Quick field report here. Had a fun/interesting date last week that I'd like to share.

Initial Contact

Last week I matched with a girl on Hinge, 23 YO cute blonde HB8 former sorority type with a nice athletic body.

We matched around 8 PM and messaged over the course of a few hours. By the fourth message we were talking about meeting, and I snagged her number before going to bed, telling her that I'd hit her up soon.

I texted her the next day (Thursday) for logistics only and scheduled a date for Saturday night at 7:30. Like I've written in previous posts, make the date no more than 72 hours out. On Saturday afternoon, I pinged her with "Hey, I'm still down to meet tonight." Maybe that seems needy to some of you, but if she's gonna flake I wanna know so I can make other plans. She confirmed that she was still down though, so I let her know that I'd text her when I head out (important - I suspect many girls don't even leave their homes until you confirm that you're en route).

Date

I live in a major city where nightlife is more or less nonexistent due to Covid. The few outdoor bars require advance reservations. It's a huge pain in the ass.

Instead I took this opportunity to experiment with a new idea. Rather than going for the typical drink at a bar, I met her at a waterfront park. Brought a blanket and some wine. She seemed to really like the idea when I first proposed it. It was a good vibe - lots of college kids in the city were down there drinking as well. Kino was a breeze because we were sitting so close together on the blanket. She was all over me right away.

After an hour or whatever it was, I really needed to take a piss...and I mean badly. This not being a bar, of course there were no toilets around, and eventually it got to the point where I just couldn't hold it (pro-tip: don't drink a ton of water + have a cup of coffee before doing a date like this). I told her something like "hey, hate to cut things short, but I really need to go to the bathroom." I couldn't even think about escalating or anything at this stage - all I could think about was how I was going to relieve myself.

Fortunately she made things easy for me and offered to let me use the bathroom at her place, as she lived close by.

Escalation

After taking a nice long piss, we're in her room talking. Obviously I assume at this point that we're going to bang - she said she was nervous because I'm "hot as fuck" - and we quickly start making out. She's an excellent kisser and things are getting pretty heated. But when I go to take off her clothes, I get hit with the usual BS (translation in italics):

"I never have sex on the first date" I have sex on the first date with the right guy.

"This is my one rule." I only have rules for Betas.

"I don't want to be a one night stand" I'm open to having a one night stand.

"I'm not going to have sex with you tonight." I'm going to have sex with you if you can pass my shit test

I act like I don't even hear any of this nonsense. I just say something like "yeah?" in a somewhat disinterested, slightly amused tone...because I know how this is going to end. Her mouth is saying one thing, but her body language indicates that she's desperate for my cock. I pull back a bit and tease her until she leans in to kiss me again. At one point, I go to finger her...she's wet as hell. After a minute, I stop abruptly and go back to making out. Then I take her hand and put it on my bulge, which she rubs through my pants.

This cat-and-mouse, push-pill game continues for a bit longer until I pull her hair back while we kiss, which makes her moan.

"Oh you like that, don't you?"

"Yeah, I like domination."

"So what do you think of this?" I say, putting my hand firmly around her throat.

"I like it."

"I bet you do."

Now it's time to go in for the kill. We kiss some more, then I take her by the throat and shove her down into the bed. She goes wild when I pin her arms above her head and kiss/bite her neck, grinding her pussy up on me. This time there's no resistance when I rip her pants off..."yes sir," she says, when I tell her to put the condom on my cock...but I still make sure to tease her before I put it in.

"Tell me you want this cock"

"Oh Daddy, please give it to me, I need it..."

Takeaways

Hot Girls Are Easier: Some of you may read this and think I didn't do much work, and I would agree. I don't feel like I really needed much Game to fuck this girl. HB7-8s truly aren't any more difficult to fuck than a 5. Indeed, in my experience, they're usually easier...perhaps because they don't have problems finding replacements.

The idea that hot chicks are somehow inaccessible to all but the Chadest of Chads is simply untrue. Your perception of the barrier to entry is much higher than reality. It's all in your head.

Hinge Is No Different: I checked out the Hinge sub to see how many other guys were getting SNLs from the app. The bloopers over there are waiting weeks or even months for sex. Hinge might brand itself as a "relationship" app, but hypergamy doesn't care about that.

Don't Be Boring: Covid forced me to think outside of the box. While every other guy is still trying to make the "drink at a bar" thing work, I went for something a little different.

If Girls Want to Fuck, They'll Fuck: Again, this girl made it pretty obvious that she wanted me. She responded promptly to all of my messages prior to meeting up. She quickly initiated kino while on the date. When I presented a logistical problem (needing to piss), she jumped in and helped me out.

If it feels like getting her to meet/bang is like pulling teeth, then she isn't that interested. A girl who wants to fuck will make it easy, it's really that simple.

LMR/ASD: There are two types of LMR/ASD. The first is where she actually wants/plans to have sex, but she just needs to put up some token resistance so she doesn't feel "easy." Clearly this was a textbook example of that. She invited me back herself, for God's sake. We both knew where this was going. At no point did her body language indicate discomfort.

When a girl genuinely isn't comfortable, you'll know from her body language. Her tone of voice will turn cold and businesslike instead of remaining playful and flirtatious. In those cases, I simply terminate the interaction. Ain't nobody got time for that nonsense.

As long as she's still playful and open, keep going. I see a lot of guys on askTRP who take the ol' "let's wait till the second date" at face value...and are surprised when the second date never happens. Strike while the iron is hot. Don't snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.

Aftermath

I did make one mistake, and that wasn't bringing enough condoms. I only had the one in my wallet, and I forgot to take more. After all the LMR/buildup, coupled with the fact that my last few lays were pretty lackluster, I ended up blowing my load very quickly. Because of my condom faux pas I couldn't go Round 2 (although she did suck me off and swallow my nut twice). Pipe Game wasn't on point, I'll admit it, and that may have hurt my chances of a second hookup.

I sent my usual "Last night was fun, let's do it again" protective text the next morning, and she said she would be free later the next week to meet again.

Well, I texted her yesterday afternoon, and now it's been 24 hours of radio silence. Maybe she gets back to me later. Maybe never. This goes back to my point about striking while the iron is hot. Don't assume there will be a second date, because oftentimes, there isn't one. This is especially true with young girls on dating apps.

No matter what happens, at least now I have the memory of a fun night with a hot girl, rather than the disappointment of blue balls and jerking off into a tissue at home.