - where is the line between me being insecure and him actually doing something that isn’t quite right? How aware should I stay? How do I know when it’s my insecurity and when something is really off? We are currently (short time) in a long-distance relationship and I’ve noticed that he stopped paying much attention to sending me nice messages etc. like we used to - however I understand it’s due to a new job.

Please remember that he is my boyfriend since few months so our dynamics are still developing. I didn’t attempt solving this „problem” yet as I’ve never known anyone who was getting so much attention from girls and I’m not sure how to handle it.

Sorry if something is unclear, I’m bad at writing in English, I will be glad to explain