What mindset do you bring in to a date?

E9er · 2019-09-03T11:05:23+00:00

The mindset of: "Ooh you're so into me, we're definetly gonna fuck tonight."

Dilduo · 2019-09-03T12:34:32+00:00

I go with the mind set of not even thinking about it at all

And then all the sudden im sitting down talking with her

If we click we click if we dont we dont

She shouldn't be taking up any real estate in your head, especially when you haven't met her yet

Cryativity · 2019-09-03T11:41:07+00:00

"Im gonna have fun tonight, if you're in great, if you're not your loss" Not the correct mindset for LTR tho

longjeep2005 · 2019-09-03T18:17:22+00:00

I’ve had much better luck with the mindset of “just have fun” rather than “push-pull then escalate then go for the kiss then fuck, etc.” Have fun and escalate as she invites it

Musicgoon · 2019-09-04T04:10:07+00:00

I think about how much fun I am going to have. I do shit I want to do on dates. If they like it cool. If not, I had a good time.

Dimenzije90 · 2019-09-03T13:45:06+00:00

The mindset of "lets see what shes got" because men should shit test women too. Every women got pussy, lets see what so special about you besides that.

Or mindset of "what workout routine should i do tommorow" in other words look at the date as just a casual night out with no expectations. If you feel like flirting, flirt, if you feel like you wanna kiss her kiss,go somewhere else, go, fuck, fuck... If she doesnt want its cool i was focused on my workout anyway. P. S. This one is especially good for LTR. At least in my opinion. Keeps her in a dread game.

Schhwing · 2019-09-03T11:27:10+00:00

The mindset should be “let’s see if we click”. There is two people here if you both like each other that’s when shit happens. You have to be confident enough in yourself to be unbothered if you don’t like her or she doesn’t like you

Title	What mindset do you bring in to a date?
Author	cawkedup
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	September 3, 2019 10:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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