25m with 25f plate who i pretty much made my girlfriend without ever committing. I plated this girl for about 2 years and decided to drop other options in consideration for something more long term. Multiple times she has brought up “the talk” and i insisted things take their natural course.

Fast-forward to recent and i caught myself with the opportunity to peak into her phone and the underworld that was her social media DM’s. Needless to say, there are a few orbiters as well as some potential branches she likes to entertain; saying they are handsome and even arranging meet-ups at night clubs with their mutual friends. All of these messages were after dropping my plates in order to pursue something more serious with this girl.

She did a great job of putting on the good girl mask and offering up the best version of herself to me. There was not much negative in the way of her behavior to indicate a lack of feels being supplied by me. Since discovering these messages, i have reached an impass and am not sure what the next course of action should be.

Latest developments were both us having a great time on holiday and overall increased levels of affection in the relationship. Part of me likes to think i am being paranoid, and although she entertains the validation she receives on social media she would not act on those inclinations. The other part of me realizes that her constant pursuit of a commitment from me without success has led her to these behaviors.

I maintain natural/passive levels of dread through lifting and social/career status. I am here for a daily dose of redpill wisdom and guidance. Thanks in advance.