I take good care of our kids, the house, and myself. I would say I've never been less than a 7, except through pregnancy and recovery. I have a high sex drive and an adventurous, engaged attitude but he doesn't want it. We married as virgins and even on our honeymoon he was quickly not interested. I can outright beg for sex or ignore my desire for months and he's unaffected. I don't barter with sex or carry covert expectations because of sex. I'm in it because I like the pleasure of it for both of us. I have not and will not accept sex that doesn't have a chance of getting me to orgasm and he hates the foreplay and chore of doing more than penetrating and finishing inside. We have fought over the unfairness of pumping and dumping. He's mentioned following redpill before so maybe this is where I can find an answer.

Does TRP have a solution or insight to that kind of seemingly rare predicament?