I need some help with text-game: Plate is shit-testing (probably)

[deleted] · 2014-12-08T21:10:02+00:00

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User-31f64a4e · 2014-12-08T19:40:26+00:00

This is not a shit test.

This is dread game.

She is trying to use fear of male rivals to force you to commit.

Women have sex, men have commitment. She has put hers on the table, now she is saying you have to as well, or maybe she will move on.

A shit test is a test to see if you are compliant, and unable to break out of her frame. It's a test of dominance, of who is in charge of an interaction.

This is not about who is in charge, it's an ultimatum (commit or I will go elsewhere). You don't realize it's an ultimatum because it has typical female veneer of deniability. Because it is just a question she can back down ("Oh, I was just teasing / just asking / etc.")

There is something important to learn here. Women often ask questions not because they want an answer, but because they are using powertalk. ( Look that up, on ribbonfarm ). The indirection allows wiggle room. A question can be an ultimatum, an attack, a threat, a shit test, the opening of a negotiation. But it becomes difficult to put them on the spot, because as a question it is nominally just a request for information, what could be more innocent?

To manage women, you must learn to understand how to handle all of their questions - not just basic shit tests - and to discern between them. You must understand powertalk and indirection. Women do not play fair, they are not honest, open and aboveboard. They are sneaky, strategic, underhanded and dishonest. Maybe not outright liars (some of them anyway), but certainly experts at half truths, knowing what to conceal and what to share, etc.

NeopolitanAfterglow · 2014-12-08T18:41:23+00:00

"Wanna be exclusive? You have to show that you're better than all the sluts out there. Seems to me you've already given up on that. See you around."

hrm0894 · 2014-12-08T19:03:28+00:00

Tell her that she can do what she wants but there WILL be consequences. If she makes certain decisions then so will you. EVERY ACTIONS HAS A REACTION. Let her know that IF she does fuck other guys, then the relationship is over. Be firm and change the subject if she tries to argue. Remember that your say is the last word. She can either take it or leave it. If she fucks other guys, next her.

rp-oldgame · 2014-12-08T22:07:11+00:00

If she's a plate you better assume (no matter what she's telling you) that she's fucking other men.

No matter much of a player any man "thinks" they are, it's always easier for a woman to get laid than it is for you. All she has to do is catch some feelz one night, wondering who you're fucking when she's not with you and go out to the spot her friends are having some drinks at with that cute guy who always tries to talk to her.

Then, whoops! She doesn't know how it happened, she certainly didn't MEAN to get fucked but it doesn't matter anyway, because that guy she likes (you) is out fucking other girls. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Then it's back to business with you, like nothing ever happened. Remember, they've been hiding these skeletons in the closet since the day they started accumulating. It's second nature.

goofproofacorn · 2014-12-09T06:10:59+00:00

Plate is shit testing you? Why even deal with it. You're spinning plates right? Get dish #2

Title	I need some help with text-game: Plate is shit-testing (probably)
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Date	December 8, 2014 6:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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