Hello

So basically for like 2 weeks I’ve been hanging out with this girl and going over to her house at like 12 and later in the night. I fucked up and gave off a relationship vibe and now after hinting a few times that I wanted to fuck today (it’s her birthday) she said we should wait or slow down or whatever. Also, I know she fucks too so it isn’t like she actually cares about that I think. Should I go over there and chill and “talk” like she wants to? (I have made it clear my relationships must include sex and we can be friends if that doesn’t happen and she said no she didn’t wanna be friends) Or should I go over there and kiss her and try to escalate(something I’m honestly shit at please give me tips to escalate from kissing). Or should I feel it out? I don’t know lol, thanks guys.One more thing, I fucked up and for about 3 minutes didn’t reply to the “I wanna not do that rn slow down” message. Afterword I covered it up and showed I was unaffected. Also, she said people should do “other things” first before fuck so I don’t know how to reply to that when she liturally does not follow that rule. Thanks.

The trp move would be to ignore her for like a week but it’s someone in my friend group so I fucked up there too and I can’t do that