Met a decent HB let's say 7.5 online (instagram). I'm 35 she's 24. In the IG dms i asked her out and offered to bring her friends, to uber everyone to my place to pregame, and then go out downtown.

HB 7.5 came over with a friend on wednesday night, they drank and smoked the entire time and we went from bar to bar from 11pm to 3:30am at which point i had to go to bed to sleep with the promise that HB 7.5 and I would hang out this weekend. She took a pair of my flip flops to change out of her heels and promised we'd meet again.

We texted back and forth. She texted me saturday morning and i picked her up at 12:30pm to go to the beach and get lunch. We had a great afternoon, did some shopping around, and went back to my place around 5pm. We hungout and smoked a little and took a nap.

We watched a movie and later that night we went to a concert downtown and had a really good time drinking and dancing. We walked around downtown and ate again and she fell asleep on the drive home.

She slept in my bed but was asleep so nothing happened. The next morning we cuddled on the couch and I attempted one last time to initiate to no avail.

How should I handle? She left about 12 hours ago and I'm not sure if I'll text her. She's an HB 7.5 with a bit of a gut but she has incredible green/hazel eyes and nice ass so just not sure how to gauge the ROI on time less any sunk costs for this one or try for another HB >7.5?

Will update as we go.

UPDATE 1: SHE TEXTED ME FRIDAY MORNING!

Let me know if any feedback on how to handle

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UPDATE 2: We hung out all day sunday. no sex. heavy petting. wtf? never had this issue. she cried like 5 diff times talking about her family etc... I didn't spend any money on her today she just came over, I didn't get her uber, didn't buy anything. We had some beers listened to music for like 8 hours (12pm til 8pm) and didn't hook up. Kinda wack. She was asking me about my ex and the pics on my fridge etc...

She gave me a lot of reasons to think she's for real (she told me she's very attracted to me and looking for something serious) but also larger part of me still thinks she's full of shit.

Would love any feedback on next steps