Hello

So basically for like 2 weeks I’ve been hanging out with this girl and going over to her house at like 12 and later in the night. I fucked up and gave off a relationship vibe and now after hinting a few times that I wanted to fuck today (it’s her birthday) she said we should wait or slow down or whatever. Also, I know she fucks too so it isn’t like she actually cares about that I think. Should I go over there and chill and “talk” like she wants to? (I have made it clear my relationships must include sex and we can be friends if that doesn’t happen and she said no she didn’t wanna be friends) Or should I go over there and kiss her and try to escalate(something I’m honestly shit at please give me tips to escalate from kissing). Or should I feel it out? I don’t know lol, thanks guys.