There was recently a post in this sub called "Losing my attraction to women" which was a projection of the mindset of a RedPiller who is not quite fully unplugged...he is stuck in the Jaded stage. I commented on that post with some advice which I felt worthy of its own post. So this is meant for those of you who've grown depressed and temporarily lost interest in women (not because of a lack of attraction, but simply due to being disgusted/angered by the feminine Matrix). I assure you that what you are going through is normal, and since TRP is a "community" I guess this is me attempting to do my part. Consider this a guidepost to help you move beyond the gloomy Jaded stage of unplugging.

some12talk2's comment on "Losing attraction to women"

if you read the 5 stages of unplugging:

http://therationalmale.com/2012/07/25/the-5-stages-of-unplugging/

(see sidebar for resources)

there is a sixth stage!, jaded: "Sex isn’t worth it and women aren’t that fun anyway"

this sometimes occurs before acceptance. use the extra free time to self improve

tits_out_forTheBoys' reply

Thanks for making that connection, some12talk2. I completely forgot about that stage as I read this post.

This is for OP, and really any other man who shares a similar view of women:

Believe me, you do not want to be in the Jaded stage for very long. That is precisely what's causing your depression...women are not the cause of your problems, despite what you might believe. After I initially swallowed TRP, there was a period of time when I went through the very same phase that you're currently going through. No joke, I shared those exact viewpoints. However, I learned how to get past it in a healthy way -- which melted away the depression -- despite my newly acquired knowledge about the feminine Matrix. Doing so has enabled me to head down the path to success at a faster pace. And so I hope you take my advice on this.

Women aren't the problem. Men are. On a society-wide scale, men have catered to any and all female attention pandering for far too long now, literally every single one of their emotional whims, and we've done this by allowing/creating the incredibly lopsided laws and toxic social atmosphere which exists today. It is not worth your energy to hate that which you do not understand. It is not worth your well-being to ignore your innate desire for occasional fulfillment from the complementary gender (i.e. sex, feminine energy, and maybe even a first mate to help you lead a family someday). So what I'm advising is that you put in the effort to understand women and the social environment which we're currently living in. Gaining a healthy understanding of that will greatly alter your views of women, and I believe it will cure your depression as well.

I highly recommend reading The Rational Male and The Way of The Superior Man. These two books do a great job of describing how our social/legal environment has changed, and more importantly they outline the differences between men and women. You heard that right...women are different. Not evil, undesirable, or unnecessary. They were put on this Earth for our purpose. They are our complements and the polarity of differences between men and women is what attracts us to them, and what attracts them to us. Not to mention the existence of humanity depends on that bond between the two sexes.

Anyway, I hope my words have inspired at least a few of you to gain a better understanding of our circumstances as men in today's world. Trust me when I say that doing so will thoroughly increase your overall well-being. For those who've read this comment and gagged, all I have to say is "good luck." You have a tougher road ahead of you than most other RedPillers, and we pity you for carrying that unnecessary burden.

Best,

tits_out_forTheBoys

tl;dr DO NOT stop reading and learning after you've swallowed TRP. It will likely put you in a stasis, and you will likely be angry and depressed after you've learned what is real. This is the burden of the Jaded stage of unplugging...however it's an unnecessary burden. Do yourself a solid and keep reading and never stop learning. Gaining a fuller understanding of the feminine reality is the remedy for surpassing the self-destructive Jaded stage. As you do so, look forward to the fact that your depression will fade, your anger will disappear, and the masculine happiness you've been longing for will return before you know it.

Keep your chin up. Once you begin your self-improvement journey, you'll see exactly how RedPillers can fully utilize the benefits of the feminine reality. Soon enough you'll be spinning more plates as a Man of higher value, so it's time to accept the responsibility of quitting your sulking so you can start heading down the path of enjoying yourself. As if being alive wasn't enough, we get to be men. Being a Man is a fucking blast. The path to higher value, or self-improvement, puts a smile on a Man's face and gets the bitches wet for him. But opting to forego these fucking awesome opportunities, my friends, that is a vice. It's time to stop holding yourself back. Learn, improve, and be successful. We're in this together so don't fucking skimp on your responsibilities when you can learn something valuable, use that knowledge for your benefit, and pass it down to your boys. That is how mankind can flourish in this environment. It's possible, so get off your ass, start improving yourself, and enjoy the fucking ride.