I got shut down right?

yzeetrA · 2019-09-14T04:59:14+00:00

don't say dang, just straight up tell her to come by, dont say thanks, if she blows it off I would just respond no worries , try again in a week or two.

you : come by my friends apartment tonight were all having drinks

her : blah blah cant do it , why ?

you : no worries

[deleted] · 2019-09-14T04:15:03+00:00

You should really invite her like you did in the second message as your first message. Maybe include a time and date to go pro.

HumptyDumptyFellHard · 2019-09-14T04:34:38+00:00

She had plans with family. So obviously she’s going to pick that over you so we don’t know if she rejected you or actually had plans. Wait a week then message her again, if she brings up another excuse, then now you know she shut you down for real.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2019-09-14T07:00:51+00:00

You didn’t even ask her anywhere. You just gave her an excuse why she couldn’t come.

Next time just invite her you pussy.

Throw83736282 · 2019-09-14T09:13:37+00:00

Weak bro

Schhwing · 2019-09-14T11:30:13+00:00

Man chill the fuck out. She seems super enthusiastic with her replies.

Ask her out another time

AscensionExperiments · 2019-09-14T04:07:55+00:00

I mean she said no, but that's not a hard no

Title	I got shut down right?
Author	fantatram
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	September 14, 2019 3:50 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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