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This comes across as bragging rather then a feild report, This needs to go in oys! Next time in a field report maybe explain more about how you did a thing and the guys can try and emulate it and see if it works for them. You're 3 weeks in, there's no way that these changes in any behaviour are for the long term.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/23 06:16 AM
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And that statement is why you will constantly have to deal with this bullshit!
/r/askMRP22/03/23 03:06 PM
4

You can't abstain from something you aren't getting. It's so that you can focus on yourself without the covert contacts. Which you need to spend the rest of your life getting rid of
/r/askMRP15/03/23 09:19 PM
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Alot of "we" and "she" in here. I see no ownership, no strong frame (that belongs to her) no lifts no hobbies no nothing. Just another guy looking for tips and tricks to get his wife to fuck him. You have maybe 2 years of work before you get anywhere close to what you want to be. You ready for that ?
/r/askMRP15/03/23 07:52 PM
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Your ego is repulsive.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 09:13 PM
0

Just doing my part for my greater good!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 02:58 PM
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I cannot understand the need to belong to such a sub! It's not exactly a panty wetter is it. "Oh Im with a group of misogynist on Reddit and all we talk about is how to fuck our wives/gf properly". Ask yourself why would you want to be apart of that! Just take what you need, and if you get skilled enough and have something original then drop it in! It's not hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 02:22 PM
2

Have you come from deadbedrooms too?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 06:55 PM
0

I'm not talking to you. I'm talking through you. to anyone reading this thread that actually want to improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 06:15 PM
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I agree with male interaction 100%. But rolemodels, no!! If you actually read anything you would know this sub is about self reliance and being your own man! Guys with no frame and the things they do!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 06:05 PM
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You 2 deserve eachother.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 05:58 PM
1

Women talk, men do.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 05:41 PM
2

This ain't a dating app buddy. You want some stranger to go for a beer and listen to you mouth off about how shit you are. Fuck that. And how have you come back to a community you were apart of before it was created. I'm reading to much into this, but your a moron. Edit: your the open relationship guy. You haven't been apart of anything ever. Still looking for tips and tricks to get your wife to fuck you. News flash pal, there ain't any.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 05:04 PM
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Why would you think that any of us "tough alpha guys" would give a shit about what's happening in someone else's world.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 02:07 PM
7

Upvoted, I like this post. Instead of using all the negative consequences of gaming someone at work, you have put it in a different perspective which I hadn't thought of before. I personally didnt do it because of the huge potential risks involved, but looking at it like this as well gives us something else to think about. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 11:51 AM
7

Promotion is merit based.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 11:18 AM
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Respect comes from accomplishment. We respect trades based on how hard it is to work in them. Starting up an account and sitting there talking nonsense and showing parts of your body you were born with isn't exactly difficult, hence why no sex worker is ever going to be respected. Just another way women want to be respected and cherished from just being alive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 01:25 PM
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Live the rest of your life. If all you have is gaming women then you live a shallow and unfulfilled one.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:56 PM
3

It's free validation. Haven't you got other things to do then be on Instagram..
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:53 PM
3

Her eyes are absolutely soulless!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 10:09 PM
12

If you have a career some place that isn't a job you can replace tomorrow, DO NOT fuck the girls/women where you work. They have the power to fuck up your hole life from the slightest bit of regret.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 12:11 AM
6

Own it and move on. If she comes back then okay... But I'm sure your beta insecure self will fuck it all up again.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:21 PM
5

Alot of them try this nonsense though. All of a sudden they find God and don't like dick in there mouths because she's a "mature" women now or "knows her value"... Absolute joke.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 05:50 PM
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Start fucking girls..
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:40 AM
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But she's a unicorn...
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:19 PM
3

He's right. And how can you assess red flags from such limited communication? She didn't suddenly get sick! She didn't want to meet you. Give it a week and try again, If it's still no, then next.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:36 PM
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You text way to much. She doesn't seem all that interested in you either. She is shit testing you so I would withdraw and come back to it. I didn't read the hole post because it's so long to ask a simple question. Say less do more.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:59 PM
6

Into an early grave!! I don't even see it as a "grind"... I love my life and do whatever the fuck I want. I guess that working 40hr weeks, spending 7/10 hours in the gym a week, education, meditation, traveling, pushing your limits, socialising and fucking women is a grind now.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:46 PM
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Nah it's really not worth it, You should give up. Or I have an even better idea! Why not give your life to a women and let her make all your decisions for you and then you won't have to worry about the "grind"..
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:51 AM
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Completely ignore what she has said. Maybe reply with "well, hello to you too" or "hey, long time no see". Treat it like absolutely fuck all has happened. She has broken the soft next by reaching out. Invite her to do something or come over.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:48 AM
1

It's sad but very true. At least the people that take this sub seriously can capitalize on so many BP simps.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:28 PM
3

Men will find trp in there own time. You cannot force it on anybody, no matter how they fuck up! They must go through enough pain for them to want to look for answers.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:07 PM
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With such a limited time on this planet, why wouldn't you make everything beneficial or a learning experience. After all, you are all you have.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:19 AM
6

She says super... Alot. There's absolutely nothing "super" about her, except maybe...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/20 09:45 AM
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There's no such thing as mixed messages.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:43 AM
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Your frame is made of glass! And why are you being "dragged" anywhere? If you don't want to do it.. don't do it. If you would like to learn, then get some private sessions and when you return you'll be able to lead these women all the way home.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:42 AM
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I think it has something to do with supporting a tribe that isn't your own. As another guy said, if you are using it to suck up your time with no benefits at all, like learning or applying it in your life, it has no use. Movies are okay once you get passed all the feminist bullshit. Some movies are quite educational.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:36 AM
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If you have the frame to do it then go ahead, Who are we to give permission. I wouldn't unless I had to, but that's my opinion. You live your best life, and if that's what will make you happy then do it.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:20 PM
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Keep your mouth shut and make yourself very busy for aslong as possible.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:15 PM
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If you get everything you want from an LTR then why would you want too? To prove that you can? To be a dick for no reason? Because infact your LTR is dog shit and you don't know what to do or how to fix it, so you decide to jump ship and fuck it all up again?
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:07 PM
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The fact that she was in your bed with all her clothes on should tell you enough. You fucked up, best next this one and learn from this mistake.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:02 PM
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To show she is sexually available mixed with a slight shit test to see how you will react.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:09 AM
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If you are around higher SMV males it will force you to step up your game. Don't be afraid to compete!
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:08 AM
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How old are you? What did you do when you were 19?
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:05 AM
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There's much better content. Try posts from 2/3yr ago.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:04 AM
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Wanted to write this!! Her glass is lying, she knows nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/20 08:41 PM
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The ability to walk away from a women or "dump" her is the ultimate DHV. What you are showing by saying that if she does go away you will leave, and you follow through, is that you infact have all the power. It's all in how you frame it and hold that frame.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 04:24 PM
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I can guarantee that none of those little fuckers know how to use those pans properly!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 10:53 PM
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Came here to say this!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/19 10:54 PM
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Find your own path with the new set of books you just learned.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:56 PM
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This is all true. The game never stops though, if she cheated with you she can on you. Just because your value and SMV are high, doesn't mean she cannot find someone she See's as higher value. My frame has become that there is always someone higher, so fuck it. if she go's she go's, I still love me and the life I've built.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:33 PM
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I'm not bashing women. It was an experience I recently had that I have failed to put into words. Basically you can look for whatever you like in a women, the fact is it's all up to you and your game and SMV to make her loyal. And if she should come across somebody SHE thinks is better, then she's gone.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:08 PM
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It's clear that writing isn't a strong point for me. There's honestly nothing to be insensitive about, it's not a whining post. I had a recent experience with a women that made me see that what I thought was a good women actually wasnt. I've tried to put it into words here to help guys frame but I seemed to have fucked it up and come across as a butthurt bitch. I'll just stick to the reading and comments I think!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:01 PM
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Okay yeah, it's a positive place for men. My bad.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:39 PM
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You maybe right, But to me vetting is a complete waste of time and If you think that you are so high value that she won't run off with a Chad or beta then you really need to work on that frame. If she cheats she cheats and no vetting process or boundaries will ever change that. It's all in the game.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:13 PM
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This is true, But what you are explaining is the foundation of the women. Both types of women will leave if the right circumstances present themselves! And you must train each just as intensively. The thought that if she isn't a tatted up club slut means that she's automatically LTR worthy is a false idea. We will all do well to remember that actually women are not all that good and regardless of how high value you think you are or weather she's stuck in a relationship with a beta that she hates…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:07 PM
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The rule zero of redpill is to get the sex you want. Being so high value that women don't leave is a covert contract. That should never be the goal! You become high value to live the life that you desire, women are a byproduct of such a lifestyle. If they come or go.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 12:58 PM
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Surely she means her looks don't matter! And this entire planet is in serious trouble if even this land mammal can get a "hook up".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/19 10:40 AM
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You can't install dread if there's nothing to dread losing. It will take at least a year of a massive overhaul of your life before and dread will take place. Get in the gym, read the books+sidebar and STFU.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 10:23 AM
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So essentially this post is about acknowledgement of others frames and if you like something from that frame, after viewing it in a critical light, then add it to yours. Isn't that just empathy? I always try and strive to be a benevolent leader. But it's my belief that a leader doesn't need followers or permission. He leads himself to the best outcome HE wants and others might benefit from it. There's a really good post on MRP about leading a wife that doesn't want to be led. I do what's best fo…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 12:28 PM
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She is not interested in you, seems alpha widowed and you are white knighting. Why would this even come into your mind that this women who stayed with a meth head for 3 years would be a good candidate to fuck. She isn't over him which is evident by her enthusiasm to meet you to talk about HIM. next.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:14 AM
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Circumstances dictate alot! The idea is if she is LTR worthy then you should strive to be an 'oak tree'. But if you are just fucking and fun, then maximum alpha is required!
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:31 PM
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There's no point. Ever thought of becoming a monk?
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:40 PM
1

Did you push for a relationship? If you were just having fun with her then it shouldn't bother you what she did. Either way with what little information we have, you did something wrong. Women don't just 180 on guys they like.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:39 PM
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"with her just for fun" "run from relationship" These do not go together!
/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:46 AM
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To start, it's a shit test. Ignore what she said and continue to esculate her to your place. If she doesn't want to then soft next for a week and try again, if it continues then it's a hard next.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:30 PM
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What? Her actions are right in front of your face.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:23 PM
14

That's a shit test. Did you just finish "making love" or did you just finish fucking? Actions>words.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:33 PM
4

Hypergamy + beta male attention= current dating market. Forget dating apps, it's all magnified on there.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:50 PM
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You most certainly can have affections and feelings for a girl. But oneitis is very dangerous and has taken lives! This is why frame is so important and preached so heavily on this sub.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:50 PM
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This is not good advice. Oneitis is poison and should be avoided until it can be completely removed! This girl may be sweet and innocent now, 1 year on the CC and she will have that fucked right out of her. You can be successful and the strongest version of yourself and she will still step out! AWALT.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:20 PM
7

As you become more capable in the job this will all change. Relax man, this will help to build a better and stronger frame in your own life!
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:21 PM
30

What is big dick energy anyway? Women these days... Just keep coming up with new ways to shame, but yet cannot stand it when it's turned on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:34 PM
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Clearly told him her number, and the guy being a guy probably knew to triple it. So my guess is he wasn't pleased it's in the 3 figures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 12:52 PM
1

Same as it's always been. A tool kit!
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:00 PM
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Just because you look like fire, doesn't mean that when you open your mouth smoke will come out. Stop the mental masterbation. Get in the gym, learn a combat sport. Then when people think this of you it won't be smoke and you won't need to come to the internet and tell a bunch of strangers about how masculine your are.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:45 PM
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This is the BP man! High value masculine men have standards put on them by women. So high value masculine men have standards they put on women. Most men in this day and age are not high value, so they couldn't possibly ask anything because of lack of self respect and options. You do you man, seems like you're on your way!
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:41 PM
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Not unrealistic, that's basic femininity. You like what you like, ain't nothing gonna change that. My question is why are you talking to people about your frame? when clearly they couldn't dream of having one. You might need to reevaluate your "friends".
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:53 AM
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Look around you... Be better then them in multiple categories.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:45 AM
2

That's his frame, not yours!
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:56 PM
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They are movies, but yes. He has the the power to have somebody killed so of course his frame will be strong. Frame is how you view the world, you're beliefs, likes and dislikes. Adversities build strong frame and character.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:32 AM
1

Does it really matter? Maybe hit her back up in a couple weeks if you don't hear from her and try and set it up. No big deal.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:28 AM
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Sex doesn't have to be anything. You can ask the billions of girls/women In the world that give it away for free, it's kinda why we are all here. And you haven't set anything up, otherwise you would be getting it now wouldnt you! It may not be 30/45 minutes, but he quite clearly doesn't want to. There is something you aren't saying here, but there is a reason for this. Has he had his T levels checked?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:21 AM
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So because he doesn't want to spend 30/45 minutes on foreplay to try and "please" you, you decide to post on a sub Reddit where it's dedication is for men to get what they want out of life and complain! And then to add insult to injury you have in you're post that it isn't a covert contract. Whatever...
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:59 PM
1

I can't answer that. I'm 6'3 so have never experienced a height shit test other then how's the weather up there to which I reply "sunny and full of pleasure" but you just need to think of something on the day.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:41 PM
0

No you don't tell her about you're past. It's clear you havent read the sidebar because you have a complete misunderstanding about what dread is and you are highly trigger happy about something that is very basic.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:34 PM
11

The things you guys worry about is beyond me. No don't tell her about the height difference, go there, belong there, game there, enjoy yourself and esculate. Simple as that. If it doesn't bother you, then when she shit tests you about it you will pass and it will cease to bother her.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:31 PM
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I was just about to say the same thing. She is looking at him with complete and utter disgust.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 01:28 PM
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I second what the first guy said. I was the same as you, been around it my hole life. As the guy above has said it's not worth getting cut over eye contact! I moved from Finsbury park to Brighton a few years back, best decision I made man. Living in that world is not for the faint hearted and it will cause you problems later in life. Get out asap!
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:11 PM
1

Amused mastery/father figure/oak, all depends on you though. Sometimes I'm cocky funny, sometimes I'm beta. All depends on the moment and women you are dealing with.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:28 AM
14

It's because you have what they don't. Time.. Options... Freedom... It's envy through and through..
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:24 AM
4

Upvote!
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:47 PM
2

You've seen a "couple" of examples of this. It could be an exception, it's never the rule. Who knows the dynamic there and honestly who cares. Are you getting what you want out of life, focus on that.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:32 PM
1

Wasn't too bad actually, I wasn't that ego invested in the BP. I did get very angry for a long time though, sometimes I still do when I think about how I use to be, and some of the ways I was with women and what I let them do! It comes and go's, you just need to find a new hope in a system that you know and can see properly now. My only advice would be to fall in love with the game and all the trials and tests/challenges that come with it. You're depression will fade when you realize it really i…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:35 PM
4

It's an iron rule for a reason.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:01 AM
3

You set you're expectations. End of story. You could always tell them you're feelings. See how that goes.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:16 PM
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It honestly depends. If she is doing it while in you're frame and doing it for you then it really isn't negative, she is following her captain. On the other hand. If she is cold distant and acting like an intolerable bitch while increasing her SMV then you have troubles, she is doing it for someone else.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:30 AM
1

My beliefs are my own, I wouldn't dilute anything from fear of being ostracized! If it has to be told then let it be told. There's a saying over on MRP that basically means I wouldn't join a group that would have me in the first place.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 10:30 PM
3

If she resist you walk away alone.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 02:17 PM
2

He put himself in that tough position by not leading! You think by going to a dodgy pub in the scum part of London is a good choice? If I'm with a girl her attention wouldn't be on another guy staring because she should be wrapped up in what I'm saying/doing! She also wouldn't be shouting her fucking mouth off to some scumbag who will get "the Bois" on me! I would never even imagine putting myself in that situation, let alone bring a women into that! Those times of my life are fucking over and y…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:44 PM
2

How am I suppose to know if she is good for him, I have never met her. From what you have described in you're story is a dick measuring contest between you're mate and a couple locals that could of ended very poorly indeed. I'm from the UK myself, I know the rules these guys live by and it never ends well! You're friend is already fucked by living like that. He should be more focused on leaving that shit life alone and moving on in a positive way!
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:34 PM
3

Nobody here would defend a girls Honor, they don't have any so there's nothing to defend, it's a masculine trait! Sounds like alot of fight talk and wasted energy bringing in guys with knives and masks, for what? I was around that life when I was young and I'm telling you that guys about there business would of left... Immediately! You would have read about the outcome in the paper. You don't need advice, you think it's a good story to tell guys on the internet. You wanna know how this story end…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:24 PM
2

You're hamster is fierce! She doesn't like you and is quite clearly telling you she has another option she likes better and you are putting it down to torment. Let the ego deflate and move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:17 PM
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To me, it has to be war brides, It rocked me to my core, I couldn't believe it until I met a married women. I won't go into detail but I believe in this and the sunk cost fallacy... I will take them to my fucking grave.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:13 PM
1

I'm kinda blunt all the time, I haven't got time to fuck around, I don't see a problem here.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 11:21 PM
2

And you want to complain about this? If this is true you have a golden opportunity to build the strongest frame imaginable! See the blessing in this.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:43 PM
2

Lots and lots of hard fucking work!!
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:52 PM
6

Not if you're just gonna victim puke!
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:00 PM
55

Do not forget to strengthen your mind+emotions. It's a tripod, all 3 must be strong to be a complete man.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:19 PM
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Crabs in a bucket. Fuck that guy, his ego is overly invested in how he looks and is too lazy to change it! Keep going man, you're making great progress.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:52 PM
1

There's not alot of detail here. Seems like normal oak like behavior for an LTR. Aslong as you get what you want who cares. The problem is how big is your war chest if you do fuck up? If you're asking how to manage an LTR then you haven't done enough research and have jumped into something you are not prepared for. TRP is a tool box of knowledge, my suggestion is for you to read up heavily on anything LTR related on these forum's. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:24 PM
2

Being too tired from picking heavy things off the floor.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:09 PM
12

Confidence
/r/askTRP17/07/19 04:42 PM
1

Well you definitely fucked up! Shitting were you it is a no no for this reason. I'm no expert on BPD but this really doesn't seem like it's a personality disorder, but that isn't to say she isn't a crazy cunt! What is your plan/strategy? You talk about this "kid" like he's some super blue scumbag! Does it make you feel better about the situation to say this about this guy? He could be fucking her, you will never know. What is it that you want out of it? You seem to still have strong feelings for…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:38 PM
1

Nah, she's telling him all the story's of the nasty things you did to her body! Seems like every chick on here is BPD.. how long have you guys been broken up? What is some of the behavior she has had since you split with her?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:22 PM
5

You're soft! Who the fuck is this girl to you that you spend time with her? I've nexted people for less. Your neediness is apparent, everyone owns you!
/r/askTRP12/07/19 02:21 PM
2

Not a chance! I agree with you.
/r/MGTOW12/07/19 09:49 AM
2

Ask MRP is the sub you want for questions answered. This is the wrong place for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 08:11 PM
2

That's what jumped out at me! Along with his statement about becoming fat. There's alot more at play here, my opinion is he was somewhat attractive and let himself go and now she doesn't want anything to do with him!
/r/MGTOW11/07/19 05:59 PM
2

My only concern would be age, OP states there fresh out of college Which means early 20s. Would that not mean she is nowhere near the epiphany phase and would still feel the allure of the CC?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:05 PM
1

No there's no problem as long as she treats you well. Just remember it's only your turn and when she feels the need to return to that life (and she will) you must let her. But other then that you do whatever you like.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:27 PM
1

You can fake frame for only so long! You need to challenge yourself, forget what you have read. Spend some time ALONE doing things you wouldn't normally, be kind to yourself when you destroy challenges. And most of all accept yourself for who you are and one day you will have been alone so long and enjoyed crushing so many obstacles that you just won't care, a Zen like aura will fall over you and people will take note that you are a man about your business!
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:21 PM
2

This is good information! I would add she was probably with the bf the hole time. Keep it moving.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:06 PM
1

Because you act how you do! Ignore A&A AM applies to everyone except the person paying your bills.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 09:47 PM
10

Just checked your post history darling.... Ha. Ha.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 01:45 PM
7

Looks like her and the wall had a real intimate relationship!
/r/MGTOW05/07/19 09:37 AM
61

I think your friends are lying to you... I can go 1-3 times depending on circumstances. Read sex God method, its a very good read to help with these issues.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:47 PM
2

I don't think 3/4 messages back and forth is a massive dent in your 'alpha' cred! But that is provided she reaches out first, and also (and I cannot stress this enough) you have fucked at least 2-3 times. You can text to maintain some attraction, but you cannot esculate through a screen, That's why texting for logistics is a massive thing.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:00 PM
2

The use of dread + the avoidance on oneitis/overinvestment. Your frame will be tested... Constantly.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 11:37 PM
4

You mean an easier way to? No! Do the hard work, it will make it last and make any changes stronger!
/r/askTRP03/07/19 10:48 AM
10

Frame is developed through challenge! You need to get into some real challenging tasks, gym and bjj should help some. Takes time, don't be hard on yourself.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:58 AM
3

Reading red pill for years and what's an iron rule of tomassi should not be put in the same sentence. It's a well known fact that if you cohabitate with a women sex reduces, unless your frame is an unbreakable diamond. If you haven't read the rational male series, I suggest you add it to your list. Great stuff in there.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:05 AM
2

Iron rule of tomassi my man! Are you a rational male?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:58 PM
2

And she's also leading! You will do whatever you want, it's your right as a man. My advice is slow the fuck down and think about what you are writing here! You don't even really know this girl, did you even vet her past her putting out?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:55 PM
10

I can only give my perspective my man. We are all different here, learning in different ways and living our own lives the way we want. All I can say is women will do anything and everything to release the competition anxiety and execute there sexual strategy. If she is pushing for a house, picket fence and baby she is trying to beta bux you! But this also does not mean you are not the AF either! Women try to "civilize" alpha men. That's a signal to look for.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:47 PM
4

Its not exactly negative. Just understand that sexual attraction cannot happen over a phone and you need to be leading to a meet up.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:38 PM
1

You need to next her! First never live with a women and second if she broke the arrangements to move in together it's all but over. Get out of this sinking ship.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:32 PM
8

The moment you say ex, everything after that is non existent!!
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:28 PM
22

If he puts a child in her or cohabitates with her all this submissive and unicorn like behavior will go out of the window along with any frame this guy thinks he has over her and it will be replaced with the hundreds of cocks she's bounced on and all the DNA they left in her will come out. It's brifaults law.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:54 PM
1

Couldn't agree more! Game is always king, I believe first he hasn't read the right things and second hasn't internalized it! It's a complete package not just one area.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 01:22 PM
4

Keep lifting and diet on point of course! The work is internalizing what you have read. You clearly have the knowledge, it just hasn't sunk into you yet! If you need to read everything again and again and again until it's so intrenched in you it flows out all of you. Get some hobbies behind you, learn how to fight which are all test inducing activities. You are doing well for someone at such a young age. With time it will come.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 09:43 AM
84

That's a wall of text just to say you have oneitis for the hottest chick you banged so far. In a year with some hard god damn work, these are the chicks you will get regularly! The grind never ends, just keep going bit by bit.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 07:23 PM
1

If you have/done these things then you wouldn't be here talking about it.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:06 PM
5

That's not a bitch shield! She's a cunt plain and simple. She obviously doesn't have a strong dick in her life showing her how to treat people! All you can do is laugh it off and focus on your purpose for being there! None of them like you and now you know it. Aslong as your boss doesn't get involved your fine. Fuck em.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:04 PM
2

Some cause death you know. All guns are loaded.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:56 PM
9

I just broke a same time LTR for this exact reason. Is any of what she is saying a part of YOUR plan? If not it's done! Plus you should never cohabitate.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:46 AM
4

Either way it's over. You will start to act so insecure that you will drive her into another dick or you end it now. You have no frame and the smv balance is not in your favour. Next.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:39 PM
2

Try and use this to see your child maybe..
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:29 AM
3

Best thing I have read.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:41 PM
11

You actually want to meet someone that doesn't remember making plans with you.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:21 AM
1

You cant be doing to much if your on Reddit..
/r/askTRP06/06/19 11:00 PM
2

Your not in her frame if you are getting fed and watered on her dime! If you are paying for it all and helping her move then yes, that's extremely stupid! And you will be friend zoned!!
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:19 AM
2

This is a contradiction! If you wanna fuck her, esculate! If you don't enjoy the food and drinks, have a laugh while your doing it. It's not a negative if your getting something out of it!!
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:03 AM
2

I didn't read this atall, but I have a couple sentences for ya.. You cannot fix somebody else! If you gave him the rational male, would he read it? Would he act on it? Would he do a damn thing to help himself?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:23 PM
1

You have come here very defensive and not open to opinions of this sub. I won't help you because somebody more informed then me (endorsed contributor) has offered to do so. YOU cannot teach a man how to be a man, and worst still you probably won't get the benefits you think you will for showing him. Women want a man that gets it, on his own, without a women having to show him, You will end up resenting the fact that you had to make him do this. I wish you the best.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 10:52 PM
1

This isn't about you. It's about unfucking your LTR.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 10:22 PM
8

Oh the burden of performance is definitely real! Send him here instead. The red pill will have him spinning plates within a year and all your problems will just fade away.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:51 PM
3

That's kind of what the red pill is! Just a bigger/better you. All the points you have here are irrelevant, it's just overthinking! Be you, learn the game that is being played and navigate it. Simple.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:29 AM
0

I wouldnt worry. Trust me she will show you why you shouldn't!
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:21 PM
6

Her: I told your bitch ass to text me first, but now I'm texting you first. You: yes you did.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:00 PM
1

Woujo did the best post about frame I have ever read it changed my life. Its on his website, I honestly suggest you read it, it's clear about exactly what frame is and nothing else.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:36 PM
3

Fuck her best friend. She will get the clearest insight to what her value is!
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:32 PM
1

Why are you asking permission? Provided she is actually leaving go do what you have to. It's just a number.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:40 PM
2

They become easier the better you are, You are the oak tree and they are the birds flying around you chirping. If shit test turn to disrespect then you don't have to dodge a thing. Shit test I find funny and amusing, disrespect is met with departure.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:38 PM
52

Scold her? She will just laugh at you! First you need to get your life back and STFU while you do it, that means you don't tell her anything about what your doing. Then you need to get yourself over to MRP and stay there for 2 years at least, absorb as much as that they offer as you can! You have to unfuck yourself first, you are too weak to be making any demands from anyone. Good luck to you, I wish you the best.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:38 AM
1

Be careful what you wish for. You might just get it.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:48 PM
2

He probably will and should! If your 3 points higher then her, it means she's a lazy fucking slob who adds no value to your life. She deserves to be cheated on or left behind, 3 points is alot the higher up the scale you are!
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:47 PM
5

Yeah, I think it's called purple pill debate.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 09:22 PM
3

No, they can't! If there's a gap of 3 points or higher it's doomed! Firstly, women won't date 3 points lower. Hypergamy. Awalt. Second, if the guy is 3 points higher then her it means he will either... have plates on the side, be in a dry spell or cheat/leave when he is in a better position to.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 09:19 PM
10

Girls who have big asses will always get my attention more, I also like thicker women. But there of course is a balance. If she's just fat with no curves then I'm not interested. But you might like massive boobs so will go after and put other women as higher smv. Skinny girls on my scale get no higher then a 5, if I can see a rib I'm out! Now I can add that there's a difference between being hot and beautiful! If you look good but your attitude and personality is garbage then you loose smv/rmv i…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 09:06 PM
1

Thanks! Haha
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:56 PM
11

It's all subjective.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:50 PM
10

Communicate a boundary ONCE... Cheating and other instant dismissal violations shouldn't be discussed, You just leave. But if you have a boundary and she crosses it, you communicate your displeasure one time and every violation after that is met with an instant soft next.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:37 PM
1

Probably would turn them on more.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:02 PM
4

Seems you made your mind up! I wish you the best.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:56 PM
7

So did you just come here for permission? This guy is giving you good advice that every trp man follows, and you are just hamstering. I constantly get ioi's from girls at work, But I have discipline to not do a thing about it. You think she can't fuck your life up after you go? Don't be so naive!!
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:36 PM
3

It's a brotherhood mentality instead of using it as a tool box. Wrong frame coming in to trp.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:19 PM
2

Emotional investment. They want to see if your a little beta who will fawn over her because she gave you the eyes a couple times.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:37 PM
5

Your not her performing monkey. If you can't just rattle off and amplifier just grin or chuckle or whatever the fuck you wanna do. Aslong as your making it seem stupid it's not self deprecation and your changing the frame.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:18 PM
2

That's a power move, and now your in her frame. Next time she does it don't initiate again, go and do something else. Apply a healthy portion of dread until she gets the picture. Sex should never be weaponized.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:55 AM
2

From what little context you have given my guess is frame. If you have a sense that you belong wherever you are and whatever you do with whoever you do it with, that's a mighty frame. But again it's just a guess from the information given.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:39 AM
5

If these guys are so far on a pedestal then I hate to think what your like with women!! There should only be 1 pedestal in your life and you build that fucker so fucking high that no cunt can see it. Then place your ass on it and never come down. Fuck your friends! I bet my bollocks they will stab you on the back for a sniff of some pussy. Sounds like you guys haven't swallowed a red pill between ya!
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:33 PM
13

You pass them the same way as if a chick did it. Honestly, these are not your friends. If your really red pill you would know you are alone and embrace it. Stop fucking around with fanny hole soy boys who shit test like women... Sounds really red pill to me! Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:08 PM
4

It's not ingrained yet. You know what to do and your logical mind is screaming at you to do all the things you must. But then come the emotions and feelings, which in this case "derail" you. It happens to me also. I know what I must do, I'm capable of doing it, I've done it before, I know what's happening, I just can't. It's a hard thing to build an unbreakable frame! It's a mission itself. My only suggestion is just keep going, and learn from whatever unfolds.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:34 PM
1

Good reply. Nothing should be overt, it's all apart of your frame. You don't want them to be defensive BUT she should know if she goes to far you will just go!
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:35 PM
1

What you are referring to is just 1 part of frame. But my end game is to be strong enough to be successful.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:59 PM
3

Laws of human nature helped me alot. It's another Robert Greene book. Also the subtle art of not giving a fuck is a good book. I wish you the best on your journey man! Keep at it and improve always.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:13 PM
9

The work never ends man. I know about past demons and they are very hard to confront and bare. What books have you read? Sounds cliche here but reading really improved me.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 10:19 AM
3

Context is important, but this just screams stupidity.. She gave you 2 lifts home and touched you a couple times now all of a sudden you want to jeopardize everything to fuck a post wall women who could be using you to feel good. If that nasty used pussy that's had a human come out if it is so important to you, then you should do it. You might Learn some serious life lessons.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:11 PM
2

That's her frame! You shouldn't care, the fact that this is an issue and it's all a problem and drama drama drama is grounds for an escape plan.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:44 PM
2

My advice is to set up a plan to move out and get away from this! You have a girl in your home accusing you of fucking someone else in another country and bringing back viagra which she assumed you used! And on top of all that you have stated that you don't trust her atall. So either your frame isn't solid as you think or you have an instinct that she's fucked around. It is trp on hard mode. And it takes years to get to that level.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:39 PM
0

First: don't cohabitate Second: don't LTR a crazy bitch.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:27 PM
3

He put there needs before his or they where his mental point of origin. Reverse this and work on a positive good frame for the rest of your life.. and that's where success comes.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:24 PM
2

All knowledge is good knowledge, you can learn from anything. So it's definitely not a waste of money. Just take what you need and what works and leave the rest.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 08:52 PM
11

Your not fucking by the second or third meeting.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:32 PM
10

If in doubt then it's always red knowledge. Models has some really good points, but showing vulnerability or weakness to women is a no no. On the other hand living your truth to who you are is a must! Take what you need from both and implement it in your life.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:31 PM
9

Your bragging! There's no humble in this. Congratulations you found something that works. Keep doing it to get what you want, why do you need to know why? Does it make your ego go wild with how much your a big dominant man...
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:58 PM
1

It all depends on the person. You are right, people can go through so much pain and trauma that they come out of it so strong and emotionally stable and others melt and buckle! I guess it's a question of will. And weather you want to be a victim or not.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:34 PM
1

You may very well be right. If that's the case then, positive emotions will bread security and negative emotions will make you very emotionally insecure and unable to defeat any challenge. And emotional stability would be your demeanour. I only have a very basic concept on this stuff, I'm just focused only the positive and never dived into the meaning of it all.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:24 PM
1

Emotional stability comes from challenge! I believe comfort breads emotional instability. There is a difference between emotional security and stability. If your emotions are stable it will show on everything you do, you will be very calm and unreactive. Emotional security is when you are secure in showing emotions and basically have your heart on your sleave. You want to stabilize your emotions and take control of situations aka challenges, putting your heart on your sleave is what women do and…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:02 PM
3

Oh yes! Did it before finding this sub. Still paying the fucking price now!
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:48 AM
4

You have a misunderstanding of what dread game is! It's not something you do or say, it just is. If you have gone through the levels of dread you should be at level 8 just by living. The dread comes from your attention being so valuable that loosing it to her would be dreadful.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 06:25 PM
4

So her moods are starting to affect you? Shes doing what she's suppose to. Hold your frame, how she feels isn't your concern Especially if it's affecting your work.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:02 PM
3

Good luck to you!
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:51 PM
2

Completely false! They care alot about looks. And if you don't look like you can crush another man's skull with your bare hands then you can't protect them. Brifaults law.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:54 AM
1

If you look like you can lift the house she lives in through a jumper and when you take it off you have cuts and veins you are optimal! There is no way you can get "to big" naturally...
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:37 AM
2

She got better dick elsewhere.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 02:36 PM
1

Doesn't look like it was the Instagram thing. If she doesn't bring her own value that matches your expectations then you can either live with it or dump her. You dumped her, it's your choice.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:32 PM
3

She does it for you??? That's her frame Mac... You do it because you like it, not because some super queen allows you to split her cheeks. She seems attracted not aroused... It's on you.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:27 PM
5

Usually you get a certificate of completion in the post, and a complete feeling of self acceptance!
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:18 PM
2

Sounds like a lot of dysfunction. From the sounds of it you are trying to fix your wife and yourself all at the same time. That's a lot of fucking work man, Calm down! In the 48lop it says to concentrate your forces and you must concentrate them on fixing whatever the fuck is wrong with you. She's a big girl, if she's being as bad as you say you can't help her so she's on her own right now. You have to help yourself first and whatever work you do will spill over to others. If you don't have it y…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 01:08 PM
5

It shows alot. It's brutal, especially when you know how to use it.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:25 PM
5

Hypergamy.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:06 PM
7

Also learned, don't talk about fight club. People don't unplug unless they want too. I was talking to a friend about how women need more then a golden vagina if they even want to be close to me. And that female entitlement has gotten out of control and there basically walking fuck holes... Everyone in a 5 foot radius gave me some sorta look.. but I owned it and zero fucks given because I TRUELY believe this.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 02:15 PM
11

Own it. If you have adopted red pill ideas and beliefs then, own it. It's a part of you and your frame isn't it!
/r/askTRP27/04/19 01:58 PM
1

No I'm not saying that. I'm saying it's better then putting it on an LTR or plate. Your a grown/growing man. You and you alone are responsible for your actions, good or bad. You have to completely own it all.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:40 PM
6

Dependence on your mother? That's about the only women that might love you unconditionally. You did it. Own your shit.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:35 PM
6

That's the data isn't it? If it's that bad you won't do it again...
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:30 PM
14

Learn from it. Endure all the consequences that came along with whatever you did without complaining. It's all data.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:22 PM
3

Nobody cares for the sob story's... Life changing success on the other hand, share that.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:41 PM
2

Yeah take her at her word... That's always worked out well!! Anything she said, put a right now on it... "I said I loved you right now a million times"
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:34 PM
2

Sometimes I wish I check the post history before I reply...
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:30 PM
1

Nice work Sherlock Holmes!! Next.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:13 PM
2

Ever thought she gets a kick out of being told what to do? You have a lot of 'I feel' in there, Instead you should shut up and lead. see how far you can take your frame with this one. Seems your ego is in the way. 'other girls did all these lovely precious things for me, why am I not worth it to this one'
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:00 PM
1

Dread is covert not overt. Prepare for her to leave.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:37 AM
2

Each to there own man, This is just another take on the same situation! Your veiws on this are another angle and everyone should respect that. Mine are very different, if I'm in an LTR I will not share, I take giving my commitment very seriously indeed. If it's a long term plate that fucks another guy then she isn't showing me much in the way of wanting my commitment that bad So she cannot get promoted. ONS or short term plate can do whatever they like, have zero interest. It may be emotional an…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:14 PM
1

Couldn't care less, They left for a reason that isn't my concern. If they chose another dick over me then the frame will always be they are invisible. Validation and attention is there currency and they want it from as many places as possible. If you orbit or take back that used hole then that's a you problem. I'm a priority not an option, anything other then that is disrespectful too me.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:49 PM
6

Alpha isn't a person it's a behavior/mindset. For me you can't be TRUELY red pilled without having alpha characteristics. But then you can just navigate life with red pill awareness and not have any alpha traits atall.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:47 PM
7

Your chick fucked another guy recently?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:37 PM
3

Most of these girls out here have the channel tunnel between there legs that's been ran through by many, many, many men! What the fuck you worried for. If a girl can only get off on a 15 inch mamoth porn star gorilla cock, is that really your fault. Just work with what you got and live your best life.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:09 AM
1

Attention seeking, Who the fuck cares. You said it yourself, you have fucked many girls, so why have you got a bee in your bonnet about this one? Is it because she's the first special snowflake to send you a twerking video so she can get a fix? It's not that important.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:44 PM
3

He's no fucking Chad my friend! He will get his humble pie just like the fucking rest of us! His mate isn't Brad either. There a couple bullies that have nothing to offer people and the know it. Fuck these low self esteem having faggots, live your life and prosper. Live your best life and fuck everything else.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:44 PM
2

You need a new fucking social circle. If you all too afraid of some roided shit cunt to stand up to him then are these the people you want about you? I fucking hate bullies. I would remove myself if I was you, Don't speak to none of them if he's there. But learn the lesson that it's better to lead through admiration then fear. You get much better results.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:35 PM
4

You need a new fucking social circle. If you all too afraid of some roided shit cunt to stand up to him then are these the people you want about you? I fucking hate bullies. I would remove myself if I was you, Don't speak to none of them if he's there. But learn the lesson that it's better to lead through admiration then fear. You get much better results.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:35 PM
31

You need a new fucking social circle. If you all too afraid of some roided shit cunt to stand up to him then are these the people you want about you? I fucking hate bullies. I would remove myself if I was you, Don't speak to none of them if he's there. But learn the lesson that it's better to lead through admiration then fear. You get much better results.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:34 PM
0

"where would you like me to begin?" "Because you want to be!" "I'll show you" (proceed to fuck her mind and body)
/r/askTRP21/01/19 04:50 PM
3

Extreme ownership by Jocko whilinck and Leif babin. Changed me as a leader of my team.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 04:41 PM
1

If he asks her to go for drinks doesn't that break the first point you made?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:03 PM
0

If your SMV was high. You wouldn't of posted how to get ONE girl to fuck you. Stop looking for validation from tinder matches and do what you were put on this Earth to do...
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:00 AM
1

And most women match for attention and validation! Matches mean fuck all if you are not slamming them matches. Your SMV is predicated on how many women you can put you pee pee in right now at this moment and they wouldn't mind.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:59 AM
1

You think tinder matches mean you have high smv? It's up to you to lead the interaction, if she isn't fucking before relationship then you have so many tinder matches right?? Your SMV isn't high enough to fuck right now. She has no urgency and probably wont ever have it, next.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:18 PM
1

Im reading this book. It's a good read, alot on empathy and narcissist! I recommend it.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 04:48 PM
1

No you shouldn't! Tell her before she goes that you hope she has a good holidays and you'll link back up when you guys are back... Then nothing!! Not a fucking thing, unless she initiated it you creating report as best you can through a phone screen then your out again. Hope this helps you man.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:37 PM
5

That's alot of thinking going on!!! I'm no expert on this shit, but you are way out of the frame you should have about women. I know your looking for a quick fix by your name. But there is no quick fix to this. She obviously likes you from her actions, but the truth is you shouldn't be thinking about her while she's gone. Don't you have your own shit to deal with and other women to bed?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:34 PM
8

If you made that much of a good impression, she WOULD be keeping in contact with you.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:37 PM
1

It took me so long to actually understand what frame is. So this is my take... What you did was ASSERT YOUR FRAME. You didn't like what he was doing, and instead of whining and bitching about it you confronted the challenge and solved a problem that was YOUR FRAME. Now you could of handle it better.. He farts on you You: "look my friend, the next time you fart on me I'm going to stick a cork in your bum" Then smile maybe laugh with him, fist bump and your out. If it continues then you use assert…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:55 PM
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I do have a negative look at all things red pill. I think I may still be in the anger phase mix that with some bad advice and Rambo and you get this recipe for chaos! This is why I listen to the red man group, they talk about it and it makes me think positively about my hole situation. The way they see it and the words they use just makes it seem like it's all on me and I have yoyal power and control of everything! I don't understand alot of what is written here, maybe I'm not educated enough bu…
/r/askMRP13/12/18 09:44 PM
1

Thanks man!
/r/askMRP13/12/18 07:14 PM
1

No, but I've just downloaded it.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 06:18 PM
1

Did you do this through OYS? Or did you go about it through your own work and message them privately?
/r/askMRP13/12/18 06:16 PM
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Haha this comment made me chuckle! And you have got straight to the point I'm trying to make. I want to get away from this nonsense I'm doing think I'm so game master, and actually just have fun being cocky with AA or AM. I have some learning to do, and maybe message some guys on there journey.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 06:14 PM
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I'm good, I have assured myself that if things break down I'll be okay. My life/frame will go on untouched. I have a much better understanding of frame now thanks to just these comments. I'm trying to be better, always!
/r/askMRP13/12/18 04:21 PM
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No, not afraid of getting shredded on there. I actually believe they do it to give you thick skin in there own little way. I just wanted so bad too get it all alone, but I'm just not 'getting it'... I see on some posts that people have mentors here and do really well with that.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 10:26 AM
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I've misunderstood alot. I must start again.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 09:45 AM
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I've read all the books from mrp sidebar, and I've read the trp sidebar once. I think I'm gaming her but obviously I'm fucking it up, I swallowed the red pill around a year ago. I'm learning very slow and have a complete misunderstanding of what I'm doing. My guess is I should start with OYS, but I was hoping to avoid doing that. I've also just started to watch the Redman group on YouTube which is helping me, but still some of the concepts just haven't sunk in.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 09:44 AM
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Okay well it isn't a reality break. That happened when I first came here. As another guy put, I'm being passive aggressive and highly reactive instead of proactive. Thanks for the input.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 03:46 AM
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I do an hour walk cardio to the gym, listening to music and letting my thoughts run wild. I'll continue to do this as it helps me relax from trying so hard.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 03:17 AM
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I have a missunderstanding of what the red pill actually is!! I've got this all wrong. A guy just now put it the best way possible! I'm trying to win a game and become this alpha red pill super Chad or something. I just want to relax and chill the fuck out about how much game I need.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 03:13 AM
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Passive aggressive?? I didn't think of it like that.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 03:10 AM
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Fuck!!...
/r/askMRP13/12/18 03:06 AM
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This is too true! Just the fuck it and let it go, you can't control anyone but yourself, was the best advice i have taken from here. I'm still OD though. I'm self assured, not confident yet.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 01:41 AM
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I am starting to see the humour in all she says, I'm looked at weirdly when I laugh about it. But fuck it, DNGAF. Amuse yourself right? I get caught off guard sometimes when she ups the stakes... And that's when I shut down and become unresponsive because I'm not witty with a cocky comeback!
/r/askMRP13/12/18 01:36 AM
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The metaphor being the train driver knows where he's going straight line. The cab driver takes a lot of routes to get to his destination? I think I've read something like that on here, but TBH I've read so much it's just mushed into 1 big pile of unrefined crap.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 01:32 AM
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100kg bench for 3 150kg DL for 3 110 kg sq for 5 65kg ohp for 5
/r/askMRP13/12/18 01:28 AM
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Can't argue with that! No insult taken... I read alot here, read about guys getting amazing results with AA and being cocky and fun. I'm not that guy, but I'm trying to be. I don't say much and STFU works wonders for me, but I don't want to be boring either. So I try, but I fuck it up. I'm a student of the game. I had my beliefs completely fucking shattered by trp and had to build them again which at it's core has done me nothing but good. I've read all kinds from dating coaches and life coaches…
/r/askMRP13/12/18 01:18 AM
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This could be true. But what if we don't give them enough credit? What if they know there attracted to a guy that dgaf? What if they 're saying what's on the inside does matter but it's not what we think it is. Chad can be a nice guy too, it's just not to get pussy.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:57 PM
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No more Mr nice guy.. I completed it no more then 1 hour ago and it has shaken me to my core!!! I will list problems I notice with myself as I have no other place to say these things because I'm a loner, wanna know why I'm a loner? yeah you guessed it I'm a nice guy manipulator... I was a mesher, discovered the red pill and became an avoided. I'm a validation whore. Rian told me this in my last post! And you know what... he was fucking Right!! I'm looking to mirror another person! You know what …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 01:53 PM
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Oh! Ill delete and move it?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 01:52 PM
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Frame was such a foggy aspect for me! I still have a few reads of nmmng but I think I have a very small understanding of what it is now! I do not want to go complete Rambo. I need 1 thing at a time. I'm a care taker, so there's alot of work to do!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 01:51 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking. I have indeed found the source and am looking for ways to improve on it! But I think looking on this subreddit is a very bad idea. I'm thinking it is something that it is not! Thank you for giving me advice on this option, and I will take this and apply it! I don't think I have an extreme disorder otherwise I wouldn't have built what I have so far! I completely agree that it is debugging the demons of my past so I can move forward positively and assertively w…
/r/askMRP20/08/18 03:53 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askMRP20/08/18 03:09 PM
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Absolutely build the best future I can!
/r/askMRP20/08/18 03:07 PM
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Understood.
/r/askMRP20/08/18 02:46 PM
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That was what I did when I was younger, or actually what I was forced to do. And therapy did help but I certainly didn't think I needed more of it. I shall look down this path and see what comes of it.
/r/askMRP20/08/18 02:45 PM
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I know now! I wasn't looking for information I was looking for answers which is where I went wrong because it's not frame building it's patching up a bad frame! I need to search for information build my beliefs and not follow anyone! Instead make my own frame with information and go my own way! I have not read all the books yet. I cannot look for anyone to give me the answers and that's where I have been going wrong! Instead I must make my own decisions and stick with it based on what I now know…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 03:32 PM
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In short, yes I was!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 03:04 PM
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Nope, I just know when someone is wiser. Don't learn from your own mistakes learn from others mistakes.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:18 PM
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And that was my problem! His relationship advice was weak and no Good! But it's all I knew at the time!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:11 PM
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And this is the answer I need! Although I'm on my way I'm still not good enough. Thanks man, I appreciate the input!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:10 PM
1

Very true! I need to rebuild my believe In women as the up most importance!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:08 PM
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She does look for reactions which makes me double down and do shit I know she hates and doesn't like. I remained unreactive to all this and tell her I have to go everytime.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:04 PM
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See this is my view now! I honestly think like that now! If my dad was so fucking bad why would she take him back so many times. So although I would never beat a women I'm not taking shit either! I treat her like I would anyone else! I guess I'm looking for a pat on the back or some shit saying I'm going the right way and stay the course and all will be well! None of what she said was wrong and I knew all that I was doing, i just don't want to be a complete psychopath!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:02 PM
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I know these concepts I do some of it on purpose! I liked to think I didn't have oneitis and never put her on a pedastal. I had options since I met her but she was cool and wanted to know me. So I dropped the others for her, guess I'm fucking up somewhere!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:51 PM
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There all true except the bipolar thing. Not sure how you can be bipolar just because I change my mind!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:47 PM
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I was hoping you would reply! No homo but you and vandaalen over on asktrp are by far my favourite contributors! No nonsense and straight to the point, it's what I need! Is this situation that bad? I'm kind of new to this LTR shit!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:34 PM
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I do reassure her yes! I first comment on the subject and then hug her and listen to her day like Corey said to do! What is oneitis dread? She's forever commenting about women checking me out and is very concerned about other women around me! I tell her I know other women want to fuck me but I isn't my concern right now!
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:32 PM
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Yes!
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:35 PM
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In short... She is following your lead. I only read halfway through and could tell that your being distant is the main reason she backed off. Yes look at her actions but look at yours as well. Lead by example and a good first mate will follow in your foot steps. There s a huge difference between not over investing and not investing atall!!
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:36 PM
2

Look man. All the advice you are getting about patching this shit up is solid! Do not discount it, if you can go home and make things work, getting yourself in school and perusing higher education is the best option. What I gave you is the worst case. (Plan for the worse and hope for the best). If you still have options then you must try and utilize all of them, because a man is only as powerful as his options. So I'm letting you know you do have a different path you can take. Seems like your pa…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:49 PM
2

Yes, I was homeless at 12. (No sob story or sympathy) just truth! Im guessing you did something bad and that's why your parents don't want you there anymore. But you need a base of operations, Even just a couple of weeks will Do. Get yourself any kind of work doesn't have to be legit cash will do, a broken hand is no excuse atall. Once you have that you need to work every opportunity you can to get money for a place. Could be that you do 70 HR a week it does not matter. Then you need to understa…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:47 PM
2

This has to be a troll... surely! 7 years of reading and your as far along as I am. Jesus man. Grow some balls and come back when you ran the fuck away.
/r/askMRP23/07/18 09:53 AM
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Seems like every second chick on this sub is BPD. Sure she's not just feminine?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 09:42 AM
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I see all these questions on here about what to do in certain situations. But I'm trying to get away from just asking them simple stupid questions because it won't help. For me at least the red pill is a new mindset/frame. Where if you work at it hard enough you can answer your own questions! Of course having an exciting, healthy and great lifestyle is great, any girl you meet will submit to this frame if done right. But this question is the polarity between both men and women, it's not the fram…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:48 AM
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Women are not the goal! They are a side product of your success. Takes quite a bit of self awareness to write what you have. But it does not take away from the core Red pill philosophy! Focus on yourself and your success and then they will come. Gold digger or not, they will still come..
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:47 PM
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This was exactly my view! Helped me take the advice better. If you are subconsciously already noticing the matrix then it's easier to unplug and you run through the stages quicker. I'm focused more on the things I need from here (anger management, frame, stoicism, job advice) the rest just comes naturally. Like somebody else said, it's liberating! My pill wasn't bitter, I'm just sad that I was right all along. (Depression phase).
/r/askTRP06/06/18 03:10 PM
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That in it's essence is exactly what the pill is about!! when sex is what we want and it's so easy to get, why on earth would we settle for anything other then the best any women could offer.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 01:16 PM
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Hahaha. Made even worse because I'm British..
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 01:05 PM
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There all sluts for the right guy.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 11:38 AM
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Only ever trust You! Lead your own life how you wish. But there is no going back, you will start to see things different from now on. How you choose to spend the rest of your time is entirely up to you.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 08:59 PM
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Takes away from people that actually want help!
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:45 PM
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Is this the same girl that fucked your friend in your previous post 10 mins ago?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:14 PM
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Have you see the amount of beta attention these girls get on Facebook alone??? It's insane. If you think a guy that's hot and lifts, with extreme confidence get alot of attention from women, times that by 10 and you have what an average chick gets daily. It's when you don't pedastalize them and treat them as true equals, that's when you stand out.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:21 PM
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Then she is isn't first mate material! You are the captain of this ship. And if the first mate is up for this kind of disrespect then it's time to chuck her overboard and get a new 1. She's an ally, not somebody you are in competition with! Good luck...
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:53 PM
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You can kick her out if she's abusive! Stop letting her spend the night if things like this keep happening! You need to know that she won't kick off the second it turns dark. Just tell her it's time to go call a cab or whatever and put her in it! Next time you guys see eachother go out and do stuff or go to a hotel. She has to win you back not the other way around, plus you can't trust she won't have a tantrum. After a couple times where days have gone by and you are not moving off until she mak…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:45 PM
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You are done. It's over.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:05 PM
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Seems like you have a mighty hamster too!! You cannot train a women if you fear loosing her! She has all the power, and all the advice you are getting is solid! Imagine her hamster if you said "don't do That!" In a dead emotionless way and when she kicked off more you just left! She would completely loose her shit Right? But you wouldn't be there to see it.... You know why? Because that bench press 1RM could use some work or that DL form is broken. Ah you haven't seen your family and friends in …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:56 AM
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You rejected her. Women can't take that. The hamster made it your fault not hers. She's trying to make you an orbiter by the looks of it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:55 PM
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I Googled it. Downloaded the PDF and read it from there.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:23 PM
1

Don't be so butthurt! I'm sure you can hook another alpha before you smack the wall head on.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:02 PM
2

Thank you! Input on what I don't know is always welcome!
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:53 PM
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This is too true! In the past this would have been my outcome but since the red pill I'm adapting my game plan to avoid these things! I was also told to never ever tell on anyone, deal with it yourself! I was conditioned very badly it would seem and have only in the last 3 months found out about frame and stoicism! It's an uphill climb and I will get there, I need to not get caught up in the heat of the moment!
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:16 PM
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I'm trying so hard to have a stoic frame! It's tough finding the balance. This is the kind of advice I was looking for! Standing up for myself without using violence as the outcome!! Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:17 PM
1

Hmmm. Seems like good advice to me! Thank you, I will see what happens.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:42 PM
2

I was deadlifting. I had used all the weight around and went to get more, when I come back half my weight had made it onto there bench press machine! Last week 1 of them (the biggest 1) sprayed me with some water aimed at his mate I'm guessing. I was fuming, I don't want to change time or change gym. It's a 24hour and as I'm a chef it helps me get in a good session whenever I need it.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:27 PM
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It's your life! But you are making all the correct moves it seems. Build it and they will come. Stay focused on you and keep lifting.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:39 AM
5

Finally somebody answered this correctly.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:17 AM
1

It would seem we agree on what the red side Is! That is mostly how I see other red pill subscribers. However the few that use it as an excuse to harm women make me understand where there could be debate. And of course there's always choice. If a women comes into my life then she must understand at the base level that I am in control and lead where I see my relationship. If it is unacceptable then she is more then welcome to leave!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:14 AM
2

Which is very true. Some feminists hate men, and wish to eliminate everything positive about being masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:06 AM
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I try not to get involved in the rivalry! It's not relevant to me, couldn't care less. For me th3 red side is my gateway and knowledge to being the best version of myself. Whatever anybody chooses to believe from what they have learned from the Information is there decision, it's nobody's buisness. I don't agree with extreme feminism or extreme manosphere theories. But I have experienced extreme female nature, and that's what drives me. I do not like how the red pill is painted. It isn't really …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:03 AM
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The red pill does not have a hatred or resentment towards women! The red pill philosophy advices that you work on yourself and all of your goals. Making yourself the priority in any situation, and not anybody else including a female! This hatred you speak is the minority of the minority that use bad tactics to hurt women or seek revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:03 AM
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Your thinking too far forward just Escalate kino and see what happens. It's always sex first then relationship, hold this frame going in and you can dangle commitment like a carrot if she's a good girl.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:39 PM
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A plate is for fucking. I'm no master on plate theory, but my understanding is they come you cum they leave. Why are you guys going to Vegas? That's for fwb or LTR. But you know it already, no respect= no involvement. So ghost and see if you can take somebody else.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:59 PM
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/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:34 PM
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/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:30 PM
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"Good friend" "sexually"... These do not go together, They are very opposite of eachother. If your plan was too befriend her first and then try and get into her, then that plan has most definitely failed. You are her girlfriend, ain't nothing gonna change that. She would think of it like she's fucking her brother. She's far too comfortable and there is zero tension (sexual or otherwise).
/r/seduction06/05/18 06:09 PM
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Not all of us! But my case is made weaker by the OP and his OCD about these girls.
/r/seduction02/05/18 07:48 PM
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Men face multitudes of challenges when we step out of the door or wake up in the morning. Women demand more then enough from there men as is and you are here to find a way "from men" too demand more! This makes you look very bad! I'm all for strong masculine men and the only way we get there is through trial and pain. But instead of finding a way too get more out of a man why not ask yourself what YOU can do to get that from him. Don't be lazy and think you deserve it, because you don't. You rea…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:42 AM
1

Did I hurt your "feelz"? What's laughable is you have done absolutely no research or experience on trp to back up anything you just said and proves my point. MEN DON'T WANT DRAMA, that's what I mean by boring life. And you are just looking for trouble and attention, it's not going to work here.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:12 AM
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Stay away from single mothers. If you want hotties then only choose hotties! If you are in shape and have good frame then you will be okay. Just remember everything you learned and go your own way and make your own ship!
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:32 PM
3

Established good career?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:23 PM
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Why would you need to know This? Are you trying to test there credibility? It does not matter how anyone got here or what they did with the Information. There like anybody else you can choose too ignore anything they say just like a regular contributor. I agree with most of what they say and learn what works for me. Doesn't mean I need to know there life stories.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:51 AM
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Tell her you smashed her BFF. See if she thinks your lame then.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:31 AM
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You admit to low SMV. You can never ever be Chad in that state! Get your SMV up to its almost maximum and you my friend through all trial and errors, all the sacrifice and pain heartache and pleasure will be your own version of a fucking Chad! And what makes it all sweet is that you will forget about that guy and all that he got, because you have friends Now, you have a strong body Now, you have girls blasting your phone too smash, you have money and a career to set you up for life! You have it …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:45 AM
3

"No more Mr nice guy"... changed my world.
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:34 AM
3

It's watch what they DO not what they SAY! You have it the other way around in your post.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:25 AM
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If you actually think men want to be challenged and have you hound them with shit tests and "debates" then you are already fucked! Men want a calm and almost boring life, not you having a difference of opinion on the way the world is run! Alot and I mean almost everything on this sub is about getting women to submit to your lead. For me you already sound jumped up and entitled. I also think you have overestimated your true SMV! Just because a few dozen BP beta give you the eye, doesn't mean when…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:19 AM
2

Complete self resilience my friend.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:28 PM
1

That's it?? Tell that to South African kids that can't find clean water or have to kill their parents. Find a way and move forward is my beat advice. Don't sweat the small stuff.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:18 PM
1

What are you worried about?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:51 PM
1

That's the complete opposite to "alpha" mentality.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:34 PM
9

Do you think that 20 year old college girls want to settle into a relationship? Given that you know that they (even the ugly ones) can get upwards of 10 to 20 dicks a semester.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:35 AM
2

Hahaha!! Perfect.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:37 PM
4

Unicorn!!! Hahahaha. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:58 PM
2

Exactly that! Aslong as she deserves it and is for lack of a better word a "good girl". But don't for 1 second think that any 1 of them are good girls.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:53 PM
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In the end, knowing everything you do know and how women play the game and there nature, you still have to give them Something! Calculated or not you must! All the aloofness and "alpha" you have is great in the beginning. But after a while bitch management should kick in. And giving ever so slightly more to the deserving plates should keep them spinning until either an upgrade in her status to you or a better version comes along! That's just my 2 cents on it. My view isn't gospel, take what you …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:00 PM
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You need to be a good mix of both! But lean more too alpha traits. Pure alpha is like the dark triad. It will not work forever/long term. And no you will never be perfect always! But moving forward is the best thing you can do after learning from mistakes.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:40 AM
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If you knew all of this, you wouldn't seek vengeance or anything even close! And you wouldn't be on the sub asking questions about it.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:26 AM
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Your plates broke because of weakness. Nothing in this post screams strength! Or that you were in any position of power, it's all your fault.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:55 AM
2

Seems like you are using money to get dates. Just go for drinks or food. Something casual with no upfront cost. Things like concerts and all that other stuff are for LTR that behave well.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:30 PM
1

Then you are the exception my friend, Well done too you!
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:03 PM
2

There s a lot of broken frame here! You are in her frame trying to impress her. This isn't good, you have been hard at work so own it. If you have no friends, own it! If it's a big deal to you then it will be a big deal to her.
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:11 AM
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She's probably got someone else by now! LDR do not work, under any circumstances. Best to move on, and focus on yourself.
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:07 AM
2

It's easy, just like she is! Delete, block, ghost and game elsewhere. Your need to have her in your life will make you weak everytime.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:45 AM
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You are her beta! She has your balls in her purse!! The issue isn't her atall! I would rather be alone then be with somebody I didn't like. And all of this is because you have no friends where you are living? C'mon man.. You claim to have high SMV but yet cannot leave somebody you don't want to be with.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:40 AM
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Next.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:09 PM
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People don't love eachother. Men love women, women love children, children love pets. Not many people these days stay together, those days are long gone! Just check the divorce rate! Why the fuck are you afraid to loose her? That's fucking insane.... honestly 1 of the most stupid things I read here. There are literally millions like her! Don't get complacent with yourself not her. She game/tease her, but because YOU find it funny! Then go right back to being a stern stoic stubborn asshole. It's …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:33 PM
1

Wow, slow down son! I never said she has or ever will. I'm just saying you are way too comfortable thinking you have her! Fail some shittests and be a slight bit beta and watch her eyes start to wonder. What she is telling you is she isn't good enough because she doesn't have much too offer you, and if she was in your shoes then she would be riding other penis. That's what projection is to my understanding of it.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:16 PM
2

She sounds like an absolute keeper!! I'm going to let you into a secret. But don't tell anyone because it's not common knowledge. Insecure and needy girls are easy to game because there dread levels are higher then average from the beginning! But.... they are twice as likely to cheat due to the constant fear that you have done it! Easier to game higher flight risk. Have fun, amused mastery.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:56 PM
3

How do you know for sure she fears loosing you? I find insecure women to be the gateway to a women brain. They project alot of what they would do in the situation. But as for the question. Tell her your chuck Norris and you fear nothing anyone can do. Don't say just her say ANYONE.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:34 PM
2

Are you afraid of her or anything she can do to you?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:50 PM
6

Then stay pathetic your hole life!! Or get out there lift weights, dress well, smell good and socialise. And bang as many women until you can't anymore, your choice my friend.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:46 PM
11

If you have come here for sympathy, you are on the wrong sub! This is hilarious!! And I hope now you see a quick fix isn't the answer. Improve yourself lift weights and talk to people to gain experience. And maybe by the time your 30 you will be the slayer you want to be.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:38 PM
1

Research the main sub for frame. Also lift, raise SMV above hers. And Google/YouTube stoicism.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:59 AM
8

It's hard to red pill someone that doesnt/isn't ready for it! Let him come to it. If he doesn't, there wasn't enough heartache and pain to do something about it! Good on you for caring though.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:16 AM
1

Then go and get more until you are not only content, but overwhelmed with achievement. Never ever ever stop!
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:14 AM
1

Forbid????? What kind of word is that? It's not a dictatorship.. you cannot forbid a damn thing. She has guy friends? Red flag. Gtfo
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:05 AM
3

Having a good social circle is the hard for me too! There s not many good people around you don't just bump into a cool guy everyday, let alone a circle of them.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:39 PM
3

If LTR are game/red pill on hard mode. Then a live in is extreme mode! With your next LTR you need to think about what happened in this 1 before moving in! Other then that the advice you have been given is solid!
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:35 PM
10

Ego boosting, attention whores! Stop taking women at there word!! Fuck those, only deal with the women that actually put actions behind words..
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:26 PM
1

You stopped making plans for the opportunity of 1 hour with this girl? If that's the case it's on you. If she was playing around remove attention. Sounds like she isn't being hard headed so no overt communication is needed.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:01 PM
9

No contact! Ever!! Complete wall block into your life.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:34 PM
1

Yes! Psychology and history (especially war history) are my favourite things too keep learning about. Also obsessed for some reason with the mafia, fuck knows why. I just am!
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:50 AM
1

She shouldn't drop everything to come see you! That's her choice, if sh3 doesn't then go be busy somewhere. You cannot expect that from her.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:32 AM
0

If you have too resort to this kind of shit then your SMV is really not that high! Never force a women too do anything.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:58 AM
3

Kids are okay as long as you are ready in every area and actually want them. Marriage is a no no.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:52 PM
5

Nobody's perfect! I've said some fucked up shit to my LTR (spoke about fight club). But this is psychotic. Nobody take this advice!
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:44 PM
3

This guy should be put down! If this is true, then he's just a fucking animal.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:37 PM
9

What the fuck did I just read...
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:32 PM
1

Why repost this? You want people on the internet to tell you your handsome and the girls in this post are wet for you? Get a grip..
/r/seduction19/04/18 11:48 AM
1

Always assume attraction! But you wouldn't know for sure unless you spoke to them.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:37 AM
1

They could of done either. You would of known if you had taken them there food! They sound immature, so pay it no attention.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:32 AM
1

Probably not! Who cares on there opinion anyway. Was you there to work?
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:28 AM
2

Well if your current LTR did that then it's fair game! That's the definition of not good too you.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:40 PM
0

These... hahahaha
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:15 PM
4

Why? It shows you are paying attention. It builds attraction.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:06 PM
8

I hate having morals!! They get in the way for me. But I can't just shut them off. It's your call as you said if things in the LTR are good, should be no need to do this.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:01 PM
1

She likes you! Set up a date.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:59 PM
1

Good for him! I like to hear success, gives me hope for myself.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:57 PM
1

Did she start texting first?
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:55 PM
13

2 kids and clubbing?? Sounds like a catch.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:52 PM
2

Hahahaha! Don't be that guy. It's different if she invests more into you. Then she is in your frame. If you chase now you are in hers! Leave her too her fate. Be your own man, chase other/better options.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:49 PM
5

Who cares! Learn from experience keep moving forward. This chick will probably go on to bang 50/100 guys. It does not matter.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:45 PM
2

Not a problem. There will always be more.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:28 PM
3

Next! At best she will see you as beta, And at worst weird and socially awkward. Lift to build confidence, talk to more girls without any outcome.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:21 PM
2

Deadlift.... 1 rep max.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:08 PM
1

If she "forgets" means you didn't make a good impression! You want someone eager too meet you and see what your about!
/r/seduction18/04/18 03:23 PM
1

No! If she likes you she will agree. If not she will tell you some sod story how she can't.
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:23 PM
2

"Hey, I'm going to X place at Y time. Want to come along?"
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:12 PM
5

Being busy doing other things you like to do.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:27 PM
1

Projection! It's also not good too boast to her about those things. Just keep it moving forward.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:38 PM
1

Oh Wow that's amusing. At this point I'd just laugh....
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:34 PM
14

They get pussy, you get pussy. Everyone gets pussy.... Fuck it and move on.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:04 AM
4

No problem. Even a 1/2 thinks she's entitled too you! Don't take it personal, it's just the game.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:54 PM
3

No it isn't! It's called hypergamy.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:50 PM
18

Don't route through the trash! The only way you should be going is forward. Into and onto better women.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:00 PM
2

Not a chance! The people that really take this shit too heart are the people that have experienced women's nature good or bad! Look man, I'm learning just like you. We are all at different stages, I know about game and what women are like. But I know nothing about frame control or stoicism, it's just that simple. You don't know what you don't know, trial and error and all that good stuff! I wish I could help more but a women crushed the side of me you are talking about, which will never return. …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:09 AM
2

My friend..... You need a truly red pill experience to shake that! When you have really experienced female nature this will not be a problem. She is going to burn you, you WILL become her bb.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:01 AM
2

Frame is the hardest thing to completely master! To this day I still haven't got it completely right, and as I see you have lost frame in this comment section. So I doubt you have frame with her! Red pill mindset is what you make it. You don't have it if it just fades away when she does! Do you have other women that potentially would fuck You?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:57 AM
2

I didn't say that. "Shes not yours, it's just your turn"
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:52 AM
4

It's not masculine to fear loss of 1 women. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:49 AM
7

Your still blue pill if it's an LDR
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:45 AM
2

I second this! I'm a chef and although it is very common to fuck waitresses and wife them up, they are not good LTR material! And if you fuck them, because you are at work most of the time together it gets awkward real fast! First thing I stopped doing when I read about trp was too stop fucking them. It's not a situation you want to be in atall...
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:51 AM
3

She will have new dick almost instantly! That I am certain of. It will literally be thrown at her from every social media outlet she has and in real life. I've had it done too many times! You need too keep close why you did this, I think it's called holding frame. You also need to get tinder or game other women, it will reduce the sting. I'm sorry to hear this my friend but life does not stop and neither will she...
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:39 PM
2

Good! Because it's the weakest part of me!
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:30 PM
2

Thank you sir!
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:26 PM
1

I still have no idea what that means.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:20 PM
1

Frame and stoicism are my struggles with trp. Any advice or can you point me somewhere?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:08 PM
1

The number and frequency would be what concerned me! I dated a girl that fucked 3 guys in 1 month while she was in Thailand.... That was a problem for me so I didn't go anywhere further with that! Another had 4 guys in 1 go, huge deal breakers for me! But something like this wouldn't be.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:53 PM
1

I like this comment! If your the hottest guy she's had then she will do more too keep you! Looking at the quality of other lovers is foolish if you are indeed the best she's had, then act as such!
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:00 PM
0

"The job doesn't make the man"
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:50 AM
1

It's really kinda bullshit. I get on so well with the guy he's like an uncle, but she is just a nightmare!!
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:33 PM
1

I know all about that believe me. I'm a white knight in recovery...
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:32 PM
2

I've called her out before! Not how you said, I basically told her she's a fucking psychopath. Never really been great talking to women always just told them exactly how it is and exactly what I'm thinking. But nothing changed, she was just fine the next day.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:27 PM
1

I've seen her treat her husband this way! They own the restaurant I work at and he isn't timid or beta but she just unleashes on him and then the next day it's forgotten by her.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:14 PM
1

Because I didn't say thank you for her giving me a lift home from the airport.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:50 PM
1

I'm 28. And what would you have done in this situation?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:44 PM
1

Yeah, you may be right. That's what self improvement is for though right.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:08 PM
1

I don't want anything from her anymore! I checked out months ago when she called me an ungreatful cunt. Just wanted to fuck once a week.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:33 PM
1

I'm sorry?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:24 PM
1

We were having a conversation about her wanting my kids. I told her this wasn't an option because of her lack of respect and past actions. Her: so we are never having a kid? Me: no! I cannot trust that you wouldnt use him/her as a weapon or withhold my child like my ex does! Her: but I'm not like your ex! Me: it takes 1 time to learn by mistakes. Given your past behaviour I have chosen to only have sex with you nithing more. Her: so you are just using Me? That's fucking great! You think all wome…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 08:44 PM
1

If you in fact are 16 then when you grow this will all become clear. If on the other hand you are pretending and are 35 and live at home. You my friend, have no chance.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 08:24 PM
1

I think it could be all 3! But after previous actions (on her part) I was expecting WW3. She is in no way rational or logical in any sense. So I don't think she is thinking it through. My guess was she doesn't think I'm serious..
/r/askTRP16/03/18 08:22 PM
1

What kind of sub is that? I just looked over there and it's more brutal then this one! Seriously you need to stop with the needy shit! If you don't want to change it means you are not unhappy enough...
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:03 PM
1

10/12 percent is where you want to bulk from if your not just a complete bear. But ultimately it's what you want!
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:37 PM
1

Keep cutting. Drop 10/15 more and then slowly increase calories over a year. Keep trying to add weight or reps/sets. If you gain weight too fast lower calories slightly.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:29 PM
6

The word "practice" is all you need. Underneath there looks there all the same!
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:11 PM
2

Low interest. Proceed with caution.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:08 PM
2

This is true! Sex isn't as important for her, you need to make it that way. Attention for sex, make sure it's a balanced trade.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:00 PM
1

Yes! But also try to get her too spend money and time on/with You. The more she invests the more power you have too play with.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:30 PM
9

Because she is regularly giving you something. Aka investing.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:26 PM
8

Investment! If you next a girl that isn't invested in you she will have nothing to fear..
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:23 PM
5

Both true and sad.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:03 PM
1

Didn't read anything after divorce!!!.... NEXT!
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:01 PM
6

How hard is it to get this concept! I read things all the time and it's so simple to just look at behaviour.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:55 PM
2

She won't....EVER! You have too make her.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:52 PM
63

Erm.. Her actions speak louder! She would rather plastic then you. If it's an LTR I would dread it works amazing from recent experience. If it's a plate then next!
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:47 PM
1

They want the best they can get and will crush anybody in there Way!
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:16 PM
1

Shit test.... failed....
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:39 PM
1

I haven't read that but I will! For me, being still new to this concept and dropping all my old values and morals of hounoring a women when she didn't deserve it was tough. I don want others too have to go through that as Well.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 11:40 PM
2

I can't say I care very much if atall anymore, it was the biggest part of my unplugging. I had to be a man of values and morals yet a married women would beg me to fuck her ass! It was an eye opening experience. And I have used this to analyse all my previous encounters and that's my feedback.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 11:38 PM
16

Exactly this!! If she leaves you now it tells you so much...
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:20 PM
1

It seems either way this "thing of ours" has run it's course. Oh well, I cannot have it all now can I.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:09 PM
1

True words there sir! Thank you for your input. I was hoping to avoid this but it's run it's course already.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:07 PM
1

Damn! I thought something like this. You think you know but you don't! Back t the study...
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:47 PM
1

1, but is nowhere near the quality of this 1.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:24 PM
1

Well this is of course true! I was trying another option, but there isn't 1.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:18 PM
1

Her "past" looks like any other persons! We all have to work and go through trials. How you handle it is what you become. Just my opinion here but surely that's hamstering.. Not sure if I'm using the right term I'm still very new to this forum and it's terminology. Also trying to invoke some feminine mystic with "you don't understand women" your call but I would ghost..
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:11 PM
1

I agree with this!
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:45 PM
3

Easy tiger! I was just asking. Seems she's just giving you what you want and acting how you are. Like a mirror. Seems like a good plate from what you say. A girl that doesn't need that much attention and pays her way is the closer thing to a unicorn you will get.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:22 PM
6

Are you sure you don't care if she exists?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:16 PM
1

"Shhhhh, don't tell anyone. It's our secret"
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:19 AM
4

I have been seeing your comments everywhere I go and I have to say you and some of the others are ruthless! It's refreshing.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:14 PM
1

You didn't make her do anything! That was her choice. And of course, you are some friend.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 07:06 PM
10

Then why are you posting it on here...
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:28 PM
1

I'm all for getting women at the gym. It's a great place to meet attractive in shape people but.... Your primary purpose for being there is to lift! That is your purpose at that time, don't let her sway you from it. Women are secondary to your purpose.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:12 PM
1

Good. You don't want people like that around you anyway. It's a shame most men are this way. Surround yourself with likeminded people my friend!
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:07 PM
5

That is not your friend.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:32 PM
1

First, text her days or a week later (build tension) Second, Never say sorry for anything. You are doing what a man should. Third, the gym is for lifting. Now you must see her and that awkward situation will leave you both uncomfortable. Let her come to you, stop eye contact and start lifting. Too much too soon.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 01:46 PM
2

She's telling you what she thinks you want! Then acting completely against that, ghost/next. It isn't worth time or effort.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:18 PM
6

There are no mixed signals... The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:48 AM
1

1 thing I have noticed about guys with an "edge" is that at some point in there life they have had to overcome some sort of trauma. It's in there eyes, you can just sense it and see it if you look too long. Sounds fucking stupid and a bit feminine but for me it's the truth. Lifting helps but it's the "don't fuck around I know how to handle that" kinda of aura that makes it.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:18 PM
1

I do this exact same thing!! I love it. Almost shows you are above them and you literally don't give fucks about what there saying and weather they leave or not... powerful stuff! Be disagreeable, nobody can get the better of you. relish the drama, If you don't cause it they will out of some insane emotional outburst that makes absolutely no sense! But it won't happen if they think you will back down. It's all test to check you are what they think you are. Shows your frame and power.... goodluck…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:58 PM
1

You have to make them work for you. Go 2 weeks without texting to get together or anything. If you don't get anything then it's a serious next..
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:21 AM
8

Hypergamy at it's finest. Never let them in...
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 12:53 AM
1

Hmm.. afraid not! Women that like you want you all the time. If they cannot make the effort to even send a text in the tech age with all this social media. I don't give a fuck what she's doing. Your just an option!
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:42 AM
1

Women love texting! It's 1 of the only things there good at, if she wants you she will reach you. No words needed. Only action.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:29 AM
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