Now to make it short and not going into many details.

We started dating 7 months ago. I ltr'ed her 1 month ago. Few days ago on Sunday we had kind of drama, so I withdrawn attention and ended up soft nexting her. Since then I focused on lots of other things, am very busy right now, told her we will meet next week and i need to focus on myself, my job right now etc. She is very sad but understands, also she knows she fucked up big last time. But tommorrow friday is her birthday.

My old blue mind tells me i should do sth special, forget her drama, meet her that day, maybe give small gift etc. But honestly in these circumstances I only want to send her a message wishing happy birthday. And that's it, not even phone call (we havent talked via phone since we met on Sunday, its first this kind of problem in our relation and also her birthday in this time lol).

Am I too big of an asshole here? Asking cuz my first ltr, no experience in that