Hey guys. I think the redpill has some good advice to follow, but I question the motives. Why exactly should I spin plates? I have serious oneitis to an old friend who probably liked me when I was terrible with girls, and have been obsessed with her for almost 3 years and she ignored my last few messages (lmao). Spinning plates is not helping. Admitedly I could spin more, higher quality, plates, but the happiest I have been was a month where I had a girl who was essentially my girlfriend. I would much rather have a consistent person to hold at night who loves me than fucking strange. Isn't spinning plates a really immature thing to do?